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Can money actually buy happiness?

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wearyeagle10 wearyeagle10 Member
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#21 ·
darkjackal7 said:If it grants you more freedom and fuels your creativity, then it absolutely buys happiness. In fact, it acts as a gateway to finding it.

Take me, for instance. I can't complain about my job; it’s solid, even creative in its own way. But if I had enough capital to pivot, I could spend countless hours every single day pursuing things that are far more engaging and creatively fulfilling.

Sure, "unlocking doors to happiness"—whatever. Plenty of people thought the exact same thing before you, chased down whatever dollar amount they thought they needed to hit that goal, and ended up just as miserable as everyone else. Our brains are full of these little mental tricks that mess with us. It's like that old saying: maybe things will work out the way you think they will, or maybe they won't, and even if they did, it might not feel the way you imagined.

The only thing for certain is that you can't know for sure if life would actually play out the way you're picturing it right now. You might think it would, but who knows? There's no guarantee.

That's just how it goes. That's the only real truth here—everything else is just a massive "maybe."
darkjackal7 darkjackal7 Member
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#22 ·
wearyeagle10 said:Sure, "unlocking doors to happiness"—whatever. Plenty of people thought the exact same thing before you, chased down whatever dollar amount they thought they needed to hit that goal, and ended up just as miserable as everyone else. Our brains are full of these little mental tricks that mess with us. It's like that old saying: maybe things will work out the way you think they will, or maybe they won't, and even if they did, it might not feel the way you imagined.

The only thing for certain is that you can't know for sure if life would actually play out the way you're picturing it right now. You might think it would, but who knows? There's no guarantee.

That's just how it goes. That's the only real truth here—everything else is just a massive "maybe."

Listen, I’ve lived through enough ups and downs—moving from bad to good, good to great, or sometimes crashing from high to low.
It’s like the difference between riding a stallion and riding a donkey; there is a tangible difference, and nobody enjoys sliding down that scale.

So, this isn't about chasing some vague concept of "happiness" for its own sake. It’s about the practical awareness that capital provides leverage. Money enriches life in countless ways—it makes existence more constructive, more creative, and significantly less stressful by removing constant worries and buying back your time for actual experiences.

Take a simple example: looking at prints of klimtov paintings is one thing, but standing in front of the originals at Central Park in Vienna is an entirely different universe.

The same logic applies to live concerts, traveling, and all those other life-enhancing opportunities...

We touched on the idea of "transcendence" or moving beyond in another thread. While I wouldn't say my internal world is in total disarray, I definitely feel like that "higher state" could be organized much more effectively than it currently is. 🙂

Perhaps the fundamental issue is that most people only grasp the utility of money—its ability to buy stuff—rather than its capacity for personal enrichment and growth. Everything is a fusion of the material and the spiritual. Being broke isn't ideal, obviously, but let's be real: you can't survive on "spiritual vibes" alone.
wearyeagle10 wearyeagle10 Member
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#23 ·
darkjackal7 said:Listen, I’ve lived through enough ups and downs—moving from bad to good, good to great, or sometimes crashing from high to low.
It’s like the difference between riding a stallion and riding a donkey; there is a tangible difference, and nobody enjoys sliding down that scale.

So, this isn't about chasing some vague concept of "happiness" for its own sake. It’s about the practical awareness that capital provides leverage. Money enriches life in countless ways—it makes existence more constructive, more creative, and significantly less stressful by removing constant worries and buying back your time for actual experiences.

Take a simple example: looking at prints of klimtov paintings is one thing, but standing in front of the originals at Central Park in Vienna is an entirely different universe.

The same logic applies to live concerts, traveling, and all those other life-enhancing opportunities...

We touched on the idea of "transcendence" or moving beyond in another thread. While I wouldn't say my internal world is in total disarray, I definitely feel like that "higher state" could be organized much more effectively than it currently is. 🙂

Perhaps the fundamental issue is that most people only grasp the utility of money—its ability to buy stuff—rather than its capacity for personal enrichment and growth. Everything is a fusion of the material and the spiritual. Being broke isn't ideal, obviously, but let's be real: you can't survive on "spiritual vibes" alone.

Bottom line? You gotta chase whatever you believe will bring you fulfillment or happiness.

