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I’ve been sitting here debating whether I should even bother addressing you all, but after witnessing the way Johabi was treated, I simply can't stay silent.
I believe I have a right to speak up since I’m a registered member of this American forum, which means whatever happens here affects me directly.
A forum should be a place for exchanging ideas, not a playground for insults, and I’m sure you moderators agree—it’s literally written in the rules.
So why on earth are you allowing this one user, nausikaja123, to run wild day after day? The constant insults, the humiliation, the mockery—why is this being tolerated?
It was because of her relentless spamming and verbal abuse that my thread, "He’s married, I’m married...", got shut down. This woman was nothing but a provocateur, and when a few of us finally stood our ground and pushed back against her nonsense, what happened? You locked the thread, effectively punishing me and everyone else who actually had the guts to answer her. She just couldn't handle someone else being the center of attention, so she kept throwing around words like "desperate" just to get under my skin. And it wasn't just me; Joshua earned that same label multiple times too. It's hilarious watching this self-righteous saint criticize a wannabe cheater—which is exactly what I am, and something I don't even hide on this site.
People actually tried to step in; several users reached out to her, both directly and indirectly, telling her to leave me alone (Joshua, Sinatra, Justforfun...).
So, you closed the thread citing "spam." But did you penalize her for the actual insults? And don't you dare try to tell me it doesn't concern me. It concerns me deeply if I'm the one being targeted by her vitriol.
And it didn't stop there. Even after the thread was locked, she wouldn't quit.
She was tearing people apart in the Chat—calling people "lost souls," saying things like, "not only am I stupid, but I'm crazy too..." But that wasn't even the peak. Your own moderator, Eowyn FTW, was right there in the chat, and she didn't even bother deleting that post until it was officially reported. Was nausikaja123 punished for that? Did she face any consequences for calling me stupid and crazy? Or did she walk away scot-free? And why didn't the moderator intervene before a report was even filed?
I deserve an answer to that.
Moving on.
Then there are the provocations over on Lies, specifically in the "Best Sex Music" thread, where she posts some Pokémon song with a comment like, "The best way to catch Dedach (grandpa)." Again, it's aimed at me. Did you sanction that? Is that supposed to be sex music? Isn't that clearly OffTopic? I realize she probably hates me and my thread because she can't vent her frustrations anymore, but how much longer are you going to tolerate this? Where do you draw the line? How many little jabs can one person throw before they actually face repercussions?
The other day, she's on ŽUD in a thread titled "Should we let him go?", calling a fellow member a "psychiatric patient." I see she got a warning for that. Seriously? Isn't that grounds for a ban? That is straight-up harassment.
Then I see that Johabi, who spent the whole time defending themselves—perhaps more aggressively than me or anyone else—gets banned. Meanwhile, Mrs. nausikaja123 gets absolutely nothing.
How is that even possible, I ask you? I want an explanation. Thanks.
I believe I have a right to speak up since I’m a registered member of this American forum, which means whatever happens here affects me directly.
A forum should be a place for exchanging ideas, not a playground for insults, and I’m sure you moderators agree—it’s literally written in the rules.
So why on earth are you allowing this one user, nausikaja123, to run wild day after day? The constant insults, the humiliation, the mockery—why is this being tolerated?
It was because of her relentless spamming and verbal abuse that my thread, "He’s married, I’m married...", got shut down. This woman was nothing but a provocateur, and when a few of us finally stood our ground and pushed back against her nonsense, what happened? You locked the thread, effectively punishing me and everyone else who actually had the guts to answer her. She just couldn't handle someone else being the center of attention, so she kept throwing around words like "desperate" just to get under my skin. And it wasn't just me; Joshua earned that same label multiple times too. It's hilarious watching this self-righteous saint criticize a wannabe cheater—which is exactly what I am, and something I don't even hide on this site.
People actually tried to step in; several users reached out to her, both directly and indirectly, telling her to leave me alone (Joshua, Sinatra, Justforfun...).
So, you closed the thread citing "spam." But did you penalize her for the actual insults? And don't you dare try to tell me it doesn't concern me. It concerns me deeply if I'm the one being targeted by her vitriol.
And it didn't stop there. Even after the thread was locked, she wouldn't quit.
She was tearing people apart in the Chat—calling people "lost souls," saying things like, "not only am I stupid, but I'm crazy too..." But that wasn't even the peak. Your own moderator, Eowyn FTW, was right there in the chat, and she didn't even bother deleting that post until it was officially reported. Was nausikaja123 punished for that? Did she face any consequences for calling me stupid and crazy? Or did she walk away scot-free? And why didn't the moderator intervene before a report was even filed?
I deserve an answer to that.
Moving on.
Then there are the provocations over on Lies, specifically in the "Best Sex Music" thread, where she posts some Pokémon song with a comment like, "The best way to catch Dedach (grandpa)." Again, it's aimed at me. Did you sanction that? Is that supposed to be sex music? Isn't that clearly OffTopic? I realize she probably hates me and my thread because she can't vent her frustrations anymore, but how much longer are you going to tolerate this? Where do you draw the line? How many little jabs can one person throw before they actually face repercussions?
The other day, she's on ŽUD in a thread titled "Should we let him go?", calling a fellow member a "psychiatric patient." I see she got a warning for that. Seriously? Isn't that grounds for a ban? That is straight-up harassment.
Then I see that Johabi, who spent the whole time defending themselves—perhaps more aggressively than me or anyone else—gets banned. Meanwhile, Mrs. nausikaja123 gets absolutely nothing.
How is that even possible, I ask you? I want an explanation. Thanks.