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ruggedeagle10 ruggedeagle10 MemberOP
25 messages
joined Oct 2010
#1 ·
Let me start by getting this straight right out of the gate... I’ve noticed a few threads popping up lately with similar content regarding Religion, and even here on the FBI boards over the last couple of days. I actually started drafting this on Saturday morning, so please don't assume I'm only opening this now because of those other topics. No, that isn't it. I was under a ban, so the folks over in the Religion section beat me to the punch! 😁

So, here we are... honestly, I'm not even sure where the best place to begin would be. 🙂 The subject at hand is the Moderatura Religion PDF—and let me be perfectly clear from the start: I know this might make your eyes roll or leave you feeling a bit disillusioned, but it is high time this was addressed. It needs to be resolved, if only so I can get some clarity and decide whether there is even any point in continuing to write on this forum at all.

I am not going to complain, nor am I lodging a formal grievance against my own recent ban. There was no reason to appeal it, because as you will see in the following text, I requested it myself. I will explain and clarify exactly why. Instead, I want to address the underlying conditions that lead to such situations—the actual ROOT cause of the problem. If there is even a genuine desire to fix things, that is where we have to start. After all, why would anyone actively seek out a ban for themselves? Why?? Clearly, something extraordinary and noteworthy has occurred in this instance, hasn't it? Or rather, is currently occurring.

Now, let me tell you exactly what is happening and why. Regarding the Moderatura Religion PDF, it is primarily led by moderator rowdyhawk10, who is followed closely by moderator Nicole James, whose tyranny and abuse of her position and authority is nearly identical. I don't care how ridiculous this sounds to you, or how many of you might be rolling your eyes right now... frankly, I don't care, because it is simply the truth. This is a matter of fact, a reality that any honest visitor to that PDF who is familiar with the current state of affairs—and understands how things truly operate there—would have to admit. That sentence summarizes the situation perfectly... and now, I will elaborate on the long version.

It is common knowledge that being perfectly just and unbiased is an impossible standard. We are only human, after all—small, imperfect creatures. Nobody expects perfection from us, and certainly not from moderators in their official capacities. That much is clear. However, what is obvious is also excessive, and what is too much is simply too much. My fellow forum member, Rebecca Rivera2, has already pointed this out on several occasions (though she has also overstepped at times, but then again, who wouldn't after facing so much injustice, especially personally?) She has accurately depicted the situation and repeatedly highlighted the failures and omissions of moderator Nicole James. I believe that despite the refusal to address her points, the issue remains glaringly obvious... and since I largely agree with her arguments presented here... http://www.reddit.com/showthread.php?t=455682 I will instead speak about the second "school of thought" operating there, which complements Nicole James's style quite seamlessly: the school of rowdyhawk10. It sounds a bit silly calling it a "school," 🙄 but I can't think of a better way to describe it right now; it captures the essence of the situation. As you know, Nicole James is an atheist, while rowdyhawk10 is a Muslim. We can all agree that neither side, nor either worldview, finds comfort in Christianity or the Christians who present its arguments and bear witness to it. That isn't the problem; I understand that. It’s fine if you don't like it. Freedom of opinion, freedom of belief, and freedom of speech MUST be afforded to everyone. But that is precisely where the trouble begins. The problem arises when that very freedom is systematically and repeatedly trampled upon and deleted on the Religion PDF by the aforementioned moderators through the abuse of the positions entrusted to them.

I could pull an enormous number of examples—posts, entries, and debates—that would prove and demonstrate this, but that would be an exhausting task, digging through old threads to hunt down every single instance. Instead, I will highlight just a few. First, moderator Nicole James has a certain circle of forum members (if I need to list them by username later, I will, as I have reported their posts multiple times for blatant rule violations without any sanction being applied) whom she looks the other way for. She allows them, to a certain extent, to insult, mock, go off-topic, and troll, all for the purpose of provoking others. When those others inevitably bite—driven by the desire to respond or express their own legitimate opposing views—they are swiftly sanctioned and silenced via summary judgment. Meanwhile, "Nicole's crew," who share her worldview, enjoy a certain level of credit, unless they truly go too far by using explicit profanity, at which point she is forced to react because she can no longer make excuses. But the POINT is this: certain users are protected to a degree because they share a similar worldview, and their violations of the rules are tolerated just enough so that when members of a different worldview try to correct them or respond, they are flagged for being "off-topic" and immediately face sanctions. For the "inner circle," however, such sanctions are incredibly, incredibly rare.

That covers the situation regarding Ego-. However, this logic applies equally to rowdyhawk10—though I can't say he coddles quite as many users as his colleague does. That said, he has one specific user, "Nemruth Dagi," who more than makes up for it, and I’ll use her as the perfect example of how this all works... As for this particular poster, I honestly cannot recall if she has ever received a single warning, a sanction, or even a slap on the wrist. Looking back now, I don't see a single instance where she was hit with a yellow card on any thread. Just imagine treating a yellow card as a mere suggestion 😲 while others are facing red cards. I have personally reported her multiple times for blatant off-topic rambling, trolling, and other nonsense... (And believe me, I don't enjoy reporting people; it truly leaves a bad taste in my mouth... I only do it because I want the moderation to be impartial toward everyone.) So, what is the reality here? If I choose not to report an obnoxious post and instead respond to it myself, I get sanctioned. But when I actually take the time to report it, nothing happens. In neither scenario is the issue resolved. It feels as though the only way to exist here is to remain completely silent, which effectively means I'm not even part of this community. My mouth is being shut no matter how I approach it, leaving me with nothing to do but sit back and read provocations! What kind of logic is that??

In short, based on her posting history, that user should probably go by the handle "Troll" rather than "Nemruth..." She systematically posts content that runs contrary to Christian doctrine, Christian philosophy, and the Christian worldview—often doing so in ways that are strictly forbidden and frankly shameful. Yet, by the moderation team—specifically rowdyhawk10, who seems perfectly comfortable with this given his Islamic background—she remains protected and shielded from any accountability. And I mean that literally; she is untouchable. Now, listen, I wouldn't mind if people wanted to spit, insult, or mock; that doesn't bother me. Honestly, I just feel pity for people like that. The real issue arises when, while this behavior is tolerated, the other side—specifically Christians—is hunted down and sanctioned for even the slightest slip-up. This creates a stifling environment that crushes freedom of speech and the ability to express opinions or respond to provocateurs! When I report provocation in the form of trolling or off-topic chatter, nothing comes of it. But the moment I step in to correct the record because the moderators are clearly incapable of doing so, sanctions fly at lightning speed and suddenly the police are at my door! Perhaps it sounds ridiculous—feel free to laugh—but that is the reality of the situation, and I suspect many would agree. To avoid any confusion: I am not suggesting that there aren't trolls within the Christian community who use unacceptable language and methods; they are rightfully sanctioned, and I fully support that. The problem isn't them; the problem is the blatant double standard being applied to the other side, which is exactly why I am writing this here today.
ruggedeagle10 ruggedeagle10 MemberOP
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joined Oct 2010
#2 ·
When that whole "new Christian perspective" initiative was first launched by our colleague No Nick—where these exact same issues were being pointed out—well, look at us now; nothing has been resolved. During that time, rowdyhawk10 wrote "Come on, in every single thread you (Christians) just complain and whine, every single time, about this or that..." in that sort of vein. But seriously, 😲 if people are voicing grievances in every thread because they simply cannot tolerate certain things anymore, then clearly SOMETHING IS WRONG that needs to be addressed. You can't just dismiss it by saying, "Oh, you guys are so annoying, always complaining in every thread..." I mean, would any sane person just spontaneously complain in every single discussion for no reason? Who does that? Clearly, a PROBLEM EXISTS, and when a problem exists, you attempt to fix it rather than burying your head in the sand and muttering "blah blah, you're all so tedious," right? Isn't that how it works?

I can point to instances where Nicole James, acting as a moderator in one particular thread, actually insulted two female users by calling them "low-lifes." Later, when caught and pulled into the debate, she refused to apologize or even admit she was wrong. Look, anyone can slip up, but if you do, have the backbone and the integrity to at least acknowledge it when it’s staring everyone in the face. Instead, we see someone dodging their own mistakes while shamelessly punishing others for much smaller infractions. This is JUST one example that illustrates what certain moderators allow to happen. I’m not claiming to be better than them, nor am I saying they are worse than anyone else as individuals—we all make mistakes—but as moderators, allowing this kind of behavior is unacceptable. Again, this is merely ONE example to illustrate the pattern of behavior and what they feel entitled to permit without shame, clear enough?

