Honestly, when I hear such nonsensical ramblings, it really starts to trigger some rather perverse ideas in my mind. For instance, I could put together a PDF specifically for those forum users who think this kind of rhetoric is acceptable, gather them all from various PDFs, and assign them a moderator just like 🍿 ... it would be absolute carnage, I guarantee you
Yes, quite clearly, I find myself in complete agreement, if not perhaps even more so. I am asking because I have encountered such a claim numerous times within this PDF document, yet when I consult actual academic literature, I encounter it very rarely indeed.
Look, my intention is for this to be shared with everyone 😁 rather than being reserved just for her 🙂
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What’s your take on this, hiddenhound3... do you feel that sexuality—even when integrated into spirituality—is more vital to women than it is to men? ☕
Emily Bailey2 said:It’s quite fascinating 😁 how even after just a few minutes, once you're deprived of sight and sound and stripped of the ability to move, your sense of time and space begins to dissolve entirely, while your tactile sensations skyrocket to an absolute peak... it becomes a total mental riot 😍
That sounds wonderful, 👍 such a natural trip 🙂
wiredbear2, thank you so much for the kind wishes; I wish the very same for you—may your coming year be filled with plenty of high-quality, creative sex 😁
Well now, redmarlin3, looking at your PDF, I see you've gone ahead and labeled the Petae members as idiots too. You really are ahead of the curve on this one 👍 ...
Jack Hernandez said:So, you're asking what my name is? Honestly, I don't really have one of those fancy, official names you'd find on a driver's license or a Starbucks cup. I’m just here, hanging out in the digital ether, I guess. Just another voice in the crowd, if that makes any sense. No big labels, no titles—just me. 🥳
I mean, honestly, I don't really see the difference between having some random user like mrkvica_velika_25cm reach out to tell me they reported me, or just sitting here wondering which anonymous troll actually pulled the trigger. It’s all the same headache, I guess. 🤷
Besides that, I really hope other people on here are actually reporting the trash posts I flag. Because look, if I’m the only one seeing the issue when someone writes some vile garbage claiming all women want to be raped because they supposedly enjoy it, then we’ve got way bigger problems on our hands than just my little blowout fight with Carrot-Top over there.
Honestly, I don't see why anyone needs to go out of their way to lecture someone or get into some massive debate about how Beck’s ex was acting. It’s not like I’m his mother or anything. I just really have zero interest in jumping into these arguments where everyone is just being absolute jerks to one another.
There are quite a few people on this forum who know who I am, including those who know me in real life... Though, at this stage, that isn't really the point regarding the anonymity I am discussing. The matter at hand concerns forum anonymity. I make a concerted effort to stand behind every statement I make and every action I take, including the act of reporting others.
Of course, that isn't always feasible, and there are certain individuals on this forum who are so incredibly thick-headed that it is better to simply give them a wide berth to avoid conflict, though fortunately, they aren't the majority.
Those types of repulsive characters eventually face a permanent ban anyway, so it is actually better to report them as often and as anonymously as possible. I once made a mistake dealing with someone like that myself, so now I am twice as careful...😳
Alright, but why would "triggering" arousal be considered something negative? I don't want to just repeat everything you already wrote earlier...
Secondly, this thread isn't actually about finding ways to provoke sexual urges; it’s about how to control and channel that sexual energy once it’s already present or lying dormant. Could you please try to stay on topic? Besides, you claimed that magic acts as a tool of violence against love. 😳 And then you went as far as to say that magic essentially shuts out spirituality.
I can somewhat understand why you wouldn't want to trigger lust, but it is quite unrealistic to assume that arousal must be exclusively self-induced. There is always an underlying desire to feel that way. Can you eat when you aren't hungry? By that logic, would you consider celibacy to be a form of violence as well?
I apologize for my rather rushed response to your first post; I am currently juggling two very heated debates in parallel, so my concentration isn't exactly at its peak right now.
Emily Bailey2, what have your own experiences been with deprivation? 😍
wiredbear2 said:To me, sex feels like such an inherently spontaneous need that any attempt to artificially ramp up sexual energy or intentionally provoke arousal feels, quite frankly, like a crime against the sanctity, purity, and innocence of love—both the love we hold for ourselves and the connection we share with a partner... In my view, any kind of calculated manipulation in that direction (whether it's magic or similar practices) essentially shuts the door on true spirituality. It’s only through pure spontaneity, that raw desire, and genuine affection for oneself and one's partner that we can ever reach a state of true, unadulterated ecstasy. Ultimately, all those dense, heavy theories regarding sexuality just boil down to those two simple elements, stretched out into hundreds of pages of unnecessary prose.
Goodness, that is quite a heavy accusation...😢
But what are the actual arguments?
Are you implying that sexuality is exclusively a matter of partnership? Why would that be? Isn't it also an instinct, a drive for life, unadulterated creativity, and pure energy?
