Kyle Wood94 said:Everyone’s obsessed with looks, nobody cares about how it actually works.
Waking up with nasal packing in your nose is no joke, trust me. My follow-up appointment wasn't until 5:00 PM the next day when the doctor finally pulled them out. Both of us were totally in agreement—we would have much rather just pulled those things out ourselves after one day. We don't get why anyone is expected to sit there with packing in their nose for 3 or 4 days, or even longer for some people.🙂
I have to jump in here, especially regarding that last point. Packing serves a purpose. Beyond just stopping the bleeding, it keeps everything immobilized. It's absolutely functional. For someone whose nose structure is being rebuilt during a major surgery—where they end up doing extra stuff beyond what was even agreed upon—it's insane to pull those packs out the very next day, especially when the mucous membrane is already trashed. And then, after the bleeding stops only to start right back up again, trying to do the exact same thing the next day? It's ridiculous. Plus, not providing antibiotics after all that, along with the other complications during and after the surgery, just doesn't make sense to me.
I thought long and hard about which surgeon to choose based on function. Aesthetics were secondary. I would never undergo surgery just for looks, even if my nose was huge. There were actual issues I needed fixed. Since I could fix both at once, why not? Unfortunately, neither went well. They did a lot of things I didn't even ask for regarding the look—there was zero mention of such drastic changes or removing that much bone and cartilage. But the biggest issue, the massive functional failure they glossed over, was from a routine procedure. Even when I had doubts—and looking at it from an airplane, you could see every single day that something was wrong—I was told everything was fine. Not until I sought a second opinion did I get the truth. Only then did he admit I had a perforated septum, claiming it wouldn't be a problem. During our first talk, he warned that the surgeon needs a steady hand because if a perforation happens, you can kiss your nose goodbye. Over time, my nose has dropped into a caricature shape, and it's still drooping. I'm glad some of you had good experiences. Mistakes happen to anyone, but you have to be a decent human being and own up to them. Most importantly, you shouldn't hide a patient's condition. Patients have a right to know their health status. If there's a hole in the septum, say it. Especially for someone who doesn't just use their nose for breathing, but relies on it for their professional career, which is why they chose surgery in the first place. Instead of fixing the problem, things got worse, and now I'm dealing with physical and mental pain until I can get a cartilage graft—which can't happen too soon because the tissue needs time to heal. Of course, "nobody is to blame." This is my final word on the matter. Please, if anyone knows a good doctor who specializes in septum reconstruction, DM me. Ideally, someone working within a hospital system, because I don't have the cash for another private procedure. I paid a premium for a private specialist (you expect better service, that you won't just be a number), and in the end, I just ended up worse off in every possible way. Thanks a lot.