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School Reform: Thoughts?

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northerncobra27 northerncobra27 Active Member
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#181 ·
urbanorca8 said:^

It honestly breaks my heart to hear about kids failing middle school—you know, the ones getting straight Cs or worse because they just won't study. But let's be real: it’s usually kids from less educated families who are stuck—they aren't to blame when their parents can't help them navigate the coursework. The high achievers are almost always the ones with a parent or an older sibling at home who can actually walk them through a chemistry problem or hand down a reading list from years ago—which I think is great, though it definitely leaves some kids out in the cold without that support system.

Are you seriously suggesting that kids somewhere in America are failing Elementary School because they lack academic support at home? That being an Honor Roll student is exclusively reserved for children of highly educated parents simply because those parents sit with them to study or older siblings write their essays for them? It sounds like someone has been feeding you a bit of a fairy tale.

An average kid with decent intelligence and some basic work ethic should be able to breeze through Elementary School without any major issues, even if they have to tackle their reading assignments entirely on their own. Sure, not everyone is going to be at the top of the class, but I don't see the harm in that. Besides, I get the sense that if a child is putting in the effort and behaving themselves, even if they struggle with a specific subject, most teachers will usually give them a passing grade just to ensure they don't end up repeating the year.
analogseal18 analogseal18 Active Member
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#182 ·
Is merely showing up to class and keeping an eye on the curriculum actually enough to secure anything from a C to an A? It certainly seems to depend on the subject matter. I see it constantly in my daughter’s classroom, where anywhere from half a dozen to a dozen students fail every single written exam. These struggling students come from all sorts of different backgrounds, of course. I even have a mother in that class who boasts about holding two college degrees and having taught in schools herself, yet she remains completely indifferent to her son's failing grades and poor behavior—as if everything will just magically sort itself out in the end.

One can learn quite effectively on one's own through books, provided the child has mastered reading comprehension and has been taught how to actually utilize their brain. This level of cognitive development begins with consistent dialogue from infancy; it requires true two-way communication, the sharing of information, offering guidance, and asking probing questions about everyday life. Children who are essentially raised by cartoons and video games find themselves in a far more precarious position than those raised by attentive parents.

Providing private tutoring to compensate for lack of effort, or allowing them to simply copy book reports, does nothing but do them a massive disservice. Such habits don't produce brilliant students with actual knowledge; instead, they produce nothing but charlatans who coast their way to mediocre grades.
Paul Johnson Paul Johnson Member
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#183 ·
analogseal18, what grade is your daughter in now?
David Palmer5 David Palmer5 Active Member
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#184 ·
urbanorca8 said:^

It honestly breaks my heart to hear about kids failing middle school—you know, the ones getting straight Cs or worse because they just won't study. But let's be real: it’s usually kids from less educated families who are stuck—they aren't to blame when their parents can't help them navigate the coursework. The high achievers are almost always the ones with a parent or an older sibling at home who can actually walk them through a chemistry problem or hand down a reading list from years ago—which I think is great, though it definitely leaves some kids out in the cold without that support system.

Hmm, so according to this logic, if a kid is an only child—or even just the oldest sibling—they simply can't be exceptional? 🤦

That’s a pretty wild theory. We might need to dive deeper into that one. ☕
analogseal18 analogseal18 Active Member
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#185 ·
Paul Johnson, sixth grade.
Paul Johnson Paul Johnson Member
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#186 ·
I’m asking because of all those points you mentioned. I was hoping they weren't from the lower grades, though even for a sixth grader, seeing 6 to 12 missed points on a test sounds like way too many. It's excessive.
Honestly, isn't that just too much? And frankly, pretty concerning. For someone like me—who hasn't even started schooling a child yet, and finished my own education ages ago—it just looks like a failure on both the teacher's part and the students'. 🤔
analogseal18 analogseal18 Active Member
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#187 ·
You have hit the nail on the head. And we are talking about a class of only twenty students. There is an overwhelming number of undisciplined kids in there, yet most of the teachers seem to lack the basic authority required to settle them down—not to mention they lack any actual mechanism for discipline. In fact, it feels as though some have simply given up entirely. Just today, a boy sitting right next to my daughter spent the entire math exam loudly muttering, "I have no clue what this is, this is insane..." When my little one tried to alert the teacher, the instructor merely gave him a mild reprimand, after which he continued his commentary in that same casual tone as if nothing had happened. In our day, she would have snatched that test away and sent him straight out into the hallway. And the kicker? This kid isn't even among the worst offenders.

