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bluemaker52 bluemaker52 Member
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#161 ·
@ Aaron Morris56
They would have been considered great if you could provide just one single reason why they’re so beautiful—honestly, that’s the rule here, not just my personal whim... if you can do that, then we're good, right?
What’s your take on this?
I’m a big fan of hiking myself.
Aaron Morris56 Aaron Morris56 Member
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#162 ·
Roughly speaking, things have leveled out now, so I don't think I have much else to add to the conversation. You feel differently?
bluemaker52 bluemaker52 Member
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#163 ·
Aaron Morris56 said:Roughly speaking, things have leveled out now, so I don't think I have much else to add to the conversation. You feel differently?

Could you actually point to any specific tension? It seems to me that the only one, Ms. florin, who held a prejudice against what was written, was acting from a place of pure intention, and everything stated is the truth. I suspect she might have dealt with abuse herself, so wouldn't it be interesting to see if she actually studied the subject or if she just wanted to react differently? That would truly reveal her literary style and the depth of her perspective.
In short, it's a disgrace!


And yes... that's my opinion, not just a guess!
Edward Flores4 Edward Flores4 Regular
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#164 ·
velvetrider said:Thanks. N'Dug Just because someone's making noise doesn't mean they're actually right—and honestly, they aren't. I mean, what, we're just supposed to accept it because it happens? Like, give me a break.
Is a thief really just the guy who gets caught, rather than the one actually doing the stealing? I mean, maybe—I don't know, just a thought. It’s kind of a weird way to look at it, I guess, but if you aren't getting nabbed, are you even really a thief in the eyes of the law? Or are you just... successful? It’s all a bit gray, isn't it?
If someone messes you up by accident—like they just weren't thinking or they were out of it—I guess you could call that a mistake or maybe even just some weird stroke of bad luck. But if someone is out to get you on purpose, day after day... man, what do you even call that kind of sickness?
Is it actually because of some kind of sickness, or just that nagging fear that someone might stumble upon the survival bunker you've been building under your house?
Can I get an answer?


Was Kostović actually a decent minister? I mean, I guess it depends on who you ask—it’s one of those things where everyone seems to have a different take depending on their own politics, right? Maybe he was, maybe he wasn't... honestly, it's hard to say for sure without digging through all the old news cycles.
I mean, look, I don't really care if the person smoking ends up kicking the bucket or whatever—that’s their business—but what really gets to me is having to breathe in that stench myself. You know what I mean? It’s just gross.
The brain is pretty much capable of rerouting certain functions whenever it feels like it—it’s wild how that works. But honestly, you can always tell when someone is doing something wrong, even if they're just straight-up criminals or dealing with serious mental health issues. They might feel great about what they're doing in the moment—like, the internal satisfaction is there—but the moral compass just... disappears. I guess the actual amount of bad stuff being done stays exactly the same, even if they've managed to trick themselves into feeling okay about it.
Love and hate... they're basically two sides of the same coin, I guess. It’s all just intense energy, really. But the thing is—and this is the part that actually matters—you’ve always got the power to choose how you react. If you don't have that agency, then honestly? You might as well just roll over and accept it.
I mean, look... murderers aren't actually the biggest criminals out there. Or wait—scratch that—I’m probably wrong again. Maybe I am. It’s just one of those things where you think you have it figured out, then you realize the scale is totally different.


Interceptors... I guess you finally learned something you never would have figured out on your own. You see now that there actually is a way out.
The rest of this post isn't even worth a comment, honestly. I guess maybe someone out there in their own little world of historical delusions might actually find something to say about it.


If you actually look at history... it's pretty straightforward. Like, you could just look at oil prices over the last year so I don't have to waste my breath explaining the basics. You've got that weird fund in a country like Greece, and eventually, the bridge will be built.
Anyway... what do you do for a living?

