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Samuel Morgan40 Samuel Morgan40 Active Member
178 messages
joined Mar 2010
#981 ·
I suppose I can finally say that the monthly agony of my period has subsided significantly, mostly because I’ve actually started paying attention to what I’m putting into my body—which, given my PCOS diagnosis, is a constant struggle since I have zero willpower when certain foods are around 😬.
There is a massive amount of truth to be found in nutritional science, particularly regarding the dairy products we see everywhere in American grocery stores these days.

For context, the intense pain didn't even kick in until a few years after my first cycle. I never dealt with adhesions or anything of that nature back then, nor did I have PCOS at the time (even though my cycles are regular now).
Initially, I relied on Ibuprofen, but eventually, that felt about as effective as drinking water, so I graduated to Advil, and finally to Voltaren Forte. 😁 Naturally, I tried to endure the discomfort for as long as humanly possible; I never made a habit of popping pills every single month or multiple times a week.

That said, I really have to give credit where it's due: Eve’s drops, when paired with some natural herbal teas, have been a game-changer. After using them consistently for maybe three or four months, the cramping is barely noticeable anymore. Though, to be fair, once or twice a year, the pain still hits me hard enough to leave me absolutely leveled—to the point where I'm actually vomiting from the intensity.
Eric Richardson49 Eric Richardson49 Member
31 messages
joined Oct 2011
#982 ·
Man, I seriously thought I was gonna die yesterday. My period hit and brought this insane nausea with it—just puking up bile and foam... felt more like I was losing my mind than just having "those days."🙄

Last time was the exact same deal. Total exhaustion. I was basically dragging myself around the house like a sick cat.

And honestly? It feels like it gets worse as I get older. Could my diet actually be causing this? (I eat pretty poorly, barely any fruit, immune system's probably trashed, etc.). I’ve been scrolling through these threads and just stumbled onto posts like the one from silverraven0.
Roger Rodriguez Roger Rodriguez Active Member
220 messages
joined Jul 2009
#983 ·
Does anyone else feel like they’ve walked into a room and completely forgotten why? It happens to me more often than I care to admit lately! kaže:
@COW, you really shouldn't get blood work done while you're on your period, should you? It could throw your entire CBC completely out of whack.

I’ve been dealing with some hormonal fluctuations lately—right in the middle of my third cycle day. Has anyone else found that these shifts completely throw off their rhythm?
Eric Richardson49 said:Man, I seriously thought I was gonna die yesterday. My period hit and brought this insane nausea with it—just puking up bile and foam... felt more like I was losing my mind than just having "those days."🙄

Last time was the exact same deal. Total exhaustion. I was basically dragging myself around the house like a sick cat.

And honestly? It feels like it gets worse as I get older. Could my diet actually be causing this? (I eat pretty poorly, barely any fruit, immune system's probably trashed, etc.). I’ve been scrolling through these threads and just stumbled onto posts like the one from silverraven0.

I felt that exact same wave of nausea last time; honestly, I was absolutely terrified. Have you ever felt quite that helpless? 😲
I honestly thought I was actually dying for a second there. Those weren't just typical period cramps—it felt more like those intense pains you get during early pregnancy. It’s the kind of pain that completely paralyzes you, and by the time the wave passes, you're left vomiting nothing but foam. Have you ever experienced anything quite that terrifying? 😵
My doctor tells me there are a million different factors at play—everything from diet and weight fluctuations to how smoking or drinking might intensify the pain. They even mentioned that starting your period before age 12 can bump up the risk for dysmenorrhea. Of course, that’s assuming we’ve already ruled out any underlying medical conditions that could be messing with your cycle. Isn't it fascinating how many moving parts there are?
dustybadger48 dustybadger48 Newcomer
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joined Feb 2012
#984 ·
Eric Richardson49 said:Man, I seriously thought I was gonna die yesterday. My period hit and brought this insane nausea with it—just puking up bile and foam... felt more like I was losing my mind than just having "those days."🙄

Last time was the exact same deal. Total exhaustion. I was basically dragging myself around the house like a sick cat.

