casualtiger2
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joined Apr 2022
Back when I was a student, I lived out in Chicago—about a thirty-minute ride from downtown New York City.
I actually lucked out because my bus stop was the very first one on the line, so I always had a seat to myself—perfect for meditating.
One morning, right after I’d settled into my meditation, this massive double-decker bus—one of those huge ones meant for maybe 120 people—packed to the gills by the second or third stop. (I don't know what transit is like in other cities, but back then, New York City's public transport was a total disaster, and honestly, still is.)
It felt completely normal at first, even when I felt someone's thigh pressing against my arm, right at bicep level. As the ride wound down, the bus started thinning out, but that sensation wouldn't budge. When I finally opened my eyes, I realized it was coming from this stunning girl—who, I assume, was sitting next to her boyfriend.
The weird part? The bus was basically empty by then; there were plenty of open seats everywhere.
It wasn't until I actually stood up to get off that she finally moved away.
Sadly, I didn't get the chance to meet her and ask why that happened or how it felt on her end, so there's no significant scientific report to follow.
(And yeah, the statistics aren't exactly on my side here.)
Anyway, I'm sure you're familiar with that feeling of someone invading your "personal bubble," whether you're on a crowded bus or just hanging out privately.
Does this phenomenon actually exist, and if it does, how would modern biology, sociology, or psychology explain it?
At first glance, when I Googled "personal bubble," I mostly just got hit with French websites discussing Zones and Distances.
What they label as "the intimate zone" (about 15–50 cm) actually seems like a pretty spot-on description of the etheric body's zone.
Have you ever noticed how being near certain people just feels *good*, while others leave you feeling drained, anxious, annoyed, or even oddly upbeat—even without a single word being exchanged?
Is there a real phenomenon here, and is there a scientific way to explain it?