Posts by wearybear75

wearybear75 said:Is there any way I could just change the first letter of my handle? Like, maybe just make it a Q? Or switch it to Q-babe?

Nah, Q-babe is off the table. But wearybear75 (if I’m following you correctly) is totally doable. If you really want to go with wearybear75, just hit up Tyndall.

Thanks.🙂

Is there any way I could just change the first letter of my handle? Like, maybe just make it a Q? Or switch it to Q-babe?

Nah, Q-babe is off the table. But wearybear75 (if I’m following you correctly) is totally doable. If you really want to go with wearybear75, just hit up Tyndall.

New users constantly run into trouble with her. Just wait until she decides you're her next target...😁
I’m pretty sure this woman hasn't even heard of a yellow card in her entire life—she goes straight for the red, and she packs extra points on them just for fun. No warnings, no "hey, chill out," just instant bans or red cards.
If she decides she doesn't like someone, she’ll just let a whole thread spiral out of control while she baits that person, all while playing the "oh, I'm so clueless" card. That’s just one of her little tricks, and trust me, there are plenty more.
Someone needs to tell her to take it down a notch.
I guess I'm allowed to vent about this here. 🤔

edit; I should probably mention another one of her moves—she'll provoke an entire thread into a frenzy herself, and the second you snap back at her? BOOM, ban. Red cards flying everywhere. And since you were provoked into acting out, she’ll claim your post is "bad behavior" so you can't even complain. It’s clearly the goal. Real genius stuff right there. 🙂

The grill is fired up, and the rabbit's already running through the woods 😂😂

Joseph Peterson6 said:What else are you going to do when the hot tub is empty?😁

😂😂😂

Gary Murphy2 said:... as if I'm so bored that I'd actually post my life story on a forum.😁

Look, if you're already seeing a therapist, just get to the point—tell us what the actual beef was with your husband, totally ignoring this kid for a second.
🙂

Gary Murphy2 said:Heh... he isn't exactly a kid, and she certainly isn't some seasoned veteran either... honestly, they might actually be able to learn a thing or two from one another 🙂

Gary Murphy2 said:... I'm going to need much hotter water for that 😂, though honestly, maybe the water itself is the root of all these problems ... 😕

Alright, look—it's pretty obvious you're talking about yourself here. Don't take this the wrong way, but I'm getting majorly immature vibes from you—like someone who's just had way too much downtime lately. I'm not trying to preach to you or anything, but eventually, reality is gonna hit you hard.
Unless, of course, something went seriously sideways in your marriage... 🤷

Gary Murphy2 said:Hey everyone, I need some advice here. Here is the situation:
A smart, attractive woman in her early 30s fell for a younger, shy guy. About three months ago, they were planning what should have been the most romantic day imaginable. Everything felt like something straight out of a movie—a beautiful apartment, scented candles, a jacuzzi... and most importantly, he finally decided to show up. He knew everything about her: that she was older, married, and had a child. He also knew she had decided to leave her husband to give him a real shot, which is only fair, right? The atmosphere was perfect—an NFL game playing on TV, a light drizzle outside... After talking through life, they played a little game with matches to break the ice and decide who would hit the jacuzzi first. A little later, they were both in there. It was non-stop kissing—face, neck, shoulders—for an hour or two. But then, that one thing every man secretly fears happened 🙏... things stayed strictly at the kissing stage, but honestly, that was fine. There were no expectations and no negative reactions. Afterward, they just kept talking and kissing on the sofa, and she ended up driving him home. She even gave him a kiss when she left his car. The next day... silence. No word from him. She sent a quick text just to break the ice, but since then, the silence has become deafening
. A few details about him: he’s withdrawn, shy, and has a rough past (though we all do). He doesn't act like a tough guy, but he is a great kisser
. What went wrong here? How can this be fixed, and if so, how??

