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Hey, fellow CIA members, I wanted to open this thread so you can all weigh in on Deedy...
I'm looking for your honest thoughts and experiences with him, whether they're good or bad.
Thanks in advance!
I'll kick things off.
The thing is, Deedy’s whole attitude and the way he handles moderation just doesn't mesh with the vibe or the banter we have here at the CIA, and honestly, that’s exactly why everything is blowing up right now. This tension has been simmering under the surface for ages, but now it's finally boiling over. In a group like ours, guys joke around constantly—that's just how it works—and nobody holds actual grudges, but Deedy is different because you can't even poke fun at him without him nuking your post... and if you actually manage to annoy him, he comes after you personally, which is exactly what we're seeing play out today. He’ll delete your posts for the tiniest, most insignificant reasons, even clearing out flagged stuff just to make it look like nothing ever happened. I’ve already complained about him here a few times because if you dare ask him, "Deedy, why are you deleting my posts?" on the main board—which is a legitimate question about moderation and shouldn't be treated like some high-stakes legal inquiry—he won't just give you a straight, reasonable answer like any sane mod would... instead, he just wipes your comment and hands you a strike. So then you end up coming over to the complaint section because you can't actually talk to him about it, but complaining feels useless because there's always some nonsense excuse used to justify why he's right, and if there isn't, everyone just stays quiet. Then you get frustrated, trying to find a way to fix the injustice, so you start pushing his buttons just a little bit, and before you know it, you're buried under a mountain of strikes, but you don't even care because you're just fed up and want to see the fallout, and that's how the cycle continues... that's my experience, anyway, though I see other users going through the exact same thing.
It’s reached a point where half the sub-forum basically hates his guts because he’s managed to alienate everyone, and since he knows nobody likes him, he’s just retreated into his own little bubble, stopped joking around or interacting with people, yet he still hangs around the sub-forum constantly, just waiting for an excuse to delete a post, hand out a strike, or lock a thread, knowing damn well it'll drive you insane enough to trigger another strike. 😁
I meant to start this thread a few months ago, but it was summer and I was swamped with work. I don't have much time to reply right away, but I had to get this out there before he decides to shut down the entire sub-forum.
I'm looking for your honest thoughts and experiences with him, whether they're good or bad.
Thanks in advance!
I'll kick things off.
The thing is, Deedy’s whole attitude and the way he handles moderation just doesn't mesh with the vibe or the banter we have here at the CIA, and honestly, that’s exactly why everything is blowing up right now. This tension has been simmering under the surface for ages, but now it's finally boiling over. In a group like ours, guys joke around constantly—that's just how it works—and nobody holds actual grudges, but Deedy is different because you can't even poke fun at him without him nuking your post... and if you actually manage to annoy him, he comes after you personally, which is exactly what we're seeing play out today. He’ll delete your posts for the tiniest, most insignificant reasons, even clearing out flagged stuff just to make it look like nothing ever happened. I’ve already complained about him here a few times because if you dare ask him, "Deedy, why are you deleting my posts?" on the main board—which is a legitimate question about moderation and shouldn't be treated like some high-stakes legal inquiry—he won't just give you a straight, reasonable answer like any sane mod would... instead, he just wipes your comment and hands you a strike. So then you end up coming over to the complaint section because you can't actually talk to him about it, but complaining feels useless because there's always some nonsense excuse used to justify why he's right, and if there isn't, everyone just stays quiet. Then you get frustrated, trying to find a way to fix the injustice, so you start pushing his buttons just a little bit, and before you know it, you're buried under a mountain of strikes, but you don't even care because you're just fed up and want to see the fallout, and that's how the cycle continues... that's my experience, anyway, though I see other users going through the exact same thing.
It’s reached a point where half the sub-forum basically hates his guts because he’s managed to alienate everyone, and since he knows nobody likes him, he’s just retreated into his own little bubble, stopped joking around or interacting with people, yet he still hangs around the sub-forum constantly, just waiting for an excuse to delete a post, hand out a strike, or lock a thread, knowing damn well it'll drive you insane enough to trigger another strike. 😁
I meant to start this thread a few months ago, but it was summer and I was swamped with work. I don't have much time to reply right away, but I had to get this out there before he decides to shut down the entire sub-forum.