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casualrider21 said:Yes, I am. It’s been a long time. I have plenty of alternative options. If you're interested, I can send them over via DM.
People just lash out at everything when things like this happen. You never know what might actually work—God willing, of course.

How are things on your end?
I’ve been totally checked out lately. Honestly, I haven't had a clue where I was leaving my head or my ass.

Love you guys.


Please, DM me!

Everything is happening at once, yet nothing is going right... they kept the old man in the hospital, and in the end, the poor guy had to undergo surgery just to perform a lung puncture (they ended up removing part of a lymph node, which someone here mentioned is actually better) because his throat was too scarred from the previous surgery to do it any other way.
Thank God he handled it well. He was discharged yesterday, but he lost a massive amount of weight because he couldn't eat properly there. We should have the test results back this Friday!

Just praying everything turns out okay. 🙂🙂🙂
Casey Palmer5 said:Unfortunately, the bastard was stronger.

I am never going to find another guy that good again; he was one of a kind.

I actually got chills and felt completely shocked reading this! 🙂
Please accept my deepest condolences... I truly cannot believe everything happened so fast 🙂. Hang in there! 😘
casualrider21 says:

Look, we have plenty of other ways to handle this when our doctor refuses to back us up.😉

Like what? Have you actually shared any of those methods here yet? 🤷
Susan Diaz91 said:To all my dear friends going through chemo: is a brief loss of consciousness actually a side effect?
My mother has finished eight rounds of chemo, and yesterday was just brutal for her (she’s always had low blood pressure). She tried to stand up on her own, and she just collapsed—passed out for a moment...

They got an IV into her immediately. It looks like she might be dehydrated too, since she barely drinks anything, and she’s already on medication for dehydration because of her heart issues....

I'm sitting here thinking and wondering—is this fainting a sign of something more serious, or is it just a reaction to the chemo?
Aside from that, she isn't in any pain. She’s just overwhelmed by weakness; she mostly sits or lies down, only moving around the room occasionally. There’s no fluid in her lungs (thank God), though that doesn't mean it won't start happening soon... someone mentioned earlier that Gemzar works, but not forever.. 😢

Look, I’m perfectly healthy, but I have low blood pressure myself, and yesterday I felt like I was going to pass out all day just because of the weather... today I spent the entire afternoon sleeping it off. So, the fact that your mom lost consciousness might not necessarily have anything to do with the chemotherapy. 🤷
Does anyone actually know if cancer patients can go overboard with honey? My dad is basically living on it—I’m talking several pounds a month—because he’s convinced it’s some kind of miracle immune booster. And honestly, I can't even argue with him too hard because he hasn't caught a single cold all winter while the rest of us have been absolutely wiped out by every virus going around. But then I started reading stuff about how tumors thrive on glucose, and now I’m genuinely freaking out that he’s fueling the fire with all this sugar...🤷
I wanted to ask if anyone knows—can you go to a private specialist for lung cancer here in the States, maybe in DC or somewhere nearby, who could just review all the scans and run whatever tests are needed? I honestly don't have the patience to deal with our hospital system. It’s been six months since that first shadow was spotted on the lungs, and we're still waiting on the actual testing. I'd much rather just pay out of pocket than sit around terrified that they'll "forget" to run another test again.
gentletiger46 said:brisksurfer - I carry this notebook everywhere I go. I write down absolutely everything people tell me, plus every useful scrap of info I find on forums or the web. My doctor actually laughs at me, but honestly, he nearly loses his composure when I start grilling him with my list of questions. It’s how I make sure I don't miss a single thing; I sit down at home when I'm calm and write all my questions out. Why am I telling you this? Because we all know what the healthcare system is like—completely overwhelmed and totally dehumanized. That's why I live by the rule: "Help yourself first, then the doctor will help you." I ask twice, I double-check everything, and yes, I am annoying. So, do yourself a favor: write down exactly what they told you needed to be done immediately. Use it as ammunition for a rapid-fire round of questions next time so they can't pull that "Oh, oops, we should have done this sooner" routine on you again.

Haha, that image of you blitzing doctors with questions really cracked me up! 😁
The notebook idea is brilliant, though. Thanks for the tip—I'm going to start documenting everything that happens from now on! 🙂
Thanks! 😘
Nancy Hernandez43 said:Every road leads to disaster if you aren't careful, so if there is any way to avoid it, just don't throw yourself into the abyss. First off, tears won't help. You can try to hide them all you want, but people will see it on your face. Worse yet, your dad will feel it too. For a patient, having a stable psyche and maintaining a positive outlook on everything they're going through is absolutely vital. Your sadness could easily become his restlessness.

I can only imagine how agonizing it feels waiting for those test results, but time moves fast. Before you know it, May 21st will be here.

My mother went in seven days ago to schedule her tumor markers and a CT scan, and they told her, "Oh, ma'am, we can't get you scheduled until May 5th." She just gave them a heroic smile and replied, "Ah, right, well at least I can be scheduled a week later than that!" It’s always some kind of waiting, some kind of anticipation, or prepping for new labs. Unfortunately, that's just life when you're living with someone fighting cancer. You have to accept the circumstances, even though it's incredibly hard. Hang in there!

