What do you do when you're grabbing coffee alone at a bar?

I’m just sitting here at the local Doberman dealership waiting on a friend who’s running late to pick up my car after his mechanics finished the repairs.

It’s kind of funny, I spend so much time scrolling through forums and Instagram, but looking around at everyone else lately, it feels like I'm the only one actually flying solo...

Does that make me weird?😁

Dear friends 🤣

shadowsurfer89 said:Hey there, everyone🤣

this isn't really about that🤣

they're playing country music on the radio🤦‍♀️

So, does anyone know if there are any cute waiters working here? 🍿

Exactly, but let’s be clear—it isn’t because you’re alone, it’s because you’re citing Instagram as your source.

So, just out of curiosity, how much did those mechanics actually charge you for the repair?

Susan Sullivan6 said:Is there anyone actually cute working the floor there? 🍿

Honestly, even if I did see someone, everyone is wearing masks anyway.🤣

quietviper20 said:Yeah, but it’s not because you're alone, it's just because you mentioned Instagram.

So, how much did the mechanics end up charging you for the repair?

Well, I did say Instagram, I'm just being honest here.

It was actually a buddy of mine doing the work, so he didn't charge me a dime.

wiredfox said:I mean, I don't think so, everyone's wearing masks anyway🤣

That look in their eyes gives them away...🙂

Honestly, they probably haven't slept since yesterday because they've been wired. 🤣

wiredfox said:It’s practically an unwritten rule—I’m just stating the obvious here.

So, this was a friend of mine, and apparently, they didn't even charge me for the labor.

Oh, sure, and I suppose you get a free meal at McDonald's too?

Well, isn't that just wonderful; sounds like you only paid for the parts.

Susan Sullivan6 said:That sparkle in their eyes really gives away the whole 🙂

Honestly, they probably haven't slept and have been on something since sunrise. 🤣

They’re alright, I guess; at least I’ve got some heart in my coffee, which is always the most impor🙂

wiredfox said:They’re fine, honestly. At least I've got some heart in my coffee, which is always the most impo🙂

Did you get those cookies? 😁

quietviper20 said:Are you seriously out here calling it "McMekie" for McDonald's?

Sounds like you had a great time then, assuming you only paid for the individual ingredients instead of the actual meal.

No, people actually call it the McDouble, man. Calling it "McMekie" just sounds silly.

Honestly, how old are you? I feel like I’m having a conversation with my mother right now.

Susan Sullivan6 said:Did you get any cookies? 😁

I got two cookies;😁 though I'm not actually eating them.😁

Come on, wiredfox, stop being so dramatic. I honestly don't know how your self-esteem works if you're actually questioning whether this is weird 😵 I really thought you were at least some kind of confident woman 🐔
Who cares if you're sitting at a table by yourself? You aren't begging anyone to buy your coffee 🥳

I'm trying to cut back on coffee just so my heart rate doesn't go through the roof

It seems to be working so far

wiredfox said:No, you idiot, it’s pronounced "magic," not "megic."

Honestly, how old are you? I feel like I’m having a conversation with my mother here.

So, by that logic, does Instagram make someone an intellectual, while Insta-gramming makes them a moron?

I'm nearly 40, so I'm not quite sure if I'm qualified to be your mother, but how old are you actually?

hiddenmarlin14 said:Come on, wiredfox, stop being so dramatic. Honestly, I can't even imagine having such low self-esteem that you'd actually wonder if it's weird 😵 I always just assumed you were one of those super confident women 🐔
Who cares if you're sitting at a table by yourself? You aren't begging anyone to buy you a coffee, right? 🥳

Well, I guess I messed up then; I'm just not used to things being this way, I guess.

quietviper20 said:So Instagram users are intellectuals and everyone else is just an idiot?

I'm pushing 40 myself, so I'm not sure if I could actually play the role of a mom to you, but how old are you actually?

You write like you're much older than you are, but I'm 39 myself

you certainly seem like a lively one, though.

That’s not "losing." You're just sipping your coffee, relaxing, scrolling through your phone, reading the news, or just people-watching. It's a vibe.
I do the exact same thing. And honestly? There’s zero shame in it. Solo traveling is actually one of the best ways to see the world and meet new people.

wiredfox said:You're talking like you've got more years on you than I do—I'm 39.

But regardless, you certainly are a bubbly one.

Well then, I suppose we're practically peers. Only difference is, I don't speak "Instagram," nor am I particularly soft-spoken.
I am cheerful, clearly; though it seems I'll have to brush up on my emoji usage just to prove the point.

Anyway, what’s the hardest part for you when you're grabbing coffee solo? Is it the boredom, or is it something else entirely?