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Dealing with hemorrhoids – any advice?

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Alexander Allen31 Alexander Allen31 Newcomer
4 messages
joined Feb 2019
#1161 ·
Paul Martin92 said:I used to be pretty active in sports too—always hitting the gym, doing pull-ups, all that stuff... but honestly, running really helped me out, like training for a half marathon and things like that, though I know everyone is different. Maybe this might work for you, but I used to brew some chamomile tea and pour it into a basin; once it cooled down, I’d just sit there in the basin watching a show, or using cold wipes... if nothing else helps soothe the inflammation, just try to keep moving to get the circulation going. From what I gather, they aren't huge, so you might need to make it a routine, maybe applying something twice a week after you use the restroom or even using an applicator internally... It’s definitely not pleasant (at least for me) using an applicator, but it works, and I'd much rather do that than just suffer through the pain.

But thank God, I don't have any pain, and I don't even realize I have them until I feel them... (they're tiny, like grains of rice...). Cold compresses? I actually emailed a clinic and they suggested warm water, baths, and stuff like that... They also told me it's fine to exercise. But logically, when I work out, I'm straining, so wouldn't that increase the chances of them showing up or getting worse? And what exactly is an applicator? Thanks so much!
Paul Martin92 Paul Martin92 Newcomer
3 messages
joined Feb 2019
#1162 ·
Alexander Allen31 said:But thank God, I don't even feel any pain—honestly, I wouldn't even know I had it until I happen to touch it... (it's about the size of a grain of rice...). Cold compresses? I emailed a clinic and they actually told me warm water, baths, and stuff like that... They also said exercising is fine... But logically, when I exercise, I'm straining, which just seems like it would increase the chance of it getting bigger or popping out more, right? And what's an applicator? Thanks a lot.

They’ll give you better advice at the clinic—those people actually know what they’re doing. For me, cold was the way to go because there was inflammation and pain; cold water helped soothe the inflamed spot and dialed down the ache. As for working out, nothing heavy is usually recommended since you end up using your core, and that puts pressure on the pelvic muscles... things like walking, hiking, or squats are probably okay because they help get the circulation going in the pelvic area. Anyway, it's best to just listen to the clinic and the professionals... everything here is just someone sharing their own experience, after all...
Alexander Allen31 Alexander Allen31 Newcomer
4 messages
joined Feb 2019
#1163 ·
Hey, if anyone knows or could recommend a really good clinic for getting checked out (for perianal thrombosis)... I'd appreciate it. Thanks!
Matthew Lopez15 Matthew Lopez15 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Mar 2019
#1164 ·
I figured I’d share my own experience and throw out a few ideas—hopefully, they might be useful to someone else. I’ve been dealing with hemorrhoids for a couple of years now; just some minor bleeding here and there, and one painful episode once, but nothing catastrophic. That said, they flare right back up the second my lifestyle starts heading in the wrong direction.

1. Now, sitting on the toilet for hours isn't exactly my habit, but let me tell you, it is absolute chaos for your chemistry.
2. You are much better off choosing wet wipes over standard toilet paper. Honestly, washing up after using the restroom is the gold standard, but let’s be real—you aren't planning on washing your backside at the office or when you're grabbing a coffee out in town. So, whenever you actually have the chance: go for the wet wipes and then wash!
3. There’s this idea floating around that lactose triggers hemorrhoids; I heard it somewhere, though it’s not verified so I can’t say for sure—maybe Google it if you're curious—but personally, lactose doesn't sit well with me anyway, so I steer clear.
4. Most ointments are fine and shouldn't cause weight gain, but they only really work if you use them consistently—things like calendula, chamomile oil, Hemopropin (which helps me quite often), or even Witch Hazel... You really have to experiment to find the specific combination that works for you. A friend of mine finds Hemopropin useless, but for her, calendula is a miracle.
5. Surgery is a valid option if things get complicated, but it isn't a permanent fix. I know a few people who had surgery and were fine for a few years, only to end up right back where they started. It's just like brushing your teeth or washing your face; you should maintain hygiene for all parts of your body, yet it's obvious that our "invisible" health is always treated as a secondary priority. 😢
Matthew Lopez15 Matthew Lopez15 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Mar 2019
#1165 ·
Alexander Allen31 said:Honestly, thank God, I don't even feel any pain—I wouldn't even know I had it unless I happened to feel it... (it's about the size of a grain of rice...). Cold compresses? I actually emailed a clinic and they suggested warm water, baths, and things like that... They also mentioned exercising is fine... But logically speaking, when I exercise, I'm straining my body, which increases the chance of it getting worse or swelling more, right? And what exactly is an applicator? Thanks a lot.

