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Jeremy Brooks6 Jeremy Brooks6 Member
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#21 ·
Ryan Wilson2 said:Hmm, either you’re preparing for a career in politics or you’re getting ready to launch your own series of lectures...😁>

Given the strength of the US Dollar and the average salaries in the country where these lectures are taking place, one could easily calculate what an acceptable price would be for a two-day seminar. Although, as $17 notes, it would still be far too much for something of this nature 😁

Does she really need two whole days just to explain the meaning of life? Why so much time? It seems obvious that she has become entangled in some bureaucratic thicket of spiritual searching; the truth ought to be simple and accessible to everyone. You explain it in five minutes, and that's that. 🧐

I don't have any scruples about saying this, but my opinion of the average alternative consumer is even lower than it was before.😁

And what could possibly be worse than someone seeking enlightenment through
McDonald
?

👍
She had an experience and instead of staying present, she’s going to spend the rest of her life talking about the past. 🎉
Thousands of people have gone through similar things—similar or slightly tweaked iconographies—so isn't it a bit strange that she’s one of the few who decided to broadcast it to humanity in such a "front-facing" way? You know, with all the extras: the books, the audio-visual recordings, the expensive seminars, basically feeding the ego. 🙂
During her trips, she often introduces the audience to her husband as well; it gives the whole story and business a "family-oriented" foundation, even if the actual meaning of everything remains a mystery—aside from being a bit of a common sense triviality. 🕺
Her talks usually kick off by highlighting her cultural background in India while living in the US—the goal seems to be showing the listeners how much she’s contributed to the country and how much the country has given back to her. But in the US, which has been a melting pot for ages, that kind of thing isn't even worth mentioning anymore.
As for those "discounts for the sick"—that's especially obnoxious to me. It comes off as incredibly condescending, almost like saying, "God saved my humble soul for free, so I'll return the favor on a material level." It’s as if the success of her public appearances is a given, even when, more often than not, they aren't even being evaluated.
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Ryan Wilson2 Ryan Wilson2 Regular
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#22 ·
bluemason3 said:Why should it be? I mean, theoretically, there isn't actually any treatment being discussed here, but speaking generally... 😁

In the American healthcare system, nothing is truly "free." It just means you pay through the system rather than out of pocket at the moment. If it's not covered by insurance or a government program, who's picking up the tab?

What's that supposed to mean? 4P? 😁

Beer, Pizza, p***a, and I can't quite remember the last one right now.😁

Every once in a while, I find myself gripped by this sudden surge of righteous indignation—a flash of pure, unadulterated anger directed at those individuals who peddle overpriced junk under the guise of helping people. It’s a recurring issue, really. Why is it that so many people are so eager to exploit the needs of others for a quick buck? It’s fundamentally dishonest. 😁

Beer, pizza, p***a, and... honestly, I can't even remember what else was on that list right now. 😁

Pforum 😁
John Baker John Baker Member
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#23 ·
mistygull16 said:What's the actual hook for you here? Is it meeting her, the specific techniques, the lectures...?

Maybe—and I'm just rambling here—maybe she wants those two days to feel more "substantial" because people actually value things they pay for. You know how it is; when stuff is free, we take it for granted, even if it works via the placebo effect (which, hey, if it heals you, who cares?).

We Americans tend to measure value by the price tag and 🤔

It just feels a little tacky to exploit illness just to stack cash. But if she’s using that money to spend more time being out there inspiring people, I guess that's fair enough.

Personally, I think if someone has a knack for helping people—even if it's just placebo magic—they should charge for it. Better to get paid than to be too broke to ever have the time to do the work.

Still, $250 seems like a massive stretch, especially for places like the US or similar economies.

Speaking of money, I heard that over in India they have these medical mantras, but the person performing them isn't allowed to take even a single cent. They have to follow these super strict rules for the mantra to actually work. Seems like the complete opposite end of the spectrum to me.

Not exactly a genius, am I?

