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mistyjackal842 mistyjackal842 Active Member
206 messages
joined May 2012
#61 ·
Of course money matters. But what good is it if you can't actually achieve anything even with it? When my mother's health suddenly took a turn for the worse, she was stuck in a standard hospital ward where they didn't even know who she was, let alone wanted to help her. Honestly, I would have moved her to intensive care immediately—I would have paid whatever they asked. I know that in the ICU, doctors are constantly present and provide much better care for critical patients. But there was just no way to get her transferred to intensive care, even though I've read in every medical textbook imaginable that sepsis and septic shock need to be treated in the ICU. It felt like hospital policy dictated that everyone just had to die in a regular ward without adequate support. I just don't understand it. It's like they don't want to move someone with a severe illness that requires antibiotics into intensive care; instead, they just write them off and essentially sentence them to death. My mother was only 68, and she was actually a microbiologist herself, having spent her entire career working on vaccines. If I lived in England, I guess I wouldn't have had these issues; I would have just moved her to a private hospital, even though the public hospitals there maintain a pretty high standard too. She definitely would have survived because they would have actually looked after her. Or, if they had at least transferred her to the Mayo Clinic... she worked right across from that building her whole life, and I'm sure they would have helped her because they don't turn anyone away. Maybe I didn't handle the whole situation perfectly, even though I was demanding she get antibiotics via IV immediately given how critical she was. But I know that even at Johns Hopkins Hospital, they administer intravenous antibiotics; my mother received them back in 1999 while she was in the pulmonary ward at Johns Hopkins Hospital dealing with an embolism. But now, absolutely no one at Johns Hopkins Hospital wanted to help me during the strike; they all just made me feel like I was being foolish. The on-call vascular surgeon told me there was plenty of time and that I shouldn't overreact—it was Sunday, and he just didn't feel like doing anything. He said we had to wait until Monday and other such nonsense. He didn't even recognize the first signs of sepsis, and I suppose any surgeon should be able to recognize that.
James Foster4 James Foster4 Member
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joined Nov 2012
#62 ·
mistyjackal842 said:Of course money matters. But what good is it if you can't actually achieve anything even with it? When my mother's health suddenly took a turn for the worse, she was stuck in a standard hospital ward where they didn't even know who she was, let alone wanted to help her. Honestly, I would have moved her to intensive care immediately—I would have paid whatever they asked. I know that in the ICU, doctors are constantly present and provide much better care for critical patients. But there was just no way to get her transferred to intensive care, even though I've read in every medical textbook imaginable that sepsis and septic shock need to be treated in the ICU. It felt like hospital policy dictated that everyone just had to die in a regular ward without adequate support. I just don't understand it. It's like they don't want to move someone with a severe illness that requires antibiotics into intensive care; instead, they just write them off and essentially sentence them to death. My mother was only 68, and she was actually a microbiologist herself, having spent her entire career working on vaccines. If I lived in England, I guess I wouldn't have had these issues; I would have just moved her to a private hospital, even though the public hospitals there maintain a pretty high standard too. She definitely would have survived because they would have actually looked after her. Or, if they had at least transferred her to the Mayo Clinic... she worked right across from that building her whole life, and I'm sure they would have helped her because they don't turn anyone away. Maybe I didn't handle the whole situation perfectly, even though I was demanding she get antibiotics via IV immediately given how critical she was. But I know that even at Johns Hopkins Hospital, they administer intravenous antibiotics; my mother received them back in 1999 while she was in the pulmonary ward at Johns Hopkins Hospital dealing with an embolism. But now, absolutely no one at Johns Hopkins Hospital wanted to help me during the strike; they all just made me feel like I was being foolish. The on-call vascular surgeon told me there was plenty of time and that I shouldn't overreact—it was Sunday, and he just didn't feel like doing anything. He said we had to wait until Monday and other such nonsense. He didn't even recognize the first signs of sepsis, and I suppose any surgeon should be able to recognize that.

I am so sorry about your mother... That is awful!!
Carl Walker67 Carl Walker67 Newcomer
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#63 ·
Steven Wood72 said:Money isn't some kind of evil—you should actually be striving to stack as much of it as possible. No matter how much you have, there's always more to get, and that’s exactly how you need to approach it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wealth, provided it's earned legally. Of course, money carries massive weight and immense power; that has always been the case, and it's perfectly normal. Now we get all these tired clichés about how "money can't buy happiness" and whatnot... but honestly? I believe 99% of people are significantly happier with money than without it.

