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Messaging is a nightmare

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Participants Carl Rivera43mistydrifter55Andrew Barrett4Kyle Grant62Joseph Bailey41wanderinghawk30briskwalker10nimbleharbor46neonsailor26Jamie Adams6nimblesurfer21Betty Fowlerwanderingpanther3darksurfer4Jose Ward4Sam Wright21
Carl Rivera43 Carl Rivera43 VeteranOP
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#21 ·
Joseph Bailey41 said:It might not have even been Carl Rivera43. Could just be some (sad) copycat. 😢

Did you guys end up helping him out?
Joseph Bailey41 Joseph Bailey41 Veteran
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#22 ·
Carl Rivera43 said:Did you guys end up helping him out?

Honestly, even the gods couldn't save the two of you at this point. 🤣
wanderinghawk30 wanderinghawk30 Member
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#23 ·
Andrew Barrett4 said:Maybe we should ask the moderators which specific posts about living together were scrubbed?
And what about the ones on this subforum too?

A little while back, there were maybe three or four threads that were clearly just carbon copies of each other. In one of those threads, the clone apparently had a bit of a meltdown and typed everything out using nothing but the letter w. 😁

The clone ended up getting banned, the threads were locked, and then they were just wiped from existence.
Anyone else catch that happening?

I saw it. Unfortunately.

But I have to tell you, as much as it pains me to admit it, there are still people out there starting these ridiculous threads and hitting the wrong keys.
Typical forum chaos.
Carl Rivera43 Carl Rivera43 VeteranOP
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#24 ·
Joseph Bailey41 said:Honestly, even the gods couldn't save the two of you at this point. 🤣

Why's that?
briskwalker10 briskwalker10 Active Member
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#25 ·
Carl Rivera43 said:Why's that?

Because you're just not believers...
Carl Rivera43 Carl Rivera43 VeteranOP
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#26 ·
briskwalker10 said:Because you're just not believers...

But maybe we're just off base when it comes to religious stuff.
nimbleharbor46 nimbleharbor46 Active Member
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#27 ·
I was just sitting here thinking, maybe it turned out to be a tab?
Carl Rivera43 Carl Rivera43 VeteranOP
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#28 ·
nimbleharbor46 said:I was just sitting here thinking, maybe it turned out to be a tab?

My spiritual brother
nimbleharbor46 nimbleharbor46 Active Member
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#29 ·
Joseph Bailey41 said:Our attention. ☕

I don't think you quite caught who the main players actually are!
Andrew Barrett4 Andrew Barrett4 Active Member
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#30 ·
It’s an unspecified! 😱

Looks like we've been ghosted.
🙂
Carl Rivera43 Carl Rivera43 VeteranOP
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#31 ·
nimbleharbor46 said:I don't think you quite caught who the main players actually are!

Just some goofy guy and one woman who’s actually pretty interesting.
Andrew Barrett4 Andrew Barrett4 Active Member
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#32 ·
Joseph Bailey41 said:It might not have even been Carl Rivera43. Could just be some (sad) copycat. 😢

Possible, I suppose. Anything is possible...
Carl Rivera43 Carl Rivera43 VeteranOP
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#33 ·
Andrew Barrett4 said:Possible, I suppose. Anything is possible...

Who on earth are you talking about?
mistydrifter55 mistydrifter55 Active Member
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#34 ·
Joseph Bailey41 said:Our attention. ☕

🙂 🤣

Carl Rivera43 said:What do I want? Honestly, I just want to find a way to communicate better with her. I get the feeling she isn't nearly as clumsy as she seems over text.

She might be one of those rare women where there is a massive gap between how she texts and how she actually acts in person.

One thing I've noticed is how scattered she can be. Sometimes, it almost feels like I'm talking to three different people at once.

When we're face-to-face, even when she's trying to be serious, she comes off as somewhat funny just because of her rhythm—her voice, her gestures, everything. That same quirky energy carries over to her texting, though it's harder to pin down there. And trust me, I've texted much more awkward girls than her before.

