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gentlemoose62 gentlemoose62 Active Member
105 messages
joined Jul 2008
#2921 ·
Grace Fowler said:Hey everyone!!
Another week just flew by! I don't know about you guys, but I feel like I can't even keep track of what day or month it is anymore... Honestly, my heart aches a bit whenever I read the new posts and see so much sadness and tears... I really want to send as much positive energy your way as possible, because I truly believe that staying positive—whatever you want to call it—is the best thing we can do while fighting this battle against illness. Personally, that's what keeps me going through this year. I totally get it when you need to vent while going through this nightmare, but I KNOW there is so much love hidden inside all of us, and that's where the positive energy comes from.
As for me, my results are looking a little better, and we’re heading to Germany this Sunday for immunotherapy, so I'm actually excited!
Please don't mind me if I sound a bit too optimistic sometimes... I truly mean it from the bottom of my heart! :-)
Grace

My dear Grace, who could ever blame you for being so sincerely optimistic?
I am so incredibly happy to hear your results are improving and that you can move forward with immunotherapy.
Wishing you a safe trip, and I hope this treatment does wonders for you!
Richard Smith31 Richard Smith31 Member
14 messages
joined Oct 2006
#2922 ·
Fiza, just being totally honest here 🙂
cosmicsurfer7 cosmicsurfer7 Member
36 messages
joined Mar 2008
#2923 ·
DEAR Fiza, sending so much love and my deepest condolences to you and your brother right now...
Zachary Howard2 Zachary Howard2 Newcomer
6 messages
joined Jan 2009
#2924 ·
Thank you, everyone. You all have been an incredible support system through everything, and regardless of what happens, I’ll be keeping an eye on this group and trying to help out however I can. My Mommy is an angel now and has finally found her peace. Early this morning, I dreamed of her and Dad together; I truly hope that’s how it is up there...
Patrick Baker2 Patrick Baker2 Newcomer
1 message
joined Apr 2008
#2925 ·
Check out this site I’m dropping here. It features a doctor who specializes in treating tumors and cancer. I’m sharing this because I actually trust the source—I’ve had a few people personally vouch for him, so I know it’s legit. Here is the link: www.llijecenjesihra.ba
Jeremy Ortiz56 Jeremy Ortiz56 Newcomer
6 messages
joined Apr 2008
#2926 ·
jadetinker42 said:Hello everyone,

As I’ve mentioned before, a colleague's daughter (born in 1982) is battling osteosarcoma in her right knee. She was being treated at Mayo Clinic under Dr. Šantek. Her journey started with chemotherapy, followed by surgery to install a prosthetic joint—since the tumor had actually caused the bone to fracture—and then more chemo. Everything seemed to be heading in the right direction. However, during a PET scan last month, they discovered a recurrence of the sarcoma. Now, the plan is to attempt more aggressive chemotherapy and radiation, though if those don't yield results, amputation is being suggested as the next step.
Everyone is in complete shock; she's so young, with her entire life still ahead of her. I know, fundamentally, that having a healthy mind is what matters most, but it's incredibly difficult to process the reality that this girl might lose her leg....

On another note, I recently came across a remedy based on mistletoe called ISCADORA, which is claimed to be exceptionally effective in treating various tumors.

Does anyone here have experience with it, or perhaps any general insights regarding the treatment of this particular type of cancer?

I actually pulled some data online for my colleague regarding this specific sarcoma, and everywhere I looked, it suggested that full recovery (with a prosthesis) is possible in over 80% of cases. But, as we know, real-world practice can be much harsher and more unforgiving....

Wishing you all the best in your own battles against these difficult illnesses...

Thanks in advance for any answers...

Dear jadetinker42,
There is no such thing as a magic bullet medication that is "exceptionally effective." Unfortunately, there isn't one single cure out there... or rather, medicine hasn't found it yet, and likely won't anytime soon. This is because cancer isn't a disease in the way we typically define it. Cancer is actually the body's healthy attempt to isolate toxins in one location to protect the rest of the organism from total destruction—a state we often drive our bodies toward through poor nutrition and a continuous series of wrong choices that systematically attack our own health day after day.
First and foremost, your colleague needs to look back... years back—and evaluate
how many toxins were introduced through food, or via household products, cleaning supplies, different sprays,
and so on.
Cancer isn't a bacterium or a virus; cancer is a CONSEQUENCE, which has an underlying CAUSE.

