mellowskipper said:Nobody is responsible for anyone else. My responsibility ends with myself and my kid.
Am I supposed to be responsible for my 75-year-old dad, who refused the vaccine and then spent two weeks hacking away at home because he wouldn't go to the hospital due to COVID-19?
By that logic, you aren't responsible for your fellow professors either.
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I hear you. I suppose I'm slowly trying to shift my perspective, though I think it might take me a little while to truly get there.
My old man doesn't want to get vaccinated either, but I've mostly come to terms with that. We don't even bring it up anymore because, honestly, every conversation feels like hitting a brick wall.
fadedranger162 said:Seriously, just relax. You’ve done everything you can, and that’s that. Sure, the illness is serious, but for a healthy person, it’s usually nothing to worry about—especially if you've been vaccinated. All that constant stressing over "what ifs" is just going to wreck your immune system, making it way easier to actually catch something.
Check this out. It's interesting—stressing out, combined with the lack of social interaction (which is basically what we've been doing for the last year and a half), does absolutely zero favors for your immunity.
Stress Weakens The Immune system
Thanks for the concern! I don't think I've completely lost my mind, I guess I just find myself constantly ruminating on (unpleasant) possibilities. At the same time, I can see that I really need a bit of a reset, since this whole period has definitely left its mark on our habits, our behavior, and our mental state.
It'll be fine; I expect I'll find my rhythm again after spending two or three weeks with my students. That's how it went last fall, too. They show up to campus with fevers, coughing, shivering, looking pale... I don't even have the words for it. Then they wander through the halls, stopping at individual offices to ask professors if they can just head home to recover. We even had one absolute idiot ask if he could sit in on lectures until his test results came back. So, here he is this morning, waiting around, trying to kill time, thinking maybe it isn't even Coronavirus and he shouldn't miss class. Honestly, it's hardly surprising that some of the older faculty members are living in a complete cloud of delusion. 😁