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Ladies only: Would you ever want to experience life from a man's perspective?

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Participants slymaker9wearyowl29Arthur Kim74Andrew Cox7Sean CruzJason Sullivan6redharbor9Samuel Martinez19goldenpilot20mellowpanther5Morgan Bishop4Carl Cox3Jamie Jackson3Joshua Anderson17Megan Williams5Emily Collins14amberfox4Henry WilliamsSusan Lewis2wearyviper25Morgan Cooper34Justin FisherEdward Murphy4northerneagle3 …
Sean Cruz Sean Cruz Regular
265 messages
joined Apr 2008
#21 ·
slymaker9 said:I am curious too. Even accounting for the possibility that men might have voted—which is theoretically possible for this or any other option—I believe at least one woman who genuinely wants to undergo the transition and become a man permanently will step up, own her stance, and explain herself on the subject.🙂

Oh, and in her new life, she’d definitely find some tree to pee against.🤣

Why is it that women typically want to go through the Dura? You remember Serena from the story "Dura," don't you? 😢

Men have it significantly easier navigating almost every facet of life. Women often find themselves wishing they could simply live as men, driven by both biological advantages and the sheer social ease that comes with it.
Arthur Kim74 Arthur Kim74 Active Member
91 messages
joined Jun 2010
#22 ·
slymaker9 said:I am curious too. Even accounting for the possibility that men might have voted—which is theoretically possible for this or any other option—I believe at least one woman who genuinely wants to undergo the transition and become a man permanently will step up, own her stance, and explain herself on the subject.🙂

Oh, and in her new life, she’d definitely find some tree to pee against.🤣

🤣🤣🤣
It's actually funny how easy they make it for themselves, because men really have no clue how practical peeing can be...😍
goldenpilot20 goldenpilot20 Member
22 messages
joined May 2009
#23 ·
I’d honestly love to have a penis just for one day, but strictly for the convenience of peeing.
mellowpanther5 mellowpanther5 Newcomer
1 message
joined Jul 2010
#24 ·
I would consider being a man for three months just to understand what they actually experience during intimacy, and I'd certainly take advantage of every other privilege the lifestyle affords.
While I feel perfectly comfortable in my own skin as a woman 😍, such an experience would be truly invaluable 😁
Morgan Bishop4 Morgan Bishop4 Active Member
174 messages
joined Jul 2009
#25 ·
I mean, obviously I’d give it a shot 😁 you know... maybe for a week... anything longer than that might actually be a bit much for me, if you catch my drift... just so I don't end up burning every single one of my girlfriends or whatever else happens when things get intense..
And honestly, I’m curious about the whole male body thing, just to see what it’s like... you know... being without breasts and having a dick 😁 plus I’d definitely want to feel out a woman's body too, I bet that would be pretty interesting... and stuff like that..
slymaker9 slymaker9 Active MemberOP
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joined Apr 2010
#26 ·
Sean Cruz said:Why is it that women typically want to go through the Dura? You remember Serena from the story "Dura," don't you? 😢

Men have it significantly easier navigating almost every facet of life. Women often find themselves wishing they could simply live as men, driven by both biological advantages and the sheer social ease that comes with it.

Of course I do; I have always been very fond of Dinko Šimunović’s stories.🙂
However, things have certainly shifted since Brunhild’s era...
Those specific advantages—and perhaps even some of the hardships I haven't yet experienced—are things I would be curious to feel firsthand.
Men face their own set of pressures, too.
For instance, imagine you're in a job interview with an attractive woman and you find yourself getting physically aroused; you really have to fight to stay focused.🤣 🙈

I am also interested in how a person's height influences others and dictates social behavior.
Carl Cox3 Carl Cox3 Active Member
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joined Dec 2020
#27 ·
If I had been given the choice of gender before birth, I would have certainly chosen to be male. 🙏
Arthur Kim74 Arthur Kim74 Active Member
91 messages
joined Jun 2010
#28 ·
slymaker9 said:Of course I do; I have always been very fond of Dinko Šimunović’s stories.🙂
However, things have certainly shifted since Brunhild’s era...
Those specific advantages—and perhaps even some of the hardships I haven't yet experienced—are things I would be curious to feel firsthand.
Men face their own set of pressures, too.
For instance, imagine you're in a job interview with an attractive woman and you find yourself getting physically aroused; you really have to fight to stay focused.🤣 🙈

I am also interested in how a person's height influences others and dictates social behavior.

