Can't even get a soul on the line at the call center. Honestly, if you're worried about your paycheck, just grab your cash and open a new checking account elsewhere ASAP. As for the debts, overdrafts, or loans... let someone else deal with that mess later.
Is it even possible to rush and open a new checking account somewhere else while I still have this mess going on at Wall Street? I can't close out my account there yet because of the loan and being in the red.
bluesurfer6 said:So, looks like their online banking just went belly up? Is anyone actually planning on depositing their next paycheck with these guys, or are you all jumping ship?
Honestly, I'm sitting here wondering what the move is too.
Thinking about an M-credit up to 50k $0.00 through the mobile app—anyone been there? Any issues getting approved if they already sent the offer? Also, should I count that in my total debt load if I’m just a co-signer on someone else's loan and not actually paying it? Thanks.
Heh, yep, there are more of us out there. I’m definitely one of those people who thrives on solitude—honestly, I’m never bored when I’m hanging out with myself. 😉 Small talk? Not my thing. All that mindless chatter just to be polite (like, "Wow, isn't the weather nice today?" 😉) or group trips, group coffee dates, basically anything involving a crowd (don't get me wrong here 😳). I’d much rather grab a coffee solo, hang out at home by myself, go on a road trip, or just head out into nature... It’s true, people can be exhausting. But I do have a handful of people in my life who are absolutely amazing, and I thank God, the universe, or whatever else for putting them in my orbit. 🙏 🙏 (My mom, my parents, and a few lifelong besties) Then again, there’s a whole other group of people I’m surrounded by just because I have to be (family stuff, work, etc.), and I’m definitely not thanking the universe for that part. 😁 🤣 I really think people who can’t stand being alone are missing the whole point of living, which is actually getting to know and love yourself for who you truly are. If you spend all your precious time on pointless coffee dates, parties, boring people, and endless small talk... you're gonna have a hard time finding yourself or connecting with your own soul. And yeah, people might call you a weirdo, because there's always a price to pay for having a "different" philosophy, 😁 but honestly, I don't give a damn. ☕ 😍
Goodbye My Lover, You're Beautiful, Carry You Home, 1973, Wise Men... man, this guy is just pure genius 🙏 🙏 🙏 the vocals, the guitar, the lyrics, the whole vibe 😍 😍 😍
Totally with you on this. 😉 Honestly, we haven't moved the needle much at all, no matter how much we claim to be this "modern society." It’s all just old traditions passed down through generations. In a big city like NYC, it doesn't really matter, but out in the rural Midwest? It's still seen as a total scandal to be in your 30s without a husband and kids. ☕
No need to freak out—not on my account. 😁 Just looking at this whole social thing where women feel like they have to pop out a kid the second they tie the knot just because that's what society expects. Honestly, I feel like not enough people actually sit down and weigh the massive responsibility of parenting. They just kind of go on autopilot and have kids.
Dana Stewart6 said:Maybe we should start some kind of club or a support group just for us panic-prone folks...😂
😉 🙂 Pregopaničar mada Club 😉 🤣 I mean, honestly? There are probably tons of women like that out there. It’s just that our moms and the people we grew up with raised us differently. You gotta get married and have a kid ASAP—you know, an heir. Otherwise, he’ll just find someone else who can. If other women can pull it off, you can too. It's just how nature works. (Feeling like Žuža right now.) 🤣)
God forbid, I've heard that one too. Women who don't have kids aren't fully women. It’s like it's hardwired into women from day one. The second they say that life-changing "yes," they just dive headfirst into baby mode. It’s just how things go—it's what everyone expects from them. Honestly, it's a wild phenomenon. I don't even know how else to put it. It’s honestly sad how postpartum depression, breastfeeding struggles, and all the other "ugly" parts of being a mom are still treated like taboo subjects. People don't talk about it nearly enough—even though we discuss it way more now than we did thirty years ago. Everyone acts like motherhood is just this flawless, natural dream. So when women don't feel that way after having a baby, they start thinking something is wrong with them, and most of the time, they just keep it all inside. Man, that’s not even the half of it. Honestly, the biggest hurdle in today’s world—with all this corruption, chaos, and violence everywhere—is just trying to raise an honest, decent human being. Feels like mission impossible.☕
Dana Stewart6, slypuma17, man, you guys are reading my mind. 😲 😉 I’m hitting my late 20s soon, four years married, life is great, but I just can't wrap my head around the biggest, most heavy-duty responsibility most people face—having a kid. ☕ It’s like, everyone says it’s just "natural" and how every "normal" woman starts thinking about it right after getting hitched, so I feel weird. Is it just me, or is everyone else just following a script? 🤷 Being a parent is easily the hardest, highest-stakes job on the planet, yet people act like it’s no big deal and just dive in without a second thought—like it’s some mandatory checklist item. But look at the world; it’s full of kids who were neglected, unloved, or just totally lost because their parents weren't up to the task. So, maybe it isn't as "instinctive" as they say. Maybe some of us just aren't built for it. 🤷 I tend to overthink everything. I need to analyze things, not just rush blindly into something unless I'm 100% sure. Don't get me wrong, I love babies—my family is full of them—but this fear of the future, the weight of the responsibility, and how brutal the world can be... it honestly paralyzes me when I think about having my own. Most people don't get it. 🤷 If the world was a better place to live, maybe...🤷
Jessica Flores78 said:One of the absolute worst movies this year. Total cliché overload and the acting was trash.
As someone who lives for horror, I'm right there with him.👎👎👎 This flick was a massive, naive letdown☕☕ so I don't get the hype above—people clearly haven't seen much decent horror if they're calling this masterpiece.🙄☕
relativnost said:What’s it actually like when you know a ton about philosophy and how the world works? I’m curious how you guys feel, since you’ve been deep in the philosophy game for years now. Did you ever find what you were looking for? What’s your headspace like once you know all this stuff? How do you even function around "normal" people who don't think this way? Do you see things differently? 😁
Since I'm still pretty much a beginner, I wonder if digging deeper into philosophy is gonna mess with my head too much later on. Just wondering what it's like when you know so much, and when you can see right through those complicated thoughts everyone else struggles with—and then you actually have the answers ready.
A few years back, I was so different from everyone else. My brain worked so differently that I felt totally out of place around "regular" people. I used to be like, "wait, what?" Am I living in a delusion, or are they? Something had to give. Nowadays, I kind of blend in with the "average" crowd—the ones constantly stressing over trivial, mindless, everyday nonsense—but I still feel different. Like, I don't fit into that social blueprint of the "perfect person" who always has to look good, act smart, and talk about shallow stuff just to fit in. You can tell I'm trying to play along and care about daily life, but honestly, it's exhausting seeing people make such huge deals out of nothing... I stopped trying to philosophize a long time ago because, honestly, what's the point? Human brains are just too small to grasp this whole massive maze we call life and all its secrets. It's hard to wrap your head around these parallel dimensions or whatever—it all depends on your perspective. As humans, we're stuck with our limited view of the world. We'll probably never uncover those heavy truths surrounding us, and maybe that's for the best.