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Moderators are being so petty, uncreative, and incompetent

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shadowpilot8 shadowpilot8 Active Member
97 messages
joined Jun 2010
#181 ·
Steven Reed, I don't think 🙂.
We all put way too much hope into new admins, though you've probably noticed things have actually improved since they started cleaning up the PŽK.
Things were rough for a while, but give people their first hundred days to prove themselves 😉
Daniel Ward87 Daniel Ward87 Active Member
195 messages
joined May 2023
#182 ·
Steven Reed said:Don't troll. 😉
No matter how much effort you put in—it’s simply impossible to turn this thread into anything resembling a joke. 😉

Steven Ruiz—I’ve gotta hand it to Desiree; unlike you or mistywolf17, she actually had the guts to admit she was wrong.
Daniel Ward87, this behavior is frankly embarrassing for a moderator—whether you choose to admit it or not, it’s the plain truth.

Look, let's be clear: this isn't a joke... who's even joking? You guys are claiming we were being intentionally arrogant and basically spitting in everyone's faces, but I'm saying that's just not true... And where are you getting the idea that I'm saying we didn't deserve the penalty? We did, and we got it...

Daniel Ward87
Kimberly Nguyen Kimberly Nguyen Regular
543 messages
joined Jul 2009
#183 ·
I’m right there with Nexic on this one.😍

Seriously, what on earth is going on in here? :kuckuc: ...
Michelle Palmer6 Michelle Palmer6 Regular
432 messages
joined Sep 2018
#184 ·
feraltrucker5 said:Honestly, I’m thinking we should just let this thread evolve into the official PŽK hangout spot. 🙂

Honestly, I’m just voting for them to Ban us all, purely for the fun of it!
Steven Reed Steven Reed Regular
354 messages
joined Dec 2014
#185 ·
shadowpilot8 said:Steven Reed, I don't think 🙂.
We all put way too much hope into new admins, though you've probably noticed things have actually improved since they started cleaning up the PŽK.
Things were rough for a while, but give people their first hundred days to prove themselves 😉

I can only speak for myself, but some solid progress has been made already—let's hope this trend continues.
It's just a shame when stupidity happens if it could have been avoided entirely; that's the only reason I even posted here. I realize moderation isn't easy—we're all human and mistakes are inevitable—but that’s precisely the point: be human (like Steven Ruiz) and just admit, "my bad."
Regardless, I wish the new admin team nothing but the best moving forward.
Kimberly Nguyen, stop chatting 🤣 🤣 (check your PM 😉)
steelskipper5 steelskipper5 Active Member
176 messages
joined Feb 2010
#186 ·
Steven Ruiz said:I am genuinely trying to figure out where the catch is here...
It feels like a total lose-lose situation because if the mods get penalized, people complain that it was done just because, but if they aren't penalized, then everyone cries foul about discrimination
...
If we stay silent, we're told we're ignoring everyone...
And if we don't stay silent, we're told we should have just kept our mouths shut in the first place...

I really don't know who could possibly be happy with those kinds of rules... 🤷

If punishing moderators for spamming, insults, or mindless chatting becomes the norm rather than the exception, then maybe we can finally say this forum has actually progressed.

Right now, you guys just took a hit—kind of like how our top-tier, totally irresponsible politicians take a beating when they screw up. Well, if they even get one.
There are several of us who have dealt with being insulted by mods, getting yellow-carded for perfectly legitimate posts, and all that nonsense—but nobody says a word. When I was being chased off Alternative by the blue-card crowd with threats and everything, nobody stepped in, except maybe Legion (IIRC) telling me there was zero chance anything would change. I asked for an explanation as to why a completely normal, on-topic, non-flame post was considered trolling, but instead of answers, I just got insults and claims that I was some troll with way too many strikes. And get this: that blue-card lady was never sanctioned for any of it. I lost my Ban for way less than that.

Mods hold power; and naturally, that comes with responsibility.
Hardly anyone calls out some idiot troll—they might report a post and wait for a mod to rightfully crush them. But when the mods start acting like this? It’s like seeing cops driving without seatbelts, robbing casinos, or breaking into houses.
Because you hold power, you should be held to a higher standard, which means people call you out more often—people without power can't abuse it, after all. You have it, you can abuse it, and frankly, you often do. Most of the time it goes unpunished because the forum backs the mods, and the super-mods or admins don't really act as a corrective force for this kind of stuff.
Yeah, okay, Smart_bitch handed out some cards. Big fucking deal. Because collectively—without naming names—you've all acted just as arrogant from your positions of power without ever facing consequences.