What do you mean by height and its impact on behavior?
Jamie Jackson3 Jamie Jackson3 Member
24 messages
joined Jul 2010
#29 ·
slymaker9 said:I am curious too. Even accounting for the possibility that men might have voted—which is theoretically possible for this or any other option—I believe at least one woman who genuinely wants to undergo the transition and become a man permanently will step up, own her stance, and explain herself on the subject.🙂

Oh, and in her new life, she’d definitely find some tree to pee against.🤣

As for me, I voted for the permanent route, even though those who opted for the three-month trial seem more sensible—assuming they find they enjoy it and decide to extend the term.😁 After all, there is no guarantee we would actually like it.🤷
I previously mentioned my choice in the main thread, but here is the breakdown of my motivations:

The ability to walk around shirtless during the summer
Having zero cellulite
Never having to deal with hair removal again
Being able to commit traffic violations to my heart's content without being dismissed as just another incompetent woman behind the wheel
Not having people constantly pestering me about when I plan to get married
Being able to have children whenever I choose (perhaps in my 40s😁), rather than being limited to my youth
Eliminating periods entirely, which means no ruined vacations due to cramps, no nausea, no pain, no bleeding, no messy discharges, no pills, no injections, and no swollen breasts
Avoiding pregnancy and childbirth altogether, so I don't end up physically wrecked and needing stitches after labor
No one taking offense if I stay late at the office
Finding a female companion willing to pick up my laundry for free—without it being my mother😁
Finally understanding what makes beer so appealing
Hearing the actual conversations that happen in men's locker rooms and restrooms
Securing a higher salary
No longer feeling the constant need to prove myself
Not having construction workers turning their heads or catcalling me
Being able to retain my maiden name after marriage without facing societal judgment
Gaining a greater level of respect
Walking like a normal human being outdoors without destroying my hips, spine, and feet by wearing high heels
The freedom to do absolutely nothing all day except jerk off and complain about how hard life is
Being able to completely let myself go, look terrible, and still charm the most beautiful women, given the widely held belief that women are attracted to personality and soul rather than mere aesthetics😛

So, those are my reasons.😁
If I recall any others, I shall list them accordingly.
Joshua Anderson17 Joshua Anderson17 Member
11 messages
joined Jul 2007
#30 ·
Carl Cox3 said:If I had been given the choice of gender before birth, I would have certainly chosen to be male. 🙏


I couldn't say the same. You end up getting a draft notice and suddenly you're expected to sacrifice your entire life for the country.😂

Their whole specialty seems to revolve around warfare and the oppression of women.

To me, those guys seem pretty pathetic; they aren't exactly someone I'd want to swap places with.
Jamie Jackson3 Jamie Jackson3 Member
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joined Jul 2010
#31 ·
Joshua Anderson17 said:I couldn't say the same. You end up getting a draft notice and suddenly you're expected to sacrifice your entire life for the country.😂

Their whole specialty seems to revolve around warfare and the oppression of women.

To me, those guys seem pretty pathetic; they aren't exactly someone I'd want to swap places with.

Fair enough,
Megan Williams5 Megan Williams5 Member
19 messages
joined Jul 2010
#32 ·
Canada. I voted for a one-week stay, though honestly, three months might not be a bad idea either. Actually, if I end up liking it during that timeframe, maybe staying permanently wouldn't be such a bad move. 😁

I am curious about the psychology behind it—what actually goes on in their heads? Is it true they really do focus on just a handful of things in life? I'm also particularly interested in how they behave in the bedroom. To be honest, that is what I am truly curious about.
Jamie Jackson3 Jamie Jackson3 Member
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joined Jul 2010
#33 ·
Megan Williams5 said:Canada. I voted for a one-week stay, though honestly, three months might not be a bad idea either. Actually, if I end up liking it during that timeframe, maybe staying permanently wouldn't be such a bad move. 😁

I am curious about the psychology behind it—what actually goes on in their heads? Is it true they really do focus on just a handful of things in life? I'm also particularly interested in how they behave in the bedroom. To be honest, that is what I am truly curious about.