An applicator is just a small attachment you screw onto a tube of cream, which you then insert to squeeze the medication out where it needs to go.
It sounds absolutely gruesome when you put it that way, but it's really not as bad as it sounds.
Jeffrey Hernandez79 Jeffrey Hernandez79 Newcomer
3 messages
joined Mar 2019
#1166 ·
Eric Chase3 said:I've tried stuff like this before, but honestly, if you're dealing with stage 3 or 4 hemorrhoids, you're basically just throwing money down the drain.

https://www.cvs.com/health/hemorrhoid-treatment-with-boric-acid.html


Look, if we're talking about stage 3 or 4, then yeah, I totally get where you're coming from—at that point, you're usually looking at surgery and there isn't much else that's going to cut it. But for those of us stuck in the annoying stage 1 or 2 zone? Man, the Quest Diagnostics capsules and ointment were absolute lifesavers for me, and they worked wonders for my brother too!
Frank Cooper5 Frank Cooper5 Newcomer
1 message
joined Oct 2009
#1167 ·
Honestly, the only thing that actually worked for me—and I’m talking after trying pretty much every damn hemorrhoid cream on the market—was this specific cream made by an honest lady named Ljubica from Posusje. Last month, my hemorrhoids decided to stage a full-scale revolt; the itching was the absolute worst part, though the stinging wasn't far behind. I tried everything under the sun, but nothing moved the needle until this stuff. A few days of applying it and the itching just... vanished. I actually went to see two private proctologists about it. The first one told me I had a fissure and prescribed some fish oil ointment to rub on it—I swear I almost died when I applied that stuff, so I stopped immediately. The second guy insisted it was just second-degree hemorrhoids, no fissure involved, and put me on Detralex and Procten... absolutely useless. Eventually, I just called to have that cream sent to me because I was losing my mind and, Fact, it was the only thing that provided relief. A friend recommended it to me since it worked wonders for her too.
Aaron Rogers Aaron Rogers Newcomer
3 messages
joined Mar 2019
#1168 ·
I haven't personally messed around with Pilex Himalaya, but honestly, those ones with the blue logo were a total lifesaver for me; I was dealing with constant misery for two whole months, and then after just four days of using them, everything finally cleared up, so even though the tablets are pretty pricey, they are absolutely worth every cent in my book.
brightwalker32 brightwalker32 Active Member
52 messages
joined May 2017
#1169 ·
What kind of expensive stuff are we even talking about here?
ruggedtinker43 ruggedtinker43 Newcomer
7 messages
joined Dec 2011
#1170 ·
Greetings everyone, I’ve undergone a THD procedure and decided to share my experience here.

This all started over eight years ago, which is actually why I originally joined this forum. My first post was back in late 2011, but it wasn't until about two years ago that I finally took action by seeing a proctologist. You can find my previous posts within this thread.

To be blunt, the last year or two were the absolute worst. I was dealing with Grade II and III hemorrhoids. Every month or two, I’d suffer heavy bleeding during bowel movements, which would last anywhere from a week to two weeks. Lately, it became a constant issue after every single movement, accompanied by prolapse. Sometimes it took five minutes to resolve, sometimes hours, and occasionally it wouldn't stay tucked in all day. It was pure misery—constant discomfort, pressure, irritation, and occasional pain.