And honestly, I’d prefer that extreme over the one where spirituality is just a business. Which is pretty much what it is today. And a damn good business at that.
I know plenty of these "spiritual entrepreneurs" whose actual lives are a total wreck once you look past the polished image.
In my opinion, these kinds of services should only be charged symbolically. Mixing materialism with spirituality is disgusting. I could never believe in the spiritual depth of someone charging inflated prices for their "guidance."🙂
Besides, I've seen enough to know it's true.
Jason Howard9 Jason Howard9 Member
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#24 ·
Look, there are still costs involved here—logistics, travel, lodging... at the end of the day, if someone isn't willing to make that investment, they probably wouldn't bother attending a lecture anyway. Besides, her presentations and articles are all available online.
bluemason3 bluemason3 Veteran
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#25 ·
Ryan Wilson2 said:Every once in a while, I find myself gripped by this sudden surge of righteous indignation—a flash of pure, unadulterated anger directed at those individuals who peddle overpriced junk under the guise of helping people. It’s a recurring issue, really. Why is it that so many people are so eager to exploit the needs of others for a quick buck? It’s fundamentally dishonest. 😁

Beer, pizza, p***a, and... honestly, I can't even remember what else was on that list right now. 😁

Pforum 😁

A lot of people would also benefit if you just went around their houses fixing their computers for free. 😁

Money 😁 para ali 🤔
mistygull16 mistygull16 Active Member
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#26 ·
John Baker said:And honestly, I’d prefer that extreme over the one where spirituality is just a business. Which is pretty much what it is today. And a damn good business at that.
I know plenty of these "spiritual entrepreneurs" whose actual lives are a total wreck once you look past the polished image.
In my opinion, these kinds of services should only be charged symbolically. Mixing materialism with spirituality is disgusting. I could never believe in the spiritual depth of someone charging inflated prices for their "guidance."🙂
Besides, I've seen enough to know it's true.

Not trying to make excuses for her, but she does put out free videos and stuff. Still, I guess we Americans tend to measure everything by the price tag...

But look, I didn't get any clarification from the OP on why they're even heading to this seminar. Is it curiosity? A spiritual calling? Some health thing? Or something else entirely?

I listened to a bit of one of her videos where she talks about living on this super clean, organic, vegan diet, but then she ended up getting cancer anyway—she claimed it was all because she was doing it out of fear, like the fear itself was what messed her up.

A doctor once told me it's better to live an unhealthy life without being obsessed, rather than trying to live healthy while being completely consumed by the obsession of it all.

Bottom line, the price is steep for most people. If that money lets her keep working with folks, fine, I can wrap my head around that. But if it’s just about lining her pockets? Yeah, that doesn't sit right with me...
Ryan Wilson2 Ryan Wilson2 Regular
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#27 ·
bluemason3 said:A lot of people would also benefit if you just went around their houses fixing their computers for free. 😁

Money 😁 para ali 🤔

Whenever someone runs into an issue with their computer, I am more than happy to offer my advice on how they might resolve it at no cost whatsoever.

And let’s be honest—it isn't as if anyone is going to drop dead just because their PC hasn't been professionally serviced.😁
bluemason3 bluemason3 Veteran
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#28 ·
I can give you some advice, but you can't keep doing this indefinitely. You have to make a living. You might need to pay for certifications—networking, Microsoft, whatever else those kids are getting nowadays—and you probably need to invest in some decent gear too. 🤷

In a system where nothing is subsidized, if every single "input" requires capital, you can't expect the "output" to be standardly free; it’ll be an exception at best. And that's assuming there's actually a functional process involved beyond just setting a price. Otherwise, the only people who could afford to practice any kind of healthcare would be wealthy heirs who can just burn through cash without ever charging a dime. 😁
Nicole Barrett76 Nicole Barrett76 Regular
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#29 ·
Karen Adams2 said:I really loathe starting new threads, I truly do, but this has been weighing on my mind so heavily lately... and I just haven't been able to find a single existing discussion where this would actually fit properly...
We’re talking about Anita Moorjani, a woman who was battling end-stage lymphoma when she unexpectedly slipped into a coma... and it was during that profound state of unconsciousness that she underwent an incredible near-death experience... which completely changed everything...
Here is the link, just in case anyone wants to take a look...

