Complaint against moderator Adam regarding issues in the girl named Feriha thread
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Michael Ramos4 said:Nathan Turner3It’s not about being in a rush... I’ll make things right with everyone eventually.
Looking at these posts, it’s pretty obvious everything is aimed right at me... even though goldenfalcon7 is out here claiming her post had nothing to do with me. If it's not about me, then who exactly is she talking about?
Look, I already said I’d apologize... provided she wasn't actually aiming those shots at me and her whole post and those GIFs weren't meant to be about me.
That's just not true. If you look at goldenfalcon7's other post, it's obvious she spends way more time dealing with me than just focusing on Holly. Honestly, most of the people posting on this thread are pretty much obsessed with me anyway.
It all kicked off because of my post in that thread where they flagged my comment as trolling and making stuff up—even though I proved I was just repeating exactly what happened in the show (that controversial GIF). It’s the exact same vibe as this topic right here, where most of the discussion has basically turned into everyone just picking on me as a user.
Who am I even supposed to talk to about this? This is the second time I’ve been dragged through the mud and targeted over the PZK. And honestly? Not a single person has reached out to apologize—not one forum member, not even a moderator. Nothing.
Do you honestly think I have any grounds to apologize to anyone?
I’m honestly wondering where people get the right to debate me like this... my opinion on the show, my perspective, my own personal take... all on this specific thread. Is this even allowed? Is it actually normal practice here on this forum?
And all this drama just because someone doesn't like my take on a character or how this show is going. Look, I’m not out here on an island by myself—my opinion is shared. If you have a massive problem with someone else's perspective on a topic, honestly, why do you even care? We're all allowed the same thing here: to watch a show and call it like we see it, based on our own vibes and point of view. What am I supposed to be, some kind of liar? I’m just saying Feriha is a manipulator and she’s aggressive. I don't get the attitude. That's just how I see her. Someone else can look at the exact same person and see a sweetheart, a total angel, or a girl with a heart of gold who loves without limits. To each their own.
What kind of scenario am I supposed to be making up about a plot point that didn't even happen in the show? What did I invent? Whatever happens in a series, regardless of the situation, I’m just sharing my thoughts and how it hit me personally... that's it.
And don't even get me started on all the nasty garbage and total nonsense Dana Nelson wrote about me... claiming I'm promoting hate speech or supporting violence against women. That is straight-up sick. To go after a random person on a forum you don't even know... and then her little fan club jumps in to back her up. Honestly, I doubt you even see this kind of stuff in the moderation queues for other soap operas. It's unbelievable that you let one user talk about another like that, especially on a thread that probably has tons of people reading it. On a thread about a soap opera, no less. It's awful. In my opinion, this whole thing is an embarrassment to Forum hr. It drags down the reputation of the entire site and its whole purpose, not to mention the users and you moderators too.
I don't see what there is to understand here.
In that second post by goldenfalcon7 that you quoted (and only took one little slice out of), it’s crystal clear she isn't even bothering with you, and she actually pointed that out. Here is the whole thing:
goldenfalcon7 said:I only quoted this specific part because we've already seen the rest of what was posted and people have complained about it plenty of times. Whatever, I honestly don't even bother paying attention to her (Michael Ramos) or the nonsense she makes up anymore.
But something else is bothering me. The moderator deleted a post where I was quoting another user who was commenting on what happened in tonight's episode (specifically the main character's outfit). I was just adding to the conversation about what we saw. A third user even asked for pictures of what was shown, but once she realized the posts were being wiped, she had to 🙂 go back and edit her own post because she couldn't figure out what she was allowed to say or who she could quote anymore.😕
If the moderator is going to go around deleting things, why isn't she being careful about what she removes so she doesn't confuse everyone else? People might actually start thinking they didn't see what they saw (or that the moderator doesn't want them to see it 😁).
Looking at her "blue" warnings, I've pulled out a few things that I'm apparently not allowed to do—things I thought were fine, but apparently aren't 😢:
1. - I'm not allowed to comment on what other users write (even though I've always exclusively commented on their thoughts about the show before). 😕
2. and here she says to comment on what we saw, yet when we do, she deletes our posts. 😕
Could someone besides her finally tell us exactly what we can and cannot write? Her warnings have left us totally confused (at least I am 😕 🙂).
In the end, I just explained it to myself like this: write only what you saw, and when you do, expect to be deleted. It seems like it's better to write about things you *didn't* see, because practice shows you won't get deleted then. 😳 I might have overcomplicated that last sentence, but then again, that's exactly what the moderator does with her warnings 😳.
goldenfalcon7 clearly stated she isn't paying you any attention, and the rest of her post is just her venting about her own deleted post—which she thinks was unfairly removed—plus some confusion regarding moderator warnings. Read it again and try not to take things out of context. ☕
@Larry Lee97, since you're already here, would you mind telling Michael Ramos4 to clarify that you were the one
asking for this image to be posted on the thread today. If goldenfalcon7 actually wanted to deal with Michael Ramos4 and everything she writes (bless her heart, she should just ignore her), she would have done it last night by quoting her on the main thread and slapping this image and that gif right there.
@Larry Lee97, I think you owe me this—not even because I cropped and posted this image and gif at your request, but as a moderator, because I'm just an "ordinary forum user" who shouldn't be caught in the middle of this mess. Plus, she emphasized that she doesn't deal with Michael Ramos4 or her writing and that she ignores her on the main thread. Thanks in advance!!!