Robert Cruz5 said:Look, I don't care about the pipette thing. You mentioned you used to play—or maybe you still do—handball. Either way, just tell me: what’s it like when you realize the refs aren't even playing the same game? Like, they're using one set of rules for you and a completely different playbook for your opponent.
I played... and look, back when I was playing, up until I was 18, I was basically just a kid...
And at that age, hormones are doing all the heavy lifting—you're wired, you're tense—but the worst part is when you start getting argumentative...
You lose focus on the game entirely, then everyone starts bickering with each other, and before you know it, you're in a shouting match with the ref...
Trust me, there's nothing worse than that, because I've actually been a referee myself... as a player, you can never be right in their eyes, and I'm certainly not going to change my call just because you're yelling—that would just make me look like an idiot...
The only move you've got, if you've actually got some integrity and you know you messed up, is to wait until play resumes and then just own it—tell the guys and the coach what happened...