Inlays, Onlays, or Overlays: Which is best?

I'm curious if anyone here has actually gone through this—has anyone had work done, and honestly, were you happy with the results?

Also, does anyone have a solid recommendation for a dentist in New York City who’s actually good at doing onlays? I’ve heard people say that most dentists aren't great at them and would much rather push expensive crowns on you instead.