Posts by silentpuma28

Jose Miller70 said:Man, which photographer should I actually go with? You know, the one who’s getting hitched at the exact same time we are! What are the odds of pulling that off, seriously? 😵 🙄

First off, I’d definitely suggest studio in
www.weddingstudioin.com
then maybe check out someone like a local pro in Los Angeles or even a big name like Annie Leibovitz...
I'm guessing you were looking at Tekle 😉

Jeremy Wilson5 said:Sure, I might go take a look at some invitations down in San Francisco...

Maybe try Charlot, Semper Fi, La Perla, the Aquarium print shop, or Aquarius 😉

gentlemoose72 said:Has anyone here actually tried organizing a buffet-style setup for a party? I was originally picturing it more like a big blowout for the crew—just a massive spread where everyone can grab what they want. I think doing it at Grašo Bekan would be pretty solid! Honestly, San Antonio sounds like a great option too, especially since people keep raving about it. Please, tell me more about San Antonio!

I think pretty much every venue offers it... but honestly, buffets are usually geared toward smaller weddings. You can definitely do it for larger crowds, but then it’s just way more work—and obviously, the price tag goes up... definitely check with whichever hall you pick... and if they don't offer it, you could always just hire a caterer instead😉

Gerald Wells40 said:Hey guys, I need some serious help here if anyone can step up. I’m trying to dig up everything there is to know about the band "Vice and Wilma"—I mean, I want the full scoop... everything! Thanks in advance!!!
Just please, let God help me that they aren't those total losers.

I've never actually listened to them—just heard people say they're decent entertainers, though Vice tends to go way overboard with his jokes... you know, stuff like "come on, buddy, pick up the pace!" or "holy crap!" types of things...
Just noting that I've only heard rumors 🤷

Kimberly Robinson55 said:So, take February 15th off to rest, then come back here on the 16th so we can finally drop those names.🙂

🙂

Jacob Harris88 said:We actually reached out to them last night, but they acted as if we were total strangers... as if, all of a sudden, they had somehow completely FORGOTTEN how to perform at the Ritz-Carlton—which I suppose is just their usual way of doing things—so now we can't even figure out who they are anymore...

Man, I bet they didn't forget anything—they probably just saw the bigger paycheck the Ritz was offering to play there instead...
You told us everything except the band's name... come on, spill! 🙂

Jerry Sanchez53 said:😲😲😲
I suspect they would deeply regret treating me this way. You won't play? No problem. Just prepare for a report to the labor board regarding off-the-books employment, and a police report for theft regarding the deposit you took. If you won't play for me, you aren't playing for anyone, you absolute jerk. ☕

🙏 🙏 🙏 you just described that "tough" attitude perfectly—and of course, we absolutely have to mention which band it is just so we can give them a little free promo here, right? 👍

Jacob Harris88 said:Help, help, help—I am genuinely on the verge of a complete breakdown!
Today, with exactly sixteen days left until my wedding, the band informs me that they might not even play, or if they do decide to show up, they won't arrive before 11:00 PM!!!
Should I just offer them more money right now to ensure they don't screw me over... or should I just send them packing? I honestly have no idea how anyone is supposed to find a replacement band that's actually available on Valentine's Day with only two weeks to go...

What absolute nonsense... they probably have some big gig at a restaurant before your Pirate party anyway... let me know which band it is... if I were you, I'd be getting really tough with them.😉

William Grant3 said:Hello everyone
I am new to this wedding planning community, and I could really use some guidance.
So, the wedding is set for 2010 near San Francisco—but I am actually hoping to host the celebration somewhere else entirely. Does anyone have information regarding estates, castles, or villas in that general area—perhaps around San Francisco or maybe even near Castle Rock? Or perhaps a hall with a view of the ocean or a river... or even just a nice little park where we could set up a tent...
I am still unsure about the final headcount—the initial guest list already exceeded 300...
Since I will be organizing everything from abroad, I truly need all the help I can get—I will only have three weeks this summer to visit venues, scout locations, and make bookings—provided I can actually find what I am looking for.....

