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Benjamin Lewis2 said:Reading assignments... what a headache. My daughter is a great student—she’s in 7th grade, works hard, hits all her deadlines, and stays on top of everything. She doesn't have issues with schoolwork in general. Her problem is these "reading assignments" and the weird little philosophies the English teacher keeps coming up with. It’s not enough to actually read the book, understand the plot, or finish a worksheet anymore. Now, they turn every book into these massive projects that feel more like college-level coursework, taking weeks to complete. Honestly, she can't tackle most of these demanding tasks on her own. As parents, we're stuck. How much help is too much? If we step in to help her meet these crazy requirements, the teacher claims she didn't do the work herself and won't give her credit. But if she tries it solo? She fails.
At this point, it doesn't even matter if she read the book. It's more about how tech-savvy you are, how well you use digital tools, or how creative and articulate you can be with whatever gimmick is being assigned this week. Trust me, picking a book from a library bin is fun and motivating, but this? This is something else entirely.
We actually spoke up and told the teacher she was overdoing it with these assignments. The response? We were told not to interfere since we aren't "professionals." Is this happening in other schools across the US too? Who are we supposed to go to for an actual expert opinion? Not everyone is aiming for an Ivy League education, and certainly not everyone is headed to a four-year university.
There isn't much you can do. It's the exact same story with my kid. She's in 8th grade now. Those 7th-grade reading assignments were basically doctoral theses or month-long projects. I went to a prep school myself, and that's the level of writing they expect for a simple reading assignment. Naturally, we can't do it ourselves.
With mine, the approach is this: she writes what she understands on her own, and for the parts she doesn't quite get, I help her out—but strictly by providing vocabulary or sentence structures so that she remains the one doing the actual writing. I don't even correct her spelling.
Twice a year, they don't even have to write anything; they just take a test on the books instead, and honestly, that's a blessing for the kids.