Then there is rowdyhawk10, a troll and provocateur who seems to be running an open campaign against Christianity lately. Beyond his personal trolling, he leverages his moderator immunity to say whatever he wants, while appearing biased, unfair, and dishonest in his moderation—silencing and sanctioning those deemed "unsuitable"...
So, please explain to me: how would you feel, or what would you do, if you were backed into a corner? If you had to endure all these provocations and injustices, knowing that if you try to react or set the record straight, you'll be sanctioned just for responding to an unmoderated, protected troll with a minor tangent or a small off-topic comment? You’d be hit immediately with a warning or a ban. I’ll admit I haven't been punished nearly as much as I have, this being my first ban, but other Christians have faced far more than I have because they perhaps couldn't restrain themselves as much. But that is the situation you find yourself in: if you respond, sanctions follow. You have to weigh every single letter and word you write, walking on eggshells to avoid being labeled as "off-topic" or a "troll." Meanwhile, the other side is given free rein and tolerated? What are we supposed to do? I’m asking you, Admins, do you honestly think this is normal??

Now, take all of these points regarding the Religion section—points that I, and many others on this forum, find to be absolute facts—and consider this: the moderators are biased, unfair, practicing censorship, and stifling free speech... and then just push that aside as if you don't agree! AGAIN, put that aside for a moment, I mean AGAIN... something is fundamentally broken. People are protesting and complaining; just look at how many bans have occurred in the Religion section over the last few days. A few of them actually asked to be banned themselves because what is happening here has become both ridiculous and tragic, yet their posts were still deleted and so on. The problem is real. So, what are the people responsible for fixing the problem doing? They aren't doing anything. And what should be done with those in charge who are incapable of performing their duties correctly—whether they are guilty, unfair, or otherwise? Let's set that aside for a second: if they are unable to maintain order where chaos reigns, what should be done with such incompetents?? If one truly wants to resolve the situation and restore normalcy, the INCOMPETENT must be moved or replaced, and new people must be brought in who will actually try to be useful and improve things! Surely?? It's up to you to decide...

In short, even if we set aside my claims of bias and the blatant unfairness from the moderators—which I know many of my peers share—these two moderators, especially rowdyhawk10, lack even a shred of tact. Rules exist to ensure order and to facilitate healthy discussion, distinguishing between those here out of a commendable desire to exchange ideas with mutual respect and tolerance, and those who are just here to vent their frustrations and restlessness. Those types should be removed, not the other way around. Instead, the former are suppressed while the latter are given free rein, with rules applied blindly and without any sense of proportion, effectively choking normal discussion. On the other hand, Nicole James, I'm sorry, but objectively speaking, she has no clue about religion. She lacks an understanding of the most fundamental concepts in this field, which has been proven numerous times on this forum whenever she joins a debate. It’s baffling how she can moderate a section like this when she struggles to even distinguish right from wrong within the subject matter; she can't guide a discussion or shut one down when necessary because she doesn't grasp the material she is moderating. It is glaringly obvious! Because of this pervasive lack of tact, the situation is visibly deteriorating. When you combine that with their intolerance toward Christian doctrine and worldview—which clearly drives their decisions and actions—I am left with nothing to say other than that their conduct lacks objectivity and fairness, which leads directly to all the problems I've mentioned!

The other moderators over at the Religion section... Mostly Harmless isn't able to be present right now due to some technical issues. When she actually shows up, everything changes—the situation improves significantly because she isn't just a wonderful person on a personal level, she’s truly an incredible soul. She is fair, honest, and possesses genuine goodwill. Everything would fall into place if people simply had good intentions and the WILL to follow through. But when they don't? Well, this is what happens. Then there's the other moderator, the newcomer, Walnut. I'm not sure what his deal is; perhaps he hasn't found his footing yet, but he's nowhere to be seen. He was supposed to act as a counterbalance, a steady hand to balance things out following those recent revolts, but so far, nothing. As we can see, it's the same old story. And where are Dayane and Blaise? They aren't even around, and I honestly don't understand why they are even listed as moderators when they are completely absent from the PDF. Essentially, everything is being run by Nicole James and rowdyhawk10. They have turned the PDF into their own little playground, exercising absolute autonomy and tyranny over anyone who disagrees with them through their specific MODERATURA. I have nothing against them posting there or expressing their views, regardless of what they may be, but moderation cannot be this intrusive or biased. If it is, then the whole thing loses its purpose, and I'm left wondering what the point of being in such a place even is. That's all there is to it. I'm exhausted from writing this "manifesto" here 😁. I honestly don't know where I find the energy or the patience to chase after some semblance of justice on a tiny little forum like this, but here I am. I figured it's better to put in the effort now, reach a conclusion, and decide whether it even makes sense to stay and keep writing, rather than wasting even more time later on in such a miserable environment. I've been reflecting on this and felt compelled to speak up because I've been witnessing these injustices for a long time now. I had to react. Do whatever you want now!
ruggedeagle10 ruggedeagle10 MemberOP
25 messages
joined Oct 2010
#3 ·
Here are a few topics and links to provide some context, just in case anyone still thinks I’m exaggerating or making things up. My goal is to give you a clearer picture of the actual atmosphere over there and the specific ways the Monitor operates. I realize that reading through all of this can be exhausting and frankly quite draining, but if people are going to endure constant injustice, then those who actually want to resolve something should probably step up and look into this themselves. What else can I really do? 🙂

This discussion has certainly dragged on a bit longer than expected, hasn't it? However, I would suggest looking beyond this specific thread and taking a moment to examine the comments from others as well.
Regarding this thread, here is one specific example found on pages 60 and 61.
Here is an example from near the end of page 2. I’ve been spending some time lately reflecting on how much the landscape of modern belief systems has shifted. It feels like we are constantly navigating a sea of conflicting ideologies, where the line between genuine spiritual conviction and mere social performance becomes increasingly blurred. Is there any actual substance left in our contemporary understanding of faith, or have we simply replaced ancient truths with trendy, hollow philosophies? When you look at the way people discuss the intersection of tradition and modernity, it often feels like an exercise in futility. We attempt to reconcile the profound weight of the Bible with the frantic, superficial pace of the digital age, yet the two seem to move in entirely different directions. Does anyone else feel that sense of exhaustion? That feeling that we are shouting into a void, trying to find a coherent narrative in a world that prefers fragmentation over unity? It raises a fundamental question: Can a person truly maintain a deep, structured spirituality while participating in a culture designed to distract us at every turn? Or are we destined to become a society of wanderers, drifting from one half-baked idea to the next without ever finding solid ground? I find myself wondering if we have lost the capacity for the kind of quiet, disciplined contemplation that once defined the human experience. Perhaps we are too busy looking for answers in all the wrong places.
Here we go again—another textbook example of cronyism and the blatant protection of Nemruth, acting like he’s some kind of untouchable polar bear.

Here are just a few examples I managed to scrape together quickly. There are countless more out there that haven't even been seen yet, but I figured these might serve to illustrate the situation and bring you a little closer to the reality of it all. I am fully aware that even with these few instances, you won't gain a complete understanding of the landscape, nor will you get a full picture of the state of affairs within the Religion PDF files. To truly grasp the depth of what is happening, one would need to be a regular visitor to the Religion section quite frequently. For that reason, I have decided to share these. I have put together a SurveyMonkey for those of you who follow along and contribute to the Religion discussions. And who exactly is so well-acquainted with the current state of affairs? I am requesting that only those who have a definitive position declare themselves. And they feel entitled to share their opinions. By selecting from the provided options.So, it boils down to this: only those who consistently follow along and actually dive into the discussions within the Religion PDF!

The issue here is painfully obvious. We have one moderator, Nicole James, who uses her position as an atheist to steer the conversation in her direction, while another moderator, rowdyhawk10, uses his Muslim faith to pull things toward his own agenda through moderation. It’s a calculated synergy; they complement each other perfectly in their shared goal of pushing back against Christians. Amen.