I have to partially disagree. Money only makes you happy up to the point where you can cover your bills and actually live your life; beyond that, it doesn't. Money only had power over me when I didn't have any. Once I did, I fell for that whole "more is better" mantra, and I ended up working so hard to chase it that I couldn't even enjoy what I had. Everything else in my life suffered because of it. You end up with everything on paper, but absolutely nothing in reality. You spend your whole life chasing dollars only to realize halfway through that you're driving in the wrong direction. If someone asked me in school today what I wanted to be when I grew up, my answer would simply be: HAPPY!
casualharbor9 casualharbor9 Active Member
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#64 ·
Money might have been a necessity once, but in this era of advanced technology, it’s nothing more than a generator for sociopathic relationships.
We need to abolish money entirely; it creates gross imbalances in our productive, social, and biological structures, forcing unnatural and unethical hierarchies upon us.
http://www.ted.com/conversations/189...at_all_ca.html

mistyjackal842 said:Of course money matters. But what good is it if you can't actually achieve anything even with it? When my mother's health suddenly took a turn for the worse, she was stuck in a standard hospital ward where they didn't even know who she was, let alone wanted to help her. Honestly, I would have moved her to intensive care immediately—I would have paid whatever they asked. I know that in the ICU, doctors are constantly present and provide much better care for critical patients. But there was just no way to get her transferred to intensive care, even though I've read in every medical textbook imaginable that sepsis and septic shock need to be treated in the ICU. It felt like hospital policy dictated that everyone just had to die in a regular ward without adequate support. I just don't understand it. It's like they don't want to move someone with a severe illness that requires antibiotics into intensive care; instead, they just write them off and essentially sentence them to death. My mother was only 68, and she was actually a microbiologist herself, having spent her entire career working on vaccines. If I lived in England, I guess I wouldn't have had these issues; I would have just moved her to a private hospital, even though the public hospitals there maintain a pretty high standard too. She definitely would have survived because they would have actually looked after her. Or, if they had at least transferred her to the Mayo Clinic... she worked right across from that building her whole life, and I'm sure they would have helped her because they don't turn anyone away. Maybe I didn't handle the whole situation perfectly, even though I was demanding she get antibiotics via IV immediately given how critical she was. But I know that even at Johns Hopkins Hospital, they administer intravenous antibiotics; my mother received them back in 1999 while she was in the pulmonary ward at Johns Hopkins Hospital dealing with an embolism. But now, absolutely no one at Johns Hopkins Hospital wanted to help me during the strike; they all just made me feel like I was being foolish. The on-call vascular surgeon told me there was plenty of time and that I shouldn't overreact—it was Sunday, and he just didn't feel like doing anything. He said we had to wait until Monday and other such nonsense. He didn't even recognize the first signs of sepsis, and I suppose any surgeon should be able to recognize that.

Take this to the media—show it to a TV station, a newspaper, or an online news portal... this kind of filth shouldn't stay hidden, especially now while those scumbags are busy bickering between politics and their own self-interest... and perhaps there's enough evidence here for an international court, if not for our own domestic laws and injustices...
Lawrence Wells Lawrence Wells Regular
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#65 ·
Richard Wells said:But honestly, having cash definitely helps when it comes to staying healthy. When you have it, you can afford better food and live a little better. Plus, if things go sideways, it’s way easier to grab meds or pay for a procedure. You know, all that stuff.

I know plenty of people who would trade their entire retail empire in a heartbeat if they could just be free from cancer.
Money isn't everything—believe me.
casualharbor9 casualharbor9 Active Member
168 messages
joined Feb 2010
#66 ·
Lawrence Wells said:I know plenty of people who would trade their entire retail empire in a heartbeat if they could just be free from cancer.
Money isn't everything—believe me.

The thing is, I mostly just know people who have cancer but *don't* own a massive retail chain. They end up at the doctor only to be told they'll have to wait seven or eight months for a screening. By the time that window finally opens, they don't even need the screening anymore. Meanwhile, the guys running the big corporations? They can just buy out an entire diagnostic wing. They can buy the therapy that actually buys them more time.
Richard Wells Richard Wells Active Member
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joined Aug 2016
#67 ·
Lawrence Wells said:I know plenty of people who would trade their entire retail empire in a heartbeat if they could just be free from cancer.
Money isn't everything—believe me.