Without addressing that initial point and eliminating the root causes as much as possible, it is rare to see a recovery, regardless of the powerful new supplements being pushed by big pharmaceutical marketing machines or "get-rich-quick" opportunists.

As I’ve said before, it is frankly shameful to recommend some tea or juice to people and try to convince them it will heal them (if we set aside the placebo effect, which always has its place), because true healing cannot occur without a complete overhaul of one's lifestyle and mindset.

So, use your head!... arm yourselves with actual knowledge!!!.. and learn to trust yourselves more than you trust everyone else.

Cancer is a state we have driven our own bodies into (with exceptions, of course, like those exposed in Chernobyl and such)... and despite all other medical assistance, the ultimate decision regarding health or sickness remains, in the end, in our own hands.
Jeremy Ortiz56 Jeremy Ortiz56 Newcomer
6 messages
joined Apr 2008
#2927 ·
Kimberly Bishop91 said:My deepest condolences... I don't find myself on here very often, and honestly, reading through all this is quite difficult for me. My father-in-law was recently diagnosed with lung cancer during his second month of checkups, and he’s currently undergoing chemotherapy every two weeks. He isn't drinking anything besides nettle tea and some sort of lyophilized Chinese royal jelly. If anyone happens to know, would it be better for him to take Native Propolis from Heather or perhaps Beta Glucan? Thank you in advance!

And what is his diet like?
Jeremy Ortiz56 Jeremy Ortiz56 Newcomer
6 messages
joined Apr 2008
#2928 ·
Grace Fowler said:Good morning, everyone!!
Another week has simply slipped by. I’m not sure about you all, but I feel as though I can no longer keep track of which day follows which or even which month we are currently inhabiting. To be honest, and I mean this with all my heart, I feel a certain heaviness whenever I read new posts filled with such profound sorrow and tears... I want to send as much positive energy your way as possible, because I truly believe that maintaining a positive mindset—whatever one chooses to call it—is one of the most effective things we can do while fighting this battle against illness. Personally, that sense of hope is what sustains me and keeps me going through this current year. I certainly empathize with your thoughts as you navigate these trials, but I KNOW that within each of us lies an infinite amount of love, and that is precisely where that positive energy originates.
As for my own situation, my results have improved slightly, and we are heading to Germany this Sunday to begin immunotherapy, which I am actually looking forward to.
Please don't fault me if I occasionally attempt to be optimistic in a way that might seem misplaced... my wishes are entirely sincere. :-)
Grace

Dear Grace,
positive energy is undoubtedly one of the most potent weapons in the fight against illness, just as you say.
However, it is only ONE weapon, and this war is being fought on every single front if we intend to emerge victorious. We must utilize every resource at our disposal.
We have many options available to us, but KNOWLEDGE is arguably the most vital of them all! Because only if we truly understand the enemy can we hope to win the war.

Wishing you much luck on your journey back to health!
Zachary Howard2 Zachary Howard2 Newcomer
6 messages
joined Jan 2009
#2929 ·
I'm giving away some Megamin tablets and Royal Jelly tablets. If anyone could use them, just let me know—feel free to shoot me a private message.
gentlemoose62 gentlemoose62 Active Member
105 messages
joined Jul 2008
#2930 ·
Amanda Miller69 said:Thanks everyone. You’ve all been such amazing support through everything, and I’m definitely going to keep following along and helping out however I can. My Mommy is an angel now and she's finally at peace. I even dreamed about her and Dad together early this morning, so I really hope that's how it is up there...

