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Harold Ramos67 Harold Ramos67 Newcomer
3 messages
joined Jul 2009
#761 ·
If anyone happens to know anything about this medication, please share. I'd really appreciate some insight.
First things first—what everyone actually wants to know is how to get their hands on the medication.
Harold Ramos67 Harold Ramos67 Newcomer
3 messages
joined Jul 2009
#762 ·
The tumor was diagnosed at an inoperable stage. Despite the family's insistence, they went ahead with surgery anyway, which managed to remove some of the tumor tissue. The prognosis isn't looking good...

Mostly, we’d be willing to try just about anything—some new drug in clinical trials, bioenergy, maybe even some folk remedy—regardless of what the data says. At this point, there isn't much time left, unfortunately, and we really have nothing left to lose.
rustyangler7 rustyangler7 Newcomer
7 messages
joined Sep 2009
#763 ·
Greetings, everyone.
My little cousin, who is 17 months old, had a high fever, excessive drooling, a cough, and a rash covering his body and throat before he was admitted to the hospital. At night, he struggled to sleep, tossing and turning restlessly in bed. By tomorrow, he won't even be able to support himself on his feet—only on his knees. He is currently being treated with intravenous antibiotics three times a day for four days.
All tests on his vital organs came back normal. He’s responding well to the antibiotics; he seems cheerful, eating, and sleeping. He reacts when I touch him, pulls his legs toward himself, and wiggles his legs and toes, though he still can't quite stand on his own.
His sedimentacija was 76.
Angela Wright Angela Wright Regular
731 messages
joined Feb 2007
#764 ·
Harold Ramos67 said:The tumor was diagnosed at an inoperable stage. Despite the family's intense pressure, they pushed ahead with surgery anyway, and they managed to excise a portion of the tumor tissue. Even so, the prognosis remains grim...

Honestly, we’d probably try anything—whether it’s some experimental drug in clinical trials, bioenergy, or even a folk remedy. It doesn't matter what the previous results were; the truth is, we're running out of time, and frankly, we have nothing left to lose.

You can bleed your bank account dry and absolutely exhaust someone who desperately needs peace and dignity. Watch your step out there, because most of what you’ll run into are nothing more than charlatans. They don't give a damn about the patient; they're just looking for any way to squeeze every last cent out of them.
Brain tumors—whether we're talking malignant types like astrocytoma, glioblastoma, or gliosarcoma—always come with a grim prognosis. But listen, just because the statistics say one thing doesn't mean you have to be a slave to those survival averages. You don't get to define your own ceiling based on a spreadsheet. I know people who have been living with this diagnosis for years, fighting through it using conventional medicine while simultaneously overhaulng their entire lifestyle, especially when it comes to diet. If you want to dive deeper into how to take control, I highly recommend picking up this book. David Servan Schreiber's "Against Cancer."I’m a doctor myself, and I was once staring down a brain tumor diagnosis. Fast forward 17 years, and I’ve been in remission the whole time. There is some incredibly fascinating insight here that will show you the right way to navigate the fight against this brutal disease.

rustyangler7 said:Hey everyone.
My seventeen-month-old cousin was a mess before he ended up in the hospital. He had a massive fever, was drooling constantly, coughing, and broke out in this rash all over his body and throat. At night, he couldn't even settle down; he was tossing and turning like crazy, just fighting sleep. By the next day, he couldn't even stand on his feet anymore—he could only crawl on his knees. Right now, he's being treated with IV antibiotics three times a day, and that's been going on for four days.
All scans of his vital organs are coming back clear. He’s responding well to the antibiotic therapy, stays cheerful, eats, and sleeps like a baby. He’s starting to interact more—reaching out with his hands, pulling his legs toward him, even wiggling his feet and toes. He still can't put any weight on his legs just yet, though.
The sedimentation level was 76.