And honestly? It feels like it gets worse as I get older. Could my diet actually be causing this? (I eat pretty poorly, barely any fruit, immune system's probably trashed, etc.). I’ve been scrolling through these threads and just stumbled onto posts like the one from silverraven0.

I feel you—honestly, I’m dying a little bit every single month too... 😢 I’m taking Yasmin, but honestly? I’ve got such bad pain and nausea that I can’t even get out of bed, let alone make it to campus... 😢
Jason Martinez7 Jason Martinez7 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Apr 2012
#985 ·
I’m 28 years old, and from the moment I had my first period until this very second waiting for this one, it has been an absolute nightmare. Honestly, I wouldn't wish this kind of experience on my worst enemy. We’re talking fainting spells, vomiting, and pain so intense it feels unbearable. I have tried everything under the sun—every pill, every herbal tea, every homeopathic drop you can think of—but nothing touches it. The only thing that provides even a modicum of relief is using those hormonal suppositories; I’ve been relying on them for a few years now. They kick in about 20 minutes after application and hold steady for maybe six or seven hours, then I have to do it all over again. It’s an endless cycle. I don't think I'll ever truly get over the trauma of this. People always say that once you have children, the pains subside, but I find it hard to be optimistic about that. It’s mentally draining. The week leading up to it is just as bad because the PMS kicks in, and then the actual arrival happens, it passes, I recover just enough to breathe, and then the whole ordeal starts all over again. On top of that, I have a really fast metabolism; I’m quite thin, and even if I try to gain weight, I lose it all the moment my period arrives. If I’m being honest, I feel a deep sense of envy toward women who don't feel anything at all—women who just function normally, go about their business, and actually stick to their plans. For me, I have to check my calendar before I dare to schedule anything. So many plans have fallen through because of this... including a trip to New York City I was supposed to take this very weekend!🙂
Justin Rogers5 Justin Rogers5 Active Member
214 messages
joined Feb 2010
#986 ·
Jason Martinez7 said:I’m 28 years old, and from the moment I had my first period until this very second waiting for this one, it has been an absolute nightmare. Honestly, I wouldn't wish this kind of experience on my worst enemy. We’re talking fainting spells, vomiting, and pain so intense it feels unbearable. I have tried everything under the sun—every pill, every herbal tea, every homeopathic drop you can think of—but nothing touches it. The only thing that provides even a modicum of relief is using those hormonal suppositories; I’ve been relying on them for a few years now. They kick in about 20 minutes after application and hold steady for maybe six or seven hours, then I have to do it all over again. It’s an endless cycle. I don't think I'll ever truly get over the trauma of this. People always say that once you have children, the pains subside, but I find it hard to be optimistic about that. It’s mentally draining. The week leading up to it is just as bad because the PMS kicks in, and then the actual arrival happens, it passes, I recover just enough to breathe, and then the whole ordeal starts all over again. On top of that, I have a really fast metabolism; I’m quite thin, and even if I try to gain weight, I lose it all the moment my period arrives. If I’m being honest, I feel a deep sense of envy toward women who don't feel anything at all—women who just function normally, go about their business, and actually stick to their plans. For me, I have to check my calendar before I dare to schedule anything. So many plans have fallen through because of this... including a trip to New York City I was supposed to take this very weekend!🙂

I used to be the exact same way. I never knew if I was going to throw up, get the runs, or just choke down a painkiller. I was bleeding so heavily I lost too much iron, so my doctor put me on hormone therapy and everything has been fine since.😍Now the pain is minimal, maybe four hours on the worst day, and that's it.
Jamie Sullivan4 Jamie Sullivan4 Newcomer
1 message
joined Apr 2012
#987 ·
Lately, my period cramps have been getting absolutely brutal.
Last month, I was honestly just writhing in pain—it was miserable. I had to take a pill, and even then, it took a full two hours before I felt even a tiny bit of relief. Sometimes the pain hits me so suddenly—I’ll just get these intense, sharp spasms out of nowhere—and I can barely even walk straight. I've been thinking that maybe I should switch to a lighter diet—you know, easier on the stomach—and start taking some magnesium or calcium supplements to see if that helps stabilize things.
Alex Thomas27 Alex Thomas27 Member
34 messages
joined Sep 2011
#988 ·
Roger Rodriguez said:
Does anyone else feel like they’ve walked into a room and completely forgotten why? It happens to me more often than I care to admit lately! kaže:
@COW, you really shouldn't get blood work done while you're on your period, should you? It could throw your entire CBC completely out of whack.