Since the subject at hand is school reform, I find myself circling back to my previous stance: we ought to separate the students into distinct tracks—placing those who actually possess a desire to learn and behave appropriately into their own classrooms, away from those who view school as nothing more than a social club or a legal obligation to be endured.

Heaven bless the local music academy! One finds absolutely no such issues there, neither with the students nor with the instructors, who genuinely love what they do and strive to push their pupils toward excellence, both academically and personally.
Rachel Young3 Rachel Young3 Active Member
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#188 ·
analogseal18 said:You have hit the nail on the head. And we are talking about a class of only twenty students. There is an overwhelming number of undisciplined kids in there, yet most of the teachers seem to lack the basic authority required to settle them down—not to mention they lack any actual mechanism for discipline. In fact, it feels as though some have simply given up entirely. Just today, a boy sitting right next to my daughter spent the entire math exam loudly muttering, "I have no clue what this is, this is insane..." When my little one tried to alert the teacher, the instructor merely gave him a mild reprimand, after which he continued his commentary in that same casual tone as if nothing had happened. In our day, she would have snatched that test away and sent him straight out into the hallway. And the kicker? This kid isn't even among the worst offenders.

Since the subject at hand is school reform, I find myself circling back to my previous stance: we ought to separate the students into distinct tracks—placing those who actually possess a desire to learn and behave appropriately into their own classrooms, away from those who view school as nothing more than a social club or a legal obligation to be endured.

Heaven bless the local music academy! One finds absolutely no such issues there, neither with the students nor with the instructors, who genuinely love what they do and strive to push their pupils toward excellence, both academically and personally.

Now that is a brilliant idea.
urbantinker8 urbantinker8 Regular
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#189 ·
I guess I’m on board with that too, though she probably shouldn't be voicing those kinds of opinions out loud in public.🙂
Rachel Young3 Rachel Young3 Active Member
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#190 ·
And who exactly is going to be teaching a classroom full of absolute hooligans? 🤔

I just found out this year that under our laws here in the States, if a kid is still technically under their teacher's supervision, they aren't even allowed to be failed on a retake, let alone held back a grade...
Jason Morgan Jason Morgan Active Member
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#191 ·
Rachel Young3 said:And who exactly is going to be teaching a classroom full of absolute hooligans? 🤔

I just found out this year that under our laws here in the States, if a kid is still technically under their teacher's supervision, they aren't even allowed to be failed on a retake, let alone held back a grade...

Who cares who initiates it? Look at Germany—they’ve been running that kind of academic track system since after fourth grade.
I truly believe this is exactly what the American education system desperately needs right now, because, quite frankly, the current state of things is a total disaster.

Around here, that whole process of branching off basically happens at the tail end of elementary school, right when you’re being sorted into high schools based on your interests and your grades.
Honestly, we really ought to have handled this much sooner.
Even these supposedly "tailored" and individualized learning plans are nothing more than a joke. The reality is that we aren't actually adapting the curriculum to fit the children; instead, we’re just bending the teaching to suit the tests and oral exams. It’s because, frankly, there is simply no other way to make it work.