So, did he actually get a diagnosis? It’s not like they should just be throwing antibiotics at him and hoping for the best. To me, it feels more like... Meningitis is a brutal, aggressive beast. It doesn’t just knock on your door; it kicks the whole house down. You’re talking about inflammation of the membranes surrounding your brain and spinal cord—basically, the protective casing for your entire central command center. When that gets irritated by bacteria or viruses, things go south incredibly fast. It’s like a short circuit in a high-voltage power grid; one minute everything is running smoothly, and the next, the whole system is sparking and failing. If you’re dealing with bacterial meningitis, you aren't just looking at a bad headache. You're looking at a medical emergency that demands immediate intervention at a place like the Mayo Clinic. We're talking intense fever, a stiff neck that feels like concrete, and light sensitivity that makes even a dim room feel like staring into the sun. If it’s viral, it might be slightly less lethal, but it can still knock you sideways for weeks. The bottom line? Don't play games with it. If you suspect it, don't wait for an appointment or try to "sleep it off." Get to an ER immediately. Speed is the only thing that matters when your brain is under siege.I also heard about this virus that attacks the nervous system and essentially hijacks the body. Since they’re treating it with antibiotics, it’s most likely just some kind of bacterial infection manifesting itself that way.
slyseal28 slyseal28 Member
11 messages
joined Mar 2007
#765 ·
Melissa Parker37 said:Regarding Susan Diaz91:
From what I understand, under Medicare, Tarceva is provided free of charge to about 60 patients a year. Roughly 400 people qualify for this treatment, and in the US, around 3,500 people are diagnosed with lung cancer every single year.

Thanks to the constant pressure from patient advocacy groups—specifically the Jedro Association for lung cancer patients and the For a New Day Association—there actually isn't a cap on how many patients can receive Tarceva.

The indication for Tarceva is as follows: Third-line treatment for non-small cell lung cancer (NSCLC), specifically for locally advanced or metastatic stages after two lines of chemotherapy have already been completed.
Scott Green4 Scott Green4 Newcomer
1 message
joined Jul 2009
#766 ·
slyseal28 said:thanks to all the pressure from patient advocacy groups (like the Jedro Association and the For a New Day Association), there’s actually no cap on how many patients can get access to Tarceva...

Tarceva indication: Third-line treatment for non-small cell lung cancer (NSCLC), specifically for locally advanced or metastatic stages after two lines of chemo have already been used up.

Thanks for the heads up. Honestly, I had no clue about that part...
Harold Ramos67 Harold Ramos67 Newcomer
3 messages
joined Jul 2009
#767 ·
Angela Wright;21401896 said:
Brain tumors—malignant ones like astrocytoma, glioblastoma, or gliosarcoma—always come with grim prognoses, but that doesn't mean a person is stuck living by those survival averages (you didn't specify which type we're talking about here).

So, we got the pathology results back today: Glioblastoma multiforme grade IV.
Scott Green4 Scott Green4 Newcomer
1 message
joined Jul 2009
#768 ·
I think I'm actually going to snap. My dad is crying like a little kid... I bolted from work just to see what was going on with him, and there he is, just sitting at home sobbing. I've pushed through everything else, but this... I don't know if I can handle this...
It’s not even physical pain, he just feels this total weakness all over his body and he's struggling to get his words out. He says he's feeling incredibly anxious, so I gave him some Paxil.
It's so hard to watch him like this, and I honestly have no clue how to help. It's just heavy...
feralridge3 feralridge3 Active Member
54 messages
joined Dec 2010
#769 ·
Melissa Parker37 said:I think I’m going to snap. My father is crying like a little child. I rushed out of work just to check on him, and there he is, sitting at home weeping. I’ve endured so much, but I don’t know if I can handle this...
He isn't in physical pain, but he feels this overwhelming weakness throughout his entire body, and talking has become quite difficult for him. He says he feels anxious, so I gave him some Praxiten.
It’s so hard to watch him like this, and I feel completely helpless. It’s just heavy...

Just hug him and cry with him. 😉
As for him feeling fine physically yet still breaking down, it might be the medication. When I was going through radiation and chemotherapy, I dealt with these sudden, jarring mood swings. One minute I’d be riding high on euphoria, and the next, I’d just crash and burst into tears for absolutely no reason. I just felt the need to wail, so I wailed. 🤷
It was so hard trying to explain to people why I was perfectly happy two hours ago, only to feel like I didn't want to live anymore two hours later.🙄
Angela Wright Angela Wright Regular
731 messages
joined Feb 2007
#770 ·
Harold Ramos67 said:We got the pathology results back today: Glioblastoma multiforme grade IV.