I’m not suggesting there’s some secret conspiracy at play here—I don’t believe they’re meeting up every Friday to plot out how to handle "Christian forum users" and other nonsense. It isn't that they've suddenly abandoned their supposed "righteousness" or "integrity" by design. Rather, this atmosphere is a spontaneous byproduct of how they choose to moderate. The tension is palpable. Honestly, it’s exhausting even having to write this, let alone dealing with this entire mess. I’m also thinking about those individuals whose actions have made me lose all respect for this forum. Now, I’m not saying Nicole James or rowdyhawk10 are inherently bad or corrupt people, but for heaven's sake, you simply cannot treat people this way. You just can't. Eventually, everything will reach a breaking point; people will see the pattern, they won't tolerate it anymore, and then it's over. Does this little bit of "power" you wield over a forum actually cloud your judgment? Does it distort your sense of justice and fairness so much that it turns you into something completely different from who you are in your private lives? If that's the case, it’s frankly ridiculous. Please, take a moment to reflect and get serious.

Please, don't try to make a fool out of me by offering those tired excuses. I don't want to hear any more of that "they're only human," "moderators aren't omnipotent," or "they're trying their best to be fair" rhetoric. To be perfectly blunt: I don't buy it. The reality of the situation is staring us all in the face. The question now is whether you intend to address this with actual honesty and accountability, or if you simply won't. I am demanding a competent response from the administration in charge. Is the upper management actively endorsing this current state of affairs? I need to know that. Once I have an answer, I can finally decide if there is any point in continuing to contribute here, or if I should just pack my bags and walk away for good.

I need to get this out while it's still fresh in my mind, because frankly, I have zero interest in getting dragged into endless back-and-forth debates here. I’m asking you all—please, let’s not turn this thread into a fifty-page mess of noise. While I admit there might have been ways to refine my presentation even further, I believe what I’ve laid out is sufficiently reasoned and presented. Everything should be perfectly clear. I’m not starting this topic just to spark some trivial argument; those who genuinely want to understand the core of the matter will find it quite obvious. My goal isn't debate—it's to hear from the people who actually hold the authority, the admins, and to encourage everyone to cast their vote in the SurveyMonkey poll. And for those who might look at this and offer that tired, hypocritical line—you know the one—asking, "What kind of Christians are you? Where is that supposed Christian love and acceptance if you're sitting here complaining and mourning like this?" Please, spare me. It's such a narrow-minded, provocative way to frame things, and quite frankly, it lacks any real depth.

Do you honestly believe that Christians are just a bunch of indifferent saints who will sit idly by in the face of any injustice? That we’ll just tolerate every kind of filth and insolence while remaining as quiet as mice? That will never happen. That voice will always be heard. Speaking the truth—words and thoughts that are righteous—is the most powerful force allowed to us. It is our duty, not just as Christians, but as all decent, well-meaning people, to bear witness to this world rather than staying silent and suffering everything without a word!

I just saw that thread in the Religion section regarding "Moderator Objectivity..." I actually started drafting all of this before that thread even appeared, back when I was still serving my ban. I wrote this Saturday morning specifically so it wouldn't look like I was reacting solely to that; otherwise, one might think there's no need for my input here, nor for any Christian perspectives or the views expressed by someone like that guy from that particular thread... "Regarding objectivity, I believe it is at a satisfactory level. One can express oneself quite freely without losing the core message or getting banned." Oh, of course, buddy! It’s no problem for you to say everything is fine when, in your worldview, the best friend on this forum is Nicole James with her dictatorial tyranny. You certainly have the freedom to express opinions that perfectly suit the current "desirable" climate over there... isn't that right? 😉

So, to wrap this up... the issue isn't about insults or mocking other people's opinions—even if those opinions are presented in the shameful way some limited individuals do, which is practically a rule on the PDF where people spit, stomp, and do whatever they please. That's not the point. The issue is the IMPOSSIBILITY of raising one's voice against it. It seems it's a case of "HE is allowed and able, but I am not." And I'm not saying I want to troll or mock others; I don't resort to that. But if someone provokes through off-topic comments and trolling and remains unpunished, how am I supposed to respond and correct them without being labeled for off-topic behavior myself? The real problem is the BIAS and the LACK OF OBJECTIVITY from the Moderator; it is pure CENSORSHIP. Any further attempt to write or participate under these conditions goes against common sense. Therefore, I request a formal statement so I can decide how to proceed! There you have it. Regards.

And now, I’m adding this after seeing all the newly opened and subsequently closed threads on USA.gov regarding the state of the Religion section, along with the additional bans and warnings that I noticed after I finished writing...

You know what? Now that I really think about it, it is a DISGRACE what you have turned this into. You have driven me—and it seems many others—to this point. When I think about Reddit now, my primary thought isn't about seeking justice, but rather about how you've chased away the interesting discussions I came here for. I came here to talk with normal people; that is why forums exist in the first place! It is a SHAME, a MISERY, and a TRAVESTY for Reddit!!!

AND IF THIS CONTENT AND THE ESSENCE OF THE PROBLEM—WHICH I HAVE INVESTED BOTH YESTERDAY AND HOURS OF WRITING TODAY INTO—SEEMS TOO LENGTHY OR DETAILED TO YOU, PLEASE UNDERSTAND THAT I AM CAREFULLY WATCHING MY WORDS SO AS NOT TO ACCIDENTALLY OVERSTEP, EVEN WHILE BEING PROVOKED BY SUCH OBVIOUS, PERFIDIOUS, AND ARROGANT INJUSTICES... TRYING TO REMAIN AS CALM AS POSSIBLE... IT FEELS JUST AS MEANINGLESS AS ALL THE OTHER THREADS YOU HAVE CLOSED SO FAR... WE ARE GOING TO START USING DIFFERENT METHODS TO RESOLVE THIS, BECAUSE THIS CENSORSHIP AND BLINDNESS TO A PROBLEM THAT HAS BEEN DRAGGING ON FOR MONTHS HAS PASSED ALL REASONABLE LIMITS!

ADMINISTRATORS AND THE LEADERSHIP OF THIS FORUM... I AM ADDRESSING ONLY YOU NOW!!

So, I ask you: do you have even a shred of sincere desire or will, after everything that has happened, to finally tackle these issues head-on and try to fix them for everyone's satisfaction, or not???
Christian Torres3 Christian Torres3 Regular
604 messages
joined Sep 2014
#4 ·
Look, managing the Religion PDF isn't perfect—I’ve had my own gripes about it too—but you can't really call it censorship. Most of what's being said in the posts above is just a highly subjective take on how things are running here.

I'm skipping the SurveyMonkey because none of these options actually hit the mark for me. All I'll say is that the state of this PDF is far from ideal, and I disagree with most of the points made above, though they're way too long to dissect one by one.
ambertinker2 ambertinker2 Newcomer
5 messages
joined Jun 2009
#5 ·
The vibe over in the Religion subforum is honestly trash right now. It’s completely unacceptable how the admins just ignore user complaints—multiple threads have been shut down today without a single word from anyone in charge addressing the actual questions or requests we’re putting forward.

It’s pretty obvious that at least six or seven different users are calling out rowdyhawk10, along with the rest of the mods in the Religion section and you guys at the top. This should be a massive red flag for you to actually look into what people are complaining about instead of just censoring our right to speak.

Because of all this, my next move is to take this straight to the owners and management of Monitor. Until things actually change in the Religion section, I’m done posting here—and I’ll be telling my friends to do the same.

Take care.
Rebecca Rivera2 Rebecca Rivera2 Member
15 messages
joined Mar 2009
#6 ·
I’m calling it now: this thread will probably get locked. So far, there hasn't been any real appetite for the arguments being laid out here.

NOTE:
If the censorship continues like this, we’ll be forced to migrate our discussions to communication channels outside of this platform.

The very domain name Reddit essentially implies that this is a PUBLIC space—which, frankly, it isn't. That is the crux of the entire issue.

From what I can gather, the domain wasn't assigned in a way that aligns with the regulations set by AT&T, which oversees the top-level domains. This warrants an investigation. There is a commission within AT&T specifically designed to handle disputed cases like this one.

If the current forum were renamed to something like www.anderlonforum.com or www.part-forum.com (referencing the atheist society that practically runs this place and controls one of its most widely read files—Religion), then we wouldn't have this confusion that leaves users feeling completely misled.

In all seriousness, is it actually possible—before anyone takes steps that can't be undone—to have a civil, human conversation with someone here?
Anderlon?
ruggedeagle10 ruggedeagle10 MemberOP
25 messages
joined Oct 2010
#7 ·
Perhaps I wasn't clear enough in my previous writing, even though I explicitly stated that I have no desire for further debate on this subject. Everything is already perfectly obvious; we've had more than enough discussion and back-and-forth already. Those who choose to keep their eyes open can see the reality for themselves!

