Nicholas Morris6 said:I got my first period when I was 12—and man, it was brutal. Honestly, every single month after that just got progressively worse. I’m talking about feeling like I was actually dying. My principal used to drive me straight to the ER every 28 days just so they could hook me up to an IV and give me some shots... and honestly? Nothing ever really worked. Ketoral, Voltaren, you name it—they’d dull the edges a bit, but they never actually fixed anything. My whole life basically revolved around counting down the days until my next cycle, and the panic would set in every time a new month rolled around. Things were slightly more manageable once I started on birth control pills—which was great at the time, though obviously, those aren't exactly "healthy" either. Then I had my baby at 23... everything was fine for about six months postpartum, and then—bam—the pain came back with a vengeance. It wasn't just "drive me to the ER for an injection" anymore; I was literally passing out in the emergency room. Eventually, on my gynecologist's recommendation, I went with a Mirena IUD. Since then? Not only is the pain gone, but the periods themselves have vanished. Seriously, anyone who has been through the absolute hell I went through with my cycles can understand what a massive weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I feel like a completely different person. I don't spend my days dreading the next one, wondering if it'll kill me, or praying someone is home to call 911. I don't know how old you guys are, and look, I'm not here to preach or tell anyone what to do—I just wanted to share my experience. I'm 36 now, and I can finally say I'm living like a "normal" woman.
I totally hear you... I went through the exact same thing. When I first started my period, everything was fine and I didn't feel much at all, but then after a little while, it started happening every other month, and eventually, it became absolutely every single month. It was pure torture... we're talking diarrhea, vomiting, aching in my kidneys, my back, these intense cramping sensations in my front... I don't even know how to describe it properly, but nothing helped. The pain would always be at its worst for the first two days before slowly tapering off, but it was a monthly nightmare. When I turned 20, I started using contraception and the pain actually stayed away for about a year and a half, but then it came roaring back, and I've been dealing with those horrific cramps every month ever since. I never went to the ER though, mostly because I couldn't explain to my mom just how much it hurt—you know how it is, if she isn't feeling it, then she thinks nobody is... so now, since I know exactly which day it's coming, I just take a pill first thing in the morning so I don't have to wait for the pain to kick in, and that helps keep things somewhat okay...
I asked doctors if something was actually wrong, but I've done all the ultrasounds and tests and everything comes back normal... no issues with my liver or anything else. They just told me it happens because my uterus is slightly tilted, so when the blood flows, it causes those intense spasms...👎 👎😠