mellowskipper said:If I had a kid in 5th or 8th grade, I wouldn't even send them to school on the day those tests are happening—not that it would help much. It’s just pure hyper-stress, and they aren't even using anything useful.
mellowskipper said:I mean, I am generally in favor of finding some kind of solution—because, let’s face it, it turns out we have way too many Einsteins and Elons running around elementary schools... whereas kids who breeze through with a 4.0 GPA are actually quite dim, and everyone basically falls into a state of unconsciousness if they hear that.
I was thinking about not sending it specifically yesterday—mostly because my mom is such a panic artist, and I didn't see much point in stressing her out if it wasn't going to change anything anyway. But even so, it’s still 7r—so it isn't actually about that... thank God.
Okay, look, she won't be taking the state exams since she isn't in 5th or 8th grade, but I don't quite get why a kid who is highly successful both in school and out would panic over tests that personally have zero impact on her grades or her future success.🤔
Just explain to her what the state exams are actually for, and that should be that.
Besides, I think it's better to teach her how to manage panic rather than encouraging her to just dodge every stressful situation she faces.
What happens if she decides to apply to a high school that requires an entrance exam? Is she just going to skip the test and enroll in a school she isn't even interested in just to avoid the stress?