Fashion for curvy girls

Robert Perez72 here. Honestly? I’ve seen enough. You people spend all day chasing these little scraps of dopamine like they actually mean something, like hitting some milestone or getting a nod from someone you don't even like is going to fix the fundamental emptiness of the whole setup. It won't. It never does. Everything is just noise. Just endless, grinding, repetitive noise designed to keep you spinning your wheels while the clock runs out. You want my advice? Don't bother. Just sit back, watch the circus, and try not to get hit by the clowns. That's the only winning move left in this rigged game. kaže:
Honestly, this size calculator is hands down the absolute best one out there. No joke. I can't even begin to deal with this. Just clicked a link that looked like some random travel blog—probably one of those sketchy sites from back in the day—and honestly? It’s a total wasteland. Just a dead end. No content, no vibe, just a blank page staring back at me like a void. It’s giving "abandoned website from 2004" energy. Like, did someone actually spend money on a domain for this? Absolute waste of bandwidth. If you're looking for actual travel tips or anything useful, don't bother. This isn't even a site; it's a digital ghost town. Total nothingburger.

So, here’s how I measure my chest. [Link to image]

Look, it’s simple. You plug your numbers into the calculator, right? That first figure—the one from the UK—that’s the golden number. That’s exactly what you need to be looking at on today’s page. Don't overthink it. Just grab that first UK value and go.

Look, this badge you're staring at? It’s just the top half. Total waste of space. You end up losing like 28 bucks because of it. Seriously. $3.25I don't know exactly, man. Just click that "Select Size" button and you'll see every size they actually have for that bikini top. Simple as that. Look, I’m telling you, it’s all part of the lower tier. Just one of those things. No use fighting it. It's just how it goes. So, this is the bio, right? And honestly, it costs whatever it costs—which, let’s be real, is a hell of a lot. Everything about it is just expensive. 😁

Ordering stuff online is honestly such a gamble. Especially when you’re trying to find a decent bra—it’s a total minefield because manufacturers can't seem to agree on a single damn thing when it comes to sizing. One brand's 34C is another brand's disaster. But look, when it’s literally your only option? You take what you can get. At least the selection is massive, even if you have to play Russian roulette with the fit.

So I finally figured out—it’s just the top part, right? Then you gotta find the bottom piece after that. It’s a total masterpiece, honestly, but like you said, the price is way too low for something this good. And ordering it online feels like such a gamble, even though my gut tells me it'd look killer. It’s exactly my style, though. I’ve been scouring every single shop in this entire city and all the surrounding suburbs looking for a specific badge, but absolutely nothing. Total dead end. I need the top section to be bigger and the upper bit smaller to fit the numbers, but I don't even know which model to pick anymore. Seriously, I am losing my mind from all this searching and trying stuff on.🙂 Just a bunch of shallow, pointless trash, honestly. Like, everyone’s out here acting like it matters when they all have tiny chests anyway.🤣

Simply Be gave their response... they have absolutely no intention of bringing it to America 😢

dustycyclist72 said:Simply Be gave their response... they have absolutely no intention of bringing it to America 😢

You can always try shipping to a small town—like maybe rural Nebraska—if they use standard mail (not sure how they handle their shipping, though). I personally can't be bothered with that—I've only done it when I absolutely, desperately needed something, and clothing just doesn't fall into that category. 🙂

The main thing is using standard mail, since courier services actually require someone to be there to sign for it. With the regular post, they'll just hold onto it for about 15 days before sending it back (you can even give them a call to see if it's arrived 😉).

nimbleheron47 said:You can always try shipping to a small town—like maybe rural Nebraska—if they use standard mail (not sure how they handle their shipping, though). I personally can't be bothered with that—I've only done it when I absolutely, desperately needed something, and clothing just doesn't fall into that category. 🙂

The main thing is using standard mail, since courier services actually require someone to be there to sign for it. With the regular post, they'll just hold onto it for about 15 days before sending it back (you can even give them a call to see if it's arrived 😉).

Honestly, I just don't have the patience for all that extra effort. I'm hoping they change their minds so I can finally go off on them 😁—but it’s not as if I can’t live without it.

Has anyone here ever ordered from ASOS Curve? What’s the actual quality like? How are the sizing standards?

The dresses arrived 🙂 super happy with them...

Michael Fisher8 said:I think I've seen this link around here before, but take a look if you haven't yet. They have some cool stuff.http://www.yoursclothing.co.uk/

Though, personally, I still find converting UK sizes to US sizes a bit sketchy...

So, I finally pulled the trigger on an order because I fell head over heels for this polka dot dress on sale. It was out of stock forever, then suddenly—boom—it popped back up. 😍 I figured since I was paying for shipping anyway, I might as well grab two more things. 🤣 Found a 10% off code too, so why not?

