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nimbleheron47 said:I've got a small chest—nothing much going on there. 🙂 Always the same story. 🙂
To me, this dress really gives off those fancy bracelet vibes, but you know... if you aren't wearing one. Some killer, statement earrings would look great too. Just—do yourself a favor and put your hair up. 🙂
I feel terrible. 😢
I'm down. That's definitely in my plans anyway. 🙂 Thanks.
Lorraine, once you get all cleaned up for that occasion, it'll make for a great photo. Just "crop" out the head—it won't be a big deal. 😁
Not bad. 🙂
Linda Johnson15, there are some amazing things at this link, like...
This card. I am. 😍
Dana Wilson said:You really think you can just breeze through without actually putting her on, snapping some pics, and showing us what we're working with? 🙂
(p.s. sorry for being such a ghost lately—I haven't been able to get back to the posts I actually replied to, life just got in the way 🙄 )
Awesome! Could you measure her around the bust (maybe tell me the circumference and if it’s a tight fit)? Also the waist—not that I care as much, just want to make sure it doesn't gap too much. I really love it; it's perfect for more formal occasions.
How much length can you actually handle?
Bust is about 38 inches, assuming I measured the right spot. 🤣 My measurements are around 37-37, so it fits perfectly. It’s not some tight bodycon fit—it sits just right, which is exactly how these kinds of dresses should be. I can actually lift my arms without any issues; nothing feels restrictive.
The strap—I measured right where the buckle sits—is 36 inches, and it fits me perfectly. It’s not too tight. The length is exactly what I was looking for, hitting just below the knee. In my opinion, that's the best look for formal events. 🙂
Just thinking out loud about jewelry. A necklace isn't really my thing, and I don't wear bracelets much anyway. Plus, I'll be wearing white gold drop earrings for the event.
Maria Bailey4 said:Quick question for the ladies who did their own sewing and ordered supplies through eBay—did you actually end up saving money compared to buying everything locally?
Even if you shop domestically, you can still find deals, it just comes down to how much time you have to hunt for them. Buying from eBay is definitely cheaper, though. 🙂
Obsessed with my NEW dress! It just arrived via FedEx this morning, even though I only ordered it two days ago. The fit is perfect, length is spot on, and the fabric feels high-end. The lining is incredible—honestly, it’s like the quality you'd find in a custom DiCaprio suit.
Just a heads up, I grabbed the Tall version. It's designed for anyone 5'10" and up.
Kyle Bishop65 said:Okay, I get it, you guys have a point. The real crux of the matter is that these people felt entitled to chime in when nobody asked for their opinion 😁 rather than the content of what they were saying. Personally, I can't stand those "Oh, that looks great on you!" comments. Your job is to sell me merchandise; whether I think it suits me or not, you say it looks good, and that's it. We aren't children; why even bother saying anything else? Yeah, it's incredibly annoying when you're trying things on and some stranger decides to weigh in. But honestly, there isn't much else to do besides deal with it, just like having to hear "Do you have a rewards card?" or "Would you like to add this toothpaste to your order?" at the checkout counter. They are trained for this, and no matter how much it gets under our skin, they have to try to convince us somehow. I guess that's where "people skills" come into play—some people have them, some don't. Even though it's still not justified, I'll say it again.
I don't like it either, regardless of how things fit. To be honest, I couldn't care less about a sales associate's opinion, no matter how much of an expert they claim to be. I didn't come in for an opinion or "friendly" advice; I came in for a new piece of clothing.
Thank God online shopping exists. 👋
Kyle Bishop65, whatever the neighbors might say— you were totally exaggerating. First off, I wasn't any fuller back then. I'm not tiny, but for my height, you could definitely see my hip bones. I definitely wasn't curvier.
It had nothing to do with the crying you mentioned. I just decided to give my hard-earned money to people who actually act professional.
Second, even if I had weighed 330 lbs, please tell me where a cashier gets the right to comment on me as a customer she's seeing for the first time in her life? Who is she to judge my looks, no matter how obvious they might be? Her job is to serve the people paying her salary, not critique them.