But here's the catch: you can totally screw yourself over with bad judgment. If you get obsessed with the wrong goals, you end up paralyzed by fixations. If they don't pan out, you're left with nothing but frustration and disappointment, not to mention the fears that keep you from taking the next step.

Life is short. We're just passing through. You gotta shake off the fear and just go for it. Whatever happens, happens.

That said, don't be stupid. There's a reason people say "be careful what you wish for."
Sometimes we think we know exactly what we want, only to find out we were dead wrong.

It's like three people looking at the same optical illusion—one sees an elephant, one sees a tree, and one sees a woman. Everyone's reality is different.

So watch your head. Your thoughts are creative too, and they have a huge impact on your mental state.
mistyotter44 mistyotter44 Member
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#24 ·
It really could be limitless. Just think about it this way: imagine spending your entire life grinding away just to make ends meet. Now, picture if you had an endless supply of capital at your disposal—just imagine how much faster you could scale your ambitions and truly move the needle on your goals.
velvetcobra65 velvetcobra65 Member
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#25 ·
mistyotter44 said:It really could be limitless. Just think about it this way: imagine spending your entire life grinding away just to make ends meet. Now, picture if you had an endless supply of capital at your disposal—just imagine how much faster you could scale your ambitions and truly move the needle on your goals.

How much would you actually progress? I don't think we're quite that unlimited. 😉
First off—it really depends on the person. For some, cash is the end goal; for others, it’s just a tool. Some people would just pile it up for themselves, while others would chase status symbols. Instead of a basic car, they'd buy something worth hundreds of thousands of dollars (personally, I always feel bad for those Ferrari owners who drive them like they're stuck in heavy traffic, barely hitting 30 mph most of the week and maybe 80 when they actually step on it)
Does money mean anything special to me personally? It buys food, clothes, and pays the bills. If I had less, I’d probably just buy cheaper stuff or buy less often, but would I be absolutely miserable? I don't think so.
In a normal scenario—more money usually means more work, more responsibility, and more time stolen from your free time just to focus on the job that brings in the extra cash. Sure, you might travel to fancier places, but you'd only get five days there instead of two weeks spent chilling on a beach in Miami.
In an ideal world—I hit the jackpot, help my family, buy the house I need, and have some extra funds set aside for the kids when they grow up (as long as they don't find out 😁)
Maybe I'd be more relaxed, but automatically happier? I doubt it.
Amy Watson35 Amy Watson35 Newcomer
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#26 ·
wearyeagle10 said:Look, it’s all fine, but you just can't go around flaunting your cash. You gotta live in harmony and chase stuff that actually matters. Money isn't some big deal on its own—it's just a tool. It's nice to have, sure, but nothing more. You just need to be smart and wise with how you handle it.

Even more than that, plenty of people actually hold back on buying material stuff because they have money. So yeah, cash doesn't mean anything by itself, and it definitely isn't a 100% guarantee for happiness.

No way, absolutely not.

And besides, what even is "happiness" anyway? I mean... there's a lot you could say about that.

The fundamental issue here is defining what happiness actually is. Only once we establish a definition that most people can agree on can we truly discuss how money influences it. To me, the more pressing question is whether people would be inherently "happier" if money simply didn't exist at all...
mistyotter44 mistyotter44 Member
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#27 ·
velvetcobra65 said:How much would you actually progress? I don't think we're quite that unlimited. 😉
First off—it really depends on the person. For some, cash is the end goal; for others, it’s just a tool. Some people would just pile it up for themselves, while others would chase status symbols. Instead of a basic car, they'd buy something worth hundreds of thousands of dollars (personally, I always feel bad for those Ferrari owners who drive them like they're stuck in heavy traffic, barely hitting 30 mph most of the week and maybe 80 when they actually step on it)
Does money mean anything special to me personally? It buys food, clothes, and pays the bills. If I had less, I’d probably just buy cheaper stuff or buy less often, but would I be absolutely miserable? I don't think so.
In a normal scenario—more money usually means more work, more responsibility, and more time stolen from your free time just to focus on the job that brings in the extra cash. Sure, you might travel to fancier places, but you'd only get five days there instead of two weeks spent chilling on a beach in Miami.
In an ideal world—I hit the jackpot, help my family, buy the house I need, and have some extra funds set aside for the kids when they grow up (as long as they don't find out 😁)
Maybe I'd be more relaxed, but automatically happier? I doubt it.

