Topic of the day: What is the biggest mistake a parent can make when raising a child?
in Lonely Hearts ·
David Carter said:I honestly think the biggest mistake you can make is footing the bill for your kid's driver's license and buying them a car right out of the gate. My parents always preached this, and I guess they have a point... if there’s a wreck or something tragic happens on the road, that massive weight of responsibility falls squarely on the parents. So, in my book, let them earn their own license and save up for their own ride first.
Personally, I think this logic is flawed.
We are talking about purely material assets here.
It isn't a bad thing for a young adult to put in some effort to achieve things—it keeps them from becoming entitled.
But refusing to help your kid at all? That's just nonsense.
Completely pointless.