It’s quite a sobering reality, isn't it? I was just thinking about how some students—take those currently sitting in seventh grade, for instance—haven't actually mastered the fundamental basics. It’s a bit of a systemic tragedy, really. Without that core foundation, they find themselves completely adrift, unable to actually grasp the current curriculum, let alone build upon it to reach the next level. You can't exactly construct a skyscraper on a foundation made of sand, and yet, that seems to be the predicament we're facing.
I could tear them down if I really wanted to, but honestly, there’s just no point in bothering.
It strikes me as quite a profound failure of our educational system that students graduate from elementary school essentially empty-handed. They exit the system without having acquired any meaningful foundational knowledge, which is frankly disheartening. In an ideal world, they should have been transitioned into specialized programs designed for individualized instruction—environments where the curriculum is tailored to their specific learning pace. Instead of being left to flounder, these students could have benefited immensely from a more customized approach that actually meets them where they are.

Everything around here feels like it’s been flattened into one mediocre, indistinguishable blur. Honestly, we need an urgent overhaul to categorize things into bad, mediocre, and excellent. As it stands, the actual instructional hours and the quality of teaching aren't meeting anyone's needs—not even their own.

For those who truly excel, life tends to become rather monotonous.
If I decide to dive into more advanced material just to keep them engaged—because, let’s face it, they find it genuinely interesting and challenging—the rest of the class ends up suffering for it. It's a bit of a catch-22, isn't it?
It seems everything is just an uphill battle for the folks in Middle America lately. Everything feels heavy.
It is utterly beyond comprehension for those who lack any sense of quality.

It really does a number on one's motivation. Honestly, it’s quite detrimental to the whole drive to get things done.

Look, I’ll be the one to say it: go ahead and try to design a curriculum where students actually learn something and stay engaged. Just good luck with that. How on earth are they supposed to grasp any of this when the material is fundamentally incomprehensible to them? It’s a lost cause if they can't even follow the logic.

It truly breaks my heart when the most brilliant and genuinely kindhearted students are the ones who suffer. These kids have both the capability and the drive; their struggles aren't born from laziness or a lack of character, which makes it all the more frustrating. Honestly, I feel we ought to be setting them apart for specialized support. We should be giving our educational psychologists and teachers a clear mandate to prioritize these students—not just for their own sake, but for the long-term stability of our country and the integrity of our entire education system.
Nicole Morgan55 Nicole Morgan55 Member
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#192 ·

Raymond Wright4 said:On one hand, this feels like déjà vu; it reminds me of the policies proposed by Šuvar.

On the other hand, very few parents are willing to confront the actual abilities—or lack thereof—of their own children, nor are they accepting of such an educational system.

The problem with today’s society—and our politics—is this desperate push to inflate how many people have degrees, even if it means watering down the standards to get there. We’ve reached this point where if you don't have a diploma, you’re basically invisible, whether it's in business or some random journalism program. It’s like being a chef, a baker, or a plumber is somehow a disgrace now.

Probably just some leftover relic from the old days, when you’d land a cushy government gig or a political appointment right after college and coast until retirement. Sure, let's all try that now! Except back then it actually worked; today, between the massive oversupply of degrees and the economy being a dumpster fire, it's just not happening.

We’ve basically reached a point where we’re dumping massive amounts of taxpayer money into churning out highly educated professionals that the economy doesn't actually need—people who end up becoming more of a drain than an asset. It’s pure absurdity: we’re out here scrambling to import skilled labor like masons, carpenters, and chefs just to keep things running, while on the flip side, you've got people with advanced degrees struggling to find decent-paying work in America. Most employers around here just demand a college degree for entry-level roles that don't even require one.

To those parents in the quote who aren't feeling this system—maybe try actually spending some time with your kid instead. You'll probably see better results that way.


Rachel Young3 said:And who exactly is going to be teaching a classroom full of absolute hooligans? 🤔

I just found out this year that under our laws here in the States, if a kid is still technically under their teacher's supervision, they aren't even allowed to be failed on a retake, let alone held back a grade...