I was browsing a planner's website based out of Seattle—they have such a stunning selection... but unfortunately, they don't cover the San Francisco area...

Help!!!!!!

Gratefully
William Grant3

It's going to be tough to find a venue with an ocean view that fits that many people...
Some of the bigger halls in our area are Phoenix, Fabula, or Holy Cross over in the islands...
Everything else is geared toward much smaller groups...
Maybe try reaching out to agencies like Desi or La Perla, just like the lady above suggested 😉

redviper17 said:Hey everyone, does anyone happen to know a good catering company in San Francisco that won't absolutely break the bank?
I'm getting married this September...

I've heard Pimpinela and Arkada are great—really solid choices... also, there's this ballet school over in Castle Rock, and I was at their recital this summer where they did the catering, and honestly? Huge thumbs up from me!👍

Zachary White9 said:And who's actually going to drag Dan over there?!? He’s completely wiped out after spending his entire Saturday trekking through sales all across the state

Well—he can't really complain if he ends up hating the venue he picked himself😉

Zachary White9 said:Hmm, I'm leaning two votes toward Amigos and one for Bellevue. I actually just finished chatting with my boss at Bellevue—why am I so torn?! 😕😕😕

This is way too much pressure—he’s seriously going to kill me if I pick wrong.

Sweetie, just visit both places... talk to the people there and see which vibe you actually like better—then decide! 👍

kefalo said:this is regarding silentpuma28 and her comment posted on 09/01/2008.

I checked this morning to see if my website was back up, and seeing your comment popped up—it actually gave me such a lovely little surprise!
I pour everything I have into my work, and honestly, nothing beats the feeling of seeing a bride walk out of my office with a huge smile on her face. So when someone actually notices that effort... it means the world to me. silentpuma28, I just wanted to say: THANK YOU!

No problem at all! 😘

And give my best to Nena 😉

placidharbor21 said:Honestly, that sounds like a killer idea for some cookies. 👍 👍Look, if my restaurant manager tells me we’re ditching the homemade desserts, then fine, that's exactly what I'll do—I'll follow orders. But let's be real for a second: nothing else even comes close. To me, homemade sweets are the absolute gold standard, period. You try to compare them to those mass-produced, store-bought things you find at a grocery store? It’s not even a fair fight. They just don't have that soul, you know? So, if that's the call, then kiss it goodbye, because I'm definitely not going to argue about it. 😳 Now that's what I call a stellar suggestion! Seriously, you hit the nail right on the head with that one.

Honestly, Blackbird Florist and Katie over at the Pujanko shop are hands down my absolute favorites, so I’m definitely planning on taking a little stroll through the neighborhood in the next few days just to see what kind of deals they're running!

I was just sitting here wondering—since my party isn't until this June—is it actually too early to start locking down a florist? I know, I know, I probably sound like I'm planning my life three years in advance, but you never know how these things go.

Hey silentpuma28, did you end up getting your hair or makeup done by Antonia Guć too? A few different girls have been raving about her lately, and honestly, I’m pretty much sold on booking her at this point. I just wanted to see if you had a similar experience before I pull the trigger—feel free to shoot me a DM if that's easier!

Alright, I’ve got another question for all you ladies out there—especially those of you who’ve already taken the plunge and walked down the aisle, so you actually have some real-world experience to draw from:
Does anyone have a lead on a killer hairstylist? I’m looking for a total pro who specializes in formal looks—specifically those high-end wedding hairstyles that actually stay put all night. I need someone who really knows their stuff when it comes to updos and bridal styling. Any recommendations?

So, I was scrolling through the forums earlier and caught wind of some guy over at Urban who apparently kills it with those non-traditional, edgy hairstyles—you know, the kind that aren't just your standard, boring "get me a trim" look. I’m assuming we're talking about something a bit more experimental and not just the typical classic cut everyone gets when they're playing it safe. Does anyone actually know anything about his work, or am I just chasing ghosts here?

I am all ears, so please, don't hold back—any and all recommendations are more than welcome!🙂

Goga did the makeup for both pingulinku and me (from the forum)... I was beyond happy with how she did my face, and I highly recommend her to everyone...
I've heard nothing but praise for Antonia Guć, too...

