Best anti-decubitus mattresses?

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I originally joined this forum hoping to get some "firsthand" advice, but I ended up starting a whole new thread because whenever I try to chime in on the existing ones, it feels like I’m shouting into a void and nobody even notices me.🤷Anyway, here is what’s going on. My dad has been battling Parkinson's for about 20 years now, and he’s been disabled for five. We have to use a lift to move him—which is an absolute beast of a machine🙏—and he can only manage about ten steps if he uses his walker (my mom calls it her "little helper"🙂). Then, three months ago, things took a turn for the worse when he had a bowel obstruction and had to undergo surgery, which also meant they had to remove his spleen.🙂 While he was stuck in the ICU for a few days, he ended up developing a pressure sore. It started as a tiny little spot and turned into a massive crater, and honestly, it sounds insane, but the crater keeps shrinking back down into a small wound only to reopen again later.👍We immediately went out and bought an anti-decubitus mattress, and now the insurance company finally sent us our benefits check and told us we can choose between either a ROHO (that foam-style cushion with the little air cells that deflate) or the Excel 5000 (an alternating pressure air mattress that comes with its own compressor). I am dying to know if anyone here has actually used these things and could please share their experience? I really need to know what works.

Another thing I’m stuck on is the whole catheter situation. Joe had never needed a permanent one until about three months ago, but we ended up keeping it in after he left the hospital because of that pressure sore he developed. Now that the sore on his backside seems to be finally healing up, you’d think pulling the catheter would be the easy next step, but it’s clearly not that simple. I’m constantly worrying about whether his bladder is actually emptying all the way out so we don't end up dealing with some nasty bacterial infection. I keep hearing horror stories about people having all sorts of reactions—like blood in their urine or constant stinging—so I really need to know what specific red flags I should be watching for, and more importantly, what's considered "normal" so I don't panic every time something feels slightly off. P.S. He dealt with some kind of urinary bacteria recently—they told us it was pretty standard—and he was on antibiotics for two weeks.

When it comes to questions about mattresses and catheters, you really need to get an answer directly from your dad's primary care physician. He’s the one who knows his medical needs best.
I'm not entirely sure what the specific insurance coverage looks like for these kinds of mattresses, but if I were in your shoes, I would absolutely insist on a pressure-relief mattress with an integrated compressor. Honestly, I just hope you've been set up with a hydraulic hospital bed; trying to manage those two pieces of equipment alongside the lift you mentioned is basically a mission impossible without them. 👍

If the hospital or insurance won't budge on getting you what you need, reach out to the Hospice Friends Association. They keep this kind of gear in stock and frequently approve equipment for patients in your father's situation.

I know high-end mattresses aren't cheap, and I'm not sure what the actual market rates are right now.

We actually found a workaround. We went straight to a foam manufacturer and bought a single block of foam cut to bed size—about 16 inches thick. It worked perfectly for us and saved a ton of money. We picked ours up near a factory off the Potomac in New York City, but you'll have to scout around to find a local supplier.

Ah, you already picked it up? My bad, I didn't finish reading the thread... It is absolutely critical to monitor for pressure sores and stay on top of wound care.

Amy Ross39 said:I know those mattresses are pricey, and I’m not sure about the specialized ones.

We actually found a workaround. We went straight to a foam manufacturer and bought a slab of foam roughly the size of a bed, about 15 inches thick. It worked wonders and cost us a fraction of the price. We picked it up near the Potomac in New York City, but you'll have to hunt around to find a supplier in your area.

Standard foam isn't even in the same league as a medical-grade anti-decubitus mattress. Those things are engineered from the ground up with specific materials designed specifically for pressure relief. You can't just swap one for the other.

I picked up that mattress for my aunt, but the motor won't stop buzzing. It’s from a German brand. One lady I spoke with mentioned that when she was at a nursing home over in Germany, it was perfectly quiet. It feels like they send the lower-quality stuff here to America. Then again, others just say, "Be grateful you even have one of those," which really shows how much some people are struggling. In those high-end assisted living facilities, they supposedly just toss a blanket or a towel over the compressor, totally oblivious to the fact that it could overheat and break. But since the nurses there aren't the ones paying the bills, they don't seem to care—they just hand out some pills and call it a day.