😢 I am so incredibly sorry.
Carol Mitchell86 Carol Mitchell86 Member
12 messages
joined Jul 2009
#771 ·
My mom just had a head CT yesterday. She’s been dealing with these brutal headaches for a few months now, and about two weeks ago, she actually collapsed—we all thought it might have been a stroke. Well, the CT results came back, and they’re suggesting the changes look most likely like a glioblastoma. She’s scheduled for an MRI today. Can anyone tell me if there's any chance this isn't a glioblastoma, or if a CT diagnosis can actually be wrong?😢
Angela Wright Angela Wright Regular
731 messages
joined Feb 2007
#772 ·
Carol Mitchell86 said:My mother had a head CT yesterday. She’s been dealing with intense headaches over the last few months, and about two weeks ago, she actually collapsed—everyone suspected a stroke at the time. The CT results came back suggesting that the findings most likely point toward a glioblastoma. She’s scheduled for an MRI today. Can anyone tell me if there's any chance this isn't a glioblastoma? Is it possible for a CT diagnosis to be wrong?😢

The only way to get a definitive diagnosis is through a PhD-level analysis of a puncture biopsy or tissue samples removed during surgery. Scans like a CT, PET CT, or MRI can only point toward a tumorous mass; based on how it looks and where it’s sitting, a doctor might use their experience to suspect a specific diagnosis, but that's just a hunch. The PHD is the absolute alpha and omega when it comes to establishing a tumor diagnosis. It’s the beginning and the end of the entire process. Basically, it all comes down to tumor typing. The specific type of tumor dictates exactly how you approach the treatment.
If it turns out this is glioblastoma, you need to understand one thing: nothing would have changed even if we had caught it a month earlier right at the starting line.
Carol Mitchell86 Carol Mitchell86 Member
12 messages
joined Jul 2009
#773 ·
Thanks a ton, Angela Wright. So basically, they don't even give you a final diagnosis until after the PhD analysis is finished.
slyseal28 slyseal28 Member
11 messages
joined Mar 2007
#774 ·
We’re inviting you all to come by and visit our association's booth over at Central Park. The whole event is set to run for five days:

Friday, July 10th starting at 7:00 PM — "A Rendezvous at Central Park"
- Starting at 7:00 PM – A performance by the Chicago Fencer group
- At 8:00 PM – The musical dance show "Singing NYC" featuring the Zagrepčanka Dance Choir and boys, hosted by Lana Olujić.
- At 9:00 PM – The official kickoff of "Summer at Central Park" featuring the Rozga Brass Band

Saturday, July 11th starting at 7:30 PM — The "LAS Zrinjevac" show
- At 7:30 PM – A performance by the Chicago Dance Center
- From 8:30 PM – An invitation to dance along to the SWINGERS group and those timeless classics from Frank Sinatra, Elvis Presley, Ivo Robić…

Thursday, July 16th starting at 7:00 PM — "Musical Guides" for Alzheimer's Disease
- At 7:00 PM - A performance by the group CHANTE
- At 7:30 PM – A presentation by the American Alzheimer's Association
- At 7:45 PM – The opening of the Ozmec zvonak art exhibition
- At 7:45 PM - A showcase of ceramics by Andrea Bassi and hats by Vladine Dajčić
- At 8:30 PM – A concert by the band PUTOKAZI

Friday, July 17th "FOR A NEW DAY AND A BETTER TOMORROW"
- At 7:00 PM – A performance by the Maksimir Majorettes
- At 7:30 PM – A presentation by the For a New Day Association
- At 7:45 PM – Presentations by the Europacolon Association and the Jedro Association
- At 8:00 PM – A presentation of the Manifest Life concept
- At 8:30 PM – A performance by the group CHANTE
From 7:00 PM to 10:00 PM – The Ozmec zvonak art exhibition, featuring Vladine Dajčić's hats and Andrea Bassi's ceramics

Saturday, July 18th "Together Forever"
- At 7:00 PM – The opening of the "Together Forever" wedding photography exhibition and a fashion showcase of "Old School Chic" by designer Vladine Dajčić.
- At 8:30 PM – The play "Applause for a Pitiful Cheat," performed by Željko Konigsknecht
From 7:00 PM to 10:00 PM – The Ozmec zvonak art exhibition, Vladine Dajčić's hats, and Andrea Bassi's ceramics

In the event of rain on Friday, July 10th, the program will be moved to Saturday, July 11th; if it rains on Saturday, we'll push everything to the following week.