Moving on... regarding the current state of affairs on the PDF, I suggest those who contribute to and follow the discussions there express their views via a SurveyMonkey. If none of the options provided actually satisfy them, then they shouldn't bother voting at all. As for actual responses or official statements, the only ones I am interested in hearing from are those who hold the final authority here—the ADMINISTRATORS of this forum! Let me say that one more time, just so there is absolutely no confusion.

Best regards,
Gary Patel Gary Patel Active Member
74 messages
joined Jul 2022
#8 ·
Look, just take a glance at the posts from Solomon, Parsifal, centurionix, and their crowd—the way they go after atheists. Especially Solomon and Parasfil. Not a single one of them has been penalized. It’s not just the Christians who feel insulted here. Sure, maybe some moderators are getting a bit too subjective—punishing people who happen to share their views when they break a rule—but I don't think there's some grand conspiracy against Christians in general. Is the Religion PDF designed primarily to spread atheism and such? Maybe. And are the mods occasionally being overly biased? Definitely. But then again, lately, almost every thread is about atheism, most of them started by Christians, where atheism is insulted in a totally rude way and nobody gets banned. I'm not saying Christianity holds a higher status on Religion, but it often feels like the very people complaining about Nicole James are the same ones insulting atheists or starting debates meant to question atheist morality.
Steven Clark2 Steven Clark2 Active Member
85 messages
joined Sep 2020
#9 ·
Would you mind just sending me the links—if it isn't too much trouble—perhaps via a private message? I am honestly not convinced that Solomon and centurionix are actually insulting atheists. You have to understand, "insulting atheists" is such a harsh accusation; we don't allow that kind of behavior on the Religion PDF, as those types of comments get flagged immediately. It might just be sarcasm or something similar, which I personally find unhelpful in a serious discussion. That is why I am curious to see exactly where Solomon (a devout Christian) and centurionix (a Catholic) allegedly insulted anyone. As for Parsifal, I am not entirely sure if he identifies as a Christian, so I wouldn't feel right using him as an example here.

You make a fair point—nobody is perfect, and everyone offends someone eventually. But please remember that I once raised the question regarding the division of the PDF, which felt like a perfectly logical, natural, even scientific approach (anyone who has studied comparative religions will understand my perspective). Unfortunately, I mostly encountered prejudice and misunderstanding from the decision-makers. I stayed away from this forum for a month, and I honestly thought, "Well, maybe this place has actually improved." It appears I was mistaken.

And how long will it continue like this? I cannot say, but I do know this could have been resolved quite easily—or rather, more simply—exactly how I suggested: through a structural division of the PDF (just look at how Alternative manages five separate PDFs!). Bringing in a fresh team of moderators would be a true breath of fresh air.

In the end, you aren't the only one who has grown tired of that PDF. Have you ever stopped to consider how many high-quality individuals have walked away from it? Honestly, I wouldn't have even rejoined this discussion if I hadn't been invited. It is a strange phenomenon: the intellectuals are usually the first to leave, because they are the ones who truly see things for what they are...
Gary Patel Gary Patel Active Member
74 messages
joined Jul 2022
#10 ·
Solomon Kan said:Real Americans—or really, anyone else out there—who actually live by their faith aren't what I'd call atheists or fake believers. For any true believer, morality is the absolute cornerstone of their faith. My issue isn't with the faithful; it's with the hypocrisy of those who claim to believe but don't walk the walk. Honestly, I see those hypocrites as being on the same level as atheists—they’re living lives without God at their core. While they try to separate the sin from the person, I find "atheism as an ideology" itself to be fundamentally destructive. It's just a flawed idea, plain and simple.
If I'm a Christian and you happen to be Catholic, Muslim, or Jewish, but we both strictly follow the moral principles our faiths demand, then neither of us is an atheist, right? There is a Being in our lives we call God—we believe in Him, live through Him, and share essentially the same core values... that’s just not the case for atheists or for people playing dress-up with their faith. It’s different.

centurionix said:For Christians, morality is absolute; for atheists, it's relative.

To a Christian, murder is murder—period. Full stop.
But for an atheist—or even a believer who has totally abandoned their conscience (and yes, I’m grouping non-believers together with believers who don't actually practice what they preach)—murder isn't always seen as murder.

Just look at the Ten Commandments, which were rooted in conscience. You'll see that someone who doesn't actually live their faith won't respect a single commandment; they just bend them to justify whatever they're doing.
Murder is murder, but abortion? Not so much.
Adultery becomes an "adventure"...
Stealing isn't stealing unless you get caught...
Lying is just viewed as normal human behavior...
And honoring your parents? That's optional, basically...
I could go on all day...

Enough said?
Nicole James Nicole James Regular
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#11 ·
Every single time, there’s another thread about me... honestly, I really am quite wonderful 😍
Steven Clark2 Steven Clark2 Active Member
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#12 ·
Gary Patel said:Enough said?

😕 Are you being serious right now? Where exactly did Solomon insult atheists? Please, show me. 😕 Regarding his statement about condemning atheism... what exactly did he mean by that? 🤷 What about the atheists? Regardless, let’s not forget that he is an Orthodox Christian. At times, it might seem like some of his statements come across as harsher than what he actually intended when he sat down to write them. I am certainly not trying to defend him, but I know from my own experience that I have struggled with this while posting here; sometimes things are said in the heat of the moment rather than being a true reflection of one's thoughts.

It makes me quite sad. Should I really start pulling random quotes about believers being narrow-minded or backward? Should I bring up how many times we have been mocked and underestimated? Or perhaps list all the negative criticism leveled against us—how people call us names, labeling us hypocrites or liars without providing a shred of evidence? If that is the case, why didn't you speak up when you saw such injustice before? And tell me, will you continue to remain silent when you see similar behavior happening here on the forum?

The core issues and disagreements here are only intensifying—more and more every day. Why? There are several reasons, and I don't want to simply repeat myself. Let’s be clear: this situation is never going to resolve itself just by appointing yet another moderator or implementing minor tweaks. Honestly, there are highly intellectual and deeply educated individuals on this forum, particularly among the Christians, who aren't blind to what is happening and will speak up just as I am doing now. It is truly baffling that Radeta was awarded 500 points simply because a moderator grew bored with the discussion and couldn't find a way to push back. We are talking about 500 points handed out for sheer nonsense—something that wouldn't even earn 10 points under normal circumstances. Do you see the fundamental problem here? This is an issue that our administration needs to take far more seriously than they currently are. When someone gets 10 points and a red card, it might just be a moderator making a mistake; no big deal, nothing catastrophic. But when someone receives 500 points—especially someone who isn't being insulting or provocative—that is an administrative matter. It is only a matter of time before all of this reflects on the community in a much more serious way.

Rebecca Rivera2 also received 500 points undeservedly, along with a warning prior to being banned, as if they were some notorious forum troublemaker. When I read about this, I felt a genuine sense of alarm and sadness; quite frankly, I am at a loss for words. Why did this happen? Simply because they hold a worldview that is fundamentally different from Nicole James, whose presence seems to constantly loom over them, openly pointing out certain things. Granted, perhaps Nicole James reacted impulsively, but handing out 500 points and such a severe warning is, in my estimation, an absolute disgrace.

What is truly the worst part of all this—I haven't seen a single well-reasoned explanation anywhere as to why such massive "rewards" are being handed out, especially regarding Radeta. Honestly, people, he is Mexican and an Orthodox Christian; surely we ought to be looking out for someone like him a bit more? We don't exactly have many of his kind represented here on the forum. It is such a shame what has been done to him—who is going to make this right? Does anyone ever actually step up and apologize for something like this?

Then why don't you come over here and tell me exactly how Solomon or centurionix insult atheists?

Are atheists being insulted on this forum? I’m certain they are, but I believe there is a fundamental difference in how things are handled here. It isn't quite right when someone repeatedly calls Rebecca Rivera2 an idiot—and doesn't even receive a warning—yet when Rebecca Rivera2 calls someone else a whiner, they are instantly hit with a 500-point penalty. I would sincerely appreciate it if someone could explain to me exactly where I am mistaken. I realize I might be wrong, but I have gained significant experience on this platform. I have participated in seven or eight different sub-forums with varying subject matter, and I feel quite confident in my ability to engage in respectful dialogue with Catholics, Protestants, or any other group. I would truly value it if a moderator or administrator—specifically those in charge—could point out exactly where my reasoning fails.