I used to work retail, and I treated every single customer exactly the same. There were addicts, people with mental health issues, people who were overweight, skinny, rude, elderly, or vulnerable... was I supposed to let every one of them know what I thought of their appearance? No thanks.
Self-acceptance isn't really the point here. As far as I'm concerned, this falls under experiences with retail workers or whatever similar topic this is.
Edit: After posting, I saw that other girls wrote the exact same thing. Hopefully, it's a bit clearer now. 😉
Unbelievable 😲 And then you hear people say, "Oh, poor things, they just couldn't make it work in America, it's all the customers' fault / the politicians / the small fry"... if we could just filter out the trash here and/or send them to some basic human decency training, maybe it would actually mean something 😠
One time, while I was picking out a watch worth over a thousand dollars, the sales clerk told me it was perfect for someone more substantial like myself. I think I was about 155 lbs at 5'10" back then. I turned around and walked straight to the competitor to buy the exact same watch.
Dana Wilson said:nimbleheron47, how do those pants look on the butt? 😁
Charles Gomez4, what size dress did you grab?
18. Tall, because I want the dress to hit my knees or just slightly below them.
My Dorothy Perkins pants from the previous page finally arrived, they're gorgeous 😍. The length is perfect (given I'm 5'10"), and the fabric feels really high quality, though they're a tiny bit tight at the knees 🤷 which doesn't make much sense since they're supposed to be straight leg but oh well. They fit perfectly at the waist; can't wait for it to cool down so I can style them with my blazers.
I also ordered that black dress from the photo in the last post from NEXT, $130. I'll let you guys know how it looks once it gets here.
Kioko, love the pants and the skirt! If anyone spots anything similar, let me know—no luck finding any P&C around here.
Dana Wilson said:I'm totally feeling it... just the color, though, you know? Definitely not black. What were you thinking of going with?
I don't usually wear black or white to weddings, but since I'm stepping up as the maid of honor here—not just a guest—I'm debating between a sharp women's suit or a classic black dress paired with colorful shoes and accessories.
@Charles Gomez4, I love this dress! Even the black color doesn't bother me because all that bright beadwork and bling makes it pop. My only issue is the bolero—unless we're talking about those cropped ones that end just below the bust with long sleeves? I’m just not a fan. To me, those boleros just ruin the look of the dress. Maybe I just haven't seen the right ones yet.
I was at a wedding recently and really wanted to post a photo just to break the ice, but I don't have a single shot of myself where I actually look decent. Maybe I'll dress up again sometime soon just to get a good picture... (Is that weird!?)
I didn't have a specific bolero in mind. I just needed something for my shoulders since the wedding is this winter and it won't be getting above 50°F outside. Just get dressed and take some photos—I'm sure everyone is dying to see how it looks. 🙂
I think it looks good, even if she stays black (I’d just spruce it up with some colored details then). The font is... 😍And for those who have it all. 🙂 Tailoring makes all the difference.
I always go for simpler dresses paired with statement shoes. At the last wedding I went to, I actually dared to wear 5-inch heels—something I wouldn't even treat myself to for my own wedding. *skyscraper*
Thanks. 🙂 I love A-line dresses; I think they look best on me. My only worry was if they felt a bit too corporate or formal for a wedding.
13, 5, wow. 😍
Rebecca Doyle6 said:Just some inspiration. Cutie😍
http://girlwithcurves.com/Gallery
There are some seriously great combos here. My favorites have to be the short or long skirts paired with a cute blouse. And honestly, pregnancy looks amazing on her! If she were here, I’d steal everything from her except the shoes:
http://girlwithcurves.com/post/42263.../at-the-office 😁
Laura Murphy2 said:I’ve heard about Next before, and looking at what you posted, I kind of like it too... I’ll probably spend some time checking them out. Thanks! 😉
No problem, let me know if you end up ordering anything. 🙂
Kioko, the dress is gorgeous but that price tag... 🙂
Speaking of weddings, does this dress look too plain for a maid of honor? Picture it with a nice shrug, some jewelry, and killer heels 😁 It's for a winter wedding, so the fabric is thicker even if it doesn't look like it in the photo.