I wish people could actually hear my tone when I write 🙂 Look, I never said we should just cure every single illness the second it pops up. I'm saying this stuff helps people manage things and makes those crazy expensive medications and treatments way more accessible.
Eric Hayes5 Eric Hayes5 Newcomer
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#68 ·
Money provides a man with genuine confidence, and from that foundation, everything positive flows. It creates an energy that radiates outward, opening every door in his path... including those leading straight to a woman's heart.
Joshua Cox2 Joshua Cox2 Member
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joined Oct 2013
#69 ·
mistyjackal842 said:Of course money matters. But what good is it if you can't actually achieve anything even with it? When my mother's health suddenly took a turn for the worse, she was stuck in a standard hospital ward where they didn't even know who she was, let alone wanted to help her. Honestly, I would have moved her to intensive care immediately—I would have paid whatever they asked. I know that in the ICU, doctors are constantly present and provide much better care for critical patients. But there was just no way to get her transferred to intensive care, even though I've read in every medical textbook imaginable that sepsis and septic shock need to be treated in the ICU. It felt like hospital policy dictated that everyone just had to die in a regular ward without adequate support. I just don't understand it. It's like they don't want to move someone with a severe illness that requires antibiotics into intensive care; instead, they just write them off and essentially sentence them to death. My mother was only 68, and she was actually a microbiologist herself, having spent her entire career working on vaccines. If I lived in England, I guess I wouldn't have had these issues; I would have just moved her to a private hospital, even though the public hospitals there maintain a pretty high standard too. She definitely would have survived because they would have actually looked after her. Or, if they had at least transferred her to the Mayo Clinic... she worked right across from that building her whole life, and I'm sure they would have helped her because they don't turn anyone away. Maybe I didn't handle the whole situation perfectly, even though I was demanding she get antibiotics via IV immediately given how critical she was. But I know that even at Johns Hopkins Hospital, they administer intravenous antibiotics; my mother received them back in 1999 while she was in the pulmonary ward at Johns Hopkins Hospital dealing with an embolism. But now, absolutely no one at Johns Hopkins Hospital wanted to help me during the strike; they all just made me feel like I was being foolish. The on-call vascular surgeon told me there was plenty of time and that I shouldn't overreact—it was Sunday, and he just didn't feel like doing anything. He said we had to wait until Monday and other such nonsense. He didn't even recognize the first signs of sepsis, and I suppose any surgeon should be able to recognize that.

That's horrific.
Joshua Cox2 Joshua Cox2 Member
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#70 ·
Eric Hayes5 said:Money provides a man with genuine confidence, and from that foundation, everything positive flows. It creates an energy that radiates outward, opening every door in his path... including those leading straight to a woman's heart.

Could be true.
Joshua Cox2 Joshua Cox2 Member
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#71 ·
Richard Wells said:I wish people could actually hear my tone when I write 🙂 Look, I never said we should just cure every single illness the second it pops up. I'm saying this stuff helps people manage things and makes those crazy expensive medications and treatments way more accessible.

A lot of the time, it doesn't solve the whole problem, but it helps.
Eric Newman4 Eric Newman4 MemberOP
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#72 ·
Eric Hayes5 said:Money provides a man with genuine confidence, and from that foundation, everything positive flows. It creates an energy that radiates outward, opening every door in his path... including those leading straight to a woman's heart.

Sure, that’s true. But that confidence is an illusion if it's built entirely on a bank balance. It only lasts as long as the cash does. What happens when the money runs out...
Joshua Cox2 Joshua Cox2 Member
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#73 ·
Eric Newman4 said:Sure, that’s true. But that confidence is an illusion if it's built entirely on a bank balance. It only lasts as long as the cash does. What happens when the money runs out...

Exactly. And look at insurance agents—aren't they basically selling us an illusion of security? It always comes back to the money. Whether it's a good policy or a bad one, it's all just a numbers game. 😂
Lawrence Wells Lawrence Wells Regular
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#74 ·
casualharbor9 said:The thing is, I mostly just know people who have cancer but *don't* own a massive retail chain. They end up at the doctor only to be told they'll have to wait seven or eight months for a screening. By the time that window finally opens, they don't even need the screening anymore. Meanwhile, the guys running the big corporations? They can just buy out an entire diagnostic wing. They can buy the therapy that actually buys them more time.

