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Facial hair - hormonal imbalance or something else?

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Jerry Walker79 Jerry Walker79 Active MemberOP
69 messages
joined Apr 2005
#1 ·
Okay, so I’ve got a bit of a situation on my hands.
Lately, over the last few months, I’ve started noticing these facial hairs that are way more noticeable than they used to be—specifically right along my jawline (hope I’m describing that right). There are a few dark ones that I end up plucking with tweezers—which is annoying because they definitely weren't there before 😠—and even the lighter fuzz seems to be getting thicker. It’s honestly driving me crazy, so I’m reaching out to see if you guys can point me in the right direction for some help or advice. 😢 Should I go see a dermatologist? And if so, does anyone have a recommendation? Ideally, someone covered by insurance, not just some overpriced private specialist, but what should my next move be? 😕
Is it possible this is some kind of hormonal imbalance? That’s my main suspicion. I’m not on birth control, so it’s definitely not that. How do people usually deal with stuff like this? Seriously, any advice at all would be amazing! 🙂
I’m actually pretty freaked out about it. 😢
Ethan Patel6 Ethan Patel6 Newcomer
3 messages
joined Dec 2004
#2 ·
Lisa Barrett22 said:Okay, I’ve got a bit of an issue here.
Over the last few months, I’ve noticed some facial hair popping up—nothing crazy, but way more noticeable than before—specifically along my jawline (hope that makes sense). There are a few dark ones I just pluck away with tweezers (which wasn't really an issue before 😠), but even the lighter fuzz seems to be getting thicker. It’s honestly driving me nuts, so please tell me who I should talk to for help or advice. 😢 Should I see a dermatologist? (And if so, any recs? Ideally someone through my insurance, not some pricey private specialist.) What’s the move? 😕
Could this be some kind of hormonal imbalance? I’m not on birth control, so it’s not that. How do people usually deal with stuff like this? Any advice helps! 🙂
I'm actually pretty freaked out. 😢

First off, don't freak out... it's probably nothing major!!!!👍
But look... I went through something similar, except I also had acne and spotting during ovulation. Total hormonal mess. Taking birth control fixed everything for me...
Get your hormones checked first... if everything comes back normal, just keep plucking. After a while, they'll likely settle down on their own.
Tyler Gomez Tyler Gomez Newcomer
4 messages
joined Jan 2005
#3 ·
Honestly, you should probably head to the OB-GYN first just to be safe, because there's a chance it could be something like PCOS. It’s really nothing to freak out about if you catch it early and get ahead of it, but they can usually figure everything out pretty quickly with a quick ultrasound and some standard blood work...
Jerry Walker79 Jerry Walker79 Active MemberOP
69 messages
joined Apr 2005
#4 ·
So, first step is definitely hitting up my OB-GYN. Honestly, I’m going to get on that ASAP!
But what does that actually entail if they decide to send me off for hormone testing? Like, am I looking at a massive battery of blood tests and all that jazz? 😕
I was seriously considering just starting birth control, but now I'm second-guessing everything. I'm terrified it might actually make things worse—like, what if it just completely wrecks my system even more? 😲
Nicole James Nicole James Regular
313 messages
joined Dec 2010
#5 ·
Your best bet is to start by checking in with your primary care physician—assuming you don't have some sort of specialized specialist already on speed dial. They’ll likely be the ones best equipped to point you in the right direction.
Laura Jackson Laura Jackson Newcomer
1 message
joined Feb 2005
#6 ·
Lisa Barrett22 said:So, I should head to the gynecologist first. Fine, I'll go ASAP.
What kind of procedures are we talking about if they send me for hormone testing? Is it a massive battery of tests and whatnot? 😕
I was thinking about starting birth control, but I'm worried it might actually make things worse. Hopefully, it won't just mess everything else up further. 😲

