Ryan Wilson2 said:Why shouldn't "progress" be defined by chasing sex, alcohol, or drugs?
You are boxed in by the law, by morality, and by the society you inhabit; you simply aren't given a real choice. Fear is what governs people. The fear of breaking the law, the fear of starvation, the fear of death.
One can overcome that fear either by hitting a massive Powerball jackpot or by perfecting a sense of total detachment to rise above material concerns. Both are extremes, yet both work.
Sure, two beatings might do the trick.
I guess for some people, it only clicks once they’ve actually lived through the wreckage—when you've hit rock bottom and find yourself in that desperate, feverish hunt for just one more shot, or another cheap beer, or whatever it is. It’s only when you’re actually sweating from the sheer misery of it all that you might finally realize, "Yeah, I really messed this up." But honestly? That realization is still progress. At least after the dust settles, you can turn around and warn someone else that this path leads straight to addiction and ruin. It’s the same deal with anything else—too much screen time, binge-watching TV, overeating—it all follows the same pattern. You have to watch out for any kind of extreme. Life is really just about finding that middle ground and keeping everything in balance.
It’s actually a really effective method if you just sit down and ask yourself these two questions—and I mean, be brutally honest when you answer them. If you do that, you’ll always make the right call because your inner voice, your gut, or your intuition—whatever you want to call it—will tell you exactly what needs to happen.
Can you handle this?
Do you actually feel like this is good for you?
Now, listen to what that inner voice is telling you... For instance, could you actually go out and get drunk? What does that voice say?
He tells me, "Look, you're a big guy—you can take a hit like a champ."
So, moving on to question number two—apparently, I've been told that isn't exactly the right move for me.
I've just got this gut feeling—it's telling me this isn't really my thing.
Give it a shot with whatever you want.
If you feel like you can actually pull it off—if you truly have the talent for it—then go for it.
And hey, if you truly feel like that's what's best for you—then go for it.
Go for it! 👍
You’re boxed in—by the law, by morality, and by the very society you live in. You don't really have a choice in the matter. It all comes down to fear, honestly. People are just driven by fear—fear of breaking the law, fear of going hungry, and that deep, underlying fear of death.
Fear is a tricky thing—you can either try to drown it out by hitting the Powerball jackpot, or you can work on mastering yourself through something like martial arts to rise above the need for material things. Both are extreme paths, honestly, but they both get the job done.
Yeah, two beatings.
You always have a choice—even if that choice is just jumping off a bridge... the only thing actually holding you back is your own head. You can't conquer fear, even if you hit the Powerball jackpot a thousand times over. Not even that deep, existential kind of fear. At the end of the day, the mind is the devil, and fear is far too dear to him to ever let go of the control it has over you.
bluemason3 said:Slackers, freeloaders, and junkies.🧐
And who exactly are you supposed to be?
Are you kidding me??!!! How do you even have the nerve? Seriously, where do you get off acting like you're God—or some kind of supreme judge over everyone else?!!!