I’ve been sitting here staring at this video, trying to wrap my head around everything being said, and I honestly feel like my brain is vibrating... It’s one of those pieces of content that just hits you right in the gut, isn't it? You start watching thinking it's just going to be another deep dive into spiritual healing or some niche metaphysical concept, but then it evolves into something much more profound about the very nature of our reality and how we perceive suffering... There is such a heavy, beautiful weight to the way they discuss the intersection of consciousness and physical manifestation. It reminds me so much of what Anita Moorjani talks about regarding the shift in perception required to move through intense trauma. It’s not just about "thinking positive"—it’s about a fundamental restructuring of how we relate to the world around us... if we can truly grasp that, everything changes. I was scrolling through some of the comments earlier, and I saw a few thoughts from Karen Adams2 and Michael Gonzalez77 that really resonated with the themes presented here. They were touching on that idea of collective resonance, which is something I think we often overlook in our individual pursuits of wellness. We tend to focus so much on our own little bubbles, forgetting that we are part of this massive, interconnected web of energy that spans the entire country... It makes me wonder if we are all collectively standing on the precipice of a massive paradigm shift. If we actually applied these principles—this level of radical awareness—to our daily lives in America, the social fabric might look entirely different... though I suppose that’s a bit idealistic, isn't it? Still, it’s worth pondering...

Apparently, after all that, she finally had this massive epiphany about the true meaning of life—you know, all that stuff about universal love and finding your purpose... and since then, she’s gone on to publish several books and travels all over the States hosting workshops that are supposed to help people find their way...
So, looking ahead to March, they’ll be heading our way, and the cost to attend those two days is exactly $275—not a penny more, and certainly not a penny less...😲
Those who had the sheer misfortune of landing in an oncology ward have been granted a special concession, meaning their cost is reduced to just about $160...
[Applause]

I mean, good grief...?
For some people, that amount represents almost their entire paycheck...
It seems to me that survivors of sexual assault, as well as those who have successfully fought their way through alcoholism or addiction, often feel this deep-seated compulsion to reach back and pull others up behind them... They want to share everything they've learned from their own struggles to help others heal, yet more often than not, they end up doing this work entirely for free...
In this particular instance, I don't necessarily believe it should be offered for free, but the gap between a zero-dollar price tag and a $250 charge is quite literally a massive leap...
It’s honestly so ugly and heartbreaking all at once that this entire situation just feels completely hollow to me...
I honestly feel like that money should be used to just silence the doctors, if only to stop them from continuing to validate her whole miraculous healing narrative...
I honestly just cannot wrap my head around this level of sheer greed... and please, don't take this personally, I truly mean no offense by it—but for me, there simply isn't any other way to describe it...
It is truly heartbreaking to think about how much these poor souls battling cancer have to endure, yet they’re only being charged a mere $160...
And what about those who don't even have access to that? Do they simply have no right to hear this story...?

It’s exactly that kind of mindset that pushes me away from the whole thing... I’m certainly not suggesting that everything comes without a cost, nor am I implying that someone should just ride around on a donkey and live off the charity of others...
That’s one extreme right there... and then you have this other side of the spectrum.
Is it just me, or does this entire situation feel incredibly off-putting?
I would truly love to hear what everyone else thinks about this...

How much do you believe a seminar's actual value truly lies?

In my view, if we consider an average working wage—the amount found in the wallet of some $1167—and we recognize that seminars fall under intellectual services, which are inherently expensive yet profoundly beneficial if they genuinely spark a life change, then I believe it is worth paying up to four times the standard rate for such intellectual or spiritual guidance. However, the instructor must be a true master, and the group should remain relatively small.

To provide a concrete example: if an American worker's eight-hour workday is valued at roughly $150, then eight hours of a specialized seminar should be worth $600. And that is assuming the group is intimate, perhaps limited to fifteen participants. If the group grows larger, the price ought to decrease, because how can one possibly provide the same level of attention to a crowd of fifty people as one could to a tiny circle of five?

Therefore, a two-day session would be worth $1,200$300 at most under American economic conditions.
Nicole Barrett76 Nicole Barrett76 Regular
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#30 ·
Ryan Wilson2 said:Hmm, either you’re preparing for a career in politics or you’re getting ready to launch your own series of lectures...😁>

Given the strength of the US Dollar and the average salaries in the country where these lectures are taking place, one could easily calculate what an acceptable price would be for a two-day seminar. Although, as $17 notes, it would still be far too much for something of this nature 😁

Does she really need two whole days just to explain the meaning of life? Why so much time? It seems obvious that she has become entangled in some bureaucratic thicket of spiritual searching; the truth ought to be simple and accessible to everyone. You explain it in five minutes, and that's that. 🧐

I don't have any scruples about saying this, but my opinion of the average alternative consumer is even lower than it was before.😁

And what could possibly be worse than someone seeking enlightenment through
McDonald
?