Living with a chronic illness—it’s just one of those things that changes everything about how you navigate the world, isn't it? It isn't just a single bad day or a passing flu; it's this constant, underlying weight that stays with you through the highs and the lows. It's like trying to run a marathon while carrying around a heavy backpack that you can never quite set down—you get used to the strain, sure, but you never actually forget it's there. It affects the little things, too—how much energy you have when you wake up, whether you can make it through a full workday at the office, or even if you'll feel up to grabbing dinner with friends later in the week. You start learning this whole new language of listening to your body, constantly checking in to see where your "battery" is at. Some days you're cruising along, and other days, it feels like the engine just won't turn over, no matter how much you coax it. It’s a deeply personal journey, and honestly, it takes a lot of mental grit to manage that uncertainty every single day.

velvetrider said:Thanks. N'Dug Just because someone's making noise doesn't mean they're actually right—and honestly, they aren't. I mean, what, we're just supposed to accept it because it happens? Like, give me a break.
Is a thief really just the guy who gets caught, rather than the one actually doing the stealing? I mean, maybe—I don't know, just a thought. It’s kind of a weird way to look at it, I guess, but if you aren't getting nabbed, are you even really a thief in the eyes of the law? Or are you just... successful? It’s all a bit gray, isn't it?
If someone messes you up by accident—like they just weren't thinking or they were out of it—I guess you could call that a mistake or maybe even just some weird stroke of bad luck. But if someone is out to get you on purpose, day after day... man, what do you even call that kind of sickness?
Is it actually because of some kind of sickness, or just that nagging fear that someone might stumble upon the survival bunker you've been building under your house?
Can I get an answer?


Was Kostović actually a decent minister? I mean, I guess it depends on who you ask—it’s one of those things where everyone seems to have a different take depending on their own politics, right? Maybe he was, maybe he wasn't... honestly, it's hard to say for sure without digging through all the old news cycles.
I mean, look, I don't really care if the person smoking ends up kicking the bucket or whatever—that’s their business—but what really gets to me is having to breathe in that stench myself. You know what I mean? It’s just gross.
The brain is pretty much capable of rerouting certain functions whenever it feels like it—it’s wild how that works. But honestly, you can always tell when someone is doing something wrong, even if they're just straight-up criminals or dealing with serious mental health issues. They might feel great about what they're doing in the moment—like, the internal satisfaction is there—but the moral compass just... disappears. I guess the actual amount of bad stuff being done stays exactly the same, even if they've managed to trick themselves into feeling okay about it.
Love and hate... they're basically two sides of the same coin, I guess. It’s all just intense energy, really. But the thing is—and this is the part that actually matters—you’ve always got the power to choose how you react. If you don't have that agency, then honestly? You might as well just roll over and accept it.
I mean, look... murderers aren't actually the biggest criminals out there. Or wait—scratch that—I’m probably wrong again. Maybe I am. It’s just one of those things where you think you have it figured out, then you realize the scale is totally different.


Interceptors... I guess you finally learned something you never would have figured out on your own. You see now that there actually is a way out.
The rest of this post isn't even worth a comment, honestly. I guess maybe someone out there in their own little world of historical delusions might actually find something to say about it.


If you actually look at history... it's pretty straightforward. Like, you could just look at oil prices over the last year so I don't have to waste my breath explaining the basics. You've got that weird fund in a country like Greece, and eventually, the bridge will be built.
Anyway... what do you do for a living?

So, you're asking if Hitler built those concentration camps out of pure fear? It’s an interesting way to look at it—trying to find the psychological root behind such massive, systemic horror. If we're talking about the mindset driving that kind of madness, it wasn't just simple fear; it was more like this toxic, paranoid obsession with control. It’s like when someone becomes so terrified of losing their grip on a situation that they start building walls—not just physical ones, but entire systems designed to crush anything they perceive as a threat. They convince themselves that total domination is the only way to stay safe, even though that very paranoia is what eventually leads to their own destruction. It’s less about being "afraid" in the way we usually think of it, and more about a pathological need to eliminate any possibility of opposition.

