rowdytiger13 said:Women fought for a better, different standing in society, which naturally modernized marriage by shifting how spouses interact, but that isn't a redefinition of marriage itself. At its core, marriage remains what it has always been: a man, a woman, children, and family. Suggesting that women gaining more agency means the end of marriage is nonsense; I see those claims as nothing more than a sneaky spin from people who want to redefine marriage just to devalue and destroy it.
I'm not so sure about that.
I constantly hear traditionalists making claims like, "Everything went wrong once women got the right to vote."
There is a massive difference between fighting for labor rights, against workplace harassment, or sexual exploitation, and using those struggles as a cover to interfere with and dismantle the fundamental intuition of marriage, which has nothing to do with any of those issues.
Yeah, I figured we’d end up here.
You mentioned that women have already secured enough rights, yet clearly they haven't, as there's still plenty of room for the feminist movement to push forward.
It would be much more helpful if an actual feminist explained the goals and reasoning behind the movement; personally, I feel like a bull in a china shop in this arena, so things tend to get misinterpreted—as they obviously have here.
The feminist movement isn't actually interested in redefining marriage as a union between a man and a woman. All this noise was stirred up by organizations on the other side of the aisle, and since LGBTQ+ advocacy groups felt directly threatened by certain initiatives, they stepped in to support feminist organizations.
What the feminist movement is actually pushing for is a redefinition of the roles within a traditional marriage, rather than the definition of the institution itself. From what I gather, the actual definition isn't their concern.
Maybe a few guys still feel a little threatened, but honestly, they still love their wives just fine.😁
Yeah, I saw this coming from a mile away.
You mentioned how women fought hard enough for their rights, but clearly there’s still plenty of room left for the feminist struggle.
It’d be way better if an actual feminist explained the goals and reasons behind the movement, because honestly, I feel like a bull in a china shop when it comes to this stuff. It leads to a lot of misunderstandings, which is clearly happening here.
The feminist movement isn't actually about redefining marriage as a union between a man and a woman. That whole mess was stirred up by groups on the other side of the aisle, and since LGBT organizations felt directly attacked by that initiative, the feminist groups stepped in to back them up.
The feminist movement is fighting to redefine the roles within a traditional marriage—not the definition itself. From what I know, the literal definition isn't even their main concern.
Look, we aren't really talking about feminism here, so we're drifting off-topic, but let me add that feminism isn't just one single ideology. It’s more like a collection of different ideologies, which means there are different types of feminism. Some focus on a woman's status in society. The first wave was all about voting rights, the second was about emancipation, and the third wave—which is what we see today—tries to negate gender entirely. A huge part of modern feminism focuses on LGBT rights, specifically for lesbians.
You asked me to list some lesbian feminist activists, so here’s a link to
wiki. Most third-wave feminists are either openly gay or have LGBT rights and gender ideology at the center of everything they do. The activist feminists who aren't lesbians express their feminism differently, have different goals, and fight for them in a totally different way than the ones who are.
There's also a massive rift between lesbian and hetero feminists; check out this
example.
You're spot on when you say the feminist movement has nothing to do with redefining marriage as a man-woman union. I'd just add that while the hetero feminist movement doesn't care about that, the lesbian movement definitely does.
Sorry again for going off-topic! 😉