Thank you! 😘I'm doing better today... I pulled myself together a bit. Yesterday, I couldn't stop crying all day long—I was actually feeling quite proud of myself because I wasn't crying in front of Dad, but then I looked in the mirror outside today 😲. He definitely noticed I was falling apart.😢 I think that depressing rain destroyed me, too...
Honestly, it always breaks me whenever I start surfing online and see how many people are battling cancer...
brisksurfer said:Finally, some actual good news to share on this thread! And I mean incredible, life-changing news!!!
I already mentioned that during Dad's follow-up CT scan, they claimed a new primary tumor had appeared on his bronchi with metastases in the lungs... Well, all the tests are finally done, and we got the biopsy results back. It turns out there is NO tumor!!!!! 🙂🙂🙂🙂🎉
They found he had an *Escherichie coli* infection that flared up after his throat surgery. He just needs antibiotics for that and then a follow-up X-ray in two months just to make sure nothing else pops up.

I can't even begin to tell you how happy I am!!! 😍 It feels like someone just lifted three tons off my shoulders! Honestly, I feel like 🙂 screaming at every single doctor who terrified us... I can't even describe the shock I went through...


Unfortunately, I celebrated way too early! 😢
Another medical error occurred... See, last week Dad went in for a follow-up CT which showed not only that the lung tumor definitely exists, but that it grew from 2.5cm to 5cm. His bronchi seem okay now, probably thanks to the antibiotics. He went back to the hospital today, and the doctor told him he couldn't understand why they only did a bronchoscopy last time when that wasn't nearly enough (they should have done a puncture as well). We have to wait until May 21st for the next round of tests, at which point they'll admit him to the hospital. That means it will have been six whole months since they first spotted changes in his lungs...
I don't know what to do... This has thrown me into total despair. 🙂
jadetinker42 said:Hello everyone.

Here is more proof of how pathetic our bureaucracy is.

I have posted here many times before asking for advice regarding a 26-year-old girl suffering from osteosarcoma.
Unfortunately, the disease has progressed so far that there is no hope left. Despite an amputation of her right leg, the cancer spread to both lungs and is advancing at an incredible rate. From the very beginning—the diagnosis back in March 2007—the PhD stated it was a high-grade mesenchymal tumor with destructive growth. In April 2008, just before the leg amputation, an oncologist in Germany classified it as Grade III... While osteosarcoma can be treated relatively successfully here, this was one aggressive bastard...
The poor girl has completely collapsed; she hasn't eaten for almost a month, she's coughing, she's in pain... it's horrific. We gathered all the documentation, the final reports, and the discharge papers from Jordan, where the diagnoses are piled up halfway down an A4 page, one on top of the other. I submitted everything to the CDC so their disability commission could issue a certificate. This would allow her to be exempt from supplemental health insurance premiums and get a disabled parking permit so she can actually use accessible spots... I even asked if this would be enough, and the employee at the CDC told me it most likely would be once they saw the discharge summary...

What a load of garbage! Today, they call from the CDC Atlanta (disability assessment department) and demand that the girl show up in Cleveland at Santa Monica to have their commissioner-expert determine exactly what is going on!!!!!😠 😠 😠

Can you even imagine that? They don't care at all that the disease is in its terminal phase and that she is simply no longer capable of being transported or being hauled through their assessment offices...

A tragic American bureaucratic story....😢

When I was with my dad at Jordan the first time, there was this beautiful young girl in the hallway near us, short hair (just growing back after chemo), sitting in a wheelchair because her right leg had been amputated... she sat there for a long time and all the hospital staff knew her. She came from another city for an exam and was waiting because there was no one available to see her, plus the X-ray machine was broken 😠.

The hospital was totally gray and lifeless, yet there she was, so beautiful and young, just waiting... that image will stay with me for the rest of my life. For days, I told everyone how we need to be happy and grateful for our health while describing that scene... and whenever I remember it, I wonder if anyone Up Above is even watching what happens here?! And why isn't there any justice... because she certainly didn't do anything to deserve this..

I don't know if we are talking about the same person, but in any case, I feel absolutely terrible, just horribly sorry 😢... that day in the hospital I was furious because no one was available to examine her, and I feel just as much now reading this 👎.
Maria Fox said:It is absolutely wonderful to read news like this. 🎉👋

Dana Baker37 said:This is truly STUNNING news! 👋
I’ve read your posts several times now, and honestly, I’ve been living through your good news right along with you. It’s exactly how I’m picturing my own mom’s treatment playing out. Once we push through those six grueling weeks in the hospital, there’s going to be a month of recovery, followed by all the tests to see the actual facts on the ground. That is exactly how I see this whole situation unfolding: everything is going to turn out fine, and once it does, we are throwing one massive party! 🙂