Your answer is shaped by your own modest perspective, which leads to a limited conclusion. I have already explained the full scope of this: money serves as a milestone of pure energy.
wearyeagle10 wearyeagle10 Member
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#28 ·
Amy Watson35 said:The fundamental issue here is defining what happiness actually is. Only once we establish a definition that most people can agree on can we truly discuss how money influences it. To me, the more pressing question is whether people would be inherently "happier" if money simply didn't exist at all...

Yeah, exactly. You can't just plug this into a math equation because luck is way too subjective. It's got too many moving parts and variables. At the end of the day, any talk about it is just theoretical rambling. There aren't any hard rules, and there never could be an exact formula—because if there were, you could just calculate the path to a specific result and call it "happiness."

That's why it’s all just mental gymnastics. It's a brain teaser, nothing more, and that's where it ends.
Thomas Nelson25 Thomas Nelson25 Regular
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#29 ·
Amy Watson35 said:The fundamental issue here is defining what happiness actually is. Only once we establish a definition that most people can agree on can we truly discuss how money influences it. To me, the more pressing question is whether people would be inherently "happier" if money simply didn't exist at all...

Back when we were hunter-gatherers, things were probably different—there was enough for everyone and people just traded what they had.
Nowadays, life is basically just a loop of working and spending, since that's what keeps the world spinning and lets a tiny group of people hoard way more than they could ever use. Honestly, the core issue is that people don't have much of a choice anymore—work has lost its soul.
Jamie Adams6 Jamie Adams6 Active Member
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#30 ·
It’s wild how everyone tackles this question the exact same way—and honestly? I think you're all missing the point.

Yeah, okay—money won't make you happy if you've only got two weeks left to live, no shit. And sure, you can be loaded and still be depressed; I’m not even arguing that. But why use those examples? Doesn't that logic apply to literally everything in life?

Can kids bring you happiness? Not if they’re addicts bouncing between shelters and jails since they were teens.
Can marriage bring you happiness? Not if your spouse cheats and walks away with half your assets.
Can good health bring you happiness? Not if you're homeless, because then "good health" just means you're stuck suffering on the street for longer.

I could go on forever, but the point should be obvious. By that logic, nothing can ever make a person happy if you just balance it out by adding a massive deficit in some other area of life. It makes zero sense.

For the average person, money absolutely buys happiness—especially if you aren't living in one of those handful of countries where a $70,000 salary—which is basically what a high-level executive makes here in the States—is considered "easily attainable."
velvetskipper19 velvetskipper19 Newcomer
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#31 ·
Brandon Lopez6 said:Oh, really?

So if I had a million bucks, suddenly my depression, anxiety, kidney stones, and PCOS would just vanish?🍿

Sure, money can buy you certain treatments or meds, but there’s absolutely no guarantee it actually fixes you.

In my book, "being healthy" and "paying to manage medical issues" are two completely different things.

People with higher incomes generally have better health outcomes on average than those making less.
And on average, people with lower wealth tend to struggle more with their health.

Go read the book *Status Syndrome*—it might make things click for you.
Maria Barnes Maria Barnes Active MemberOP
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#32 ·
Let’s break down the points from the first post. Once you hit that $75,000 mark, the happiness boost from extra cash basically flatlines. We don't know the exact correlation between money and happiness below that threshold, but we can make an educated guess—and honestly, we've all felt it—that it's roughly proportional. So, the graph of money versus happiness would look something like this:

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A few things to take away here. First, for those of us living on an average American salary of $2.00, if two people in a household are working, their combined income is about $4.00 a month, or roughly $24,000 a year. That means they are still in that zone where more money directly buys more happiness. Because that proportional climb lasts a while and many people find that threshold unreachable, we live under the illusion that the relationship is linear all the way up. It isn't. Makes sense, doesn't it? A good meal makes you happy if you're starving, but eating ten meals won't make you any happier. At $24,000, you've barely finished the appetizers. 🙂

So, folks, if you're banking on getting rich as the foundation for your happiness, think twice. Once you cross that tipping point ($75,000), you're better off being a philanthropist and giving money away than hoarding it; you won't feel the difference, but giving actually brings joy. It's even worse if you sacrifice the things that *actually* guarantee happiness—family, friends, travel, free time, culture—just to chase a paycheck. Look at wealthy people; they often don't seem happy at all.