Perhaps one who pursues McVitis might find an even deeper state of illumination. 🤣 🤣 🤣
Ryan Wilson2 Ryan Wilson2 Regular
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#31 ·
bluemason3 said:I can give you some advice, but you can't keep doing this indefinitely. You have to make a living. You might need to pay for certifications—networking, Microsoft, whatever else those kids are getting nowadays—and you probably need to invest in some decent gear too. 🤷

In a system where nothing is subsidized, if every single "input" requires capital, you can't expect the "output" to be standardly free; it’ll be an exception at best. And that's assuming there's actually a functional process involved beyond just setting a price. Otherwise, the only people who could afford to practice any kind of healthcare would be wealthy heirs who can just burn through cash without ever charging a dime. 😁

I provide my advice for free, but if someone is far too lazy to figure things out on their own, then I will charge them.

And, as I previously stated, if anyone dies because of that, 🙂
bluemason3 bluemason3 Veteran
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#32 ·
Not necessarily, though if a surgeon refuses to perform a procedure, then they won't. But consider a world without social safety nets—where everything is paid for out of a collective fund—replaced by pure, unadulterated capitalism.

Anyone aiming to become a surgeon has to sink a massive amount of cash into about a decade of schooling (medical school plus residency). Unless you’re born into a wealthy family, you’re taking out loans, and those loans have to be paid back.

Beyond just paying off student debt, it isn't like you can just pick up a side hustle to survive while volunteering your medical services. There's already a doctor shortage; having people work limited hours wouldn't make sense, nor would it provide enough hands-on experience. In short, they have to cover their own living expenses, mortgage, and kids through actual work.

Then there's the overhead. A surgical procedure requires a proper operating room, specialized instruments (including diagnostics), assistants, anesthesiologists, and so on. The same logic applies to all of them as much as it does to the doctor.

Just because someone can offer some advice on the street doesn't mean they can perform that profession for free. It isn't really a choice. If nobody wants to pay—neither individuals nor the government—then the service simply wouldn't exist. You wouldn't see professionals; you'd just see untrained amateurs hacking away at things, and even then, they probably wouldn't be free. Honestly, I don't see how you can selectively opt out of a capitalist system unless you've exited it entirely in every other aspect of your life.

Of course, I'm speaking in generalities here since this woman isn't a surgeon, and frankly, I wouldn't go to her even if she were free. But we could compare this to someone with lower overhead, like a psychiatrist or even better, a psychotherapist. Their fees are obviously lower than surgery, but you still have to factor in their professional training and cost of living. Personally, I'd love to afford certain healthcare services that my insurance won't cover or aren't even available in the US, but I'd need to be loaded for that to happen, so it's not happening anytime soon. So, what now? Who do we blame? Maybe the system, but even the old socialist models had their flaws. Everything was available to everyone, but "premium" care was reserved strictly for the party elites.😁
Ryan Wilson2 Ryan Wilson2 Regular
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#33 ·
You’re overcomplicating things... honestly, it might be time for you to step down and let someone else run for office. 😁

That woman didn't even graduate from college. She claims she had a near-death experience, and now she's trying to monetize it.

Look, I certainly have nothing against charging for something that was earned through actual hard work. But I am firmly against charging people for something that was essentially handed to them as a gift. Unless, of course, it's just a nominal fee meant to cover the overhead for the venue where the gathering is being held, and so on.
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#34 ·
Look, asking for a scam not to be charged is basically an oxymoron 😁 Honestly, there’s no point in even discussing my wife 😁
John Baker John Baker Member
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#35 ·
mistygull16 said:Not trying to make excuses for her, but she does put out free videos and stuff. Still, I guess we Americans tend to measure everything by the price tag...

But look, I didn't get any clarification from the OP on why they're even heading to this seminar. Is it curiosity? A spiritual calling? Some health thing? Or something else entirely?

I listened to a bit of one of her videos where she talks about living on this super clean, organic, vegan diet, but then she ended up getting cancer anyway—she claimed it was all because she was doing it out of fear, like the fear itself was what messed her up.