That sounds like such a beautiful dream. I hope you hold onto that image forever, and just tuck all the bad stuff away in a different "drawer" to make things easier on yourself...
When my dad was passing, one of his last words was... "I'm going to be with my Mary now"... and I truly believe it's just like that for your mom—she passed away peaceful and calm.
No matter how hard it gets, it only makes us stronger and better people. I'm so glad you'll stay part of the group, because honestly, even just a kind word every now and then goes a long way...
dovjno.
Edward Bailey6 Edward Bailey6 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Aug 2008
#2931 ·
Basically, they don't do anything specific—just grab a banana or an apple once a day, and most meals are just steamed or lightly cooked... nothing fried or heavy. Does anyone have actual dietary recommendations? Thanks in advance!
wanderingharbor61 wanderingharbor61 Member
20 messages
joined Aug 2011
#2932 ·
Hey Amanda Miller69 🙂, I wanted to send my deepest condolences 😢!
jadetinker42 jadetinker42 Member
22 messages
joined Oct 2007
#2933 ·
Jeremy Ortiz56 said:Hey Roberto,
Look, if you want my two cents, cancer is basically just the body’s desperate, last-ditch effort to quarantine toxins in one spot. It’s like when a circuit breaker trips because you plugged too many high-voltage appliances into one outlet—it's an attempt to stop the whole house from burning down. And let's be real, we're usually the ones who tripped the breaker ourselves. Between eating absolute junk and then following a bunch of total nonsense health trends that actually end up wrecking our systems, we spend half our lives actively sabotaging our own health. We're basically throwing gasoline on the fire and wondering why things are getting hot.
First off, maybe your colleague should take a long, hard look in the rearview mirror... like, seriously, go back a few years and think about how things actually used to be.

I honestly can't get behind that logic. It just doesn't track. You see tons of people who live their entire lives being super health-conscious—eating organic, hitting the gym every single day, doing all the right things—and they still end up battling cancer. Meanwhile, you’ve got people who have been chain-smoking for decades without ever touching a lung tumor, or folks who drink like fish every single night and somehow dodge liver cancer entirely. It’s totally inconsistent. Life isn't that predictable, and you can't just say "eat a salad and you'll be fine" when the math clearly doesn't add up.

If everything really boiled down to people just making bad choices with their own bodies like you're claiming, then we wouldn't be seeing one-year-olds or ten-year-old kids getting sick from cancer. I mean, seriously? These toddlers aren't out there smoking cigarettes or living on a diet of junk food for years on end when they've only been on this planet for twelve or twenty-four months. It makes zero sense.

It honestly feels like there are zero rules in this universe. Look, I get it—eating junk, living in crappy conditions, breathing in smog, all that environmental pollution? Sure, that’s part of the problem. It definitely plays a role. But you can't just point at those things and say they're the whole story. They aren't the main culprit behind why cancer happens. Honestly, God only knows what actually triggers the switch that makes cells start dividing like crazy and going totally haywire...

And honestly, this part still makes absolutely zero sense to me: "Cancer is just the body's healthy attempt at isolating toxins..." Seriously? Are we kidding right now?
It’s a decent effort, I guess, but let’s be real—in way too many cases, this thing is basically a death sentence from the get-go. It's doomed to fail before you even get started.
Jeremy Ortiz56 said:Look, let’s get one thing straight: cancer isn't some random bacterium or a sneaky little virus just floating around waiting to strike. It’s not an invader like that. Cancer is a CONSEQUENCE. It’s the end result of something else going wrong deep down in the system. You can't just point at the smoke and say "that's the fire"—the smoke is just what happens when the actual fire is burning somewhere else. Everything has a root cause, and we need to start looking for the trigger, not just staring at the symptoms!


I'm with you on that one. Totally.

Look, I’ve gotta say it... my heart honestly goes out to Amanda Miller69 after losing her mom. I’ve been following her posts closely—and I’ve been keeping an eye on a few other people going through similar struggles too—and honestly? It’s just gut-wrenching. Truly awful. I feel for her.