🤦

Man,

Quincy:
She seems to be head over heels, but honestly? It’s kind of ridiculous. Her messages are full of these childish habits that just stand out, even though she acts way more reserved in person. Her friend keeps hot-and-colding her—blocking her one minute and letting her back in the next. And get this: just a few weeks ago, she was bragging about how every guy in town was chasing her. Now, suddenly, she says that's all changed. What happened to all that attention?
So, she’s into your buddy, he’s into her, and suddenly you’re just drifting in like a third wheel? Then, out of nowhere, you realize you’ve actually got feelings for her too. Now you’re stuck in this weird, three-way mental loop trying to figure out the dynamic. It's messy, isn't it? Honestly, the whole situation is just plain awkward.
Two roosters and one hen.
We aren't a community. We're just competitors—predators and prey.
Look, let’s be real: the hound acts like a total coward during mating season. No offense intended, but that's just how it goes. They start putting on this whole act whenever you're all together—it’s just a pattern. It's what they do.
Women need intimacy, and honestly, looking at you two, I can't tell which one of you is more clueless.
And then there’s that phase where you’re just stuck in an endless loop of texting. It drags on and on. The flirting starts to feel forced, almost like an act, even if they still reach out to chat normally every once in a while. What are we even doing here?
But once those hormones kick in and get everyone worked up? Suddenly, you two "tough guys" are wide open, and of course, that’s when the absolute nonsense starts flying.

So, what’s the move? Are you finally going to step up and handle this properly, or are you just going to let your buddy take care of it? Though, let's be honest—is he even actually going to show up?
If you both drag your feet, she’s definitely going to find someone else. Guaranteed.

Either go all in and win that princess over right now, or if you’re just looking to mess around, wait until the three of you are hanging out and suggest a threesome. 🍿.
Andrew Barrett4 Andrew Barrett4 Active Member
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#35 ·
I honestly have no idea why anyone would bother remembering clones or wasting their time taking screenshots of such nonsense.

It’s kind of strange that you didn't catch 😁. I mean, you were around all day and posting on those threads too—well, except for that other PDF, I think.🙂
Carl Rivera43 Carl Rivera43 VeteranOP
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#36 ·
mistydrifter55 said:🙂 🤣

🤦

Man,

Quincy:
She seems to be head over heels, but honestly? It’s kind of ridiculous. Her messages are full of these childish habits that just stand out, even though she acts way more reserved in person. Her friend keeps hot-and-colding her—blocking her one minute and letting her back in the next. And get this: just a few weeks ago, she was bragging about how every guy in town was chasing her. Now, suddenly, she says that's all changed. What happened to all that attention?
So, she’s into your buddy, he’s into her, and suddenly you’re just drifting in like a third wheel? Then, out of nowhere, you realize you’ve actually got feelings for her too. Now you’re stuck in this weird, three-way mental loop trying to figure out the dynamic. It's messy, isn't it? Honestly, the whole situation is just plain awkward.
Two roosters and one hen.
We aren't a community. We're just competitors—predators and prey.
Look, let’s be real: the hound acts like a total coward during mating season. No offense intended, but that's just how it goes. They start putting on this whole act whenever you're all together—it’s just a pattern. It's what they do.
Women need intimacy, and honestly, looking at you two, I can't tell which one of you is more clueless.
And then there’s that phase where you’re just stuck in an endless loop of texting. It drags on and on. The flirting starts to feel forced, almost like an act, even if they still reach out to chat normally every once in a while. What are we even doing here?
But once those hormones kick in and get everyone worked up? Suddenly, you two "tough guys" are wide open, and of course, that’s when the absolute nonsense starts flying.

So, what’s the move? Are you finally going to step up and handle this properly, or are you just going to let your buddy take care of it? Though, let's be honest—is he even actually going to show up?
If you both drag your feet, she’s definitely going to find someone else. Guaranteed.

Either go all in and win that princess over right now, or if you’re just looking to mess around, wait until the three of you are hanging out and suggest a threesome. 🍿.

To be honest, I'm not even that into her. What's the point of hanging out constantly when she just talks about herself, then him, then her daughter? She wants to be with him, but apparently, he won't give her what she's looking for.

She's basically hunting for a third, fourth, or fifth option, but it doesn't look like she's actually ready for anything serious.
neonsailor26 neonsailor26 Active Member
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#37 ·
Such a poor kid, having to deal with a mother like that 🤦 .
Carl Rivera43 Carl Rivera43 VeteranOP
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#38 ·
Andrew Barrett4 said:I honestly have no idea why anyone would bother remembering clones or wasting their time taking screenshots of such nonsense.

It’s kind of strange that you didn't catch 😁. I mean, you were around all day and posting on those threads too—well, except for that other PDF, I think.🙂

A kitten? A sad little kitten?
Andrew Barrett4 Andrew Barrett4 Active Member
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#39 ·
Honestly, I suppose I just want all the attention in the world to be on you 🙂 so that things finally fall into place exactly the way you want them to 👍
Carl Rivera43 Carl Rivera43 VeteranOP
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#40 ·
neonsailor26 said:Such a poor kid, having to deal with a mother like that 🤦 .

Look, the kid is 17 and living in a different city altogether

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