Besides, no one was talking about provoking sexuality here; rather, the discussion was about the exploitation and manipulation of sexual energy itself.
Emily Bailey2 said:Sensory deprivation used in that kind of context? That sounds incredibly intriguing. Have you actually experimented with it? 🙂 But seriously, when I stop to think about it, it seems like the perfect setup for that. Thanks for breaking it down for me; I don't have any real experience in this area, so I honestly had no idea what that would even look like in practice.
I find the whole concept of deprivation to be quite a compelling area of study... I haven't personally combined it with sex yet, though I certainly hope to explore that eventually.🙂 Sensory deprivation is actually a pretty standard element within BDSM, frequently involving various types of masks to achieve the effect.
jack1 said:Andrew Sanchez572, with all due respect and without intending to be rude, I believe you might be starting off from a somewhat misplaced assumption regarding the very premise of this topic...☕
Please, do not be shy; I would appreciate it if you could elaborate a bit further.☕
To begin with, I believe it is best to start with self-pleasure. One should truly get to know oneself before attempting to explore these things with a partner.
While it might sound unusual, using a sexual position where your head hangs off the edge of the bed—allowing the blood to rush to your head—is actually a fantastic technique for opening the third eye. You can attempt to meditate on the third eye, focusing on its opening and such... any meditation centered on the third eye works exceptionally well in this position. Of course, if you happen to have any underlying health concerns, one ought to approach these practices with a bit more caution.
The rituals themselves follow a specific structure, much like any other practice; first, you perform a banishing and protection ritual, sit for a moment in meditation to clear the mind, and then proceed to masturbation, or rather, sexual stimulation. Once you reach a state where the body no longer requires physical stimulus, you begin the visualization process, which should culminate precisely at the moment of orgasm. This is followed by relaxation and a visualization of the ritual's conclusion. Finally, you perform the banishing ritual once more, and that is that.
Now, as for the visualizations... there are many varieties to choose from. They can range from standard visualizations for energizing the body and chakras to drawing inspiration from Tarot cards. You could even try living through a myth by identifying with the protagonist... the possibilities are truly limitless.
Another excellent resource is Secrets of Western Tantra. It contains numerous described rituals and very useful advice. It even features an excellent chapter regarding BDSM and its application within sexual magic 👍 as well as explanations and descriptions of sensory deprivation and its uses. Truly wonderful books 🙏
And one absolutely ingenious ritual is the Ritual Ring Kabbalah. But really, one must read the entire book to fully grasp it.
crimsonhound80 said:And why on earth would you—man (or girl, honestly, who knows anymore)—🤔 want me to be a moderator!?
I've actually been thinking lately about what role I should take on—mostly because I'm bored, let's be real—and I do quite enjoy banning troublemakers like you 🙂
Which would you prefer?
I've actually been thinking lately about what role I should take on... life's getting a bit dull, and I do have a certain fondness for banning troublemakers like yourself 🙂
If you really want to ban me, then why don't you start moderating the cosmetics section? 👍
I’m starting this thread because I’ve been thinking quite a bit about celibacy lately. I took a quick look through our archives, but honestly, I couldn't find anything that really hit the mark. Most discussions regarding sexuality and spiritual paths seem far too broad and superficial for my liking.
In this particular space, I would love for us to focus our discussion on how we might utilize sex, sexual energies, and specific techniques to facilitate spiritual growth and progress... perhaps even exploring the concept of sex itself as a fundamental spiritual principle.
I know I’ve mentioned this in a few other places on the forum already, but I’d like to once again recommend Osho Rajneesh’s little booklet, "Yoga, Tantra and Sex"—if I recall the title correctly, 😳.
Sexual rituals are woven into so many different spiritual traditions, ranging from tantra all the way to Western Hermeticism, so I find it rather curious that a dedicated topic like this hasn't been established yet 👋
Well, if you want an example of truly seamless communication, just look at the way Satanism operates 😉
At the end of the day, I’m not suggesting that everyone is required to act like a knight in shining armor... I am simply suggesting that those who possess the capacity—or perhaps those who lack any other viable alternative—should strive to do so 😁
I honestly don't know how people do it; I personally wouldn't be able to get a wink of sleep if I were posting anonymously 😳
Furthermore, I truly appreciate it when someone lets me know they’ve reported one of my posts. It doesn't make me feel any more "guilty" at all... if anything, it makes me value those interlocutors even more.
I am also quite pleased when someone gives me a heads-up that I might be violating a rule. Honestly, it happens so often without us even realizing it. When a post gets flagged, the moderators tend to jump straight to handing out penalties—slapping everyone with red cards for things like going off-topic, which, in my estimation, is just nonsensical. It would be much better if forum members simply reminded one another of the rules occasionally, and only summoned the moderators when there truly is no other recourse.
After all, the mods might not have the time to issue warnings, or perhaps they simply aren't inclined to, or some other reason altogether.
And really, why should people be penalized with strikes for an unintentional slip-up?