To answer the question in the title: money doesn't guarantee happiness (there are too many other factors), but it can buy it up to that threshold. After that, there's zero impact. (By "happiness," I mean "well-being.")

It would be interesting to hear from someone who has actually crossed that line. $75,000 is a solid benchmark for an average American family, though it can be adjusted up or down depending on the cost of living in a specific area and what an individual needs to lead a fulfilling life.
Eric Newman4 Eric Newman4 Member
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#33 ·
There’s just one thing I can't wrap my head around. That $75,000 could easily stretch out over three or four years... so what happens once it runs out?

Or were they assuming you'd have another $75,000 available every single year?
Maria Barnes Maria Barnes Active MemberOP
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#34 ·
Eric Newman4 said:There’s just one thing I can't wrap my head around. That $75,000 could easily stretch out over three or four years... so what happens once it runs out?

Or were they assuming you'd have another $75,000 available every single year?

It’s an annual household income. That’s how much a lucky family can spend in a single year. Period.
northernwolf3 northernwolf3 Member
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#35 ·
Maria Barnes said:It’s an annual household income. That’s how much a lucky family can spend in a single year. Period.

But people here are suggesting that that specific figure actually refers to an individual, whereas for a whole family, we’re looking at closer to $200,000.
It is also incredibly important to consider which country we are talking about, because the cost of living varies so wildly from place to place, meaning a specific dollar amount doesn't provide the same level of economic security whether you are in a small town in the Midwest or right in the heart of New York City.

Ultimately, though, the specific number matters less than the underlying principle, which is that financial scarcity triggers negative emotions that directly impact your overall sense of happiness. As your income climbs, those stressful feelings begin to subside, eventually hitting a plateau once you reach around $200,000. Beyond that point, any additional wealth won't really do much more to eliminate the stress caused by money shortages, so you stop feeling that distinct "boost" in happiness from higher earnings.

We also have to remember that well-being is heavily influenced by intangible factors—things like having deep, fulfilling relationships with your family, friends, and community, all of which require a significant investment of time. Because of this, there is a very real risk that chasing excessive wealth can actually lead to a sense of dissatisfaction; even if you’ve met the financial threshold required to cancel out the stress of being broke, you might find yourself losing the precious time needed to nurture the other vital parts of a happy life.
vividskipper39 vividskipper39 Newcomer
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#36 ·
Not quite, but you could always just buy a big enough yacht to sail straight toward happiness...
Michelle Cooper3 Michelle Cooper3 Newcomer
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#37 ·
Look, I make more than the average person, so I feel like I’m in a good position to say this: money can absolutely buy you happiness and better health, up to a certain point. But let me tell you, it can also wreck your social life. That happened to me. Honestly, I never ran into this issue when I was living abroad where the average income is way higher—it’s just been an issue here in America. People around here can be incredibly dependent, and if they see you're pulling in more than the norm, they immediately label you a snob or a thief. They actually want to see you fail and try to turn everyone else against you. I’m speaking from firsthand experience.
dustypilot11 dustypilot11 Member
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#38 ·
northernwolf3 said:But people here are suggesting that that specific figure actually refers to an individual, whereas for a whole family, we’re looking at closer to $200,000.
It is also incredibly important to consider which country we are talking about, because the cost of living varies so wildly from place to place, meaning a specific dollar amount doesn't provide the same level of economic security whether you are in a small town in the Midwest or right in the heart of New York City.

Ultimately, though, the specific number matters less than the underlying principle, which is that financial scarcity triggers negative emotions that directly impact your overall sense of happiness. As your income climbs, those stressful feelings begin to subside, eventually hitting a plateau once you reach around $200,000. Beyond that point, any additional wealth won't really do much more to eliminate the stress caused by money shortages, so you stop feeling that distinct "boost" in happiness from higher earnings.

We also have to remember that well-being is heavily influenced by intangible factors—things like having deep, fulfilling relationships with your family, friends, and community, all of which require a significant investment of time. Because of this, there is a very real risk that chasing excessive wealth can actually lead to a sense of dissatisfaction; even if you’ve met the financial threshold required to cancel out the stress of being broke, you might find yourself losing the precious time needed to nurture the other vital parts of a happy life.