Hehe, my own motivations are a bit more practical in nature.🙂
Carl Cox3 Carl Cox3 Active Member
77 messages
joined Dec 2020
#34 ·
Joshua Anderson17 said:I couldn't say the same. You end up getting a draft notice and suddenly you're expected to sacrifice your entire life for the country.😂

Their whole specialty seems to revolve around warfare and the oppression of women.

To me, those guys seem pretty pathetic; they aren't exactly someone I'd want to swap places with.

That is even better than everything Jamie Jackson3 listed. Isn't it? 😁
Emily Collins14 Emily Collins14 Newcomer
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joined Jul 2010
#35 ·
Samuel Martinez19 said:I voted for three months.

On the first day, I’d head straight over to write just to see how they handle things while standing up, and once that was out of the way, I'd probably try my hand at some solo play.
After that, I’d start looking for someone to actually hook up with.

It’ll take me those full three months just to get around to sleeping with people and finally figure out the actual differences between male and female sexuality.

Just speaking from a guy's perspective here... honestly, it feels great.😁 Especially if you're out in nature and can just "go" wherever. It's actually pretty fun. 😁

But yeah, life is definitely easier for us in a lot of ways... 😁
amberfox4 amberfox4 Active Member
75 messages
joined Sep 2008
#36 ·
It all really depends on how one chooses to define the concept of manhood.
On one hand, you have the man who acts as a responsible husband and father—someone who carries the weight of providing for his family, managing the finances (or at least a significant portion of them), tackling problems head-on, making the hard calls, and actually owning the consequences of those decisions. On top of all that, he possesses the character to pitch in with the housework and be present in raising his children; essentially, he is a devoted partner who stands firmly behind his family.
Then, on the other hand, you have the perpetual boy—the thirty-year-old who refuses to move out of his parents' house, still playing the role of a student while his folks continue to feed him and buy his clothes...
Technically, both of these individuals are referred to as men, aren't they?
But, let’s be honest, there is a world of difference between the two.
As for what I personally consider to be a true man, it is a standard I would never wish to live up to myself, simply because I suspect it is an incredibly difficult path that requires a level of grit I don't think I possess.
Jamie Jackson3 Jamie Jackson3 Member
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joined Jul 2010
#37 ·
amberfox4 said:It all really depends on how one chooses to define the concept of manhood.
On one hand, you have the man who acts as a responsible husband and father—someone who carries the weight of providing for his family, managing the finances (or at least a significant portion of them), tackling problems head-on, making the hard calls, and actually owning the consequences of those decisions. On top of all that, he possesses the character to pitch in with the housework and be present in raising his children; essentially, he is a devoted partner who stands firmly behind his family.
Then, on the other hand, you have the perpetual boy—the thirty-year-old who refuses to move out of his parents' house, still playing the role of a student while his folks continue to feed him and buy his clothes...
Technically, both of these individuals are referred to as men, aren't they?
But, let’s be honest, there is a world of difference between the two.
As for what I personally consider to be a true man, it is a standard I would never wish to live up to myself, simply because I suspect it is an incredibly difficult path that requires a level of grit I don't think I possess.

