Chat US: For True Americans Only, Vol. 2

quietcrane63 said:We all went through high school when we were at our absolute peak horniness levels, and the only female contact most of us had was with cousins. Honestly, back then, I wouldn't have even blinked if they’d made a move. But hey, in my defense, everything that moved was fair game during those years.🤣

Not me. You? Did he just turn around and slap your ass?😁

It wasn't actually high school, though—we were both 23 at the time. I'm actually six days older than her, and while all that drama was going down over those few months, I was seeing her cousin, who basically "set me up" with her. Now, she’s complaining about me to her, retelling the whole story like she's entering a relationship, while the cousin just sits there listening and reporting back to her, all while flirting with me behind her back.🤣

As for the other question—sex without kissing—well, this girl calls me over to her apartment on our second date, and things start getting heavy. We’re making out from the dining room table to the kitchen counter, and eventually, we end up in the bedroom with her completely naked, yet I haven't kissed her once. The reason I didn't kiss her is honestly too embarrassing to even write down, and it had nothing to do with her.

So, there she is, standing there totally naked, expecting things to go down... and I just get up, put my clothes back on, and leave.🤣

The funniest part is that the whole buildup was incredibly hot for her, so she was practically counting the minutes until we could see each other again... and man, that girl had the best body I've ever seen in my life.

We want to give a huge shout-out to latica for dropping another three junfers on the off ☕

Man, what the hell happened to this thread? 🤦

Alexander Adams94 said:No way, she’s actually someone I used to flirt with back when I first started hanging out on this forum. She used to call Gojz "slomiti žena."🤣

Woody is honestly the only smart woman I’ve ever flirted with. Usually, my type is just based on whether they're hot or if they happen to be into me. When I look back at all the women I've flirted with both online and in person, Woody is the only one where I can actually give genuine praise for her intellect—even if most people won't admit it because they think she's a liar and a troublemaker. But she actually has an intellectual foundation that allows for actual, substantive conversation.

Right now, I’m flirting with a woman at work who’s about 40. She’s looking a little worn down and has put on a few pounds, but you can tell by her face that she was a total bitch when she was younger. She has these intense eyes, and you can just see that she was absolutely ruthless back when she was 25. To be honest, she still has a pretty wicked look about her, though she’s definitely showing some age and a bit of physical decline. I’m into her mostly because she's probably going through a divorce and is acutely aware of how old she is; if she were still around 28, she’d probably look down on me as some lowlife.

🤣

That 40-year-old doesn't sound bad at all to me... tapas, pay attention to how women in their 42+ bracket look☕ they're pure sex. Why would you even bother with a 25-year-old? ☕

I mean, look, how a woman looks, how she carries herself, the way her mind works, and what she’s into behind closed doors—that’s really what matters.
Honestly, whether she's 25 or 40 doesn't even cross my mind if all those other things click perfectly. 🙂

That's just if you're looking for something casual, I guess. But if we're talking about something more serious, like finding a partner to actually build a life and a family with, then yeah, I’d definitely be paying attention to her age.

Where on earth did 42+ come from🍿?
That’s a pretty wild number to throw out there.😳

So what's actually going down here? Who are these people🤔?

Daniel Kim15 said:What did this thread even turn into? 🤦

Dodi, hit up the night shift if you want. 🙂

Alexander Adams94 said:If you can just solve it, Nothanks.

Man, have you noticed how Gojza totally digs you because she thinks you're hot, even though she spends half her time hating on your takes? It kind of reminds me of how Tisa used to act back in the day, you know?

Haha, Nothanks.☕

Anida loves me, Dubu, and klon. I definitely remember Tisa. I actually went through something pretty similar on a US message board a few years back, just staying low-key while writing in my usual long-winded style. I ended up getting trashed by people about my looks, which was wild since they didn't even know what I looked like.

Alexander Adams94 said:Nah, it's just that you aren't hot, so there's zero point in her even talking to you.

But honestly, you're totally crushing on Hani. I bet hardly any other guy on this forum would want to break down a girl's defenses the way you'd do it with Hani. She’s gorgeous and super interesting, man, you'd be lucky to get a shot.

True enough. I can't help but wonder if Richard Sanders7 ever actually got a chance with his crush Hani—if he did, do you think he could actually play it cool, or would his instincts just take over?

Adam Lee13 said:She’s all talk, really; as soon as she feels even a little "threatened" by someone she actually likes, she just bolts...

She'll just get a sudden burst of energy, get a little worked up, and then retreat straight back into her little cave right here

Alexander Adams94 said:Niptuck. :ro fl:

Is she even still around? I seem to remember her having that long face and being all fired up as a single mom.

Rachel Palmer56 said:So what exactly is going on here? Who are these people🤔

Anida finally tackled the issue of women being disrespected on the US 🤣 ☕

Man, I honestly feel like I'm 42 all the time 🤣 But hey, I'm still young at heart ☕

Rachel Palmer56 said:Where on earth did that "42+" figure come from? :ice:
That's a pretty wild number to throw out there...

And honestly, what's even going on here? Who are all these people acting like this?

Now that I've finally gotten a decent stake in the USA market, you should probably expect things to heat up around here, Rachel Palmer56. At the end of the day, we're all in this together, right?😉

Alex Carter said:Hit up Dodi for some late-night fun if that's what you're after 5️⃣

I'm definitely picking up some major snob vibes here.
We're all cool with each other, aren't we?