😘

Ever since this whole sickness saga kicked off last year, I’ve had this nagging, bizarre intuition that none of this was actually happening to me—like I was just waiting to snap awake. Look, there are certain things caused by the surgery that we simply can't undo. Period. But hearing this good news? It honestly feels like I've finally woken up from a total nightmare!
I want nothing more than for Mom to be okay—truly, from the bottom of my heart. But you have to hold onto that belief. You have to believe it’s going to happen. It might sound foolish to some, I know, but for years now, I've lived by that Coelho quote: "..."When you want something with everything you've got, the whole damn world conspires just to make sure you get it. It happens. Every single time.And when we finally hear some actual good news, we’re all going to have one massive virtual party right here! 🙂Hang in there, everyone!
I finally have some actual good news to share on this thread! And I mean incredibly, life-changingly good news!!!
I mentioned before that during his follow-up CT scan, they told my dad there was a new primary tumor on his bronchi with lung metastases... Well, we finally got all the tests finished and the biopsy results are back. It turns out there is no tumor at all!!!!! 🙂🙂🙂🙂🎉
They discovered he has a recurrence of Escherichia coli, which he picked up after his throat surgery. He just needs a course of antibiotics for that and then a follow-up X-ray in two months just to be safe and make sure nothing else pops up.

I can't even begin to tell you how happy I am!!! 😍 It feels like someone just lifted three tons off my shoulders! Honestly, I feel like 🙂 giving a massive middle finger to every single doctor who scared us half to death... I still haven't fully processed the shock I went through...
Susan Diaz91 said:Hearing that today felt like the floor just dropped out from under me.
It felt like my legs were being severed. It all started so innocently enough—just some coughing, then getting hospitalized, undergoing a bronchoscopy, and having a lung CT scan.

I am so sorry... I went through the exact same thing when they told us they found a new tumor in my dad's lungs.😠
Angela Wright said:And just like President Reagan used to say: "My friends, we did it!"...

As of March 1st, Sutent and Tarceva are being added to the Medicare formulary!

Get treated, people!

Keep moving forward!

Finally, some actual good news in this thread!
Huge congratulations to everyone involved!!!!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Believe me, I'm celebrating this like I'm the one who actually needs these meds! 🙂👋👋

I am certain you'll all be getting golden tickets to heaven because of this! 😉
rapidfalcon13 said:dear people of this forum

today our Dina9 went to the angels 😢...I know it because she was a true angel🙂. She closed her (in recent times) sad eyes, and went to her dad (that's how she used to say it, that her daddy is waiting for her, but that she still had the strength to live...until today).

I have to write this.. 😢
my dear D...I am going to miss you so much, all your beautiful words, all your dreams, all your optimism in a sea of bad things surrounding you.. it's hard and my heart aches...and I love you so much and sincerely...

I don't even know what to say about this...I joined this thread late and didn't follow everything, but I definitely noticed Dina9. And I can still hear her saying that we shouldn't pity her, but instead tell her that she can do this and that she will beat that damn monster! 👍

I haven't been able to stop crying since I read this news 🙂. Honestly, she was thinking of us so much that she even found a way to let us know about her departure...

Dina9...we all love you so much and we know you are watching over us and praying for us somewhere! 😘
You fascinated me with your positivity and we will all continue to fight those damn monsters in your name...your words will keep us on our feet. I know you are in a better world, seeing as the bastards up there had to take you into their ranks...watch over us, my dear...! 🙂
Rachel Chase80 said:I just finished watching Life Live. Seriously, hats off to those journalists (shout out to Maji, Zuber, and Nađvinski). It was the first time I’ve actually seen reporters get brutally honest about private matters and absolutely tear into people spouting nonsense—treating them like they're talking about inanimate objects instead of actual human beings.

👍👍👍
I'm with you! And massive props to Nađvinski for totally shredding that lady from Medicare!
Fatigue, weird headaches, and dizziness... in Health ·
I was dealing with this absolute nightmare—insomnia, dizzy spells, constant fatigue, just feeling completely drained all the time... my doctor insisted it was nothing more than low blood pressure. Total nonsense. Things finally turned around once I took matters into my own hands and started taking Ferrell iron. I caught a segment on CBS where they mentioned those exact symptoms could be a dead giveaway for an iron deficiency.
Angela Wright said:And they even slap sales tax on it when sick people scrape together their last pennies just to afford a single dose.

😲 This part right here? This is what really sent my blood pressure through the roof!!! 😠😠😠
Absolutely outrageous!
Angela Wright, were you watching CNN yesterday?
I was listening to a report about those poor souls whose lives are being cruelly toyed with by the government because they refuse to provide them with life-saving medication just because it’s too expensive (Sutent)😲...I honestly don't even know what to say about any of this...it's absolutely horrific! 😠
Susan Ruiz76 said:Secondly—when you bring up Vinogradska Hospital and that "expensive machine"—you’re almost certainly talking about a PET scan.

What kind of machine is that even supposed to be? How on earth could a single scan cost 12 $0.00????