Laura Murphy2 said:I get that... though I'm only, what, 25? And honestly, even two years ago, I was probably carrying about 50 pounds less than I am now. It's been a bit of a ride—going from being a competitive athlete to dealing with a spinal injury and surgery at 23, plus some hormone stuff. So yeah, I ended up right where I am, having swung about 50 pounds back and forth over the last few years. 🙂 But anyway, that’s a whole different conversation. I’m actually here because I'm trying to find a professional look for my wedding since I just graduated college. 😉
I think Next is actually great for that, especially since they carry most stuff in both Regular and Tall. The materials are super high quality and really hold up. For example... Check out this collection of women's tailoring from Next: http://www.next.co.uk/shop/gender-wo...on-tailoring-0
nimbleheron47 said:Those pants are great, Charles Gomez4. 😍
Regarding those Dorothy Perkins sizes—well, usually a UK 18 is an American 14/16. I have a pair of their skinny jeans in an 18 and they fit okay, but I’m typically a 14 or 16, and these were cut *really* skinny with a super low rise 🤷. My main gripe is that everything is just so short—not exactly the best move for tall girls, especially when looking for winter gear. Everything feels short to me—sleeves, legs, even jacket hems that should hit my hips end up sitting just below my waist; I'm about 5'11".
I’ve got some light transitional jackets in a UK 18 and there's still plenty of room in the bust 😲. Probably because the average American woman carries a bit more curves in the chest area than you'd expect, so the bust isn't totally flat. 😂
Honestly, those customer reviews on the website are the most helpful thing when you're actually placing an order.
Just shop them like you would H&M, though DP tends to run a bit larger and shorter—unless the comments say otherwise.
Generally speaking, American brands tend to have a bit more generous sizing. For instance, the La Redoute jackets I own are a US 14 and fit perfectly—they aren't even tight in the chest anymore (yay! I actually lost about an inch since my last measurement 😳) and those feel like true-to-size numbers. I'd say I'm a solid US 14 (as mentioned before). Dorothy Perkins in a UK 18 is way more comfortable for me than stuff from La Redoute, and don't even get me started on ASOS—from now on, I'm ordering my tops there in a UK 14. 🙄
So, here is the answer to that:
ASOS is definitely an 18—maybe even a 16 if you're closer to a 14 and it's not a super skinny fit. For Dorothy Perkins, go with an 18 or a 20, depending on the cut (and what people are saying in the reviews).
🙂 When I was trying stuff on in the store, almost all the tops were too short (I'm 5'10'') whereas blouses feel nicer when they sit just below the navel. 🤣 I don't usually run into this, but DP is the only one with such short cuts. That's why with them, I stick to visibly longer sweaters, baggy tees, and stuff like that.
I grabbed the longest pants available (at least based on the photos) because on one pair, the model barely reached the heel of her boots, and I'm roughly 🤔 tall. I'm hoping they turn out okay.
electricangler38 said:They're lovely.😉
Are their size charts actually accurate when the clothes arrive, based on those centimeter measurements on the site? Or do they run large? I've never ordered anything online before, so I'm asking.
🙂
It really depends. I always look for reviews to see if they are "true to size," small, or large before I buy. For example, at H&M, I wear a 12 or 14, but sometimes I can't even button a 14, so it totally depends on the cut and the fabric. I'll let you know when they arrive. 🙂
Also, Target has cotton undershirts on sale—Jolinesse, $10.00. Super comfy, 95% cotton. I grabbed a Medium; it says 12/14 but it's actually much bigger, more like a 14/16.
We should just start our own forum marketplace for stuff that ends up being too small or too big after we order. 😁
Dorothy Perkins offers free shipping with code DPEXTRA.