Nicole James said:Every single time, there’s another thread about me... honestly, I really am quite wonderful 😍

Please, don't misinterpret my intentions; I haven't been opening up about you at all. I am simply sharing what is truly on my mind. 😍
rapidrider3 rapidrider3 Active Member
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#13 ·
Nicole James said:Every single time, there’s another thread about me... honestly, I really am quite wonderful 😍

Well, I guess I have to...😛

..because of people like this. Honestly, I try to stay away from certain topics—or rather, certain subforums entirely. ☕
Gary Patel Gary Patel Active Member
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#14 ·
Steven Clark2 said:😕 Are you being serious right now? Where exactly did Solomon insult atheists? Please, show me. 😕 Regarding his statement about condemning atheism... what exactly did he mean by that? 🤷 What about the atheists? Regardless, let’s not forget that he is an Orthodox Christian. At times, it might seem like some of his statements come across as harsher than what he actually intended when he sat down to write them. I am certainly not trying to defend him, but I know from my own experience that I have struggled with this while posting here; sometimes things are said in the heat of the moment rather than being a true reflection of one's thoughts.

It makes me quite sad. Should I really start pulling random quotes about believers being narrow-minded or backward? Should I bring up how many times we have been mocked and underestimated? Or perhaps list all the negative criticism leveled against us—how people call us names, labeling us hypocrites or liars without providing a shred of evidence? If that is the case, why didn't you speak up when you saw such injustice before? And tell me, will you continue to remain silent when you see similar behavior happening here on the forum?

The core issues and disagreements here are only intensifying—more and more every day. Why? There are several reasons, and I don't want to simply repeat myself. Let’s be clear: this situation is never going to resolve itself just by appointing yet another moderator or implementing minor tweaks. Honestly, there are highly intellectual and deeply educated individuals on this forum, particularly among the Christians, who aren't blind to what is happening and will speak up just as I am doing now. It is truly baffling that Radeta was awarded 500 points simply because a moderator grew bored with the discussion and couldn't find a way to push back. We are talking about 500 points handed out for sheer nonsense—something that wouldn't even earn 10 points under normal circumstances. Do you see the fundamental problem here? This is an issue that our administration needs to take far more seriously than they currently are. When someone gets 10 points and a red card, it might just be a moderator making a mistake; no big deal, nothing catastrophic. But when someone receives 500 points—especially someone who isn't being insulting or provocative—that is an administrative matter. It is only a matter of time before all of this reflects on the community in a much more serious way.

Rebecca Rivera2 also received 500 points undeservedly, along with a warning prior to being banned, as if they were some notorious forum troublemaker. When I read about this, I felt a genuine sense of alarm and sadness; quite frankly, I am at a loss for words. Why did this happen? Simply because they hold a worldview that is fundamentally different from Nicole James, whose presence seems to constantly loom over them, openly pointing out certain things. Granted, perhaps Nicole James reacted impulsively, but handing out 500 points and such a severe warning is, in my estimation, an absolute disgrace.

What is truly the worst part of all this—I haven't seen a single well-reasoned explanation anywhere as to why such massive "rewards" are being handed out, especially regarding Radeta. Honestly, people, he is Mexican and an Orthodox Christian; surely we ought to be looking out for someone like him a bit more? We don't exactly have many of his kind represented here on the forum. It is such a shame what has been done to him—who is going to make this right? Does anyone ever actually step up and apologize for something like this?

Then why don't you come over here and tell me exactly how Solomon or centurionix insult atheists?

Are atheists being insulted on this forum? I’m certain they are, but I believe there is a fundamental difference in how things are handled here. It isn't quite right when someone repeatedly calls Rebecca Rivera2 an idiot—and doesn't even receive a warning—yet when Rebecca Rivera2 calls someone else a whiner, they are instantly hit with a 500-point penalty. I would sincerely appreciate it if someone could explain to me exactly where I am mistaken. I realize I might be wrong, but I have gained significant experience on this platform. I have participated in seven or eight different sub-forums with varying subject matter, and I feel quite confident in my ability to engage in respectful dialogue with Catholics, Protestants, or any other group. I would truly value it if a moderator or administrator—specifically those in charge—could point out exactly where my reasoning fails.

Please, don't misinterpret my intentions; I haven't been opening up about you at all. I am simply sharing what is truly on my mind. 😍

I actually tried explaining this to you in another thread a few days ago—can't recall which one, honestly—but it’s clearly a lost cause! Look, it doesn't mean a thing if someone claims, "I'm a Christian," if they've completely turned their back on Christ's ways. To me, that person is effectively an atheist—they're basically in the same boat. And let's be real: historically speaking, everyone was religious in some capacity until people decided to stop believing in God. That's how we got atheists! Also... please don't try to tell me the US is a land of "wonderful religious altruists." Atheism, with all its messy consequences, dominates our media, schools, and political institutions. It shapes the American consciousness and captures the minds and souls of the vast majority—not everyone, obviously—especially the youth here in the States. It directs their very spirits. I'm telling you, it's the inevitable result of a slow drift toward atheism across the board: politically, spiritually, culturally, educationally—every single level.
I truly find it hard to believe that it's this difficult to find someone on this forum who doesn't think in extremes. If I express a negative opinion about the overtly secular lifestyle most people lead today, why does that automatically mean I have to hate or despise someone? I am a Christian, and I don't harbor hatred for anyone. If I criticize a phenomenon that I believe is taking a deadly toll on society, and someone takes offense, that's on them—but they have no right to generalize and paint my entire perspective with a broad brush.

So, in your view, insulting Christianity doesn't count as insulting Christians? Come on, please.
Look, I'm not talking about race; I'm talking about skin color. If an argument insults the idea of atheism, then it naturally insults atheists too, because it's clear those influenced by atheism are being hit by a negative concept. You can keep defending it if you want, but just don't. And as for Parsifal, I don't want any quote-posts.
For instance, Jacob really gets on my nerves with his threads where he mocks and insults theists—but then again, the theists who do the exact same thing irritate me just as much.

It seems like only Christians get insulted, but that's just not true. In the last few threads, it's been nothing but atheists getting targeted, yet no one is being penalized. This all comes down to individual character. You have both theists and atheists who are decent people and don't insult others or their beliefs, and then you have those who just do it. It bugs me that in these kinds of complaints, Christians are always portrayed as the sole victims, even though we can all see that atheists are attacked just as often. Neither side gets a pass, really. Sure, anyone can get a warning—myself included—but you're being way too subjective by thinking atheists get special treatment. If you look closely, theists get breaks too. Honestly, I think we're at a point where atheists are being insulted more frequently while no one gets punished.

Both sides deal with unfairness, but what saddens me more is seeing people think like Solomon 🙂. I'm not even as angry about the inconsistent enforcement of rules as I am saddened by this negative view of atheism—this habit of painting the entire American population in such a bad light. And then these people call themselves atheists just out of spite, simply because they're being difficult, whereas theists wouldn't act that way. I just don't get this blanket negativity toward atheists, vegetarians, Black people, homosexuals, or even theists coming from the atheist side.😢

I don't really mind the unfair banning—I mean, at the end of the day, this is just an online forum and I shouldn't let it get to me—but what actually bothers me is seeing so many people clinging to those old prejudices. It's wild that in the 21st century, we still have theists and atheists clashing like it's some ancient battlefield.😢

It’s the types like Jacob or Solomon who really take things way too far.

Honestly? I think the unfair bans and how the moderators handle things are actually the least of our problems here.
Steven Clark2 Steven Clark2 Active Member
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#15 ·
Gary Patel said:
I actually tried explaining this to you in another thread a few days ago—can't recall which one, honestly—but it’s clearly a lost cause! Look, it doesn't mean a thing if someone claims, "I'm a Christian," if they've completely turned their back on Christ's ways. To me, that person is effectively an atheist—they're basically in the same boat. And let's be real: historically speaking, everyone was religious in some capacity until people decided to stop believing in God. That's how we got atheists! Also... please don't try to tell me the US is a land of "wonderful religious altruists." Atheism, with all its messy consequences, dominates our media, schools, and political institutions. It shapes the American consciousness and captures the minds and souls of the vast majority—not everyone, obviously—especially the youth here in the States. It directs their very spirits. I'm telling you, it's the inevitable result of a slow drift toward atheism across the board: politically, spiritually, culturally, educationally—every single level.
I truly find it hard to believe that it's this difficult to find someone on this forum who doesn't think in extremes. If I express a negative opinion about the overtly secular lifestyle most people lead today, why does that automatically mean I have to hate or despise someone? I am a Christian, and I don't harbor hatred for anyone. If I criticize a phenomenon that I believe is taking a deadly toll on society, and someone takes offense, that's on them—but they have no right to generalize and paint my entire perspective with a broad brush.