At the end of last year, I finally pulled the trigger on surgery and opted for the THD method. I was scheduled for mid-January of this year.

The procedure itself and the recovery period went smoothly without major complications, which is standard for this type of surgery.
The operation lasted about 40 minutes. I was given a pain injection immediately following the procedure. I stayed at the clinic for observation for a short while. After about two hours, once the initial medication began to wear off, I received another injection and was discharged to go home. From there, I just managed the pain with standard over-the-counter pills.

The first two days post-op were brutal. Severe constipation. Nothing would move, regardless of how much I strained. Now, straining isn't recommended when you have hemorrhoids, but I had no other choice—it felt like I desperately needed to go, but nothing happened except perhaps something tiny and unnoticeable. My diet consisted mostly of soups, soft foods, puddings, and occasionally something slightly more solid; I also used paraffin oil. It wasn't until the third day that I had a somewhat normal bowel movement, though it was quite painful. I was sweating profusely and leaving the restroom completely drenched. This continued for about a week after the procedure, which aligns exactly with what the staff at the clinic told me: that the intense pain would subside after a week. Each day, the pain decreased. Over the following month, if I knew I had eaten something particularly dry, I’d take a tablespoon or two of paraffin oil before bed to prevent issues the next morning.

Everything has been normal since then. No sign of hemorrhoids, no bleeding, no prolapse—nothing. I make sure to keep my time on the toilet as brief as possible; I sit, finish, and get up immediately. I also shower right after my morning routine.

I went in for a follow-up about 40 days after the procedure. Once I described my symptoms and current status, the doctors knew immediately that everything was fine. They confirmed it after performing the exam.

I read discussions here about people experiencing recurrences after a few years. I fully intend to prevent that from happening. I plan to regulate my diet as much as possible, stay active, avoid sitting on the toilet for long periods, avoid cold surfaces, and follow all the necessary lifestyle adjustments.

Bottom line: I feel like a new man. Results clearly vary from person to person, but if anyone is on the fence, I highly recommend it. For me, it was worth every penny.
Aaron Rogers Aaron Rogers Newcomer
3 messages
joined Mar 2019
#1171 ·
Hey everyone, just wanted to drop some wisdom regarding hemorrhoids. I'm 26, and honestly, dealing with this crap started way too early for me—around 19. My own damn fault, really, because I spent too much time sitting on cold, wet ground, which apparently isn't the best move for your backside, but hey, what's done is done and I've gotta live with it. Anyway, if you're young and reading this, or if you're older, please show this post to your sons so they can avoid my mess. I end up battling this twice a year, usually late autumn when the weather starts acting up. It’s been pretty nasty; I’ve even dealt with third-degree hemorrhoids that were actually bleeding on me. But listen, after struggling for two months straight recently, I finally heard about these Pilex tablets. There are two versions—the Himalaya Pilex and the one with the blue logo. I don't know much about how the first ones work, people say they aren't all that, but the second version is pricey. A 48-capsule pack runs you about $200, but man, they are worth every cent. Two months of pure misery vanished in just four days; they completely receded. My advice? Grab those tablets to kill the immediate pain, and then switch to Detralex whenever you need to stay ahead of it. You can get 60 tablets for $27, which helps prevent them from coming back. At least, that's my game plan every time I feel a flare-up starting. Cheers, and I really hope this helps some of you fight the good fight.
Gregory White76 Gregory White76 Newcomer
1 message
joined Jan 2010
#1172 ·
Sarah Williams37 said:Where did you get the surgery done, how much did it cost, and can you get anything covered through insurance?

