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Relationship issues: Need some advice

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Participants dustypilot5Harold Adams19Daniel Kelly57Robert Castillo3Austin Hughes2hiddenmarlin14Melissa Gonzalez8Joshua Perez6Walter Baker2Drew Lee9George Rivera3Kate Fox58Rachel RichardsonSarah Phillipsstormygardener93James Kern6silverwolf88
Rachel Richardson Rachel Richardson Regular
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#61 ·
stormygardener93 said:She was 25 back in 2019—now she's already 30.
I can't quite gauge how committed she is to this forum yet. 😏

Time really does fly differently.🙂
My gut tells me she’ll be stuck at 30 for the next three decades. 🤣
Nicole Myers said:I told her right away—she came to the right place for advice.
My advice to her? No sex before marriage. Don't give in. 👍

Sex? That should strictly be for making children.🙂
One wrong look and it's all over. 🙂

Maybe wrap yourself in three layers of blankets, just to be safe? 🤔
Walter Baker2 Walter Baker2 Newcomer
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#62 ·
Kate Fox58 said:Any woman with half a brain knows how to play hard to get.
Kate Fox58 Kate Fox58 Member
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#63 ·
Walter Baker2 said:

Oh, totally.
They hide their age, Photoshop every single photo, and basically act like a private investigator whenever they're dating or married.
There’s plenty more where that came from, but I probably shouldn't get you guys all paranoid. ☕
Harold Adams19 Harold Adams19 Regular
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#64 ·
Nicole Myers said:Whether it’s an original or just a cheap knockoff, she basically ran for the hills the second she actually read some advice.

I mean, the advice was pretty spot on. Considering where she went to look for help in the first place... 😬
James Kern6 James Kern6 Newcomer
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#65 ·
Come on, stop trolling. What, you think some random guy from a news site is gonna come save you? If you're actually that scared, just tell the guy to go join a middle school class or something lol
Kate Fox58 Kate Fox58 Member
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#66 ·
James Kern6 said:Come on, don't troll. What's the point of someone from the site helping you? If you're scared, just tell the guy you want to go to night school, haha. MS

James Kern6, there are plenty of helpers here.
Top-tier professionals.
Total experts.
James Kern6 James Kern6 Newcomer
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#67 ·
my sweet love, those guys bragging about themselves don't have a clue... love you, MS
James Kern6 James Kern6 Newcomer
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#68 ·
sex addicts lol she's terrified
Kate Fox58 Kate Fox58 Member
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#69 ·
James Kern6 said:player vibes haha she's just being cautious

I guess any smart woman stays on her guard against those players. ☕
Walter Baker2 Walter Baker2 Newcomer
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#70 ·
Kate Fox58 said:Any woman with half a brain knows you have to stay on high alert when dealing with a serial flirt. ☕

Don't give me that nonsense; every decent woman deserves to be bedded.
Kate Fox58 Kate Fox58 Member
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#71 ·
Walter Baker2 said:Stop messing around, every decent woman needs to be slept with

Guys like that are a pretty dangerous breed.
Maybe I'll dive into the details some other time. 🥳
James Kern6 James Kern6 Newcomer
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#72 ·
Alright, Kate Fox58, give me the other outputdiv>
James Kern6 James Kern6 Newcomer
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#73 ·
She sounds pretty nervous about the whole sex thing in the intro, lol... I mean, the guy might just bail on her at that rate. MS
silverwolf88 silverwolf88 Newcomer
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#74 ·
dustypilot5 said:I’m 30 years old and I’m still a virgin. Up until now, I’ve only been in short-term relationships—maybe two months max—because I just wasn't ready. I know I'm older, but I didn't want to rush things just because of my age. Now I'm one month into a relationship; he’s sweet and interesting, but he has zero patience and doesn't want to wait. I don't know what to do. Every time I feel that wave of fear, I realize I just don't want this to happen.
Has anyone dealt with something similar, or does anyone have advice/thoughts? Thanks everyone

Does he dress broad and try to act charming to women, or is he just some kind of lady-killer?

Look, if he doesn't respect your boundaries or care about your sense of security, my advice is simple: cut him loose. Let him go find some other woman who's eager to please him.
Walter Baker2 Walter Baker2 Newcomer
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#75 ·
She played you, plain and simple. I mean, who hangs out with someone if they aren't looking for intimacy? If I were in your shoes, I’d have called it quits by the fifth date.
silverwolf88 silverwolf88 Newcomer
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#76 ·
Walter Baker2 said:Well, she played you—if she isn't interested in sex, why stay? I’d walk away by the fifth date.

Look, whether a woman is terrified of getting pregnant, worried about health issues, or maybe she just doesn't want her kid looking like that guy because she's holding out for someone who actually fits her type—whatever the reason,

it's her right.

It's better to call it quits now than to stay and end up feeling cheated, which just leads to resentment later. Honestly, we wouldn't see nearly as many failed marriages if guys wore leggings and bailed the moment a woman wasn't interested—especially since they could just move on to the next one. Out of a hundred women, maybe one is "the one," and then the relationship actually works. That's just the law of large numbers; finding the right person right out of the gate is rare. And given this era where women are all in leggings and men aren't, finding a real match feels almost impossible. For a guy, it’s probably best to just cycle through different women and enjoy the variety while he can. Since women aren't approaching men first—mostly because they aren't interested in guys wearing leggings—it shows they don't have a deep need for men, just an occasional one when it suits them. But once a woman *does* decide she needs someone, there’s a slim chance any guy will reject her, especially since guys like that are incredibly rare in this fashion cycle where it's basically just women in leggings.

So, I'm definitely on your side: keep moving from woman to woman until you find the right one (once you start wearing leggings 😁).

As for me? If a woman writes me off, she's dead to me. On to the next.

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