goldenorca11 said:Everything above seems fine (everyone should just save a copy of their own posts to their computer along with the TIMESTAMP when they hit send), and if a post disappears, just drop a question here.
A moderator is allowed to make a mistake, provided they can admit it and restore the content (I'm not exactly an expert on vBulletin—I've mostly worked with phpBB in the past)—but if it's proven a post was deleted without a valid reason, it needs to be fixed.
It would certainly be much nicer if we could all just see a history of our deleted posts (that way we wouldn't have to manually save everything to our hard drives just to check if something vanished), but hey, it is what it is. From my experience, a moderator might be replaced once enough complaints pile up. Right now, I can't say for sure if we're looking at bias, simple mistakes, or if there are just so many posts that the moderator is actually doing a solid job.
This forum isn't a newcomer, and it won't vanish tomorrow. If this thread gets enough well-reasoned posts, the result is clear: people don't want their contributions wiped out if they are on topic and respectful. Of course, I ask the moderator for some patience; people whose posts were legitimately removed will probably wander in here too. If someone is being overly aggressive, there are always solutions. 😁 Moderation is necessary; the only question is whether the criteria are too strict or perhaps skewed the wrong way.
edit: I also want to ask fellow members not to report posts that were deleted for good reason. Reporting 100 posts that were rightfully removed actually does more harm than good. It’s enough to find about ten posts that were truly deleted without cause to identify a pattern (if one even exists). Also, let's remember that a moderator's job isn't easy. They shouldn't delete a post just because a user is being difficult, but only if the post isn't on topic or isn't civil (hate speech, etc.). This forum is actually a great thing; when you're frustrated, you can vent about whoever is getting on your nerves in that moment (even if that specific post ends up getting nuked eventually), but your other posts shouldn't—and must not—be deleted just because of one outburst.
The problem isn't that the criteria are too strict.
It’s more that they are inconsistent and, frankly, unprofessional. I mentioned one specific instance earlier as an example.
Generally speaking, I would actually advocate for the strictest possible standards. One insult or a single swear word? A month-long ban—no problem at all. I think the quality of our discussions would improve almost instantly if we did that.
However, the crucial part—the absolute dealbreaker—is that the rules must be applied consistently to everyone and remain relevant to the content. We shouldn't have moderators mixing their own personal biases or worldviews with the actual moderation guidelines.
And honestly, this has reached a rather concerning level lately.
It feels like the moderators have reached a point where they're practically walking on eggshells, essentially saying, "Look, I don't feel like dealing with your nonsense, so I'm just going to delete your post and ban you—what are you going to do about it?"
I experienced this very thing recently with Sam Green73. Out of nowhere, during a perfectly normal discussion, he coolly labeled me a nostalgic for the old regime—I have no idea why he felt entitled to categorize me like that—closed the thread, and handed me a red card. 😁
In my opinion, forget the topic itself; once you get a red card, what was being discussed becomes irrelevant. It's frustrating.
But this behavior is simply not serious.