rowdyfalcon35 said:Hey. I won't send you any pictures because it looks honestly horrific, and I don't want to traumatize people when I already have to deal with looking at this mess in the mirror myself. Basically, imagine Michael Jackson's nose, then look at it from the side and imagine it twice as thin and sunken—that's what mine looks like. They told me today it’s just going to get more sunken as this indentation grows. I need urgent surgery, but they won't operate on me because the idiot broke my entire nose; he basically shortened all the bones. 😢
I'll handle the surgery in Washington, D.C., either at Vinogradski or Mercy Hospital. If I had just gone there immediately, this wouldn't have happened... I can't forgive myself.
Redlady, reading this breaks my heart. Since you don't have the cash for a new procedure, my advice is to absolutely SUE this guy for what he did to you.
A lot of lawyers, once they see the results of his handiwork, will agree to take the case just for a contingency fee without asking for money upfront.
Sue him for enough money to fly to the USA and see a top-tier specialist who can actually fix what this guy destroyed. Because seriously, this is awful.
Whatever you do, don't just let it end like this, forgetting his mistakes while searching for others to fix them. You see, hospitals aren't crazy enough to clean up the messes made by some private practitioner who ruined someone's nose.
It isn't right for you to just forget and forgive him. I'm a believer and I'm all for forgiveness, but not in this case—this guy disfigured you and basically wrecked your health.
Don't lose sight of this or just move on to someone else. While you're waiting for your nose to heal, find a lawyer and tell them what happened; plenty of them work on commission.
Our legal system is a disaster, but damn it, in a case like this, I think they should definitely rule in your favor and make him pay decent damages.
Then you grab plane tickets from $2000 to the States and book an appointment with a world-class doctor who can actually help you.
THERE IS TOO MUCH EVIL IN THIS COUNTRY GOING UNPUNISHED! If that guy doesn't know how to do his job, why the hell is he even doing it?
Screw a bunch of successful surgeries when just one single mistake can ruin a person's life! And if he messes up that badly, he has to answer for his "crime."
Trust me, that guy makes plenty enough to pay you a massive settlement.
What's a few thousand dollars to him to fix things in the States?
Find a lawyer, try to settle out of court first, and if they won't, then go all the way. He has to be held accountable! Who else is going to do it if not the person who caused it?
He surely pulls in $6,000 a month easily, so he can afford to pay for the crap he pulled.
He won't go broke over this.
Do not let his empty excuses and platitudes about how "everything is fine" get to you.
If he won't admit his mistake nicely, make him admit it by force. And don't let his ego or arrogance shake you.
And guys like that definitely have weaknesses, believe me. Let him answer for his mistakes, and if he can't fix it himself, let him leave it to someone who actually knows what they're doing.
He clearly isn't a specialist, given how disgusting he's being toward his own patient and how he refuses to grasp what he's done (or rather, plays dumb, which is the easiest thing to do).