Honestly, I don't see how that's "fair" at all. She basically dumped a massive weight on his shoulders by claiming she left her spouse just for him, and now he (some random guy) is supposedly "on the hook" to be with her. 🙄

Was the breakup even discussed with him beforehand? Probably not, because you guys still have nothing going on now, and back then you didn't have anything either besides some cheap flirting. You don't blow up a marriage and walk away from being a parent and a life partner just because of some flirting.

Oh, come on, what am I even implying?
You're getting seriously paranoid now.

Seriously, give me a break. Don't be ridiculous.

Look, I'm actually responding to you—even though I told myself I’d just ignore trolls like this. So, here we go:

a) I'm a human being. And because of that, I can clearly see that murdering a person is a much bigger deal than killing an animal. If that doesn't click for you, maybe go grab a dictionary and look up the definition of Homo sapiens.
b) What am I doing by "distracting from the issue"? Exactly what it sounds like—I'm distracting from it.
c) Honestly, I have no idea what kind of twisted logic led you to that conclusion, but you are completely off base. You missed the point entirely.

Oh, so *I'm* the funny one? Please. 🙄
So what, since a dog isn't Homo sapiens, we're just supposed to kill them without feeling any guilt because we aren't taking out a Homo sapiens?
And here I was thinking that murdering a Homo sapiens was actually treated differently under the law than just killing a few dogs 🤦.
Alright, Michelle Alvarez8, thanks for the distraction. Maybe now the actual authorities will finally step up and start handing out real sentences for murdering a Homo sapiens.🙄

Kevin Bailey2 said:Man, that really gets under my skin.

I was just over on the USA Today Facebook page commenting on that article about some sociopathic girl throwing puppies into the water. Absolutely twisted.

Some guy says:
Honestly, isn't it even worse when you look at what Ivo Sanders actually did to this country?

I mean, seriously, man... where the hell did you even fall from?

So, what now? Are we really going to claim one crime justifies the next?
I don't get it.

I mean, let's be real—wasn't running a concentration camp an absolutely disgusting crime?
Yep.
And that’s exactly how we end up tolerating "lesser evils," like people dumping puppies into the river.

Man, what a mess.
The sheer stupidity of some people's arguments is actually terrifying.

Every debate has its place. That’s just how it is.

If you want to argue about Ivo Sanders or WWII, go find the right thread and post it there.
Don't just jump into threads for the sake of trolling, only to end up looking like this:
Why are you guys getting so worked up? There are plenty of things out there that are way worse than this.

Of course there are worse things out there. Honestly, I’m disgusted by both. What’s the issue? Why shouldn't I be just as revolted by one as I am by the other?

Yeah, no kidding. Every single debate just ends up being about Nazis, Communists, or whatever extremist group people want to scream about.

Michelle Alvarez8 said:I don't know why, but I totally felt that personally. 😁

For me, it isn't about trying to justify one injustice a by pointing to another—it's more about trying to shine a light on much bigger issues and systemic injustices. My goal isn't to downplay injustice a at all; I just want to get people thinking about injustice b, which is honestly way worse.

Take this latest headline—puppies being dumped in a river. It's absolutely horrific on its own, sure, but it still doesn't compare to things like waterboarding and that kind of stuff. The logic behind what you said basically boils down to: "as long as we're treating humans like garbage, we don't need to feel bad about treating animals like garbage too." Personally? I think that as a civilization, we have some serious work to do regarding how we treat one another. Everything else flows from that—it's pretty obvious once you see it, right?

And who exactly are you to decide which problem is bigger or smaller? What else are you doing by shifting focus from one issue to another if you aren't justifying it?
So, what, if there's a "bigger" problem, we just ignore the smaller ones??
Like, say a woman gets raped and goes to the police to report it. Does the police department just decide, "well, she wasn't murdered, and we have much heavier cases than hers, so we won't bother"?😕

Props to you for starting this thread. Honestly, I noticed this exact same thing ages ago and it drives me absolutely nuts—it’s like they just run out of actual points to make, so they resort to this instead.