I went through my insurance and had everything done in Vukovar. I went in for the exam and was in surgery just ten days later... but dammit, I just noticed one is poking out again. I swear, I'm gonna lose my mind! 😵..
Gregory White76 Gregory White76 Newcomer
1 message
joined Jan 2010
#1173 ·
Has anyone else dealt with things sagging again after surgery? I’m almost a year out and I’ve just started noticing it’s hanging again..☹️
Thomas Jones4 Thomas Jones4 Member
13 messages
joined Dec 2014
#1174 ·
Aaron Rogers said:Until I heard about those Pilex tablets, I was lost. There are two kinds, Pilex Himalaya and the one with the blue logo. Honestly, I don't know much about how the first ones work—heard they might not even do much—but man, those other ones are pricey. A bottle of 48 capsules runs you about $200, but trust me, they’re worth it. I had two months of absolute misery, and it vanished in just four days. Totally gone. My advice? Grab those tablets to kill the pain fast, then switch over to Detralex whenever you need to. You can get 60 tablets for $27 just to stop things from coming back. At least, that's my routine the second I feel a flare-up starting. Cheers, hope this helps you guys fight the good fight!

So how does that Pilex actually work? I know Detralex strengthens blood vessel walls—I used it for my veins before—but I didn't really notice it doing anything for my hemorrhoids at the time.
Michelle Lopez86 Michelle Lopez86 Member
10 messages
joined Jun 2016
#1175 ·
Back again. I deal with hemorrhoids every once in a while, but for the last three days, I’ve had this swollen external hemorrhoid driving me crazy. I went to see my doctor yesterday and she prescribed some Fact ointment. She actually pushed the hemorrhoid back inside, but from what I can tell, it’s still swollen right under my finger. There’s a mountain of advice out there for dealing with this stuff, so I’m just going to tackle them one by one.😁
From everything I read and hear, even surgery isn't a 100% guarantee that they won't come back...

In my case, bleeding is pretty rare—maybe just a tiny trace of blood on the toilet paper occasionally. It's more about that intermittent dull ache and a slight stinging sensation. After I go, I always make sure to rinse up with a showerhead, though when I'm at work, I just use wet wipes after I finish my business. Sometimes, right after I'm done, I get that annoying feeling like I haven't fully emptied everything. When I'm home, it's manageable; I just hop in the tub, run some cold water, sit in it for about 15 minutes, and man, it's pure bliss. But being at work? That's the nightmare. If it hits me while I'm on the clock, it's rough. I end up walking around for a few minutes like I've got a broomstick shoved up my ass, and all my good vibes vanish instantly. For me, diet is absolutely everything. If I eat junk and then spend too much time hunched over my computer, I'll feel the consequences a few days later. So, I try to avoid sitting for too long and stay away from certain foods. I drink tons of water, stick to home-cooked meals, and obviously, plenty of fruits and veggies. Walking helps too.
Now I'm looking into buying one of those hemorrhoid cushions to see if it helps take some of the pressure off my main veins when I'm stuck sitting on a hard chair.
Bradley Miller50 Bradley Miller50 Newcomer
1 message
joined Apr 2019
#1176 ·
ruggedtinker43 said:Hi everyone, I just had my THD procedure done and wanted to share my experience...

It all started over eight years ago, which is actually why I first signed up for this forum. My very first post was back in late 2011, but it wasn’t until about two years ago that I finally took action by seeing a proctologist. You can find my previous posts regarding this in this thread...

Basically, the last year or two were the worst. I was dealing with Grade II and III hemorrhoids. Every month or two, I would experience heavy bleeding during bowel movements, which would last for a week or two. Lately, it happened after every single movement, accompanied by prolapse. Sometimes it took five minutes to resolve, sometimes hours, and occasionally it wouldn't settle back in all day. It was pure misery—the discomfort, the pressure, the constant irritation, and the pain...

At the end of last year, I finally decided to go through with surgery and chose the THD method. My appointment was scheduled for mid-January...

The procedure itself and the recovery went fairly smoothly, which is pretty standard for this kind of thing...
The surgery lasted about 40 minutes. They gave me a pain injection immediately afterward. I stayed at the clinic for observation for a bit. About two hours later, once the medication started wearing off, I received another injection and was discharged. After that, I just managed things with standard over-the-counter pain relievers...