What's allowed for the gods isn't allowed for the mortals. We all know that's how the world works, and it's pretty clear this forum is built that way too, but these performative punishments—and they are performative because, again, you're only being punished for this behavior as an exception—feel like a total sham to a lot of us. Especially when you start trying to wiggle out of it with these fake dilemmas that feel like an insult to our intelligence.
steelskipper5 steelskipper5 Active Member
176 messages
joined Feb 2010
#187 ·
shadowpilot8 said:Steven Reed, I don't think 🙂.
We all put way too much hope into new admins, though you've probably noticed things have actually improved since they started cleaning up the PŽK.
Things were rough for a while, but give people their first hundred days to prove themselves 😉

You give a hundred days to a new administration that has no clue what kind of mess they've inherited.
I mean, nobody sane would give Kosor a hundred days when she was already running the show, just like they wouldn't have given Sanders that grace period when he won his second term as Prime Minister.

The new admins aren't exactly newbies here; they know what the problems are—or at least they've been briefed on them—long before now.

We should be expecting results. Like, yesterday.
Fine, I'll give them until the end of this week. They've got four hours left. ☕
steelskipper5 steelskipper5 Active Member
176 messages
joined Feb 2010
#188 ·
Daniel Ward87 said:🤣🤣 At that point, we were just messaging with Steven Ruiz, and if you really think we were being arrogant on purpose...🙏🙏🙏

Honestly, you've got a point... I know for a fact that most moderators do this intentionally. They act smug, basically spit in the faces of regular users, and mock people when they complain about getting banned... not to mention the blacklists and everything else. 👍

Daniel Ward87

You were chatting with a user who’s already been sent to the ban corner—someone that the average user barely even visits or bothers to reply to when they're venting about stuff.
I honestly don't get how anyone could see that kind of behavior as being stuck-up. It's gotta be people just looking for trouble. ☕
William Green4 William Green4 Member
32 messages
joined Feb 2010
#189 ·
Daniel Ward87 said:Look, let's be clear: this isn't a joke... who's even joking? You guys are claiming we were being intentionally arrogant and basically spitting in everyone's faces, but I'm saying that's just not true... And where are you getting the idea that I'm saying we didn't deserve the penalty? We did, and we got it...

Daniel Ward87

A regular user would have just received a partial Ban, or perhaps had their existing Ban extended.
But you guys are moderators, and frankly, penalizing the moderation team is a double-edged sword that does more harm than good.
That said, you were acting pretty arrogant...
but it doesn't really matter.
There’s something else weighing on my mind, something you haven't given me a straight answer on yet.
What is the actual intention behind the wording used in Daniel Ward87's post below?
Since you haven't addressed it, I'm left to draw my own conclusions.
1.) Do you honestly believe you wrote something so profound and brilliant that it requires a special disclaimer like, "Yes, I was the one who said that"?
2.) Or do you imagine this moment is so monumental that future generations will be studying it, quoting, "Remember when Ward87 said that?"

Whatever the case may be, it’s honestly laughable; it undermines your authority, and quite frankly, nobody is taking you seriously right now....

The truth is, you're one of those few moderators who actually brings the reputation of this forum down by trying to lecture people on subjects you clearly don't understand.
And just to be crystal clear, that applies to both the Lions Club discussions and the political threads.
djenja......
placidmarlin3 placidmarlin3 Member
45 messages
joined Apr 2013
#190 ·
Oh, come on, steelskipper5, give it a rest. Honestly, everyone, this whole thing is just nonsensical.
They hold all the cards, which makes everything we’re doing here feel like a shot in the dark.

They preach about making changes, but they’re really just swapping out one mask for another, using endless spins to reshape the same old reality.
Let them have their fun in the digital void. They probably find their outlet here because they're dealing with their own versions of injustice in the real world.
But the point is, acting this way doesn't actually make them better people than the ones bullying them... somewhere... at some point in time; instead,
they’re just playing the role of the "bully."

This entire PDF is nothing more than a theater of the absurd, and frankly, it should be shut down. If they had any actual backbone or integrity, they would just step up and say it plainly:
"Screw you, this is our forum, we hold the power, and you'll dance to whatever tune we play." Instead, they file these pseudo-complaints that ultimately
only serve to make them look ridiculous—to us, to their own rules, and ultimately to the very foundation of this community.

Any well-intentioned attempt to improve things around here is essentially a lost cause.
I truly believed progress was possible. I started by looking inward, addressing my own mistakes and trying to fix them, but it's all incredibly futile when there's
absolutely no feedback loop from the other side.
But they should keep in mind how they behave here every single time they feel wronged or sense that the government is mocking and robbing them.