Hard times are upon us, and one has to wonder where the government will try to cut corners next... So, let's get together and see if we can coordinate some shared activities to navigate a turbulent autumn...
Angela Wright Angela Wright Regular
731 messages
joined Feb 2007
#775 ·
Carol Mitchell86 said:Thanks so much, Angela Wright. So, the final diagnosis isn't actually set until after the PhD analysis is complete.

Exactly.
feralridge3 feralridge3 Active Member
54 messages
joined Dec 2010
#776 ·
Angela Wright said:The only way to get a truly accurate diagnosis is through a pathology analysis of the puncture or the tissue removed during surgery. A CT scan, PET scan, or MRI can only point toward a potential tumor based on its appearance and location—essentially allowing doctors to make an educated guess based on experience—but pathology is the alpha and omega when establishing a tumor diagnosis meaning the specific typing of the tumor. After all, the type of tumor dictates the entire treatment plan.

That’s just the truth. 😉
When I was first diagnosed, they kept telling me not to worry and that everything would be fine because, looking at the scans, it appeared to be benign. Once the surgery was over and the tumor was sent off for biopsy, we found out the initial "positive" outlook was total bullshit. It was bad. It was malignant. 😠
Carol Mitchell86 Carol Mitchell86 Member
12 messages
joined Jul 2009
#777 ·
Thanks, guys. I’ve been scrolling through this site nonstop, and honestly, it’s such a relief that something like this actually exists. Coming from Canada, we don't really have many places to turn for info—which basically means we're flying blind on what both she and I should even be bracing ourselves for.
The surgery is scheduled for next week; we met with the doctor yesterday, and she told us they won't be able to get the whole thing out because of where it's sitting, so we'll just have to wait until the pathology report comes back to know what we're really dealing with.
Her vitals are steady, and she's acting totally normal—talking, walking, thinking just fine. The only real symptom she had was these killer headaches, but those have cleared up for now. When you look at her, it's hard to wrap your head around the fact that there's something that heavy sitting in her brain.😢
restlessseal92 restlessseal92 Newcomer
6 messages
joined May 2009
#778 ·
Hey everyone, checking back in after a while. I wanted to reach out because we have some supplies available if anyone can use them—specifically two packs of Ensure in vanilla and chocolate flavors, plus a few cartons of Ensure Two Cal which we picked up while traveling abroad. We also have two unopened packs of Megostat left over. It was a total lifesaver for my mom; once everything else stopped working, she started taking the Megostat, and honestly, she hasn't needed anything since. She’s past the point of needing medical supplies now. 😢
Obviously, there isn't much good news to share here either. This summer has just been brutal.
I'm hoping someone reaches out. I don't know if I mentioned this already, but everything is free—we're just looking to get it to someone who needs it.
Maria Lee54 Maria Lee54 Member
42 messages
joined Oct 2008
#779 ·
It’s been a while since I last checked in. Last time, I mentioned things were getting worse and that I was doing everything possible to get my next round of treatment moving. I spent a full year and a half waiting on a response from a clinic abroad in Canada where I had my surgery. Since then, nobody has given me a straight answer as to why I can't continue my treatment there. The situation is this: I have a brain tumor located deep within the skull. It's a rare diagnosis, one that simply can't be treated surgically here in the States. Getting treatment in Canada was approved by Medicare, so there weren't any hurdles there initially. But clearly, that wasn't enough, because apparently, the money wasn't going into the pockets of whoever my life might depend on. The guy showed me he knows what he's doing, and now he's just waiting. He isn't in any rush to wait... it's sad. My latest MRI and angiography scans show a large tumor in the posterior fossa that requires surgery. Three different clinics were suggested. The professor at Mount Sinai Hospital chose the option in Bruxell, claiming he'll handle all the Medicare paperwork without an issue, since performing the surgery here isn't technically possible. So now, I'm back to this uncertainty. I'm just waiting for the moment I can finally push these thoughts out of my head. Now I have to see what the options are with the professor in Bruxell and if they will actually accept me. I won't go into every single emotion I'm feeling right now. Yesterday, I just broke down. I walked through the entire hospital toward the exit, sobbing like I haven't in three years. I guess sometimes you just have to let it out. I was deeply moved by the compassion shown by my neurosurgeon—he's a truly great man. After that, there was some fear, too. I know all the potential complications. But I'll stay positive, like I always do. I'll reach out once I get the news I'm looking for regarding whether they'll take me in at Bruxell. Sending positive vibes to all of you...
Angela Wright Angela Wright Regular
731 messages
joined Feb 2007
#780 ·
Carol Mitchell86 said:Thanks, I really appreciate it. I’ve spent so much time digging through everything on the website, and honestly, it’s been eye-opening. It is such a relief that a resource like this actually exists. Being from Canada, we don't have many reliable places to turn for info—which is basically a polite way of saying we have absolutely no way to prepare ourselves or her for what we're actually up against.
Surgery is scheduled for next week. We met with the doctor yesterday, and she was blunt: they won't be able to get the whole tumor out because of where it’s sitting. It's in a tough spot. We won't really know what we're actually dealing with until the pathology report on the tissue comes back.
Her vital signs are totally fine—she’s talking normally, walking around, thinking clearly. Her only real symptom was those headaches, which were absolutely brutal, but they've cleared up now. When you look at her, you honestly can't believe there's something that terrifying inside her head.😢