The first two days after the operation were the hardest. I dealt with terrible constipation. Nothing would move, no matter how much I strained. I know straining isn't recommended when you have hemorrhoids, but there was simply no other way. The urge is intense, yet nothing happens. I might only pass something tiny and barely noticeable. I mostly stuck to soups, purees, puddings, and occasionally something slightly firmer, while drinking paraffin oil... It wasn't until the third day that I had a somewhat normal bowel movement, though it was quite painful. I was sweating profusely and leaving the restroom completely soaked. This continued for about a week, which is exactly what they told me at the clinic—that the pain would subside after seven days. Each day, the discomfort felt a little lighter. For the next month, if I knew I had eaten something particularly dry, I’d take a spoonful or two of paraffin oil before bed just to avoid issues the next morning...

Everything has been normal since then. No sign of hemorrhoids, no bleeding, no prolapse—nothing. I make sure to keep my bathroom trips as quick as possible; I sit, finish, and get right up. I also make it a point to shower immediately every morning...

I went in for a follow-up about 40 days after the procedure. Once I explained how I was feeling, the doctor knew immediately that everything was fine. They confirmed everything looked good after the exam...

I read here that for some people, the issue returns after a few years. I am certainly going to do my best to prevent that. I'll try to regulate my diet as much as possible, stay active, avoid sitting on the toilet for too long, avoid cold surfaces, and follow all the usual advice...

Ultimately, I feel like a new person. Results obviously vary from person to person, but I certainly recommend it if anyone is on the fence. It was worth every penny to me...

My experience was very similar... I had Grade 4 internal hemorrhoids and mucosal prolapse. I had my THD 22 days ago. Even though they said it would be painless, it was incredibly painful for me... due to the constant pressure and the urge to go, I felt like I couldn't leave the restroom, yet I couldn't fully empty my bowels even when straining. My stomach felt extremely swollen and huge. It wasn't until after the third day that I finally went, and since then, I've had small movements constantly. When I lie down or sit, nothing happens, but as soon as I stand up, I feel the pressure and have to rush to the restroom for very little output. It's like I'm going 10 times a day out of nowhere. Even now, 22 days later, I still have that pressure and it's difficult to walk... I don't know if this is normal. My follow-up is in five days, and I can't wait to see if everything is okay. Because there is absolutely nothing about their "painless method" or "returning to daily activities the next day"... even the part about the tissue falling off on its own after 10 days... I feel like I still have them because of the tightness and sharp pains, and I think everything is still swollen because it's such a struggle to use the restroom... and I'm still stuck eating soft, liquid foods. That's just my experience...
Michelle Lopez86 Michelle Lopez86 Member
10 messages
joined Jun 2016
#1177 ·
Brandon Brown29 said:Alright, I’m back again. So, look, I deal with occasional hemorrhoid flare-ups from time to time, but for the last three days, my external hemorrhoid has been totally swollen up. I went to see my doctor yesterday, and she prescribed some Fact ointment. She actually tried to push the hemorrhoid back inside, but from what I can tell, the area around the opening is still super swollen and tender to the touch. There’s a massive amount of advice floating around out there on how to handle this stuff, so I figured I’ll just take them one by one and see what works.😁
From everything I’ve been reading and listening to lately, even getting surgery doesn't give you a 100% guarantee that those damn hemorrhoids won't just come right back.