At the end of the day, they still die in agony. Honestly, I’d much rather have a clear mind—something that lets you find a sense of peace even during the hardest times—than a mountain of cash used to chase a recovery that’s basically an illusion. You can try to buy time, but at the end, this body is just fragile packaging.
But hey, you’ve got your perspective, and I respect that!🙂
Joshua Adams41 Joshua Adams41 Member
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#75 ·
Let’s be real: money is the fuel that keeps a functioning society from grinding to a halt.
We’re staring down our first true "capitalist" crisis here—maybe even one of the absolute worst in history—and it’s managed to knock us flat on our faces.
That is the raw power of capital.
Think back to the massive meltdown around 2001 and 2002, right after the Twin Towers attacks and the whole dot-com bubble bursting.
I’d bet the average American doesn't have the slightest clue what a "dot-com bubble" even was. Back then, we were a closed-off, low-debt nation, so that tech crash barely even grazed us.
Again, it all comes down to the power of money.

People love to blame the individual. They act like it’s about how much cash you personally have in your pocket, but they miss the point: someone else playing games with massive amounts of money can wreck your life regardless.
The wealthier a person becomes, the less leverage society has over them. At the end of the day, money buys you independence.
Steven Sanchez28 Steven Sanchez28 Newcomer
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#76 ·
Lawrence Wells said:At the end of the day, they still die in agony. Honestly, I’d much rather have a clear mind—something that lets you find a sense of peace even during the hardest times—than a mountain of cash used to chase a recovery that’s basically an illusion. You can try to buy time, but at the end, this body is just fragile packaging.
But hey, you’ve got your perspective, and I respect that!🙂


Look, I respect your view too, but let's get real here. We’re talking about how an average, everyday person actually lives their life, not some philosophical idealist floating in the clouds.

Do you seriously not see what's happening right in front of us? You see families with a sick child who need, say, a measly $25,000—which is pocket change for a wealthy person—to fly them over to Germany or Russia for a life-saving surgery. These families don't have that kind of cash lying around; they have to beg, plead, and run massive GoFundMe campaigns just to give their kids a fighting chance. Meanwhile, people who have that money without breaking a sweat can take care of their own children instantly. Is it really "better" to just sit there and watch your kid suffer because we've decided we don't need money and that the body is just "empty cellophane"? That's a hard pill to swallow when real lives are on the line.
casualharbor9 casualharbor9 Active Member
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#77 ·
I respect everyone’s perspective here, I really do, but I have to side with Steven Sanchez28 on this one—it’s just the cold, hard truth. We can't exactly afford to look the other way when reality keeps hitting us in the face every single day.
And that’s why I’m sticking to my guns regarding what I laid out in the first part of post 64; we need to abolish money altogether and implement a much fairer system of distribution.

It feels like we’ve drifted quite a bit from the actual core of this thread. If I recall correctly, the original premise was this: to what extent does our own comfort and privilege blind us to the struggles of the rest of the world, and how much would that reality actually shift the way we behave?
Carl Rivera43 Carl Rivera43 Veteran
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#78 ·
Money has always been around, probably going back to when we were still hunting and gathering, just in different forms.
Is money actually the key to happiness, though? Are the ultra-wealthy truly happy, considering they can’t even take a stroll down the street without a whole security detail following them?

Is it really okay to stack up cash through extortion? Is it right to put your faith in all those greedy vultures who don't even like themselves, but just crave more and more and more?

What's the point, really? Is it worth all the suffering and heartache of people who can't even afford a loaf of bread, while some folks blow a fortune on fancy galas—money that could have changed someone's life for months if they'd used it wisely?
brightmason67 brightmason67 Newcomer
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#79 ·
The true essence of money lies in control.
David Fisher23 David Fisher23 Newcomer
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#80 ·
Joshua Adams41 said:The problem with how we view money in America is that we’re looking at it through a completely warped lens.
Money is meant to be the lifeblood of an economy; it’s the mechanism that allows goods and services to flow smoothly through a civilization.
But here? We see it strictly as a symbol of status, ego, and raw power.
And sure, that's part of it, but the reason it carries such a heavy negative stigma is because of the total lack of transparency—something we all know is happening.

The movement of capital isn't properly regulated, which is exactly what benefits those currently pulling the strings. That’s why people view money as "evil"—because its flow is shrouded in secrecy. It’s decided behind closed doors in high-end steakhouse booths during dinners that cost more than most people make in a year.

Take a look at why money is viewed so cynically in our country.

Think about a Member of Congress asking a Cabinet Secretary to account for expenses on a government credit card, only to be met with a cold, arrogant response: "Who are you to question me?" He’s a federal official; he thinks he’s entitled to whatever he wants without oversight.
Compare that to something like Sweden, where a minister might resign just because some eagle-eyed whistleblower discovered they used a government card to buy a magazine while shopping for their spouse.