Look, we didn't have any reliable sources of information either until we started consolidating our own data. We had to take matters into our own hands—translating foreign websites, launching our own page and forum, and basically creating a pipeline so that firsthand information could actually start circulating.
My advice—and this is the same advice we all give at the For a New Day Association—is simple: don't sit around waiting for someone else to step up and do what needs to be done for you. Don't wait for a savior. Unlike us, you actually have plenty of people to model yourselves after without having to deal with any language barriers. Take the initiative.
Maria Lee54 said:It’s been a while since I last checked in here. Last time, I mentioned things were taking a turn for the worse, and I was doing everything humanly possible to jumpstart the next phase of my treatment. I have spent exactly eighteen months waiting for a response from that clinic in Canada where I had my initial surgery. Since then, they haven't given me a single straight answer as to why they won't take me back for further treatment. To give you some context: I have a brain tumor located deep within the skull—a rare diagnosis that simply can't be treated surgically here in the States. Getting treatment in Canada was fully covered by Medicare, so there weren't any financial hurdles there, but clearly, that wasn't enough for them. It seems like because the money wasn't lining their pockets, they aren't interested in helping the person whose life might actually depend on it. My doctor showed me he knows what he's doing, but now he's just sitting around waiting. He doesn't seem to mind the wait, which is honestly pathetic. My latest MRI and angiography scans show a large tumor in the posterior fossa that absolutely requires surgery. Three different clinics were suggested, and the specialist at Mount Sinai Hospital decided on the option in Bruxell. He insists he can handle all the Medicare paperwork without an issue, explaining that performing this specific surgery here in the US isn't technically feasible. So, here I am again, facing this crushing uncertainty that I'm desperate to shake off. Now, I just have to wait and see what the options are in Bruxell and whether they will even accept me. I won't get into every single emotion swirling around inside me right now, but yesterday, I finally hit my breaking point. I broke down completely and walked through the entire hospital, sobbing my way toward the exit—something I haven't done once in these three years. I guess sometimes you just have to let it out. I was deeply moved by the compassion and genuine concern shown by my neurosurgeon; he’s a truly great man. After that, there was a bit of fear, too—I’m well aware of all the potential complications—but I’ll keep trying to stay positive, like I always do. I’ll check back in once I get the news I'm praying for regarding whether they'll take me in at Bruxell. Sending positive vibes to all of you.

Hang in there, girl! Everything is going to be just fine. We're all thinking of you.

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