wanderingpanther68
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joined Jan 2023
I’ve also experienced something from this doctor that I have never encountered in my entire life from any other physician—in fact, everyone else has always been perfectly polite, nothing but praise
from all the doctors and specialists I’ve visited over the years. 👍 .. and I should point out that I don't go running to the clinic like some people do when nothing is actually wrong with them..
I am truly not that kind of patient, nor do I care to be; I visit the dentist more often than I see actual doctors, if anything.
So, I ended up in the Emergency Room because I was dealing with intense pain in my ear and head, and the ENT specialist, Jane Smith, actually told me that she felt disgusted just looking at me. I was left in total shock. I think I’ll be heading to the Director of Health Center in the coming days, because she claims my condition is purely psychological and tells me to find another doctor; she says seeing me "disgusts" her, and she was incredibly rude and abrasive. I should mention that I’ve only seen her twice in my life; I didn't even want to see her. The first time, they sent me to her department straight from the ER, and the second time, my primary doctor gave me a referral for urgent care.. I didn't even want to go to her because she was unpleasant the very first time.. what kind of ethics is that? I’m really not exaggerating here—even when I’m in pain, I don't usually run to the doctor unless the symptoms haven't cleared up for months, and this has been hanging on for four months now. It wouldn't
let up, and she wouldn't even perform an exam until
at the very end, once I insisted and tried my best to explain the symptoms. She finally palpated the ear where I had a piercing that had been pierced multiple times, suggesting there might be a granuloma trapped inside. When she touched that area, the pain was intense and radiated through my whole ear.. even my head and lymph nodes are aching from this granuloma. She prescribed an antibiotic ointment with cortico-steroids, and when I mentioned I had already used Betrion, she snapped that she didn't care at all, and handed me a referral for an outpatient follow-up next week.. if I hadn't calmed down and tried to approach her in a nice, polite manner, she wouldn't have even spotted that granuloma or noted the possibility of a foreign object being stuck inside. Everything has closed up, and they say the only way to clear it is surgically if this ointment doesn't work. Everything else I've ever dealt with lasted maybe two to four weeks, but this has been hurting for four months, which means there is a physical cause! How can she claim it's psychological? It's HORRIBLE. That’s exactly what my sister was told—that it was all in her head—until they discovered she had a severe case of myasthenia gravis and she’s been bedridden for two and a half years... so there you have it. It seems whenever they don't know what's happening initially, the easiest thing to do is say "it's psychological" and wash their hands of it.
I don't blame any other doctor; everyone has been wonderful to me except for this one. I don't care if she's having a bad day; that's no excuse for such behavior—you wouldn't act like that at a local farmer's market. Someone is clearly protecting her.
One more thing: another guy was sent from the ER as well, right after me in the queue. While we were waiting in the waiting room, he was typing on his phone with his girlfriend, joking around and laughing... can you imagine that someone is in that much pain and would be joking around? Perhaps she insulted and humiliated him too, simply because his situation wasn't deemed "100% urgent."
Once I get this all sorted out, I simply have to report this doctor, because I haven't experienced treatment like this even in the worst dive bars, let alone from an ENT specialist.
There is a younger doctor there, and honestly, everyone else has always been kind; this really caught me off guard. Her nurse was pleasant and professional, but this woman is the absolute bottom of the barrel, a real piece of work
if I have to put it that way.