So, in your view, insulting Christianity doesn't count as insulting Christians? Come on, please.
Look, I'm not talking about race; I'm talking about skin color. If an argument insults the idea of atheism, then it naturally insults atheists too, because it's clear those influenced by atheism are being hit by a negative concept. You can keep defending it if you want, but just don't. And as for Parsifal, I don't want any quote-posts.
For instance, Jacob really gets on my nerves with his threads where he mocks and insults theists—but then again, the theists who do the exact same thing irritate me just as much.

It seems like only Christians get insulted, but that's just not true. In the last few threads, it's been nothing but atheists getting targeted, yet no one is being penalized. This all comes down to individual character. You have both theists and atheists who are decent people and don't insult others or their beliefs, and then you have those who just do it. It bugs me that in these kinds of complaints, Christians are always portrayed as the sole victims, even though we can all see that atheists are attacked just as often. Neither side gets a pass, really. Sure, anyone can get a warning—myself included—but you're being way too subjective by thinking atheists get special treatment. If you look closely, theists get breaks too. Honestly, I think we're at a point where atheists are being insulted more frequently while no one gets punished.

Both sides deal with unfairness, but what saddens me more is seeing people think like Solomon 🙂. I'm not even as angry about the inconsistent enforcement of rules as I am saddened by this negative view of atheism—this habit of painting the entire American population in such a bad light. And then these people call themselves atheists just out of spite, simply because they're being difficult, whereas theists wouldn't act that way. I just don't get this blanket negativity toward atheists, vegetarians, Black people, homosexuals, or even theists coming from the atheist side.😢

I don't really mind the unfair banning—I mean, at the end of the day, this is just an online forum and I shouldn't let it get to me—but what actually bothers me is seeing so many people clinging to those old prejudices. It's wild that in the 21st century, we still have theists and atheists clashing like it's some ancient battlefield.😢

It’s the types like Jacob or Solomon who really take things way too far.

Honestly? I think the unfair bans and how the moderators handle things are actually the least of our problems here.

That simply isn't true. On this forum—and in general—there is a distinct difference between an *ad hominem* attack and criticizing specific stances, movements, or ideas. Just because someone critiques foolish atheist ideas doesn't mean they lack respect for atheists themselves. Regarding *ad hominem* violations, people used to hand out warnings and bans on the Religion forum left and right; by default, it was enough to just randomly click on any post and claim it was an *ad hominem*, followed immediately by a warning and a 10-point deduction. But according to your logic—every single one of you who criticized Christianity (in a negative or primitive way), their beliefs, their stances, or even the Christians themselves, should have been permanently banned long ago by moderators who are atheists and one Muslim. So, essentially—someone can still view atheist propositions as being a certain way or another, but I see no evidence that Solomon insulted atheists. There is a real issue with these overly sensitive atheists (not that they all are, mind you)—they act as though they are being victimized by things they do to others on a much harsher scale. They complained about Rebecca Rivera2, calling her an idiot; creationists were called morons; believers were labeled narrow-minded, irrational, blah blah blah... and strangely enough, I have never actually seen that happen in practice here on this forum. I live for the day I finally witness such treatment, so I view those "arguments" merely as a sign of weakness. Want an example? Here it is:
And regarding Parsifal, I don't want any copy-pasted posts.

I don't feel the need to quote his posts either. He mocked individual atheists and their views quite mercilessly. When he would offer criticisms, he was often mocked in an even more severe manner. At times, I even questioned atheists as to why they didn't respond to him, but they wisely distanced themselves, claiming that Parsifal had lost his mind or had no clue what he was talking about; I almost started thinking he was a fool (literally), though nobody dared to say so publicly. Evidence for this? Zero evidence. It simply became apparent that in the argumentation of some atheists, there is a weakness regarding judging and criticizing personalities, mocking, and condescension, which is a general grievance leveled against many atheists on this site. How many truly high-quality criticisms, analyses, or debates actually took place?

To be honest—I could publicly list the handles of atheists with whom one could engage in very constructive debate, individuals who possess actual knowledge and have something meaningful to contribute. However, I am certain that half of them, when they simply run out of things to say, resort to that old method. Some atheists quite honestly indulged in Parsifal's "nonsense" with sarcasm and cynicism, while they themselves were rather clumsy at explaining their own points briefly and concisely. This is the core problem with the stances he presents—in other words, they focused more on his personality than on his arguments. Having followed his writings from time to time, I reached this conclusion. And if he, for those reasons (and perhaps others), openly and publicly demonstrated the level at which certain atheists and their arguments operated—I believe he was entirely within his rights to do so. If I were in his shoes, I would have done the exact same thing. 🙂

For instance, I find Jacob quite irritating with his posts where he mocks and insults theists; however, I must admit that theists who act with that same malicious intent also get under my skin just as much.

You are absolutely right. It honestly irritates me just as much when theists go out of their way to insult atheists in any capacity. My only experience with people like that is that they always seem to be incredibly shallow and one-dimensional. In other words— Let me make one thing crystal clear for all eternity: you cannot insult atheists on this platform without facing consequences. It is a fundamental rule here.As for the mentioned Jacob—he’s actually one of my favorites. He never quite managed to get the better of me or make me the butt of his jokes. I can't help but wonder, though... why do you think that is?

It appears that only Christians are being targeted here, which simply isn't the case. If you look at the last few threads, it’s actually the atheists who are being insulted, yet no one is being penalized for posting under a pseudonym.

No, that certainly wasn't my intention. If an atheist were in your shoes, they would likely jump straight to using those slangy little "arguments" to win the point.And now you are lying quite shamelessly."...which is nothing more than pure primitivism in a discussion. Imagine if I were to stand before you right now and say this openly and publicly:" You are being completely dishonest.. ☕

Why? Because you completely misinterpreted what I said. Where did I ever claim that only Christians were being insulted? However, since we are discussing them, I have reason to suspect they truly are being treated as second-class citizens on this forum, even if the leadership constantly tries to project a different image. My first argument? It is enough that someone who isn't Catholic—someone who doesn't agree with Catholic doctrines at all, yet deeply respects diverse beliefs and, above all, values honesty and justice (though, in all sincerity, I haven't always been that way myself, which is something I regret; I’ve certainly faced consequences for my own past mistakes)—is saying this. Furthermore, I am not from your country. Argument two? Every single Christian has noticed that Christians are placed in an unfavorable position on that Religion PDF, largely due to poor moderation, bias, and similar issues. Fine, I have nothing against the idea that there might be exceptions; let's assume that's the case. But when such a vast number of Christians—many of whom are highly educated, including non-Catholic Christians—all say the same thing, and you still choose to turn a deaf ear to them... well, man, then you clearly have a problem. Acont_ciko—a highly educated man—believes this. He has spoken out. House M.D. feels the same. Epignosis agrees as well (by the way, he is a Protestant). ruggedeagle10 agrees. (Ne)stabilni agrees. Brezovka agrees. My Orthodox brothers agree. Vavi agrees.

And I won't even bother listing them all. I just pulled these names straight from memory because I know exactly what they’ve been saying publicly regarding the situation on the PDF. There are plenty more where those came from. Can anyone tell me how... We are not. Are they right? I would certainly love to see that. Honestly— I would truly love that. If I happen to be mistaken, then I would much rather have everything exposed and debunked once and for all. However, the real issue is of an entirely different nature—it's about prejudice. We are dealing with massive biases being fostered by the moderators and the administration. My argument?

My personal favorite: In response to various complaints from many Catholics regarding the perceived disrespect toward Catholic values, beliefs, and sentiments, there has occasionally been this reply:

I don't think this is quite right. Reddit

Do you realize how utterly disgraceful it is when someone in a moderator position says something like that? It doesn't even matter which one it is. Do you truly grasp what such a statement reveals about a moderator—especially one who likely hasn't even spent real time participating in those discussions? I can't help but wonder, how would you personally feel if someone looked you in the eye and said:

That isn't quite right. Reddit

How would one even begin to process such a feeling? What exactly would go through my mind, and what rights would I actually possess in that situation? Beyond that, what kind of rights might be available to me? Most importantly, if we find ourselves in this position, what is our course of action?