George Cook31 said:It really comes down to how a woman looks, her attitude, how she thinks, and what she's into in the bedroom.
Whether she's 25 or 40 doesn't matter much as long as those other boxes are checked. 🙂

That's just for a hookup. If I were looking for something serious—like someone to actually start a family with—then yeah, age would definitely be a factor.

Same goes for the body count.🧐

Brian Howard2 said:Big thanks to latica for bringing three more newcomers to the off :ka:

Honestly, latica isn't even the one to blame for that.

wanderingheron9 said:I’m picking up some major snobbery here.
We think we’re all that, don't we? Right?

No, you definitely don't. 😬 Honestly, your attitudes are starting to stink—but look, I've never felt the need to spit on you. Your presence and your rigid little ideas don't threaten me. If I'm not feeling a discussion or the group, I just walk away. Clearly, this guy isn't feeling it here, so I invited him. If you love the nightlife so much, you would've shown up to drone on by yourself anyway, wouldn't you? Yeah.

Adam Lee13 said:It wasn't exactly high school drama. We were both 23. I'm actually six days older than her. During those few months when everything was going down, I was seeing her cousin, who basically set us up. Now, this girl is complaining about me and telling her cousin all about how we’re dating, while the cousin listens and reports back to me—all while flirting with me behind her back.🤣

As for the other question (sex without kissing), she invited me over to her apartment on our second date. Things escalated pretty fast; we went from the dining room table to the kitchen counter and finally ended up in bed. She was completely naked, yet I hadn't kissed her once. The reason why I didn't kiss her is honestly too embarrassing to write down, and it had nothing to do with her.

So there she is, standing there naked, expecting things to happen... and I just get up, put my clothes on, and leave.🤣

The funny thing is, the whole buildup was incredibly intense for her, and she couldn't wait to see me again. Honestly, she had the best body I've ever seen.

You aren't embarrassed to admit you're screwing over a relative?😁 Let me guess, you skipped brushing your teeth and ate way too much garlic?😁

Richard Sanders7 said:Anida fixed the whole issue with women being insulted on the chat US 🤣 ☕

Damn, I spent the whole time thinking I was 42 🤣 But I'm still young ☕

Who was actually insulting people, these guys? And wanderingheron9, come on, he's one of our own, he wouldn't be out here disrespecting women. ☕

Hell yeah, if a woman being 42 makes her a target for jokes, why shouldn't a guy be fair game at 41? ☕

wanderingheron9 said:Now that I've secured my stake in the USA, expect more action here, Rachel Palmer56. This is my house just as much as yours. 😉

It's your house because you lived here. 🙂

I'm not asking about you, I'm asking who these people are that want to act up?
Why don't they go to MK? You already told them there's nothing for them here. 🍿

wanderingheron9 said:I guess my body count is pretty much the same, too.🧐

And how exactly are you planning on finding that out? It’s not like you can just go around tasting someone to get a sense of their body count, I guess. 🤣
It’s kind of ironic when you think about it, I guess, because I feel like women will be totally upfront and honest if you're just some guy they're seeing casually on the side, but then the second they actually want something serious with you, they might start being a bit cagey about their past. It's probably just because they don't want you looking at them differently or thinking they were some total player, you know?

Rachel Palmer56 said:Who exactly was being insulting here? And wanderingheron9? Come on, he’s one of our own, I highly doubt he’d ever disrespect a woman.☕

Honestly, if a woman being 42 makes her a target for comments, why wouldn't a guy being 41 be fair game too?☕

I didn't see anyone attacking women there, other than just women critiquing other women.☕

41 < 42 ☕

Richard Sanders7 said:I didn't really see much in the way of women being insulted there, unless you count women taking at each other. ☕

41<42 ☕

I mean, if you ask me, it feels like women over there insult men just as much as their side does, it's just that the outcry about the other thing gets way more attention, I guess.
And honestly, it seems like women actually kind of enjoy trading insults even while they're busy complimenting one another. 🤣

Why would anyone even bother insulting someone else?🤔

41=42☕it doesn't change a thing☕

George Cook31 said:I honestly feel like women over there judge guys just as much as the men do, it’s just that the drama surrounding the ladies gets way more amplified.
And let’s be real, you’ll see women tearing each other down even while they’re busy showering one another with compliments. 🤣

Nah, I don't think so. Women over there go full ad hominem constantly—it's basically their whole modus operandi at this point, it’s become totally normalized. Men usually just vent about women based on some generalized bad experiences they've had... but for some reason, certain women take those posts personally and then the whole swarm of "ladies" starts launching attacks.

I can't even begin to process this right now. Honestly, just looking at it makes me want to go grab a massive burger and stare blankly at a wall for three hours. It’s just one of those things, isn't it? One minute you think everything is fine, and then... boom. Absolute chaos. I'm sitting here trying to make sense of it all, but my brain is basically just static at this point. Just total, unadulterated nonsense. kaže:
Are you seriously not even a little bit embarrassed to admit you basically threw him under the bus with your own family?😁

Man, you just write it so crudely that it ends up looking like total garbage.😁

Adam Lee13 said:I don't think that's quite right, honestly. It feels like women over there just resort to ad hominem attacks constantly—it’s almost become their standard way of doing things, I guess. Then you have guys who mostly just vent negative opinions about women based on their own personal baggage, and for some reason, certain women see those posts, take them personally, and then start launching these massive attacks against everyone.

Is that what you mean, like when you say something that hits a little too close to home for her, so she catches you off guard, starts insulting you, and then later tries to act like you're the problem, even though, if you look at it objectively, she was actually ten times worse than you were?
I've definitely dealt with people like that before. 🙂