Give a man power, and you'll see exactly who he 👎
William Green4 William Green4 Member
32 messages
joined Feb 2010
#191 ·
I honestly feel like you all might be expecting a little too much from this forum collectively: :nezna:
In my view, when I first joined, I saw this place as a genuine exchange of ideas—a chance to hear different perspectives, learn something new, or just find a spot to kill an hour whenever life gets a bit dull.
But let’s be realistic here: the owner cares about the bottom line, and there is no guarantee that anyone is actually reading what we write.
As for the moderators, they seem to be chosen based on who can suck up to whom the most, which explains why we end up with mods that, in real life, I wouldn't even trust to tell me where the nearest Starbucks is.
If you notice a moderator is being one-sided, playing favorites, or just talking nonsense while handing out bans like candy, then simply look past that specific thread.
Once the engagement on a particular thread drops off a cliff and all that's left is incoherent whining, perhaps then someone will finally decide to step in and change things.
And honestly, you shouldn't let yourselves get worked up over it; there is really no reason to...
Everything tends to work itself out in the end....
silverjackal silverjackal Member
23 messages
joined Apr 2008
#192 ·
Daniel Ward87 said:🤣🤣 At that point, we were just messaging with Steven Ruiz, and if you really think we were being arrogant on purpose...🙏🙏🙏

Honestly, you've got a point... I know for a fact that most moderators do this intentionally. They act smug, basically spit in the faces of regular users, and mock people when they complain about getting banned... not to mention the blacklists and everything else. 👍

Daniel Ward87

But this is actually true, unless you've forgotten what's going on in your own ban corner 😁
reddriver35 reddriver35 Active MemberOP
51 messages
joined Aug 2010
#193 ·
Steven Ruiz said:I honestly have no clue why you ended up with 100 points since I can't see into the backend, but let's be real, not every violation is created equal.
It's like if I'm grading my students' PDFs; I'm certainly not going to give the same failing grade to someone who sends a mother back to her hometown as I would to someone just hitting the caps lock key. One thing is much more serious than the other.

My ban actually would have been extended if it hadn't been lifted, and it wasn't just me getting an amnesty, but that third person was also given a break...
And regarding the whole business of posting a private message (though, frankly, I'm not sure what was "private" about someone insulting me, other than their own lack of manners), everything has already been addressed, the penalties were handed out, and the rule is clearly stated.

Even moderators make mistakes sometimes, and we all learn from them...

So I'll ask one more time, what is the actual problem here? Because from where I'm sitting, I just don't see one...

That was exactly my point. I wasn't looking for some petty playground brawl.

Steven Ruiz said:I honestly have no clue why you ended up with 100 points since I can't see into the backend, but let's be real, not every violation is created equal.
It's like if I'm grading my students' PDFs; I'm certainly not going to give the same failing grade to someone who sends a mother back to her hometown as I would to someone just hitting the caps lock key. One thing is much more serious than the other.

My ban actually would have been extended if it hadn't been lifted, and it wasn't just me getting an amnesty, but that third person was also given a break...
And regarding the whole business of posting a private message (though, frankly, I'm not sure what was "private" about someone insulting me, other than their own lack of manners), everything has already been addressed, the penalties were handed out, and the rule is clearly stated.

Even moderators make mistakes sometimes, and we all learn from them...

So I'll ask one more time, what is the actual problem here? Because from where I'm sitting, I just don't see one...

Did you even bother reading the example and the thread from the start of the story? Nicholas?

The real issue here is that group lynching is basically encouraged over at the Lions Club.

Daniel Ward87 said:🙄 Come on, don't be a hypocrite... How many times have you broken the Lions Club rules without getting slapped with an instant three-day ban? Nobody is disputing what we did, but when the moderators mess up, there should be an immediate 3-day ban—no questions asked. When "regular" users screw up, well, that's where the debate starts.

Daniel Ward87

When savages and thugs mess up, just look at this example. Nicholas Then it's allowed.
That moderation error is really getting under my skin. Tell me, what's your take? Daniel Ward87 Where were you when they were little? Nicholas Were they taking the piss? 🤷

It’s pure chaos over at the Lions Club. That’s what everyone is saying—including your own colleagues. Moderators. Who were you chatting with? Steven Ruiz.

The real issue here? Everyone’s obsessed with me being the "main threat" in the ban corner, while the actual bullies at the Lions Club get a free pass every single day.

reddriver35

Nicholas King said:The real issue—if we’re being honest—is that this whole situation has been handled poorly. Just... incredibly poorly. Right from the jump.

First off, there was this universal defense of the Prime Minister's right to post.

Then, out of nowhere, a wave of bans just hits—and suspiciously, they all seem to come in one big package.

After that, people were chatting away about the "banned" users for two straight days.

Then, predictably, a whopping 30 points were handed out for it.

And finally, forum members are being told—from more than one direction, mind you—to stay out of things they supposedly "aren't involved in."