Where's the link?


Jason Morgan said:Who cares who initiates it? Look at Germany—they’ve been running that kind of academic track system since after fourth grade.
I truly believe this is exactly what the American education system desperately needs right now, because, quite frankly, the current state of things is a total disaster.

Around here, that whole process of branching off basically happens at the tail end of elementary school, right when you’re being sorted into high schools based on your interests and your grades.
Honestly, we really ought to have handled this much sooner.
Even these supposedly "tailored" and individualized learning plans are nothing more than a joke. The reality is that we aren't actually adapting the curriculum to fit the children; instead, we’re just bending the teaching to suit the tests and oral exams. It’s because, frankly, there is simply no other way to make it work.

It’s quite a sobering reality, isn't it? I was just thinking about how some students—take those currently sitting in seventh grade, for instance—haven't actually mastered the fundamental basics. It’s a bit of a systemic tragedy, really. Without that core foundation, they find themselves completely adrift, unable to actually grasp the current curriculum, let alone build upon it to reach the next level. You can't exactly construct a skyscraper on a foundation made of sand, and yet, that seems to be the predicament we're facing.
I could tear them down if I really wanted to, but honestly, there’s just no point in bothering.
It strikes me as quite a profound failure of our educational system that students graduate from elementary school essentially empty-handed. They exit the system without having acquired any meaningful foundational knowledge, which is frankly disheartening. In an ideal world, they should have been transitioned into specialized programs designed for individualized instruction—environments where the curriculum is tailored to their specific learning pace. Instead of being left to flounder, these students could have benefited immensely from a more customized approach that actually meets them where they are.

Everything around here feels like it’s been flattened into one mediocre, indistinguishable blur. Honestly, we need an urgent overhaul to categorize things into bad, mediocre, and excellent. As it stands, the actual instructional hours and the quality of teaching aren't meeting anyone's needs—not even their own.

For those who truly excel, life tends to become rather monotonous.
If I decide to dive into more advanced material just to keep them engaged—because, let’s face it, they find it genuinely interesting and challenging—the rest of the class ends up suffering for it. It's a bit of a catch-22, isn't it?
It seems everything is just an uphill battle for the folks in Middle America lately. Everything feels heavy.
It is utterly beyond comprehension for those who lack any sense of quality.

It really does a number on one's motivation. Honestly, it’s quite detrimental to the whole drive to get things done.

Look, I’ll be the one to say it: go ahead and try to design a curriculum where students actually learn something and stay engaged. Just good luck with that. How on earth are they supposed to grasp any of this when the material is fundamentally incomprehensible to them? It’s a lost cause if they can't even follow the logic.

It truly breaks my heart when the most brilliant and genuinely kindhearted students are the ones who suffer. These kids have both the capability and the drive; their struggles aren't born from laziness or a lack of character, which makes it all the more frustrating. Honestly, I feel we ought to be setting them apart for specialized support. We should be giving our educational psychologists and teachers a clear mandate to prioritize these students—not just for their own sake, but for the long-term stability of our country and the integrity of our entire education system.

Why bother watering down the curriculum for everyone when you can just focus on the kids who actually have what it takes? It’s pointless to drag down the high achievers just because some students won't or can't keep up. If they can't handle the standard coursework, there are plenty of other ways to deal with it—retaking a grade, hiring private tutors, or getting parents more involved at home. And if none of that works, we might eventually have to look at separating students by ability levels.

Setting all that drama aside, can a teacher actually call Child Protective Services if a kid is falling behind or bombing their classes? If so, has anyone actually seen that happen, and what was the fallout?
Rachel Young3 Rachel Young3 Active Member
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#193 ·
I don't have a link yet
I heard about this from my mentor at school and some old college friends who are already teaching out in the field
I'm definitely going to grill her for more details on the whole thing...
Jason Morgan Jason Morgan Active Member
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#194 ·
Nicole Morgan55 said:The problem with today’s society—and our politics—is this desperate push to inflate how many people have degrees, even if it means watering down the standards to get there. We’ve reached this point where if you don't have a diploma, you’re basically invisible, whether it's in business or some random journalism program. It’s like being a chef, a baker, or a plumber is somehow a disgrace now.

