Taylor Thompson68 said:Exactly... they judge everyone else, yet they aren't even aware they might be carrying it themselves... I’ve been practically hounded by my gynecologist ever since I found out I had HPV, but no, apparently I’m the idiot, she doesn't have it, she doesn't even have a way to catch it......
👍 Yes, precisely that. And honestly, that’s the absolute worst part.
I suppose I should mention something I did once (though I'm not exactly proud of myself 🙂).
I sort of planted a seed in the heads of two close friends—both of whom were adamant that "it couldn't be me, I don't have any issues, my Pap smear is always perfect" 😂—so they decided to go get private testing done at a clinic 😉. Do I really need to state the obvious? BOTH of them tested positive for HPV (low-risk strains). I’m not saying this to gloat, far from it; it was more of an eye-opener for them. Everything turned out fine, mostly transient stuff, though one ended up with a few warts internally without having any clue. But then again, how would she know?... And both of them started with the usual, "But how? I've been in a long-term relationship, I'm not promiscuous, blah blah blah," followed by those classic lines like, "I'm going to kill him, he gave it to me, it must be from some girl he was with before me" 😂
I mean, hello? You can't just walk in and claim you have NOTHING because you aren't showing symptoms, aren't feeling discomfort down there, and your Pap smear came back clean while being in a monogamous relationship. As far as I'm concerned, that whole argument is a total joke, because until you've actually cleared everything else, you can't claim you're in the clear. Period. And a long-term relationship or having only a couple of partners isn't some kind of magical shield against all of this.
Actually, what irritates me even more is how much time people spend online—on Facebook, on forums, whatever—yet they won't spare a single minute to actually learn about STIs and how to manage them. I can give older women a pass, I guess, since that information wasn't just a click away back in their day. Many of them still haven't a clue when one of their neighbors or coworkers ends up in the hospital with cervical cancer. It didn't just fall from the sky.
I really hope this current push for better screening progresses and that we see some actual legislative changes—starting with better education in high schools, mandatory check-ups at set intervals, and of course, making things like the HPV test a "must-do" rather than an option.
Because the situation today is just tragic. Take my former colleague, for example... she's only 30 and only went to see a gynecologist when she got pregnant for the first time. In the 21st century. If you ask me, she has more luck than sense, because she luckily only dealt with some less dangerous bacteria, but things could have gone terribly wrong for the baby, especially since she was actively planning the pregnancy 🤦. I once literally had to hold a friend's hand and give her some Norma before she even stepped into the doctor's office. I couldn't control her once she was inside, and clearly, neither could the doctor, because she was so terrified she was practically climbing the exam table 😂 and she's 29 years old 😲
It’s honestly pretty depressing