So, get this—a colleague of mine has a daughter who had to fly out to Vienna last week for some emergency testing. Back home in Chicago, the doctors at Salad wouldn't even touch her with chemotherapy anymore because the sarcoma was just too aggressive. They were basically telling her she needed an amputation to survive. But, look, just so they could sleep better at night and clear their consciences, they sent her off to a specialist clinic in Vienna to get a second opinion, hoping maybe there was a way to save the leg. Well, bad news. The doctors in Vienna looked everything over and just confirmed exactly what the folks in Chicago said. It’s all the same story. There’s no miracle cure here; the leg has to come off, and we’re talking high up near the groin, and it has to happen immediately—we are literally talking about days now. The biopsy results just came back, and it is a nightmare. It's an incredibly aggressive form of sarcoma that keeps coming back no matter what you do. Chemotherapy isn't doing squat, and honestly, there just isn't any other way. It’s brutal.

This is absolutely insane!
Jeremy Kelly6 Jeremy Kelly6 Member
16 messages
joined Feb 2007
#2934 ·
Fiza, I am so incredibly sorry for your loss..
Zachary Howard2 Zachary Howard2 Newcomer
6 messages
joined Jan 2009
#2935 ·
While chatting about my Mom during these heavy days, my brother and I realized she passed away on the exact day that would have been her and Dad's 39th wedding anniversary. Coincidence, or...
Benjamin Grant6 Benjamin Grant6 Member
36 messages
joined Aug 2008
#2936 ·
Amanda Miller69 said:Another fighter lost her battle this morning. Mommy passed away at 7:00 AM, peacefully in her sleep.🙂🙂

First and foremost—please accept my sincerest condolences; know that you are in my thoughts... I have been unable to step back into this forum for a few days to catch up on the news, only to be met by this heartbreaking update. I truly wanted to believe things would be different...

You are facing the most difficult days imaginable, and I can see you searching for answers and meaning as coincidences seem to surface around you... But please, try to find comfort in knowing she knew exactly when it was time to go; she didn't struggle, and she will continue to watch over you and love you through the very dreams she drifted off into...

Stay strong...
Nancy Thomas18 Nancy Thomas18 Member
37 messages
joined Jan 2008
#2937 ·
Amanda Miller69 said:Thanks, everyone. You all have been such incredible support through it all, and I’ll definitely be keeping up with you and helping out however I can. My Mommy is an angel now and finally at peace. I even had a dream about her and Dad together early this morning, so I really hope she's found that peace up there...

Dear Amanda Miller69, please accept my deepest condolences.
jaderaven6 jaderaven6 Newcomer
1 message
joined Apr 2008
#2938 ·
Hey,
I'm just a mom whose kid is battling ALL leukemia here in Chicago. He finished about 33 days of chemo, but we hit some complications. It’s nothing life-threatening, I guess, but treating them will take maybe four weeks. I was wondering, once those four weeks are up, how does the therapy work? Does it pick up right where the 33 days left off, or do they basically restart from square one? Or is there some other way it works? I suppose it depends on certain factors, but if anyone knows, please let me know so I can figure out what to expect.

Thanks, best, jaderaven6
slyseal28 slyseal28 Member
11 messages
joined Mar 2007
#2939 ·
jaderaven6 said:Hi,
I’m a mother whose child is battling and receiving treatment for ALL-type leukemia here in Chicago. He just finished a chemotherapy cycle lasting about 33 days. However, we've run into some complications—nothing life-threatening, thank God, but treating them will require about a four-week break from the main protocol. I’m trying to wrap my head around what happens after this four-week pause. Does the therapy pick up right where those 33 days left off and continue forward? Or does the whole thing essentially reset to day one? Or is there some third option entirely? If it depends on specific clinical factors, I'd love to know. I’m just trying to figure out exactly what to prepare myself for.

Thanks, best regards, jaderaven6

You can find quite a bit of data regarding ALL treatment protocols right here.
rustyscout31 rustyscout31 Member
11 messages
joined Sep 2006
#2940 ·
...I honestly don't even know how to put this into words, but please know how deeply sorry I am. Your Mommy has passed away, and my eyes are actually filling with tears just typing this out. I know things feel impossibly heavy right now and there aren't any words that can truly take the sting away... but you mentioned herself that she passed on the very anniversary of her wedding to your Dad. In a way, they are finally back together again, isn't that a small comfort? Now, it's up to you to find the strength to move forward, because you really must...
Just keep your Mommy tucked safely in your heart and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Those memories and that love belong solely to you, and that is something nobody can ever take away😢

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