I'm at my wit's end with my ex
in Psychology ·
Yeah... standing up to your parents is an art form. 😬
Especially when things get messy like this.
I wouldn't know what to tell you since I’m only hearing one side of the story. I have zero clue what her side looks like or what she's dealt with in her life. That doesn't give her a free pass to act however she wants, obviously, but it's all part of the process you have to deal with.
Honestly, stop stressing so much—you're just hurting yourself. Focus on your own lane and getting independent ASAP. You're 27 now; even with a degree, you really should be further along in that journey.
And yeah. If your mom decides to call a plumber, even if it's a Sunday, that's her call. You just have to "respect" it—meaning, don't meddle, even if you know how to fix it yourself and think calling someone is totally irrational. It's not your job to understand her logic in moments like that, and if you try, you'll just end up spiking your own blood pressure.
Especially when things get messy like this.
I wouldn't know what to tell you since I’m only hearing one side of the story. I have zero clue what her side looks like or what she's dealt with in her life. That doesn't give her a free pass to act however she wants, obviously, but it's all part of the process you have to deal with.
Honestly, stop stressing so much—you're just hurting yourself. Focus on your own lane and getting independent ASAP. You're 27 now; even with a degree, you really should be further along in that journey.
And yeah. If your mom decides to call a plumber, even if it's a Sunday, that's her call. You just have to "respect" it—meaning, don't meddle, even if you know how to fix it yourself and think calling someone is totally irrational. It's not your job to understand her logic in moments like that, and if you try, you'll just end up spiking your own blood pressure.