I’ve been dealing with some hormonal fluctuations lately—right in the middle of my third cycle day. Has anyone else found that these shifts completely throw off their rhythm?

I felt that exact same wave of nausea last time; honestly, I was absolutely terrified. Have you ever felt quite that helpless? 😲
I honestly thought I was actually dying for a second there. Those weren't just typical period cramps—it felt more like those intense pains you get during early pregnancy. It’s the kind of pain that completely paralyzes you, and by the time the wave passes, you're left vomiting nothing but foam. Have you ever experienced anything quite that terrifying? 😵
My doctor tells me there are a million different factors at play—everything from diet and weight fluctuations to how smoking or drinking might intensify the pain. They even mentioned that starting your period before age 12 can bump up the risk for dysmenorrhea. Of course, that’s assuming we’ve already ruled out any underlying medical conditions that could be messing with your cycle. Isn't it fascinating how many moving parts there are?

I got mine a few months before I turned 10. 😲
swiftbear86 swiftbear86 Active Member
211 messages
joined Jun 2012
#989 ·
I’ve been dealing with this since I was 8 years old.
Dysmenorrhea, PCOS, Hashimoto’s, secondary infertility... and they kept telling me everything was fine until I hit 18. They said it was totally normal, that things would just settle down after having kids, or that I’d feel better once I hit menopause.

In reality, you shouldn't have to just suffer through debilitating period cramps. It’s not something that should be forcing you to miss work, skip class, or bail on your daily responsibilities when there are actual options available.
One approach is hormonal therapy, and another is using antispasmodics—things like Buscopan or prescription-strength Spasmex. If you aren't looking for a prescription, you can try something like No-Spa paired with a fast-acting over-the-counter pain reliever, like Ibuprofen (for instance, Advil or Motrin).

Bottom line: find a way to make those symptoms manageable. Just make sure to chat with your doctor or a pharmacist first to figure out what works best for you.
Jason Martinez7 Jason Martinez7 Newcomer
2 messages
joined Apr 2012
#990 ·
swiftbear86 said:I’ve been dealing with this since I was 8 years old.
Dysmenorrhea, PCOS, Hashimoto’s, secondary infertility... and they kept telling me everything was fine until I hit 18. They said it was totally normal, that things would just settle down after having kids, or that I’d feel better once I hit menopause.

In reality, you shouldn't have to just suffer through debilitating period cramps. It’s not something that should be forcing you to miss work, skip class, or bail on your daily responsibilities when there are actual options available.
One approach is hormonal therapy, and another is using antispasmodics—things like Buscopan or prescription-strength Spasmex. If you aren't looking for a prescription, you can try something like No-Spa paired with a fast-acting over-the-counter pain reliever, like Ibuprofen (for instance, Advil or Motrin).

Bottom line: find a way to make those symptoms manageable. Just make sure to chat with your doctor or a pharmacist first to figure out what works best for you.

After all my tests came back perfectly fine, my gynecologist basically just shrugged and told me, "That's just how it is." The only advice I actually got was to start birth control, which supposedly would ease the pain (and clear up my acne), but I wasn't willing to take it. I haven't tried the medications mentioned above, though perhaps it's worth going back for a second opinion.
Grace Rivera4 Grace Rivera4 Newcomer
1 message
joined May 2012
#991 ·
I hit my first period back in fourth grade, and honestly, I was a sobbing mess from the cramps every single time. It wasn't like those girls who just deal with five or six days of it; I was stuck bleeding for eleven or twelve days straight, which was absolutely brutal. Back in freshman year of high school, my gynecologist actually tried to push birth control pills on me, but I just wasn't having it. Fast forward to recently—I finally tried an Advil, and it was like a total rebirth. Now, my cycle lasts maybe six days tops, and the flow is barely half what it used to be.
Alex Evans10 Alex Evans10 Newcomer
3 messages
joined May 2012
#992 ·
Hey everyone.. I’ve been dealing with periods for about 15 years now. And honestly? They’re always painful. The intensity just fluctuates between the kind where I'm literally screaming and doubled over, and the kind where if I take a pill fast enough, I can at least walk around—though I still feel totally wiped out and nauseous.
And the cramps always start creeping in 2-3 days early. Just light ones, you know? It's like this warning sign that they're coming, and it happens every single time. Once they hit, the pain is just unreal—it feels like something inside me is actually going to explode. My legs get weak, my lower back is killing me... even my arms ache. I can barely eat or sleep during those first two days.