Just picked up some pants for $44 (from the clearance sale):
nimbleheron47 said:That dress should fit you just fine then. 😉>
Shoes... yeah. Their UK 8 is basically an American 10. Good luck hunting down a 11. 😢 Unless you're somewhere between a 10 and an 11, because some of their styles feel a little roomy for me—not enough to drop down to a 9, though.
To be honest, I'm not huge on their footwear either—I usually only grab things on sale when the original price wasn't too crazy to begin with (like, under $83 $50). I had two pairs where the soles literally peeled off within a week. Total junk. But, I do have some sneakers from them that have actually held up pretty well.
So, most of what I get from ASOS isn't even "ASOS" branded. Though, if you check the other threads, people seem to really like their boots—but those are in a higher price bracket, so maybe quality just scales with the price tag. 🤷
Anyway, I'm pretty picky about shoes, so I might not be the best judge here. 😳
Huh, thanks.
Lately, it's been hard to fit into anything that's a 10, so whenever I order online, I aim for an 11—maybe even
wide if it's for work or something. Dorothy Perkins has some cute stuff in a 9 (which is like a 10), but right now I'm eyeing some patent leather pieces that won't really work with this dress. 😢 I'll wait a bit longer; looks like the fall collection is just arriving. And yeah, site reviews are total lifesavers.
Scott Howard74, ASOS is an online shop, check the link: www.asos.com
nimbleheron47 said:If you're an apple shape, I think you could definitely pull that skirt off. My sister is an apple (and she hides her flaws way better than I do with clothes), so I can totally see her in it. Especially if you've got nice legs. 👍
Now I feel totally discriminated against. 🤣 Just because I'm on thyroid medication doesn't mean I'm not fat and worthy of your time. 🙂 😬
Personally, I think with a dress like this, it matters more how broad your shoulders are. If your arms aren't, like, extreme, it’ll probably hide them pretty well. 🤷
Anyway, 😍 yeah. Got a link?
My shoulders are just average, really. Not particularly strong or broad. 🤔 Hands fit my body perfectly, but honestly, I’m not looking to show them off just yet. Mainly because I'm still hunting for a more elegant dress for a fancy occasion. 😁 [User message omitted as the input was only a single word "prigodu" which translates to "occasion/opportunity," providing no context for a full post. Please provide the full text you wish to have rewritten.]
Just went through my closet. Those H&M dresses? All size 14, except for one 16. They fit perfectly—not too tight in the shoulders or arms at all.
Here's the link:
Check this out: http://www.asos.com/ASOS/ASOS-Midi-F...rt=-1&clr=NavyI saw you mentioning that you order a ton of shoes from ASOS. Do their sizes actually run true to standard? I’m looking for some cute flats—and believe it or not, women like me actually exist! 😁Number 42.
How bad is this dress for a pear shape with stronger arms (ASOS size 16-18)? 🤔 The sleeves are bothering me—is it just me, or do they look wider than they are?
Thomas Scott5 said:Thanks for the photographer leads. Honestly, I haven't come across any of them yet. I’m looking for someone who can actually capture raw emotion through the lens since we won't have a video. They need an eye for great shots, but also someone easy to coordinate with for those inevitable "posed" family photos where spontaneity just isn't happening. Basically, I want zero heavy filters or excessive Photoshop, and definitely none of that trendy stuff where people pose in abandoned factories.
As for music, I need a band that will play all night with minimal breaks. They should be able to nail both American classics and rock hits—something fun, maybe some old-school soul or folk vibes thrown in, but keeping the focus on rock. Country twang is strictly forbidden, as is anything by Thompson or any combat-themed songs. I need people I can trust to keep playing until dawn if people want to dance. I don't want a wedding hosted by someone constantly calling out names or forcing people onto the floor. Actually, the fewer speeches and the more music, the better. 😁 Just keep people moving with solid tunes. 🙂 I think we’d probably prefer someone with a female vocalist too, so they can mix it up with solo male parts, solo female parts, or duets... Am I being too picky?
Check out fox, maybe he's exactly what you're looking for:
http://www.wedding.ivicalisjak.com/
I totally get you. I'm just nobody's pear 😬