Each of these points deserves a deep dive, really, but if I had to sum them up in a single sentence: don't do this. It isn't right, and frankly, you're just creating unnecessary friction and bad blood.

The problem is they don't get it. They don't *want* to get it. All they care about is fighting.

What kind of moderators and users even make up this forum? That’s it. End of story. It's a shame people can't just sit down and calmly work through their issues.

Not happening. Looking at what was posted, it’s obvious some people here have absolutely no business being moderators. And yet, here they are.

Daniel Ward87 said:It’s honestly sad how you guys act like moderators aren't part of the community too...Regular users break the rules all the time and take the cards and Bans, while mods have to deal with all kinds of nonsense while trying to stay chill, level-headed, and rational—every single day. But the second a mod slips up on the rules, they deserve an even harsher penalty just because they happen to be 🙄

What's with this whole "rules apply to everyone" thing? You guys throw that out constantly, but suddenly the tune changes when it involves the mods. If you're going to preach consistency, then actually be consistent.

Daniel Ward87

It’s honestly a shame you don't read anything from start to finish. Like I already said, the moderators are just regular forum users with extra permissions. And that isn't limited to just this thread, either. I point that out all over the PŽK.

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Daniel Ward87 said:If this were just about acting entitled, we wouldn't have been penalized 🤷 and yeah, sol faking vat. We missed the mark, we got hit with a penalty, so what? If you think it's unfair, then just say it and complain normally instead of doing... this. Plus, I'll say it again: since when is a single post considered a chat?

Daniel Ward87

Sometimes I wonder about that too.

reddriver35

Steven Ruiz said:Like I’ve said before, most of the moderators around here don't have a single strike on their record and they're honestly such model citizens... which really makes them the perfect example for everyone else to follow...
So, I was just wondering... what makes you think the moderators act so arrogant and rude like that...?
I really do try my best to be kind to everyone here and answer any questions that come my way, but let’s be real—if someone comes at me with an attitude or starts being downright rude, they can't exactly expect me to stay sweet... I honestly think most of the moderators feel the exact same way about it too...

You’re actually the perfect example of what I was talking about, so please be honest with me—what was going through your head when you all started chatting? To me, it honestly felt like everyone was just jumping onto the KzB boards to mess around because they knew they could get away with it while nobody else is allowed to... though, sorry, maybe I've got that all wrong... 🤣

I can only speak for myself here, but I really do believe this applies to everyone else too...
I honestly only started chatting because I was bored out of my mind since I couldn't access anything else on the forum. It wasn't some arrogant move to try and prove to everyone how much influence I have or show off my status here... it’s just that I was sitting around with nothing to do, locked out of the main boards, so I figured I'd just come over here and ramble a little bit... My colleagues actually stopped by to say hi, though they were a little shocked to see me acting like such a total goofball. It’s actually kind of a big deal, too... this is officially my first Ban in ten years of being an active member and moderator... 😬 So, there really isn't any talk about anyone being arrogant or acting all high and mighty...

It’s not like that with all the moderators. A lot of them act pretty arrogant and won't bother answering questions from a banned user.

I don't have anything against your chat. Honestly, I actually found it kind of charming. I get that people just dropped in to say hello. They were penalized. That’s enough for me.

I want to see the moderators showing up in the ban corner more often to actually answer questions from the community. Look, I know some of them used to pop in once in a while, but others? Never. That needs to change. If you’re going to be a moderator, do the job completely—otherwise, don't bother being one at all.

And just so we’re clear, I’m not attacking Daniel Ward87. I know he’s a regular at the PŽK meetings, and honestly? That’s fine. But this conversation isn't.

@everyone: Thanks a million for turning this discussion into a total circus!

My thanks go out to the exceptions, like Nicholas King, steelskipper5, nina williams, Steven Reed, placidmarlin3, fat slut, placidfalcon4.

A special shout-out goes to Simple_Fille.
The irony is that this thread wasn't even about her to begin with. But by showing up and digging into the issue once again, she proved what an exemplary moderator looks like. Hey, Strile, maybe take a page out of her book. 😉

@hollowtrucker77: I was going to ask you to lock this thread. Thanks for the help, even if it didn't work. At least I tried something. You know that. 😉

Unfortunately, neither the users nor the moderators seem interested in having a civilized conversation. 👎

Maybe I did whine about myself too much in my posts, but regardless, this topic could have actually served a purpose. Clearly, some of you can't stand me. In that regard, dear users and moderators, you're all exactly the same. 😁

Thanks for listening. 🙂
hollowtrucker77 hollowtrucker77 Regular
681 messages
joined Nov 2007
#194 ·
Alright, let's just wrap this thread up and hope we’ve actually learned something for next time, all of us together
like the fact that solving problems is a whole lot easier when you actually take the time to define them clearly and back them up with some actual arguments

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