Probably just some leftover relic from the old days, when you’d land a cushy government gig or a political appointment right after college and coast until retirement. Sure, let's all try that now! Except back then it actually worked; today, between the massive oversupply of degrees and the economy being a dumpster fire, it's just not happening.

We’ve basically reached a point where we’re dumping massive amounts of taxpayer money into churning out highly educated professionals that the economy doesn't actually need—people who end up becoming more of a drain than an asset. It’s pure absurdity: we’re out here scrambling to import skilled labor like masons, carpenters, and chefs just to keep things running, while on the flip side, you've got people with advanced degrees struggling to find decent-paying work in America. Most employers around here just demand a college degree for entry-level roles that don't even require one.

To those parents in the quote who aren't feeling this system—maybe try actually spending some time with your kid instead. You'll probably see better results that way.

Where's the link?

Why bother watering down the curriculum for everyone when you can just focus on the kids who actually have what it takes? It’s pointless to drag down the high achievers just because some students won't or can't keep up. If they can't handle the standard coursework, there are plenty of other ways to deal with it—retaking a grade, hiring private tutors, or getting parents more involved at home. And if none of that works, we might eventually have to look at separating students by ability levels.

Setting all that drama aside, can a teacher actually call Child Protective Services if a kid is falling behind or bombing their classes? If so, has anyone actually seen that happen, and what was the fallout?

Personally, I find myself focusing on the top and middle tiers of students; honestly, anything else feels futile and defeats the whole purpose of education.

Involving the Department of Child Services is really the absolute last resort—it only happens when a parent ignores official notices and the student has been failing most of their classes over an extended period. But even then, those are typically families where the situation is already well-known and it's clear the children are being neglected. I'm not entirely sure how the process unfolds from there, but I'll get back to you in a few months if none of our current interventions work and we are forced to contact CPS.
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#195 ·
Rachel Young3 said:I don't have a link yet
I heard about this from my mentor at school and some old college friends who are already teaching out in the field
I'm definitely going to grill her for more details on the whole thing...

That’s spot on. In elementary school, kids in grades 1 through 4 don't actually sit for summer school or make-up exams; they just move up to the next grade even if they have a failing mark. It happened a few times last year.
To give you a concrete example, there was one little guy who moved from second grade to third grade despite carrying a failing math grade that he'd been dragging along since first grade.😵
Honestly, I haven't the slightest clue what the logic is behind that system.
Nicole Morgan55 Nicole Morgan55 Member
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#196 ·
Jason Morgan said:

Personally, I find myself focusing on the top and middle tiers of students; honestly, anything else feels futile and defeats the whole purpose of education.

Involving the Department of Child Services is really the absolute last resort—it only happens when a parent ignores official notices and the student has been failing most of their classes over an extended period. But even then, those are typically families where the situation is already well-known and it's clear the children are being neglected. I'm not entirely sure how the process unfolds from there, but I'll get back to you in a few months if none of our current interventions work and we are forced to contact CPS.
Personally, I find myself focusing on the top and middle tiers of students; honestly, anything else feels futile and defeats the whole purpose of education.

Involving the Department of Child Services is really the absolute last resort—it only happens when a parent ignores official notices and the student has been failing most of their classes over an extended period. But even then, those are typically families where the situation is already well-known and it's clear the children are being neglected. I'm not entirely sure how the process unfolds from there, but I'll get back to you in a few months if none of our current interventions work and we are forced to contact CPS.
But isn't this actually more extreme:

Jason Morgan said:That’s spot on. In elementary school, kids in grades 1 through 4 don't actually sit for summer school or make-up exams; they just move up to the next grade even if they have a failing mark. It happened a few times last year.
To give you a concrete example, there was one little guy who moved from second grade to third grade despite carrying a failing math grade that he'd been dragging along since first grade.😵
Honestly, I haven't the slightest clue what the logic is behind that system.