We are launching several new initiatives—steps that are truly constructive for the entire community. We are raising questions regarding the unconstructive moderation that has led to this current state of chaos. We are asking openly, and we are seeking real answers. But what exactly are we getting in return? What kind of response can we expect? Is this really a community that refuses to tolerate Christian worldviews? Do people holding Christian beliefs here not possess the same rights as any other member of this forum? Does everyone here look at whether you are a Christian first, only then deciding if your opinion deserves any respect?

You know, speaking as someone living in another country, I would truly love to have the answers to these questions myself. For now, acting as an academic citizen of my nation, I believe I am correct in thinking that such questions can only be met with a formal response designed to satisfy the public—just enough to keep them from getting agitated again—even if that isn't the practical reality. I harbor no hatred toward anyone, and thank God for that, as I am grateful I don't carry such feelings within me. However, I feel compelled to voice what I am saying, though I hesitate to do so for fear of being met with the bias and half-hearted fairness you seem to advocate. Regardless, I find you to be a very pleasant interlocutor; please decide for yourself whether I am being sincere here, or if I am simply resorting to those classic "arguments" found in a Religion PDF (hypocrite, liar, blah blah blah). 🙂

It all comes down to individual character. There are theists, atheists, and so on, who are decent people that don't offend others or their beliefs, and then there are those who do exactly that.

Of course. No one is claiming otherwise.
Steven Clark2 Steven Clark2 Active Member
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#16 ·
Gary Patel said:
I actually tried explaining this to you in another thread a few days ago—can't recall which one, honestly—but it’s clearly a lost cause! Look, it doesn't mean a thing if someone claims, "I'm a Christian," if they've completely turned their back on Christ's ways. To me, that person is effectively an atheist—they're basically in the same boat. And let's be real: historically speaking, everyone was religious in some capacity until people decided to stop believing in God. That's how we got atheists! Also... please don't try to tell me the US is a land of "wonderful religious altruists." Atheism, with all its messy consequences, dominates our media, schools, and political institutions. It shapes the American consciousness and captures the minds and souls of the vast majority—not everyone, obviously—especially the youth here in the States. It directs their very spirits. I'm telling you, it's the inevitable result of a slow drift toward atheism across the board: politically, spiritually, culturally, educationally—every single level.
I truly find it hard to believe that it's this difficult to find someone on this forum who doesn't think in extremes. If I express a negative opinion about the overtly secular lifestyle most people lead today, why does that automatically mean I have to hate or despise someone? I am a Christian, and I don't harbor hatred for anyone. If I criticize a phenomenon that I believe is taking a deadly toll on society, and someone takes offense, that's on them—but they have no right to generalize and paint my entire perspective with a broad brush.

So, in your view, insulting Christianity doesn't count as insulting Christians? Come on, please.
Look, I'm not talking about race; I'm talking about skin color. If an argument insults the idea of atheism, then it naturally insults atheists too, because it's clear those influenced by atheism are being hit by a negative concept. You can keep defending it if you want, but just don't. And as for Parsifal, I don't want any quote-posts.
For instance, Jacob really gets on my nerves with his threads where he mocks and insults theists—but then again, the theists who do the exact same thing irritate me just as much.

It seems like only Christians get insulted, but that's just not true. In the last few threads, it's been nothing but atheists getting targeted, yet no one is being penalized. This all comes down to individual character. You have both theists and atheists who are decent people and don't insult others or their beliefs, and then you have those who just do it. It bugs me that in these kinds of complaints, Christians are always portrayed as the sole victims, even though we can all see that atheists are attacked just as often. Neither side gets a pass, really. Sure, anyone can get a warning—myself included—but you're being way too subjective by thinking atheists get special treatment. If you look closely, theists get breaks too. Honestly, I think we're at a point where atheists are being insulted more frequently while no one gets punished.

Both sides deal with unfairness, but what saddens me more is seeing people think like Solomon 🙂. I'm not even as angry about the inconsistent enforcement of rules as I am saddened by this negative view of atheism—this habit of painting the entire American population in such a bad light. And then these people call themselves atheists just out of spite, simply because they're being difficult, whereas theists wouldn't act that way. I just don't get this blanket negativity toward atheists, vegetarians, Black people, homosexuals, or even theists coming from the atheist side.😢

I don't really mind the unfair banning—I mean, at the end of the day, this is just an online forum and I shouldn't let it get to me—but what actually bothers me is seeing so many people clinging to those old prejudices. It's wild that in the 21st century, we still have theists and atheists clashing like it's some ancient battlefield.😢

It’s the types like Jacob or Solomon who really take things way too far.

Honestly? I think the unfair bans and how the moderators handle things are actually the least of our problems here.

No, no, my friend. This is... The *argumentum ad populum*—essentially the appeal to popularity—is a logical fallacy that I often find myself grappling with in my own reasoning. It is the seductive, yet fundamentally flawed, idea that because a majority of people believe something to be true, it must inherently be so. While there is a certain comfort in the collective consensus, we must remember that truth is not a democratic process; it is not subject to a vote or a headcount. History is littered with instances where the masses were collectively mistaken, proving that popularity is a poor substitute for actual evidence.. 🙂 Atheists are being protected here like polar bears on the Religion PDF. And you know what? To be completely honest—it doesn't bother me one bit, but I find the situation deeply unsettling. These individuals aren't the ones responsible for the current state of the Religion section. Everyone bears some responsibility, though there is a glaring difference: every single regular user has faced consequences, yet the moderators seem to have received nothing. Another crucial point is that Christians are complaining, and quite frankly, they have legitimate reasons to do so. In my opinion, none of them actually want to be on this PDF, but they do desire a different kind of standing. They shouldn't have to endure every random troll coming in just to mock believers, only to have a moderator tell you "nothing happened" when you report a post for being uncivilized or outright disrespectful.I honestly fail to see what the controversy is here.." 😲 I honestly don't know how much more of this I can take (I assume I won't be getting 500 points for this outburst, right?)—but seriously, is the Monitor blind? When faced with such blatant rudeness, pure primitivism, and obvious trolling, they actually have the nerve to tell me...I honestly don't see what the controversy is here." 😲
Even atheists aren't being punished, though honestly, neither are Christians.

Of course Christians aren't being penalized here. Kumitkat was stripped of 500 points due to a moderator error—which is an absolute embarrassment, quite frankly, for a forum like this. Will he ever actually return to the discussion? I realized earlier that the guy is from Mexico, though I previously thought he was based in New York City. How is he supposed to process or even wrap his head around something like this? If I may be so bold as to point something out—where are the administrators and moderators who would step up and publicly admit they were wrong? Where is the accountability to say they made a massive mistake regarding him? If such a thing is even possible here, I wouldn't know, as I jumped straight into this specific thread. But if that kind of integrity does exist, it truly deserves commendation. My major grievance with the moderation team is this autocratic, almost dictatorial attitude some of them hold. They act as if they are infallible, always right, and never willing to offer an apology. They carry themselves with a certain tyranny—not everyone, mind you, but certainly enough moderators to make it a real problem.

Look, anyone can get a warning—I know I certainly have—but I think you’re being far too subjective here. You seem convinced that atheists are getting a free pass, but if you take a closer look at the data, you'll see that theists are also being given plenty of leeway. In fact, it feels like we've reached a point where atheists are actually the ones being insulted more frequently, yet hardly anyone is being held accountable for it.

Perhaps I am alone in this sentiment... but honestly, that doesn't even matter right now. We all need a little breathing room once in a while, but it is truly pathetic and disheartening to see how strictly certain Christians are being sanctioned and labeled, while far worse behavior passes by without any consequences at all. The point isn't that one of us wants a moderator to single them out—that solves absolutely nothing. The real issue is that these patterns simply continue. Please, don't just tell me that none of us Christians have any idea what we are talking about.

Both sides suffer from injustice here, but what truly saddens me is seeing people who think exactly like Solomon 🙂.

