Kimberly Nguyen70 said:My fiancé had an X-ray on Friday, and this is what they found:
The findings indicate multiple secondary changes in the liver, pancreas, right adrenal gland, upper abdominal retroperitoneal lymph nodes, and a suspicious area on the left adrenal gland, though the primary site isn't clearly defined. One of the focal lesions on the pancreas might be the primary site. Other organs examined appear within normal limits. A chest X-ray and abdominal CT scan are recommended. Given the pain, follow up with a family doctor immediately.
He’s 44... about 15 or 20 days ago, his stomach issues started getting intense. He was dealing with bloating and burping, but since he already suffers from gastritis, he didn't think much of it until he started feeling pain in his back—specifically in his kidneys. That’s why he decided to go get an Ultrasound.
On the Ultrasound, the doctor didn't see anything wrong with his kidneys, just a little bit of sediment.
The doctor didn't tell him anything directly, but she whispered to me that these look like cancer metastases, and we have to figure out where the primary tumor is located.😢 Is there any chance they aren't metastases? And if they are, is there any hope? I am DESPERATE; I want to save him, I would do anything...
I've never been in a situation like this before. I couldn't even imagine what people who go through this actually endure...
I’ll be blunt with you: things don't look good here. It looks like an advanced case of stomach cancer. It’s all very textbook; this disease is incredibly sneaky. It doesn't cause any real trouble until it gains momentum and starts racing ahead, and by then, the symptoms finally show up.
Given how widespread this appears to be, it seems like palliative care will be the only option—focusing on slowing the progression and managing the symptoms...
...I am so incredibly sorry. I wish I could give you something positive to hold onto.😢
You both need to pull yourselves together as much as possible. You have to be his rock and his support system. You'll have to find the strength to face this head-on and navigate whatever comes next.
Hang in there, both of you.