A doctor once told me it's better to live an unhealthy life without being obsessed, rather than trying to live healthy while being completely consumed by the obsession of it all.

Bottom line, the price is steep for most people. If that money lets her keep working with folks, fine, I can wrap my head around that. But if it’s just about lining her pockets? Yeah, that doesn't sit right with me...

When it comes to pricing, she's more the rule than the exception. It depends on the service, sure, but selling "healing" and profiting off sick people isn't spiritual. I don't care about someone's business, but I have a problem when they claim their business is spiritual.
It isn't even about the price itself. The real question is whether she makes exceptions—is there any group of people she helps for free?
Clearly not. For them, there's just a discount.🤣

How far greed can go is perfectly illustrated by one "therapist" who charged me for two or three burned CDs $17, knowing damn well I'd leave him at least $1,000. Disgraceful.🤷 It’s the classic mindset of squeezing cash out of absolutely anything you can.
Ryan Wilson2 Ryan Wilson2 Regular
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#36 ·
bluemason3 said:Look, asking for a scam not to be charged is basically an oxymoron 😁 Honestly, there’s no point in even discussing my wife 😁

To put it diplomatically, I was merely interpreting your comments through the lens of the very first post in this thread regarding this woman. 😁
bluemason3 bluemason3 Veteran
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#37 ·
Ryan Wilson2 said:To put it diplomatically, I was merely interpreting your comments through the lens of the very first post in this thread regarding this woman. 😁

Men seems like nonsense to me. But if someone actually wants to buy... It’s just as nonsensical to me when people drop a thousand bucks on two or three dates and call it a win. 🤣

I don't know. A con artist charges, and a professional charges. In both cases, the price is largely driven by the market, marketing, and perceived value—not some objective truth, assuming such a thing even exists.

Who's left? Some kind of ascetic saint? Our caves have been empty for a long time now. 😬
Dana Davis5 Dana Davis5 Active Member
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#38 ·
It’s always something, isn't it? One minute we’re complaining about that one consultant charging a fortune for her seminars, and the next, we're giving braco grief because he tries to "heal" us just by looking our way—and then, heaven forbid, he expects a rose as a little thank-you note... Honestly, we crucified Jesus ages ago, so who on earth are we actually trying to please? 😁
Nicole Barrett76 Nicole Barrett76 Regular
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#39 ·
Dana Davis5 said:It’s always something, isn't it? One minute we’re complaining about that one consultant charging a fortune for her seminars, and the next, we're giving braco grief because he tries to "heal" us just by looking our way—and then, heaven forbid, he expects a rose as a little thank-you note... Honestly, we crucified Jesus ages ago, so who on earth are we actually trying to please? 😁

Such comparisons are utterly impossible.
Karen Adams2 Karen Adams2 Active MemberOP
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#40 ·
Aaaah, things have really started heating up here, but my internet has been acting up for the last few days, so it took me a little while to realize the title had actually been changed (thanks to Retra, by the way—the new title is exactly what I had in mind) and to see all these fascinating replies.
It isn't strictly just about Anita; I used her as an example because she’s the one in the spotlight right now, and honestly, that whole "discount" thing for people suffering from illnesses really rubbed me the wrong way.
Thank God I’m healthy and don't have anyone close to me battling something like that, but I can only imagine it’s absolute hell, in every sense of the word.
I sometimes find myself imagining how I might be able to help people in those situations—maybe through some advice or a bit of magic powder... whatever it takes—and if I did, I’d only ask for a symbolic gesture. I’d probably charge others double, but I certainly wouldn't take money from someone who is sick.
And that is precisely what cast a shadow of doubt over Anita; until this happened, I actually liked her, and her stories always seemed to make sense to me.
Again, I'll say it: I understand she has to make a living, and I get that everything in this world comes with a price tag... but this is just crossing a line for me.
Personally, I’ve attended a couple of seminars (two, actually), and while it all sounds lovely on the surface, you can find pretty much all of that information in books on the subject or even just on YouTube.
So, I truly don't see the point of paying for it.🤔

(and then there's that whole narrative about how we Americans have to pay a premium to truly appreciate something... such typical "enlightened" nonsense 😵)

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