I go through Advil, Motrin, Aleve... basically whatever is within reach. Voltaren doesn't really do anything for me. I feel like I need way more than the standard dose. I recently tried some Lady Max Block (or something like that), but it was useless. The pain was just driving me crazy. 😢 I ended up tossing the box. I’m guessing it’s probably meant for much milder aches than what I deal with.🤷

I just wish I could live without this pain.. I have to go through this every single month and I'm just so over it.😢
copperraven53 copperraven53 Active Member
55 messages
joined Feb 2011
#993 ·
You been to the OBGYN lately? I don't know, what you're saying kinda reminds me of my own situation. They finally figured out I have endometriosis, and man, those killer cramps are definitely one of the symptoms.
Alex Evans10 Alex Evans10 Newcomer
3 messages
joined May 2012
#994 ·
So, I end up at the gynecologist pretty regularly. I have to go in for a Pap smear every four months or so. Ever since my very first appointment, I’ve made sure to mention how painful my periods are—like, I seriously can't function, I'm basically out of commission... But the response I get, time and time again, is just, "Oh, that's normal." I haven't even had a deep dive or a thorough exam. It’s always the same routine: they do the Pap, maybe some swabs, and that’s it.🤷

I mean, I see this one OBGYN who has, like, a trillion patients. She's super sweet and all, but she doesn't really seem to actually deal with any real problems, if that makes sense? I don't know how to put it.
copperraven53 copperraven53 Active Member
55 messages
joined Feb 2011
#995 ·
Alex Evans10 said:So, I end up at the gynecologist pretty regularly. I have to go in for a Pap smear every four months or so. Ever since my very first appointment, I’ve made sure to mention how painful my periods are—like, I seriously can't function, I'm basically out of commission... But the response I get, time and time again, is just, "Oh, that's normal." I haven't even had a deep dive or a thorough exam. It’s always the same routine: they do the Pap, maybe some swabs, and that’s it.🤷

I mean, I see this one OBGYN who has, like, a trillion patients. She's super sweet and all, but she doesn't really seem to actually deal with any real problems, if that makes sense? I don't know how to put it.

Wait, you haven't had an ultrasound? Honestly, I’d definitely suggest getting one just to make sure everything is actually fine.
Alex Evans10 Alex Evans10 Newcomer
3 messages
joined May 2012
#996 ·
I’ve asked them to do my ultrasound every single time, but honestly, it's been such a headache. One time they just told me, "It's too busy right now, maybe next time." Another time, they were like, "Yeah, it's crowded, but I don't think you'll have any issues—if you really want it done, come in and we'll squeeze you in regardless." And then there was the time I booked my appointment with the doctor but forgot to mention I needed the ultrasound, so they wouldn't do it because apparently, I should have thought ahead when booking. Anyway, thanks for the recommendation, though. I think I'll just head to a private clinic to get it handled instead.
Roger Rodriguez Roger Rodriguez Active Member
220 messages
joined Jul 2009
#997 ·
So, ladies, I got my period this past Sunday, and honestly, I was a little thrown off because there wasn't any pain at all.😕 It got me thinking about how much I've changed my lifestyle compared to when things used to be incredibly painful, so I thought I’d share in case this helps anyone else out.
For the last couple of months, I've basically cut out sweets—maybe the occasional piece of chocolate if I'm feeling wild, but that's about it. As for dairy, I've switched to just yogurt, and I've really scaled back on pasta too. To put it simply: I'm eating much healthier now, focusing heavily on fruits and veggies while barely touching meat.
I've also been way more active lately; I've completely ditched public transit and just walk everywhere instead.
Back in April, my second-to-last period was actually pretty uncomfortable, even though it wasn't unbearable, but this one on Sunday😍 started with some mild cramping, so I took some Tylenol since that's all I had on hand, but I didn't feel anything else.
The discomfort actually vanished by Wednesday, almost as if it never happened! Now, could it all just be a coincidence? I guess I'll find out next month.🤷
Justin Rogers5 Justin Rogers5 Active Member
214 messages
joined Feb 2010
#998 ·
Same here. Ever since I started eating cleaner, walking more, and cutting out sugar entirely, things have been different. The first one was painful, but manageable. The second one? Barely felt it, just some soreness at the opening and some pressure in my ovaries. Usually, the pain hits hard for a few hours until the bleeding starts—nothing crazy—but these last two were absolute hell. Honestly, I got a little scared because normally I’m stuck in bed all morning. Just a little Advil, some suppositories, and chamomile tea to get through it.
Thomas Davis6 Thomas Davis6 Member
32 messages
joined Aug 2010
#999 ·
Hey there.