Look. I don't want to freak you out, but this could be serious. Speaking from experience—I've been dealing with hormonal imbalances and PCOS since I was 18, and I'm 24 now. That's a long haul. No real improvement in those six years, either. Basically, you can't "cure" a hormonal imbalance... you just try to manage it and get it back to some kind of baseline, if you can call it that.
Go see the OBGYN. They'll order hormone panels. It’s usually just a blood draw, then you wait about ten days for the results.
One piece of advice: stop plucking your facial hair. It might just make things worse.
Depending on your levels, the doctor will likely suggest birth control. They initially put me on Diane, but it didn't do a thing. I only started seeing actual progress once I switched to jasmine—it's stronger.
You could probably write a memoir about your treatment at this rate... if you want to vent, shoot me a DM.
Just get to the doctor sooner rather than later.
Andrew Cruz2 Andrew Cruz2 Newcomer
1 message
joined Feb 2005
#7 ·
Laura Jackson said:Look, I don't want to scare you, but this could be serious. I’m speaking from experience since I’ve been dealing with hormonal imbalances and PCOS since I was 18, and I'm 24 now. It's been a long road. There hasn't been any real improvement in those six years. Basically, you can't fully "cure" a hormonal imbalance; you just try to manage it and get things back to a normal range, if you can call it that.
Go see a gynecologist. They'll send you for hormone testing. They just draw some blood and then you wait about ten days for the results.
One piece of advice: stop plucking the hair. It might actually make things worse.
The doctor will probably prescribe birth control depending on your levels. At first, they put me on Diane, but it didn't do anything for me. It wasn't until I started taking jasmine, which is stronger, that I finally saw some progress.
You could practically write a book about your treatment at this point. If you want to talk more, feel free to DM me.
Just get to the doctor as soon as you can.

Same here. Dealing with hormonal issues—low progesterone and estrogen—and PCOS since I was 18 (I'm 27 now).

I tried Diane35 too, but it had zero effect. My cycle became a total mess about four or five years ago. Sometimes it would skip three or four months, sometimes even up to six.

A few of my friends have it too, and from what I've read online, it's very likely linked to weight gain, even if it's just an extra 5 or 10 pounds.

Since last year, I've lost quite a bit of weight (I'm not super thin, but I've lost weight), and my cycle has finally regulated. It's running like clockwork now.🙂

By the way, Lisa Barrett22, definitely don't pluck, especially not with tweezers. You know how people say: "pull one, and six more show up at the funeral." Let us know how it goes once you see the doctor. 👋
restlessmarlin6 restlessmarlin6 Active Member
219 messages
joined Oct 2003
#8 ·
Laura Jackson said:Look, I don't want to freak you out, but this could be a pretty big deal. I'm speaking from experience here—I've been dealing with hormonal imbalances and PCOS since I was 18, and now I'm 24. So yeah, it’s been a really long road.

Don't go scaring the woman like that.🙂

I mean, obviously, living without PCOS is better, but it's definitely not some condition that you can't manage.
restlessmarlin6 restlessmarlin6 Active Member
219 messages
joined Oct 2003
#9 ·
Jessica Perez93 said:By the way, Lisa Barrett22, whatever you do, please don't try to pluck them—especially not with tweezers. I mean, seriously, there's that old saying: "pluck one, and six more show up to the funeral." It’s like they multiply overnight. Anyway, if you end up heading to the gynecologist, let us know how it goes. 👋

Look, what's already grown won't just vanish, even if they're taking pills. 🙂
Let her go ahead and stir the pot. Honestly, it’s kind of a blast to watch while I'm stuck grinding through finals week. 😁

And honestly, even lasers aren't nearly as pricey as they used to be.
Laura Jackson Laura Jackson Newcomer
1 message
joined Feb 2005
#10 ·
restlessmarlin6 said:Don't go scaring her like that.🙂

Look, obviously living without PCOS is better than dealing with it—no contest—but that doesn't mean it's some uncontrollable disaster...

