Nicholas King said:Well, that’s easy enough to say—but honestly, I still don't think we're on the same page. Me and you, specifically. 😕
Anyway, moving away from that—off-topic question: does being overly tolerant toward someone actually end up killing you? 😁
And just like that, I’m sitting here feeling like the punchline of a bad joke. My attempt at an explanation totally fell flat, and since it wasn't even that clever to begin with, it honestly stings a little more!
Anyway, let's move on. I've already shared my thoughts regarding "likes" and "likers," and if we were to ever crown the "most liked" member of this forum—whether they be a man or a woman—I honestly feel that title would probably go to a massive crowd of people who simply don't have much of an opinion of their own. In other words, the title isn't exactly something to brag about.
And then you start suggesting that this person would necessarily have to be male. 😛
Oh boy, I think I've finally managed to make my point—even if it was a bit clumsy, potentially misplaced, and definitely sexist in its delivery! 🙂
When I look at my own behavior—and I'm being totally candid here because I want us to be close—I am certain I would never dream of giving anyone a dislike, or whatever that button is called. The only exception might be if some bigot pops up shouting hateful things about certain groups of people. But even then, I don't feel the need to broadcast my disapproval that way; if I disagree, I can just reply to them directly, but hitting that dislike button feels... well, to be perfectly honest, it feels a bit pathetic.
The idea that someone thinks differently than I do, so I should go ahead and tank their reputation score (which I find absurd anyway)... goodness, it's like something out of a preschooler's playground! 🙄
Now, when it comes to those people whom I actually *do* like, clicking "like" on their posts feels barely any less silly than clicking it on the people I don't. What if I'm just some airhead without a single functioning brain cell? Would anyone truly be flattered by my approval?
And I can just imagine an even worse scenario. 😲 Someone likes me. And I don't want them to! But they just don't care, do they? They come charging in like a whirlwind, liking everything I post. And what am I supposed to do? Run to a support group and desperately open a thread titled "Please, for the love of God, stop liking my posts"?
The bottom line is this: how much does anyone's dislike or like actually matter?
Can there objectively be any benefit to it? I certainly don't see one. Maybe there's some weird social currency involved, but that doesn't affect me one bit.
Could it cause harm? Absolutely. This site crashed on me at least five times today, and the last thing this platform needs is extra unnecessary server load, so it's clearly not working well.
Nicholas King said:Well, that’s easy enough to say—but honestly, I still don't think we're on the same page. Me and you, specifically. 😕
Anyway, moving away from that—off-topic question: does being overly tolerant toward someone actually end up killing you? 😁
How can you say "it doesn't matter" right now? 🙂
Goodness, do you realize how much text I just wrote before I realized what was happening? 😲
I honestly think it’s become pretty obvious to even the most oblivious people by now that I much prefer actually sitting down to write something meaningful rather than just clicking a little like button!
Nicholas King said:Well, that’s easy enough to say—but honestly, I still don't think we're on the same page. Me and you, specifically. 😕
Anyway, moving away from that—off-topic question: does being overly tolerant toward someone actually end up killing you? 😁
Oh, absolutely.😉 There have been so many people who decided to be overly accommodating toward bullies, and unfortunately, they often end up being the ones caught in the crossfire.😬