Yeah, that number looked sketchy to me too. I'm with you—$5,000 a month per person sounds about right.
It’s pretty obvious, families with... $3.25 Available, drowning in debt, and terrified of getting fired over it... they think more cash is gonna fix everything and finally let them sleep at night. Honestly? I doubt anyone can actually be happy when they can't even give their kids a decent life compared to everyone else in the neighborhood.

Like Jamie Adams6 said, you can't actually be happy if you're missing something essential. I know plenty of people around here who hit that $5,000 mark and just spiraled—long-term depression, zero purpose, totally lost. And honestly? Nobody gives a damn about them because they’ve got the cash. 😁

I even know this 60-year-old lady who’s living her best life, probably scuba diving somewhere in San Diego right now. She basically blew her entire life savings just to buy some happiness. 😁
vividskipper39 said:Not quite, but you could always just buy a big enough yacht to sail straight toward happiness...

Hey Kendall, you wouldn't believe how many people are terrified of just taking a boat out into the open ocean...
Maria Barnes Maria Barnes Active MemberOP
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#39 ·
northernwolf3 said:But people here are suggesting that that specific figure actually refers to an individual, whereas for a whole family, we’re looking at closer to $200,000.
It is also incredibly important to consider which country we are talking about, because the cost of living varies so wildly from place to place, meaning a specific dollar amount doesn't provide the same level of economic security whether you are in a small town in the Midwest or right in the heart of New York City.

Ultimately, though, the specific number matters less than the underlying principle, which is that financial scarcity triggers negative emotions that directly impact your overall sense of happiness. As your income climbs, those stressful feelings begin to subside, eventually hitting a plateau once you reach around $200,000. Beyond that point, any additional wealth won't really do much more to eliminate the stress caused by money shortages, so you stop feeling that distinct "boost" in happiness from higher earnings.

We also have to remember that well-being is heavily influenced by intangible factors—things like having deep, fulfilling relationships with your family, friends, and community, all of which require a significant investment of time. Because of this, there is a very real risk that chasing excessive wealth can actually lead to a sense of dissatisfaction; even if you’ve met the financial threshold required to cancel out the stress of being broke, you might find yourself losing the precious time needed to nurture the other vital parts of a happy life.

The research cited in the first post comes straight from Kahneman’s book (published back in 2011). It was conducted in 2010 and is mentioned in the exact article you shared. Honestly, thanks for posting it—it helps us track down the original Kahneman study. In the article you're citing it states:
Those results are remarkably similar to the correlations reported in a 2010 study that found that people don't get happier after $75,000 a year.

This newer study isn't actually that different from the old one:
The difference the marginal dollar makes in reducing negative emotions starts to fall off around $70,000, is very low by $160,000 and hits zero around $200,000.

The recent study focuses on how money affects the reduction of negative moods, not on increasing overall well-being. The sharp decline starts at $70,000, and once you hit $200,000, money doesn't help reduce bad moods even a tiny bit. There's a graph for it.
Jamie Bishop29 Jamie Bishop29 Newcomer
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#40 ·
I’m not entirely certain, though I tend to lean toward the idea that money can certainly buy a better quality of life. That said, isn't happiness more of an internal state? It doesn't seem directly tied to your bank account.

We see plenty of examples of people who are incredibly wealthy and successful by any standard, yet they are just miserable. They’re consumed by bitterness and negativity, perpetually dissatisfied in a way that defies all logic.

A cynic or a grouch can't be cheered up by material wealth because the issue isn't their lifestyle—it's that constant, nagging discontentment within them. No matter what they possess or how much is provided to them, it’s never enough. There’s an old saying that you "can't help a man who won't help himself," and that applies here too. These are individuals who simply lack the capacity to appreciate anything, even the fact that they live in absolute abundance.

On the other hand, for those who actually know how to enjoy life, money can certainly make a difference.
Money buys comfort and opportunity, but does it buy joy? I think it’s a much harder sell. Perhaps I'm wrong, and I truly hope that I am.

By the way, I was scrolling through LinkedIn earlier and this one thought really caught my eye:

The people in suits are actually working for the people in pajamas. 😁

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