Is it possible that this whole phenomenon is actually a bit bigger than just your narrow little perspective?

velvetrider said:Thanks. N'Dug Just because someone's making noise doesn't mean they're actually right—and honestly, they aren't. I mean, what, we're just supposed to accept it because it happens? Like, give me a break.
Is a thief really just the guy who gets caught, rather than the one actually doing the stealing? I mean, maybe—I don't know, just a thought. It’s kind of a weird way to look at it, I guess, but if you aren't getting nabbed, are you even really a thief in the eyes of the law? Or are you just... successful? It’s all a bit gray, isn't it?
If someone messes you up by accident—like they just weren't thinking or they were out of it—I guess you could call that a mistake or maybe even just some weird stroke of bad luck. But if someone is out to get you on purpose, day after day... man, what do you even call that kind of sickness?
Is it actually because of some kind of sickness, or just that nagging fear that someone might stumble upon the survival bunker you've been building under your house?
Can I get an answer?


Was Kostović actually a decent minister? I mean, I guess it depends on who you ask—it’s one of those things where everyone seems to have a different take depending on their own politics, right? Maybe he was, maybe he wasn't... honestly, it's hard to say for sure without digging through all the old news cycles.
I mean, look, I don't really care if the person smoking ends up kicking the bucket or whatever—that’s their business—but what really gets to me is having to breathe in that stench myself. You know what I mean? It’s just gross.
The brain is pretty much capable of rerouting certain functions whenever it feels like it—it’s wild how that works. But honestly, you can always tell when someone is doing something wrong, even if they're just straight-up criminals or dealing with serious mental health issues. They might feel great about what they're doing in the moment—like, the internal satisfaction is there—but the moral compass just... disappears. I guess the actual amount of bad stuff being done stays exactly the same, even if they've managed to trick themselves into feeling okay about it.
Love and hate... they're basically two sides of the same coin, I guess. It’s all just intense energy, really. But the thing is—and this is the part that actually matters—you’ve always got the power to choose how you react. If you don't have that agency, then honestly? You might as well just roll over and accept it.
I mean, look... murderers aren't actually the biggest criminals out there. Or wait—scratch that—I’m probably wrong again. Maybe I am. It’s just one of those things where you think you have it figured out, then you realize the scale is totally different.


Interceptors... I guess you finally learned something you never would have figured out on your own. You see now that there actually is a way out.
The rest of this post isn't even worth a comment, honestly. I guess maybe someone out there in their own little world of historical delusions might actually find something to say about it.


If you actually look at history... it's pretty straightforward. Like, you could just look at oil prices over the last year so I don't have to waste my breath explaining the basics. You've got that weird fund in a country like Greece, and eventually, the bridge will be built.
Anyway... what do you do for a living?

Do you honestly get that I can smell the refinery every time you pump gas into your car? It’s like the scent follows you home. And don't even get me started on the sight of those massive industrial feedlots—it makes my stomach turn just thinking about the meat you eat, let alone the leather on your shoes.

Should I keep going with this, or did you manage to catch my drift?

Look, if I haven't made it clear enough yet... I can always just sit down and draw it out for you. ☕

Quincy:
Look, Interceptori... you’ve finally stumbled onto something here—something you probably wouldn't have ever wrapped your head around otherwise. You're starting to see that a real solution actually exists.
The rest of this post isn't even worth a response—honestly. It’s just someone rambling in their own little bubble of historical fiction, completely detached from reality.
Any time you try to pin the entire weight of a tragedy on just one single person, it feels like a massive act of hypocrisy—honestly, it’s just pure denial. Nobody lives their life in some kind of social vacuum, right? We aren't born on isolated islands. If a society creates the very conditions that drive an individual toward those kinds of extreme actions, then that society is at least just as responsible as the person standing there in the middle of it all. It's a systemic issue, not just a solo performance.

It’s always so much easier for you to just call for someone to take a bullet to the head than it is to actually face the music—you know, acknowledging that you're at least partially responsible for how things turned out. Honestly, this whole thing feels like nothing more than a smug, middle-class attempt to scrub your own conscience clean. You’re just dressing up your guilt in these fancy, high-minded words, acting like some sort of modern-day inquisitor hiding behind a thin veil of secular superiority. ☕
Just dig into some history... it’s all pretty straightforward if you look at it. For instance, you could just track oil prices over the last year—I don't want to waste anyone's time explaining the basics here. You've got those weirdly structured funds, similar to how some government stimulus programs operate, and eventually, the infrastructure will follow.
By the way... what do you actually do for a living?
What does any of this have to do with how much responsibility society bears for individual crimes?