We are talking about the biological and sociological context here.
Look, there are all kinds of people—some are responsible, some aren't; some are wealthy, others are struggling.
In this discussion, we are looking at certain conventional social norms and biological realities that are unique to a specific gender. If I recall correctly, my reasoning touched upon both biological factors (like menstruation or childbirth) and societal ones (such as grooming standards, stereotypes, the wage gap, or levels of respect received).
I am not sure what part remains unclear... anyone can be lazy or unintelligent, regardless of their gender.
Jamie Jackson3 Jamie Jackson3 Member
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joined Jul 2010
#38 ·
amberfox4 said:It all really depends on how one chooses to define the concept of manhood.
On one hand, you have the man who acts as a responsible husband and father—someone who carries the weight of providing for his family, managing the finances (or at least a significant portion of them), tackling problems head-on, making the hard calls, and actually owning the consequences of those decisions. On top of all that, he possesses the character to pitch in with the housework and be present in raising his children; essentially, he is a devoted partner who stands firmly behind his family.
Then, on the other hand, you have the perpetual boy—the thirty-year-old who refuses to move out of his parents' house, still playing the role of a student while his folks continue to feed him and buy his clothes...
Technically, both of these individuals are referred to as men, aren't they?
But, let’s be honest, there is a world of difference between the two.
As for what I personally consider to be a true man, it is a standard I would never wish to live up to myself, simply because I suspect it is an incredibly difficult path that requires a level of grit I don't think I possess.

The part in bold represents the societal divide between the sexes regarding expectations.
A man is considered "helpful" if he participates in domestic chores, whereas for a woman, it's simply the baseline expectation. It’s essentially an advantage of being male—you have significantly fewer obligations once you walk through the door after work.
Arthur Kim74 Arthur Kim74 Active Member
91 messages
joined Jun 2010
#39 ·
Emily Collins14 said:Just speaking from a guy's perspective here... honestly, it feels great.😁 Especially if you're out in nature and can just "go" wherever. It's actually pretty fun. 😁

But yeah, life is definitely easier for us in a lot of ways... 😁

Oh please, don't even start with that, especially not with me. I have a tiny bladder and I find myself constantly looking over my shoulder at all the guys and how they just pee wherever they feel like it...😁

Jamie Jackson3 said:As for me, I voted for the permanent route, even though those who opted for the three-month trial seem more sensible—assuming they find they enjoy it and decide to extend the term.😁 After all, there is no guarantee we would actually like it.🤷
I previously mentioned my choice in the main thread, but here is the breakdown of my motivations:

The ability to walk around shirtless during the summer
Having zero cellulite
Never having to deal with hair removal again
Being able to commit traffic violations to my heart's content without being dismissed as just another incompetent woman behind the wheel
Not having people constantly pestering me about when I plan to get married
Being able to have children whenever I choose (perhaps in my 40s😁), rather than being limited to my youth
Eliminating periods entirely, which means no ruined vacations due to cramps, no nausea, no pain, no bleeding, no messy discharges, no pills, no injections, and no swollen breasts
Avoiding pregnancy and childbirth altogether, so I don't end up physically wrecked and needing stitches after labor
No one taking offense if I stay late at the office
Finding a female companion willing to pick up my laundry for free—without it being my mother😁
Finally understanding what makes beer so appealing
Hearing the actual conversations that happen in men's locker rooms and restrooms
Securing a higher salary
No longer feeling the constant need to prove myself
Not having construction workers turning their heads or catcalling me
Being able to retain my maiden name after marriage without facing societal judgment
Gaining a greater level of respect
Walking like a normal human being outdoors without destroying my hips, spine, and feet by wearing high heels
The freedom to do absolutely nothing all day except jerk off and complain about how hard life is
Being able to completely let myself go, look terrible, and still charm the most beautiful women, given the widely held belief that women are attracted to personality and soul rather than mere aesthetics😛

So, those are my reasons.😁
If I recall any others, I shall list them accordingly.

Those are such great points, especially the ones in bold 🙏:
Henry Williams Henry Williams Member
24 messages
joined Sep 2010
#40 ·
Megan Williams5 said:Canada. I voted for a one-week stay, though honestly, three months might not be a bad idea either. Actually, if I end up liking it during that timeframe, maybe staying permanently wouldn't be such a bad move. 😁

I am curious about the psychology behind it—what actually goes on in their heads? Is it true they really do focus on just a handful of things in life? I'm also particularly interested in how they behave in the bedroom. To be honest, that is what I am truly curious about.

Honestly, I wish I were a woman. I think I'd need a female brain just to get a little bit of mental rest.

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