Anyway, this polka dot one is the culprit behind my shopping spree. 😍 ($58)


Got this green one for everyday wear. I suspect it’ll hit mid-calf—not super long, but hey, it’s fine for a casual summer dress. Might have to do a little sewing to fix the neckline, though. ($52)


And a skirt, mostly because that red trim is just too cool to pass up. ($39)


I went with a size 16 for everything, so we'll see how that works out. The description says 16 is like a US 18, so the skirt might be a bit big—fingers crossed. I have some dresses in a 16 from Loft, but those run like a US 16... Honestly, these sizing charts are a complete mess!

Their size 16 is basically our 44. I placed my order and they arrived in the exact size I wear.

You still get free shipping if you order today. And honestly, I am so done with them. They list a 105 band size in their offers, but then they don't have a single bra in that size?!

It’s almost comical how people struggle to find sizes 4-6, yet I constantly run into size 8s even in standard retail stores. Personally, I find "fuller" figures harder to shop for in mainstream spots like Macy's or H&M. I managed to find one—and I mean *one*—piece of women's clothing at a place like Old Navy.
Does anyone have any insight regarding size 52+? That is my definition of "curvy," though most people would jump to call it "fat"—a term I’ve already spent far too much time researching to avoid the inevitable social backlash. There really is a distinction, isn't there?
What is the polite way to describe women who wear a US size 20 or above? And more importantly, where can one actually shop? I used to rely on local markets before everything started declining, but now I’m just stuck.

If anyone happens to know... I tried searching this thread, but there are so many posts that after thirty minutes of scrolling, my eyes were starting to ache. :P
A link or some direction would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!

Look, I know specifically about places like Saks Fifth Avenue or Neiman Marcus in the big cities. My mom usually shops at Nordstrom—she picks up her high-end stuff there, though I'll admit, you definitely pay a premium for that quality. For her everyday basics, she just sticks to the reliable spots like Target, Kohl's, or even Trader Joe's...

My primary struggle lies in the realm of apparel—specifically because I fall into the size 44/46 range, whereas most "standard" retailers seem content to stock nothing beyond a 42. It’s reached a point where I’ve developed a mental map of which stores are worth my time and which aren't—I don't even bother stepping foot in certain shops anymore.
My go-to spots for anything in the 50+ bracket include places like C&A, H&M, and their various lines, as well as NKD, Kik, and Marks & Spencer.

Once you master online shopping, you’re going to be so happy because there are tons of gorgeous pieces available in up to size 6. Honestly, maybe we could even team up and split the shipping costs on our orders.

Around here (actually more in Canada than even here), people over 50 are hitting up Kik for cheap stuff, while everyone else sticks to shopping online at Marks & Spencer, George, Rogers & Rogers, Torrid, or Evans...

analogmoose2, look—I’m a plus-size woman, and even when I’m at my "normal" weight for my build (size 12 pants, size 14 shirts), it’s still a struggle. Even at my ideal weight, the only things I can find without a fight are stretchy tees—since I can usually squeeze into a Large if it clears my chest—and maybe some skirts. Everything else? Still a nightmare. Pants are always too short, shirts are impossible to find, and dresses only work if they have tons of spandex... So yeah, I’m a regular on this thread regardless of what the scale says—I just wasn't built for standard retail stores. The only thing about me that isn't oversized is my waist, but these larger sizes aren't cut to actually show off a waistline. That’s why I stick to shopping online—the selection is just way better.

A few years back, I was much closer to your size 😉, so I totally get why you’re doing this 🙂 while scrolling through posts from us 16/18s. Back then, I couldn't find anything that actually fit. The stress of hunting for clothes was honestly 🙂. And if anyone even mentioned the word "wedding," I’d instantly lose it. 🙄

Check out those links the girls posted; there really are shops out there with gorgeous stuff. Locally, I saw an H&M over at the mall that carried 50+ sizes and 3XL, but even then—it’s basically "buy whatever fits" rather than "buy what you actually like." Honestly, I think online shopping is your best bet because for a decent price, you can actually choose.

That whole "just wear whatever fits" thing—I think the women on this thread know that feeling all too well... You just lose the will to even bother getting dressed. 😢

Ladies, which Metro station in NYC actually has the + line? They pulled it from CC1 East and the sweet lady working the counter had absolutely no clue...🙄

copperfox172 said:Ladies, which Metro station in NYC actually has the + line? They pulled it from CC1 East and the sweet lady working the counter had absolutely no clue...🙄

I believe there’s a West Gate—though I can't say for certain. 😉

dustycyclist72 said:I believe there’s a West Gate—though I can't say for certain. 😉

Yeah, she said there was, but apparently there's one in town too...

copperfox172 said:Yeah, she said there was, but apparently there's one in town too...

I can't say for sure on that.
What I do know is that Cco West and Arena definitely don't have it.

Maybe Cvjetni?

I headed over to the H&M+ at West Gate this past Sunday, and frankly, there was absolutely nothing from their online collection available in-store. It was just the usual leftovers from previous seasons cluttering up the racks.

Has anyone here actually had any luck ordering from Ulla?

Where in the States can I find a decent, modern dress or tunic, specifically looking for something contemporary 🙂 in a size 18, 20... need it for a wedding this fall... price isn't really an issue