Look, in my case, the hemorrhoids rarely actually bleed—it’s more like just a tiny trace of blood on the toilet paper once in a while. Usually, it’s just this nagging, dull ache and a stinging sensation. After I finish up in the restroom, I always make sure to rinse off. When I'm at the office, I just use wet wipes to clean things up, but man, there are times right after I go where I get that annoying "incomplete emptying" feeling. It’s the worst. Once I get home, though, I can fix it—I'll just turn the shower to cold, hop in the tub, sit there for about 15 minutes, and absolute bliss. Total relief. But being at work? That's the nightmare. If it hits me while I'm on the clock, it’s brutal. For a few minutes, I’m literally walking around like I’ve got a broomstick shoved up my ass. All my good moods just vanish instantly. For me, diet is everything. If I eat junk and then spend way too much time hunched over my computer, I’ll feel the consequences within a couple of days. So now, I try to avoid sitting for too long and steer clear of certain foods. I drink as much water as possible, stick to home-cooked meals, and you can bet I'm getting plenty of fruits and veggies. Even a quick walk helps keep things moving.
So, I'm looking around right now trying to find a decent cushion for my hemorrhoids. I'm basically trying to figure out how much I can actually relieve the pressure on my main veins when I'm stuck sitting on one of those rock-hard office chairs.

Just wanted to give you guys an update—things have improved a ton. I’ve been taking the Pilex tablets and using Hemo-ex as a topical, plus I messed around with some ointment for hemorrhoids. I also started hitting the shower with cold water. Over time, that damn hemorrhoid actually shrunk down and isn't flared up anymore. I can still feel it's there, but it's way smaller now, and the itching and pain? Completely gone.

Look, I know I’m supposed to stay off my butt as much as possible—less sitting, more walking, that whole deal—but man, when you're dealing with hard stools, it's a total nightmare. It absolutely wrecks me. If things get backed up for even a couple of days, it's game over. Honestly, it’s not even surprising when hemorrhoids start acting up; when you're passing something that hard, it just wears down the vein until it gets inflamed, and then you're stuck dealing with all that crap. Thinking back to how brutal it used to be... compared to that, what I'm feeling now is pure bliss.

To be honest, I haven't really dealt with any actual bleeding—it’s actually pretty rare for me to see blood. For me, it usually shows up as this intense pain and itching instead. But lately, things have taken a turn for the worse; I’ve got this swollen vein—basically a clot about the size of a pea—and man, it is brutal. It’s causing this nasty, sharp pain and constant itching... honestly, it's just pure misery.

So, I’m hitting my last round of Pilex tomorrow, and now I’m second-guessing everything. Should I go ahead and grab another round, or is this week enough to get the job done?

Reading through all the posts here, I’ve gotta admit—compared to some of you guys, I’m basically a total newbie.😁
lonehawk22 lonehawk22 Newcomer
1 message
joined Jul 2019
#1178 ·
Hi there, I'm 21 years old and I've been dealing with quite a bit of rectal bleeding. It isn't massive or anything, just a few streaks of blood, but I'm also experiencing some stinging and itching around my anus.😢 This has been going on for quite a while now, so if anyone could offer some advice or guidance, I would be incredibly grateful.
Sophia Booth8 Sophia Booth8 Newcomer
3 messages
joined Aug 2020
#1179 ·
Give this a shot!

https://www.coolinarika.com/recept/p...tiv-hemoroida/

It seems to work wonders for some people—though others might swear it doesn't do much at all.
Just give it about 7 to 10 days, and then you'll have your answer, right?
Sarah Jones6 Sarah Jones6 Newcomer
2 messages
joined May 2019
#1180 ·
Hi everyone! Feel free to steer me in the right direction if I'm in the wrong thread. 🙂
I gave birth three months ago. During my pregnancy, I dealt with brutal pain and absolute misery from hemorrhoids—I tried everything under the sun, but eventually, that passed. By the way, for anyone currently struggling with inflammation: try raw grated potato mixed with olive oil—apply it with a gauze pad overnight. It actually helped me quite a bit.
After all that, I’ve been left with this extra bit of skin near my anus (I'm not sure what the medical term is, but in English it's called a skin tag). It’s incredibly annoying, both for hygiene reasons and just aesthetically. It doesn't hurt, and there's no bleeding; it just... hangs there. I'm wondering if anyone else has dealt with this? Are there any natural remedies that work, or is surgery the only real option? Any information at all would be appreciated. 😏

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