Is there anything crazier than that? 😲
Jason Morgan Jason Morgan Active Member
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#197 ·
Nicole Morgan55 said:

Personally, I find myself focusing on the top and middle tiers of students; honestly, anything else feels futile and defeats the whole purpose of education.

Involving the Department of Child Services is really the absolute last resort—it only happens when a parent ignores official notices and the student has been failing most of their classes over an extended period. But even then, those are typically families where the situation is already well-known and it's clear the children are being neglected. I'm not entirely sure how the process unfolds from there, but I'll get back to you in a few months if none of our current interventions work and we are forced to contact CPS.
But isn't this actually more extreme:

Is there anything crazier than that? 😲
Well, certainly. In the higher grades, you see much worse: blatant behavioral issues, total neglect of schoolwork, constant instigation of conflict, outright vandalism of school property—and then there are those parents who simply have zero control over their kids. They can't enforce any boundaries, and even after a full-blown sit-down involving the student, the parents, the principal, the school psychologist, the counselor, and the teacher, nothing changes. It’s a complete stalemate.

As for this specific case, I haven't looked into the details, so I don't know if Child Protective Services has been notified or what the parental situation looks like. Since I'm not a teacher, I also wouldn't know if notifying the local social services center is mandatory in these circumstances.
silentraven6 silentraven6 Regular
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#198 ·
How many of you would actually support giving higher salaries to teachers who work with students facing significant challenges—specifically those with special needs or learning disabilities?

Think about the ripple effect. If a highly compensated teacher takes on a particularly difficult classroom and somehow manages to spark real potential in them—if they actually succeed in helping a child reach a whole new level—what happens next? Would those same teachers just swoop in and take over the kids once they’ve become "easier" to teach in the mainstream classes?

Look, I’m not advocating for segregation. I’m talking about smaller class sizes. But I am saying that if a teacher is tasked with designing lessons specifically meant to squeeze every bit of potential out of every single student, they should be compensated for that level of effort. I’ve seen this firsthand during my internships at both elementary and high schools. Given the types of classes I've worked with—I've only had four professors in my life, but they exist—it's a real thing.

So, how do some of them actually pull it off?
urbantinker8 urbantinker8 Regular
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#199 ·
I think I could manage it too.😳🥳

But honestly, I’d probably end up working myself to death, you know? Between prepping lessons at home and actually teaching them in class, it feels like a lot.
It isn't impossible, per se, but it's just incredibly exhausting.

I suppose I might even be willing to take on one of those really difficult classrooms, if only because I feel like it would be its own kind of challenge.
I wouldn't say no to a bigger paycheck, obviously, though if I really had the choice, I’d probably just go for the seniority credits instead.😬
silentraven6 silentraven6 Regular
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#200 ·
urbantinker8 said:I think I could manage it too.😳🥳

But honestly, I’d probably end up working myself to death, you know? Between prepping lessons at home and actually teaching them in class, it feels like a lot.
It isn't impossible, per se, but it's just incredibly exhausting.

I suppose I might even be willing to take on one of those really difficult classrooms, if only because I feel like it would be its own kind of challenge.
I wouldn't say no to a bigger paycheck, obviously, though if I really had the choice, I’d probably just go for the seniority credits instead.😬

Exactly... you work yourself to death, and that's the catch. Yeah, we’re (hopefully not for much longer) criminally underpaid for this level of prep, but there's still that sense of human and moral duty to do right by the kids. Plus, it's challenging—isn't that why we do this job in the first place?

The pension credit idea... that's actually brilliant. That's how the system should really work.

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