Ugh, now I want to recommend my own hairstylist because I am totally obsessed with the style she gave me... but she works in Castella, so I'm not sure if that's too far for you.🤷

Zachary White9 said:Help me out—does anyone have a contact for a small wedding band? Looking for someone for a set and wondering about typical pricing

Also, what’s the vibe on hiring a DJ instead of a live band? I know a DJ usually has a better repertoire, but I really don't want it to feel like we're just listening to the radio or being cheap
I haven't actually formed an opinion yet since I've never been to a party without live music. What do you guys think? Which way is better
😕 🤷

pingulink had a band at her party, so maybe send her a DM and she can pass along their number...
Personally, I'm all about the bands and live music... though that doesn't mean a DJ can't set a great mood...
If you do end up going with a DJ, just make sure they actually have the right tracks—the stuff you actually want to hear—and definitely check out their reputation first.😉

placidharbor21 said:Huge thanks to all the ladies who slid into my DMs with all that info I was looking for! You seriously made my life so much easier!

I’ve still got a few things on my mind, so here goes nothing:
Does anyone happen to know someone who works from home—like, a private florist doing arrangements and boutonnieres—who actually knows what they're doing and is located in San Francisco? If you have a contact number, please just send it over via private message. 🤣 🤣

If you don't know any independent florists, honestly, even just a recommendation for a solid flower shop in San Francisco with decent prices would work. The main thing is that they can handle both the arrangements and the boutonnieres, though I guess pretty much everyone does that nowadays anyway!

I seem to recall seeing people on this forum mention Katie's shop over in the Pujanko area, and if my memory serves me right, maybe a place called Jaglac too!

Oh, one more thing that popped into my head:
I heard a rumor that restaurants aren't allowed to serve homemade desserts anymore because health inspectors are out on the prowl, and apparently, you need some kind of official certification or something...! I've been to a ton of catered events over the last few years, and I've never once heard of an inspector cracking down on someone just for serving homemade treats at a party.
Store-bought sweets just never hit the same as the homemade stuff for me, so hearing that actually bummed me out quite a bit. I was already planning on getting the cakes from Delta, but I was dead set on having homemade cookies and pastries, and now I'm just left scratching my head!
Does anyone know if it's actually legal to bring homemade desserts into a restaurant, or is that a total no-go?

Thanks in advance for all the help!

Blackbird Florist is top-notch 👍 and they can definitely do corsages—you can just coordinate everything with the wife. 😉
Regarding those permits and receipts for the desserts—there's been a lot of talk about it, but I think most venues can still take homemade goods... just double-check with the venue to be safe.

And honestly, you could just buy a few pounds of bakery items, keep the receipt, and just mix them in with the homemade ones... that way you have "coverage" but still get to serve the homemade treats. 😉

Finally—the website for my absolute favorite wedding studio is officially live! IN 🎉
http://www.weddingstudioin.com/

Edward Lopez6 said:The Salo Bolero over at the Belvedere building is hands down the best venue in all of San Francisco, seriously... huge hall, massive parking lot, ice-cold AC, amazing service, and the food is killer, plus they have their own pro sound system.
I actually booked my place there, and I’ve been to at least four weddings there too without any issues whatsoever... paying $44 is totally worth it since it's right in the city and honestly feels like the smartest move you could make, it's just hard to find info on them because they don't even bother advertising, but then again, why would they when they're already booked up every single Saturday for the next year and a half...

I've heard a lot of good things about that hall too! I haven't personally been there yet... though, if I remember correctly, they used to have some major issues with parking... unless they've built a new lot recently.🤷

Anonymous said:Alright guys, let's keep it chill, no need to fight 😁

From what I can tell—and honestly, I might be getting my math mixed up since I'm turning 38 now and will be 42 by next year🤷—she’ll actually be starting ninth grade next year.

We aren't fighting! 😉
I know from reliable sources that the standard menu for next year is $38... though, you know, if she wants anything extra, the price goes up.😉

rapidmason10 said:Things just shifted... hit 42 in the 9th month...

The standard menu is sitting at $38 and 🙂