Look, someone who is hungry enough—they're going to steal. So, who's really at fault for that "crime"? Why is that person starving in the first place? Is society somehow off the hook?

It’s pretty obvious we aren't talking about moral guilt here. You punish the thief to protect YOUR own stuff from them, but at the end of the day, YOU are the one responsible because they have nothing to eat, which leaves them with no choice but to steal.
Jerry Martinez5 Jerry Martinez5 Regular
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#165 ·

Please keep the discussion going, but let's try to ditch the personal attacks.
Edward Flores4 Edward Flores4 Regular
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#166 ·
I’m going to give this everything I've got 🙂
bluemaker52 bluemaker52 Member
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#167 ·
Edward Flores4 said:I’m going to give this everything I've got 🙂

Thanks...
you already have
even though you know that number 42 has been yours for a long time now—it’s practically your signature.

I should point out that I actually have an case
both regarding my claim about you,
and for those ladies earlier

- direct links -

And don't doubt for a second that my response will be surgically precise without ever getting personal with you.


But honestly, it would be great if florine would step up and speak her mind here too. Personally, I believe in equality—women should have the right to defend themselves rather than just waiting on some guy to come along and save their honor. And let's be real, there are plenty of guys out there who aren't exactly "charming little boys"...
Jerry Martinez5 Jerry Martinez5 Regular
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#168 ·
I haven't combed through every single one of these posts about Jeffrey Dahmer, but even before diving into this thread, I had one major question: what happened to the mother? How can anyone actually buy into the version where "she had no idea"? What about the neighbors or the relatives? Is it really possible that not a single soul was even investigated for being an accomplice?

While the crime itself is as revolting as it gets, I suppose I agree with everyone here saying that Jeffrey Dahmer couldn't have acted in total isolation. He’s just one more link in a long chain of abuse—basically a symptom of a broken society. You don't fix things by just removing one criminal; you have to examine the root cause. But seriously, how is any of this even possible?
bluemaker52 bluemaker52 Member
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#169 ·
@ Jerry Martinez5

It isn't really about questioning whether anyone else is to blame here; the woman was completely broken, and her home didn't offer any kind of refuge or basement to hide in.
The issue is that she didn't try to dig deeper, but then again, strange things happen when you aren't looking.
The real problem is how some people stubbornly insist he’s just "unwell," so I’m going to take this opportunity to illustrate exactly what I mean by him being "a little" sick.

Picture this: Joe worked in Austria. He was an incredible employee—never late, knew his stuff inside and out, took immense pride in his work, and his boss at ExxonMobil was absolutely thrilled with him... days go by.
Then, one Friday, Joe tells the boss he won't be in on Monday because he’s feeling a bit under the weather.
"Oh, sure, no problem," the boss says. "Just get better and come back."
And sure enough, Joe doesn't show up on Monday.
But then Tuesday rolls around, and there’s Joe... working like a machine, absolutely crushing it, and the boss is just stunned by how productive he is.
Two weeks later, the exact same thing happens. Joe tells the boss he’ll be "a little sick" again, and once more, the boss lets him off.
Then Tuesday comes... and once again, Joe is back, working like a powerhouse.
Two weeks pass, and Joe approaches the boss again with the same line: "I'm going to be a little sick."
The boss lets him go again...
When Tuesday hits, there's Joe, looking healthier than ever and working harder than anyone.

Finally, the boss asks him, "Alright, Joe, how is it that you know you're going to be sick every other Monday, only to be bursting with energy and health every single Tuesday?"

