Relationship issues: Need some advice

Hey Harold Adams19, check in! Let me know how things are going on your end. Did we at least help you out a little bit? 🕺

Ana hit the jackpot when it came to finding someone who actually knows what they're talking about. 😁

So... 🤔 on January 22, 2019, she was 25 🤔 is it just because the year itself sucks that the numbers add up faster? 🤔

I suppose I am just as innocent as anyone else 😢...so, through this post, I am hoping to find someone who might be willing to give me 😍

hiddenmarlin14 said:this... 🤔 on Jan 22, 2019 she was 25 🤔 is it because shitty years count faster? 🤔

maybe she just rounded up, dude... Jan 22, 2022 is coming fast, that's 3 years, 25+3 = 28, and 28 is basically 30 😁

Larry Perez69 said:Look, I’m a saint myself😢...so I'm putting it out there: I'm looking for someone to give me some 😍

I'm officially signing onto this petition.

Grace Mitchell87 said:Maybe she just rounded up... January 22, 2022, is coming fast, which makes it 3 years. So 25 plus 3 equals 28, and 28 is basically 30. 😁

That math is way over my head. 😳Does that mean we can actually slow down time through sex? 🤔

It’s all your own fault—I mean, if you actually did anything about it, you wouldn't be worrying about being past your prime right now 🙂

hiddenmarlin14 said:Math is killing me. 😳 So you're saying we can actually slow down time by having sex? 🤔

Makes total sense. Period. 😁

If this isn't a troll, you might want to go see a therapist first.

Grace Sanders24!!!👋

Since when has this PDF been considered anything other than total garbage? 🤔

It’s always the same here—people with wild lifestyles from LeBron James's neck of the woods coming by looking for a little moral support. Nothing new. This time, we just helped this lady sort out her situation. ☕

Grace Sanders24 said:It’s always the same pattern—sexually frustrated folks from LeBron's neck of the woods drift over here looking for a bit of moral validation. Nothing ever changes. And once again, we stepped up to help this lady navigate her little predicament. ☕

I can see an influx of incels heading our way any second now... 🤦

There really is no escaping it... 🙂

Hold on, nobody has actually given her any real advice here. Personally? I say she should just relax, lay back, and close her eyes—I’m sure the guy will figure things out well enough on his own. Now, if you'll excuse me, I'm going to go troll the US internet fueled entirely by this thread.

Chloe Miller74 said:I’m calling it now: an absolute swarm of incels is coming. 🤦

There's nowhere left to run. 🙂

They're everywhere. Where would you even go? This is the end of the line. There's nowhere else to go besides getting banned from the forum entirely. ☕

dustypilot5 said:I'm 30 years old and I've still never had sex. Up until now, I've only been in short-term relationships—two months at most—because I just wasn't ready. I realize I'm older, but I didn't want to rush into anything just because of my age. Now I'm one month into a new relationship; he's sweet and interesting, but he lacks patience and doesn't want to wait. I don't know what to do. Every time I feel that surge of fear, I realize I just don't want this to happen...
Has anyone else dealt with something similar, or does anyone have any advice or perspectives to share? Thanks everyone

If you don't feel the drive for sex, there is absolutely no reason to force it. There are plenty of asexual people out there, so it might be worth seeking out someone who shares your temperament...

That said, my first recommendation would be to sit down with a therapist to explore the underlying reasons for this sexual hesitation...

Chloe Miller74 said:If you aren't feeling the urge, don't force it. There are plenty of asexual people out there, so it might be worth looking for someone who shares your vibe.

That said, my first recommendation is to see a psychologist to dig into why things have hit a standstill. It’s like trying to fix a stalled engine without checking if the fuel line is clogged; you need to find the root cause.

She might actually enjoy it once she gets going—the first time is always the hardest hurdle to clear. Personally, I'm leaning toward the more radical approach mentioned above. Your suggestion? It’s a dead end.

Walter Baker2 said:She’d probably enjoy it once she gets going, since that first hurdle is always the hardest part... personally, I'm leaning toward the more radical approach mentioned above, because frankly, your way isn't getting anyone anywhere.

I took a quick glance at the profile, and it doesn't look like a troll to me, so you all can stop messing around now...

Chloe Miller74 said:I took a quick peek at her profile. She doesn't look like a troll, so you guys can stop messing around.

I am certainly not messing around. I’m all about radical methods here. There is a deep-seated fear in her that can only be shattered by closing one's eyes and just letting go.