I’ve been dealing with these awful period cramps, and instead of getting better as I get older, things seem to be heading south. I move around a lot and my diet isn't exactly the healthiest, either..

It feels like my cycle has gone totally haywire over the last six months, and honestly, it's just getting worse. At first, my cycle stretched out to 40 days (instead of the usual 28), then I got hit with such intense pain that I took three Advil, which I ended up throwing up because I have a super sensitive stomach and pills usually don't sit well with me. My actual bleeding only lasted three days (usually it's about 3-4). The first two days were brutal, which is pretty much my norm. After that, my cycle was only 21 days long, and I was shocked when it showed up seven days early.

The pain was heavy again, plus I had a killer headache and felt nauseous.
My cycle is just completely messed up; it's never been this bad. Before, maybe things would be late by four or five days at most, and that was it.
But I've always dealt with painful periods.
Now, though, I'm getting these sharp uterine pains even in the middle of my cycle, almost like when I'm actually bleeding.
And regarding libido, things seem a bit off there too, since it’s either way too high or non-existent... it's hard to say. Everything used to be pretty normal before.
I'm not really sure what's causing all this. Maybe it's just massive amounts of stress, not getting enough sleep, or just being run down.. For the first time ever, I'm actually thinking about seeing a gynecologist, because this is literally wearing me out.

Has anyone else dealt with stuff like this alongside painful periods? And any idea what might be causing it? I don't really know much about women's health issues.
restlesscobra9 restlesscobra9 Member
10 messages
joined Sep 2011
#1000 ·
Jason Martinez7 said:I’m 28 years old, and from the moment I had my first period until this very second waiting for this one, it has been an absolute nightmare. Honestly, I wouldn't wish this kind of experience on my worst enemy. We’re talking fainting spells, vomiting, and pain so intense it feels unbearable. I have tried everything under the sun—every pill, every herbal tea, every homeopathic drop you can think of—but nothing touches it. The only thing that provides even a modicum of relief is using those hormonal suppositories; I’ve been relying on them for a few years now. They kick in about 20 minutes after application and hold steady for maybe six or seven hours, then I have to do it all over again. It’s an endless cycle. I don't think I'll ever truly get over the trauma of this. People always say that once you have children, the pains subside, but I find it hard to be optimistic about that. It’s mentally draining. The week leading up to it is just as bad because the PMS kicks in, and then the actual arrival happens, it passes, I recover just enough to breathe, and then the whole ordeal starts all over again. On top of that, I have a really fast metabolism; I’m quite thin, and even if I try to gain weight, I lose it all the moment my period arrives. If I’m being honest, I feel a deep sense of envy toward women who don't feel anything at all—women who just function normally, go about their business, and actually stick to their plans. For me, I have to check my calendar before I dare to schedule anything. So many plans have fallen through because of this... including a trip to New York City I was supposed to take this very weekend!🙂

You aren't alone.😢 Even though I don't deal with the physical pain, my bleeding gets incredibly heavy from time to time. I also get hit with intense nausea and stomach issues. Every single plan I make feels like it's held hostage by my cycle; I’m basically its prisoner.🙂 Just the thought of it approaching makes me feel sick to my stomach.🙄

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