Posts by Paul Adams31

wanderingpanther68 said:I can't believe this, you really need to go back and read the first page. 🧐

Why not? I’ve been reading, but I simply haven't had the time to go through every single username. Also, is it actually possible to create a new profile, and if so, what's the process?

Would it be possible to change my handle to cinnamonlove?

Personally, I found the first installment to be superior in terms of pacing and energy, though the second one holds up quite well when compared to the rest of the franchise. I am certainly looking forward to the third 🙂

fadedskipper21 said:It also blows my mind that anyone would go into debt for $150 $0.00 or more just to throw this massive production, only to end up divorced three years later. I know plenty of people who have done exactly that.

I just don't get it. I could never justify dropping that kind of cash on some silly wedding. If I ever did decide to marry, I wouldn't spend more than maybe $3,000—just enough for a nice dinner with close family. I don't understand that mindset—the obsession with finding "the" dress, ensuring it's the most beautiful thing on Earth, or spending $15 $0.00 on accessories. I truly don't understand women who think like that; what world are they living in?
Some "princesses" get married thinking they'll be happy forever with their prince, only to be filing for divorce within a few years—ten at the absolute most.

Even $50 $0.00 is excessive given today's economy. Personally, I’d rather invest that money into higher education or professional development, but hey, people will be people. It's an interesting stereotype—the idea that every little girl dreams of her big day and views it as something transcendental. 😕 I never daydreamed about any of that; to me, it feels like women are intentionally making themselves look foolish, as if a wedding is the absolute pinnacle of female achievement. When you look at our celebrities and influencers, almost all of them seem to think marriage and kids are the ultimate goal, which strikes me as incredibly primitive. 👎 It’s even more absurd when you see girls setting arbitrary deadlines, like "I have to be married by thirty." 😲

What can you even say? It’s pure primitivism. Personally, I find it best when someone steps up and pays for the wedding because their partner is pregnant—it just makes things easier. It seems most marriages eventually sour; living with someone for years without falling into a stagnant routine is incredibly difficult. Why bother getting married at all? What's the harm in a couple living together without the ceremony? It's essentially the same thing, and if the relationship fails, they don't have to deal with the headache of a divorce. Gender dynamics are complicated, and honestly, I'm not sure what purpose a wedding actually serves anymore. It's nothing more than a formality, which might not even be the smartest move given how chaotic things are these days. 🤷