Just half an hour ago, I was at a local shop paying $17 taxes, and frankly, I have no idea where that money is actually going. When I voiced my frustration about this system to some self-proclaimed American intellectual, he had the nerve to tell me that once I pay my taxes, that money isn't mine anymore—I have zero right to care about how it's spent.

The US government was once granted millions in funding to develop a digital platform so citizens could actually track budget expenditures in real-time.
And what happened? Not a single cent of that approved funding was ever utilized. They didn't even bother to try and embezzle it; they just let it sit there uselessly.

Look at one of the massive money laundering scandals in the US: a $10 million drain from a major shipyard was only flagged because an automated alarm triggered when an individual attempted to withdraw massive amounts of cash.

At the end of the day, the way people in places like Switzerland, Germany, or Scandinavia view money didn't just happen by accident. It’s a reflection of the societies they built.

Money should fundamentally be a force for good. Yes, it is a source of power, but it shouldn't be a source of unchecked authority. In a nation that demands true transparency, the power held by money becomes inherently limited.

Money itself isn't inherently good or evil. It’s just a tool—a means to an end that simply gives a person the leverage to act on their existing nature, whether that's for something virtuous or something malicious.

Is there anything more predictable than this? Every time a discussion touches on sensitive cultural or religious boundaries, someone inevitably drops a one-word judgment like "haram" to shut down the conversation. It’s become such a tired shorthand for disagreement. Does anyone actually expect a nuanced debate to happen when we just resort to labeling everything we find uncomfortable? It’s a lazy way to signal disapproval without actually having to engage with the substance of what was said. Are we really still doing this? kaže:
Money should be abolished entirely. It creates an inherent imbalance between production, social structures, and biological realities, while forcing unnatural, unethical divides between people that simply shouldn't exist.

Money is essentially just a universal medium of exchange—without it, the entire economic engine of this region would simply grind to a halt. At its core, money represents some other form of material or intellectual value; the currency itself possesses no inherent worth, only what it stands for matters. It isn't money that creates "unnatural" disparities between people; rather, those gaps are carved out by individual greed and the pursuit of power. Whether someone chooses to project that influence through cash, land, livestock, or even a stockpile of apples is ultimately irrelevant. Or am I supposed to believe that materialism didn't exist before we had modern currency? Did you honestly think everyone lived in perfect equality and harmony before money entered the equation?

Joshua Adams41 said:Let’s be real: money is the fuel that keeps a functioning society from grinding to a halt.
We’re staring down our first true "capitalist" crisis here—maybe even one of the absolute worst in history—and it’s managed to knock us flat on our faces.
That is the raw power of capital.
Think back to the massive meltdown around 2001 and 2002, right after the Twin Towers attacks and the whole dot-com bubble bursting.
I’d bet the average American doesn't have the slightest clue what a "dot-com bubble" even was. Back then, we were a closed-off, low-debt nation, so that tech crash barely even grazed us.
Again, it all comes down to the power of money.

People love to blame the individual. They act like it’s about how much cash you personally have in your pocket, but they miss the point: someone else playing games with massive amounts of money can wreck your life regardless.
The wealthier a person becomes, the less leverage society has over them. At the end of the day, money buys you independence.

It isn't one of the worst in history; in fact, it’s quite the opposite. Every economic system ever conceived has had to weather its fair share of crises for various reasons—capitalism is certainly no exception to that rule. The only real distinction lies in the consequences. In those other systems, periods of instability often led to massive shortages of essential resources, resulting in widespread famine and deadly disease outbreaks. The Soviet Union and China are just two prime examples of that reality.

Is there anything more predictable than this? We see a topic emerge, and within minutes, the usual crowd descends to label everything "haram." It’s become a reflexive response, hasn't it? Instead of engaging with the actual substance of an argument or dissecting the nuances of the situation, people just reach for that one specific word to shut down the conversation entirely. It’s a lazy way to debate. If you can't dismantle a point logically, why bother trying when you can just claim it violates some moral or religious code? Does calling something forbidden actually change the facts on the table, or does it just serve as a convenient exit ramp for anyone who doesn't want to think too hard? It seems we’ve traded intellectual rigor for easy labels. kaže:
To what extent does our own prosperity render us numb to the struggles of the rest of the world, and how much would a shift in our circumstances actually alter our behavior?

It really comes down to the individual. Money acts as a catalyst for personal desire; it provides the means to fund one's own interests, and in that pursuit, people often find their empathy for others beginning to erode. Furthermore, wealth fosters individualism—or perhaps it would be more accurate to say it creates an environment where individualism is allowed to flourish. Once those constraints are removed, whatever core traits a person already possesses simply move to the forefront.

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