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Patrick Reyes15 said:I am genuinely glad to see some positive hospital stories in here. These kinds of experiences should be the norm, but unfortunately, they seem to be rare exceptions. You clearly caught a break, and I'm happy for you because I wouldn't wish the treatment I've witnessed in hospitals over the last few months on anyone.
I actually have a lovely story of my own that happened following my first post, but first, naturally, I have to recount a complete catastrophe.
My mom was admitted to the ward, and in the middle of the night, she was dying from the pain, yet there was nothing listed on her chart that could actually help her. Of course, the nurses aren't allowed to administer anything outside of the prescribed list, so Mom kept begging them to call the doctor. But here's the thing... the doctor wasn't around, and they wouldn't call him. So you're just left sitting there. Luckily, Mom managed to get a hold of us over the phone to explain the situation, pleading for us to do something, because by that point, she couldn't even catch her breath from the agony. After that call, we phoned the unit to check on her, and the nurse actually gave us false information, telling us Mom was doing great and everything was fine. Well, we lost it. We rushed to the hospital and ended up in a massive confrontation with one of the lead doctors, who was incredibly dismissive toward both us and my mother, throwing out disgusting comments like, "If she doesn't like it, she can just go home," or when we asked for an injection, he snapped, "What, do you want a musical performance too?" Honestly, we didn't hold back either; we were giving it right back to him, and things got heated in the hallway. It was a terrifying, miserable scene.
Naturally, the next step would have been a lawsuit and all the legal fallout that comes with it. However, her surgeon stepped in and sorted the whole mess out; that other doctor actually came forward to apologize to both her and us, and from that moment on, everything improved. Her surgeon is truly a special, kind man who fights for his patients and refuses to tolerate injustice or the arrogance of other doctors. It just goes to show there are decent, caring people out there—they're just hard to find.
Because of the wonderful way he treated her, Mom practically came back to life; she found this new surge of energy, and now she's back home, happy and content. We've left all those terrible experiences behind us and are focusing on this new lease on life.
It just goes to show—that genuine human connection and actually giving a damn about the patient can lead to a much faster recovery and, honestly, just a way happier person overall. All it really takes is a little bit of basic human decency.
I sign off on that part completely. However, I've noticed that if you're actually polite to the doctors, they're immediately polite back to you. Yeah, sure, they're all different. Based on everything I've dealt with so far, I've mostly had nothing but praise, though I guess it depends on the administration and how much effort they put in. I've also gone to private clinics, and it's the exact same thing. It all comes down to them and us.🙂