Personally, I don't feel any sorrow regarding someone thinking like him. It’s just as much not my concern how others view Christianity. Why should I be upset? Simply because everyone would have to be indoctrinated fools who believe things like parrots? Aren't we already accused of having closed, darkened minds and all sorts of other labels—I could go on forever? As if we needed those accusations too! Let them talk; I say thank you. And my thanks also goes to Solomon for having the courage to publicly state his opinion on atheism itself, rather than attacking atheists personally.

It isn't the unfair application of the rules that angers me quite as much as the negative sentiment toward atheism and the way an entire nation—Americans—is being characterized so poorly. To make matters worse, these individuals call themselves atheists purely out of spite, acting this way because they are malicious, assuming that theists wouldn't behave similarly. I honestly cannot wrap my head around this pervasive negativity directed at atheists, vegetarians, Black Americans, homosexuals, or even theists by fellow atheists. 😢

I don't quite understand it either, but one really ought to practice a bit of tolerance and flexibility. Perhaps it would have been better to ask someone what they actually meant by their comments, but even if they hold those views, nobody is giving anyone the right to keep insulting Christians. I truly don't care if some Christian insults an atheist—that doesn't give anyone a pass to let the insults against Christians continue unchecked. Do you see my point?
Steven Clark2 Steven Clark2 Active Member
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#17 ·
Gary Patel said:
I actually tried explaining this to you in another thread a few days ago—can't recall which one, honestly—but it’s clearly a lost cause! Look, it doesn't mean a thing if someone claims, "I'm a Christian," if they've completely turned their back on Christ's ways. To me, that person is effectively an atheist—they're basically in the same boat. And let's be real: historically speaking, everyone was religious in some capacity until people decided to stop believing in God. That's how we got atheists! Also... please don't try to tell me the US is a land of "wonderful religious altruists." Atheism, with all its messy consequences, dominates our media, schools, and political institutions. It shapes the American consciousness and captures the minds and souls of the vast majority—not everyone, obviously—especially the youth here in the States. It directs their very spirits. I'm telling you, it's the inevitable result of a slow drift toward atheism across the board: politically, spiritually, culturally, educationally—every single level.
I truly find it hard to believe that it's this difficult to find someone on this forum who doesn't think in extremes. If I express a negative opinion about the overtly secular lifestyle most people lead today, why does that automatically mean I have to hate or despise someone? I am a Christian, and I don't harbor hatred for anyone. If I criticize a phenomenon that I believe is taking a deadly toll on society, and someone takes offense, that's on them—but they have no right to generalize and paint my entire perspective with a broad brush.

So, in your view, insulting Christianity doesn't count as insulting Christians? Come on, please.
Look, I'm not talking about race; I'm talking about skin color. If an argument insults the idea of atheism, then it naturally insults atheists too, because it's clear those influenced by atheism are being hit by a negative concept. You can keep defending it if you want, but just don't. And as for Parsifal, I don't want any quote-posts.
For instance, Jacob really gets on my nerves with his threads where he mocks and insults theists—but then again, the theists who do the exact same thing irritate me just as much.

It seems like only Christians get insulted, but that's just not true. In the last few threads, it's been nothing but atheists getting targeted, yet no one is being penalized. This all comes down to individual character. You have both theists and atheists who are decent people and don't insult others or their beliefs, and then you have those who just do it. It bugs me that in these kinds of complaints, Christians are always portrayed as the sole victims, even though we can all see that atheists are attacked just as often. Neither side gets a pass, really. Sure, anyone can get a warning—myself included—but you're being way too subjective by thinking atheists get special treatment. If you look closely, theists get breaks too. Honestly, I think we're at a point where atheists are being insulted more frequently while no one gets punished.

Both sides deal with unfairness, but what saddens me more is seeing people think like Solomon 🙂. I'm not even as angry about the inconsistent enforcement of rules as I am saddened by this negative view of atheism—this habit of painting the entire American population in such a bad light. And then these people call themselves atheists just out of spite, simply because they're being difficult, whereas theists wouldn't act that way. I just don't get this blanket negativity toward atheists, vegetarians, Black people, homosexuals, or even theists coming from the atheist side.😢

I don't really mind the unfair banning—I mean, at the end of the day, this is just an online forum and I shouldn't let it get to me—but what actually bothers me is seeing so many people clinging to those old prejudices. It's wild that in the 21st century, we still have theists and atheists clashing like it's some ancient battlefield.😢

It’s the types like Jacob or Solomon who really take things way too far.

Honestly? I think the unfair bans and how the moderators handle things are actually the least of our problems here.

You should probably add yourself to this list. Based on our correspondence—if I may be so bold as to say so—I have come to the conclusion that you hold far too many prejudices. It seems you lack a fundamental understanding of the basics of Christianity, let alone the Bible, and you tend to take it quite personally whenever someone dares to present a differing viewpoint. 🙂 Despite everything that has happened, I still hold you in high regard, because you truly are a good person.

I find myself increasingly bothered by individuals like Jacob or Solomon, who truly tend to go overboard.

No, I think you’re overstating things a bit. From what I’ve been able to observe with Solomon, he doesn't go out of his way to push atheistic nonsense in every single discussion—which is quite different from how Jacob handles things by constantly pushing theological absurdities (at least until he runs into me). Jacob is perpetually picking on Christians, whereas Solomon doesn't bother targeting atheists like that—unless, of course, his entire approach has shifted in the last month or so, which is how long I've been following this Reddit thread. But really, what exactly are we even discussing here?

I honestly believe that issuing bans and the general way the moderators operate isn't even the most pressing issue we need to address here.

I agree, though I believe part of the issue actually exposes the underlying context of the entire story.

Now, I want you to be completely honest with me—speaking as if you were any other moderator or administrator on this site: how am I supposed to maintain any level of trust in the moderation team or the overall fairness of this forum? I just witnessed two separate 500-point penalties being handed out, and frankly, neither one deserved such a heavy hit. To make matters worse, I noticed that the second user involved had already received a warning right before their most recent ban from this community. It just doesn't seem right.

Listen, everyone, what exactly are we discussing here? It strikes me as quite bizarre how certain atheists will fight tooth and nail against religious dogma, darkness, and historical inquisitions, yet they turn around and conduct those very same practices right here. Honestly, I have to admit that I feel a wave of genuine stress whenever I see a private message sitting in my inbox. Do you know why? I simply refuse to lose 500 points due to the arrogance and condescension of the moderators. They seem completely out of touch with the very topics they are supposed to oversee, showing nothing but bias and subjectivity. Meanwhile, they swear by the righteousness of this forum and preach about equality—blah, blah, blah. Well, I consider myself quite literate, and I certainly know exactly what is going on.

An argument? Honestly, just look at that pathetic, truly pitiful reasoning from the moderator who awarded Radeta 500 points—you can find it over in that private thread. He actually went as far as setting him up, as some atheists might say, by twisting his words and attributing something to him that the man never even uttered or intended. And why? Simply because he was completely floored by the arguments Radeta presented regarding the Trinity—a topic that is notoriously difficult for anyone who doesn't truly grasp Christianity to wrap their heads around.

Please forgive the length of this post. However, because the subject matter is exceptionally complex, deeply sensitive, and has been swept under the rug for far too long, I simply cannot provide an answer in just two words.
Dana Reyes5 Dana Reyes5 Member
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joined Jul 2010
#18 ·
Nicole James said:Every single time, there’s another thread about me... honestly, I really am quite wonderful 😍

It was incredibly rude and unprofessional of one of the moderators to act that way. People have specific needs here; they are trying to build an actual argument, and through their active engagement, they aren't asking for something inferior—they are pushing for a better, more organized Religion PDF. If you aren't willing to step up and actually help, the least you could do is stop making things difficult for everyone else.
Plenty of people don't bother checking that PDF, myself included, but frankly, why should you care?
Frank Collins85 Frank Collins85 Active Member
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joined Dec 2007
#19 ·
Nicole James said:Every single time, there’s another thread about me... honestly, I really am quite wonderful 😍

👍 Brava.....I've officially decided to stop posting anything regarding Religion altogether. Quite frankly, I just don't have the mental energy left to argue with people over their specific worldview...
Raymond Ortiz89 Raymond Ortiz89 Active Member
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joined Jul 2008
#20 ·
I’m done posting over there, and honestly, I’m trying to keep my presence on this forum to an absolute minimum too. There’s just no sense in it when justice is non-existent; if you don't happen to share the exact same opinion as the moderator, you just get slapped with a ban.

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