casualtiger2 said:This is actually pretty significant stuff—after all, every single one of us carries a mix of both masculine and feminine hormones, along with certain "masculine" and "feminine" traits.
Given how men have historically dominated women in various ways, it’s left a mark on everyone—both men and women—on a subconscious level, even today.
By trying to belittle or control women, men essentially ended up diminishing themselves too, while women were stripped of the chance to truly reach their potential.
That’s why, if we want to actually feel like whole human beings, we need to acknowledge and understand both the masculine and feminine aspects within ourselves. We need to develop them, embrace them, and let that understanding guide how we act in the "real world."
There’s zero reason why people should be treated unequally based on gender, despite how things have functioned up until now.
Sure, having a bit more testosterone or a stronger physical build isn't a valid excuse for men to rule over women, but that’s basically how it all started—the "I'm stronger, so I decide" mentality. That logic eventually got baked into tradition and then cemented by social structures, government laws, and some pretty mindless religious dogmas as the supposed "natural order of things."
At its core, it’s just a very specific way to feed the ego—the "I'm a man, so no matter how weak, stupid, or cruel I am, I'm still superior to a woman" mindset. It's just one of many ways the ego protects itself.
It’s really only since the state—specifically a secular government—took over the role of being the "stronger" authority that things have started to improve for everyone. Now, whether you're a man or a woman, there's finally a path toward becoming mature individuals, especially if you actually care about any kind of spiritual growth.
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Don't get me wrong, women have their own version of "ego support" through the "I'm a woman and..." trope, but historically, that version has always been a lot less damaging than the male equivalent.
your stance is an ideology—or rather, a byproduct of one.
Every human being possesses both masculine and feminine qualities in full; it's just that men are socially conditioned to suppress their feminine traits as "unnecessary," pushing them into the unconscious (the anima) and projecting them onto an external object—namely, a woman. The reverse happens too.
That is a dogma, and we are trained—conditioned—to see it that way. From the perspective of vital life, men and women are equally valuable and interdependent for the continuation of the species, each serving a specific biological function...
A man exists to be potent, and a woman to bear children (to be beautiful and fertile). Because of their biological differences, their psychological morphologies are also different and require different treatments. In reality,
equalizing is a poor way to treat both men and women. The direct consequence is a loss of clarity regarding both sex and gender, as well as the distinctions within them. It is this
equalization that has led to a chaotic understanding of gender, driven by the attempt to
make everyone equal. Everything else we perceive becomes equally chaotic.
Based on this
equalization, every gender ends up handicapped—men lose a significant part of their "masculinity" and women lose a significant part of their "femininity." If you compromise with
equalization, you end up with castrated men and barren women.
From a spiritual standpoint, every man and every woman is a star.
For anyone wanting to reflect on this, I recommend Jung's *The Red Book*.