I never said it couldn't be managed. Of course it can—it's just a matter of how. Right now, it’s mostly through birth control, which comes with its own set of baggage.
You have to realize PCOS isn't just one thing; there are all these other side effects and the whole hormonal imbalance to deal with.
Everything I'm saying is from my own experience. I don't know how much "management" you're actually getting if it's just relying on pills.
For example, I'm on the slimmer side—pretty much at an ideal weight—but the pills gave me cellulite and loose skin. And mind you, I'm at the gym for 2.5 hours several times a week. I eat clean, too. My doctor explicitly told me the cellulite and skin issues are side effects of the medication. But for now, the pills are the only option on the table.
As for the hair pulling, if you can afford it, just get laser hair removal. You'll probably need 4 to 6 sessions depending on how thick the hair is, but you also have to stay on top of the medical treatment part.
Edward Green Edward Green Regular
335 messages
joined Sep 2008
#11 ·
Why on earth wouldn't people just go see an endocrinologist for hormone issues?
Paul Clark Paul Clark Newcomer
6 messages
joined Jan 2005
#12 ·
If you're dealing with facial hair, you should probably see a gynecologist first.😂 😂 Honestly, women...😍
Edward Green Edward Green Regular
335 messages
joined Sep 2008
#13 ·
Exactly, because it can show up right alongside PCOS, and you don't go to an esthetician to fix your ovaries—you go to a gynecologist.
restlesspanther1 restlesspanther1 Active Member
90 messages
joined Dec 2010
#14 ·
Kimberly Davis52 said:Why on earth wouldn't someone just go see an endocrinologist for hormonal imbalances?

You should be seeing both specialists simultaneously... it's such a damn shame my parents couldn't get their act together and agree on a treatment plan.😵
Andrew Cruz2 Andrew Cruz2 Newcomer
1 message
joined Feb 2005
#15 ·
restlessmarlin6 said:Look, once that hair has grown in, pills aren't going to make it vanish overnight. 🙂
I usually just pluck them myself—honestly, it’s a decent way to kill time while I'm cramming for finals. 😁

Plus, laser treatments aren't nearly as pricey as they used to be.


I know some will disappear. I just don't think plucking is the move since it might actually make things grow back thicker.

Laser sounds like a solid plan, though. Just a heads-up: don't try to DIY any of that stuff.
Paul Clark Paul Clark Newcomer
6 messages
joined Jan 2005
#16 ·
Kimberly Davis52 said:Exactly. It can show up right alongside PCOS, and let’s be real—an esthetician isn't going to fix your hormonal issues; you need a gynecologist for that.

There are honestly a billion different reasons why hair growth might suddenly spike.
I think someone made a great point earlier: just head to a primary care physician first and have them refer you to the right specialist.🙂
restlesspanther1 restlesspanther1 Active Member
90 messages
joined Dec 2010
#17 ·
Jessica Perez93 said:I know some will disappear. I'm saying you shouldn't pluck them because it just makes more of them grow back.

That's just plain wrong... every single hair has its own follicle it grows from... plucking doesn't somehow trigger multiplication...

It's just like when I wax my legs... they just end up coming back weaker and thinner... you can barely even see them anymore, honestly, I might just stop dealing with it altogether soon. 😬
Andrew Cruz2 Andrew Cruz2 Newcomer
1 message
joined Feb 2005
#18 ·
restlesspanther1 said:That doesn't really make sense... every hair has its own follicle it grows from. Plucking one doesn't make them multiply...

It’s like when I wax my legs... they just end up coming back much thinner and sparser. I can barely see them anymore; pretty soon I might just stop dealing with it altogether. 😬

Shaving, tweezing, and waxing are all different things.
restlesspanther1 restlesspanther1 Active Member
90 messages
joined Dec 2010
#19 ·
Jessica Perez93 said:Shaving, tweezers, and waxing aren't exactly the same thing.

Look, I get it, okay? But honestly, if they want to go through the hassle of plucking every single hair... fine. At least it’s better than just being hairy. 😬
Andrew Cruz2 Andrew Cruz2 Newcomer
1 message
joined Feb 2005
#20 ·
restlesspanther1 said:I get that, but honestly, if she wants to pluck them, let her... it’s still better than being hairy.😬


Instead of plucking, she should really look into laser treatments. If that isn't an option, waxing is way more efficient.

Tweezing is such a hassle...

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