Joe just shrugs and says, "Well, boss, look... my brother-in-law heads out for field work every other Monday. I drive him out there to drop him off, then my sister calls me for coffee, maybe a little drink, some dessert, we sit close on the couch, and well... we end up in bed together all day. That's the whole story."
The boss stares at him and says: "Joe, you *are* sick..."
To which Joe replies: "Exactly what I told you. What's the problem?"
bluemaker52 bluemaker52 Member
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#170 ·
Edward Flores4 said:Living with a chronic illness—it’s just one of those things that changes everything about how you navigate the world, isn't it? It isn't just a single bad day or a passing flu; it's this constant, underlying weight that stays with you through the highs and the lows. It's like trying to run a marathon while carrying around a heavy backpack that you can never quite set down—you get used to the strain, sure, but you never actually forget it's there. It affects the little things, too—how much energy you have when you wake up, whether you can make it through a full workday at the office, or even if you'll feel up to grabbing dinner with friends later in the week. You start learning this whole new language of listening to your body, constantly checking in to see where your "battery" is at. Some days you're cruising along, and other days, it feels like the engine just won't turn over, no matter how much you coax it. It’s a deeply personal journey, and honestly, it takes a lot of mental grit to manage that uncertainty every single day.

So, you're asking if Hitler built those concentration camps out of pure fear? It’s an interesting way to look at it—trying to find the psychological root behind such massive, systemic horror. If we're talking about the mindset driving that kind of madness, it wasn't just simple fear; it was more like this toxic, paranoid obsession with control. It’s like when someone becomes so terrified of losing their grip on a situation that they start building walls—not just physical ones, but entire systems designed to crush anything they perceive as a threat. They convince themselves that total domination is the only way to stay safe, even though that very paranoia is what eventually leads to their own destruction. It’s less about being "afraid" in the way we usually think of it, and more about a pathological need to eliminate any possibility of opposition.

Is it possible that this whole phenomenon is actually a bit bigger than just your narrow little perspective?

Do you honestly get that I can smell the refinery every time you pump gas into your car? It’s like the scent follows you home. And don't even get me started on the sight of those massive industrial feedlots—it makes my stomach turn just thinking about the meat you eat, let alone the leather on your shoes.

Should I keep going with this, or did you manage to catch my drift?

Look, if I haven't made it clear enough yet... I can always just sit down and draw it out for you. ☕

Quincy:
Look, Interceptori... you’ve finally stumbled onto something here—something you probably wouldn't have ever wrapped your head around otherwise. You're starting to see that a real solution actually exists.
The rest of this post isn't even worth a response—honestly. It’s just someone rambling in their own little bubble of historical fiction, completely detached from reality.
Any time you try to pin the entire weight of a tragedy on just one single person, it feels like a massive act of hypocrisy—honestly, it’s just pure denial. Nobody lives their life in some kind of social vacuum, right? We aren't born on isolated islands. If a society creates the very conditions that drive an individual toward those kinds of extreme actions, then that society is at least just as responsible as the person standing there in the middle of it all. It's a systemic issue, not just a solo performance.

It’s always so much easier for you to just call for someone to take a bullet to the head than it is to actually face the music—you know, acknowledging that you're at least partially responsible for how things turned out. Honestly, this whole thing feels like nothing more than a smug, middle-class attempt to scrub your own conscience clean. You’re just dressing up your guilt in these fancy, high-minded words, acting like some sort of modern-day inquisitor hiding behind a thin veil of secular superiority. ☕
Just dig into some history... it’s all pretty straightforward if you look at it. For instance, you could just track oil prices over the last year—I don't want to waste anyone's time explaining the basics here. You've got those weirdly structured funds, similar to how some government stimulus programs operate, and eventually, the infrastructure will follow.
By the way... what do you actually do for a living?
What does any of this have to do with how much responsibility society bears for individual crimes?

Look, someone who is hungry enough—they're going to steal. So, who's really at fault for that "crime"? Why is that person starving in the first place? Is society somehow off the hook?

It’s pretty obvious we aren't talking about moral guilt here. You punish the thief to protect YOUR own stuff from them, but at the end of the day, YOU are the one responsible because they have nothing to eat, which leaves them with no choice but to steal.

Living with a chronic illness is an absolute marathon. It isn't just a single moment of pain or a temporary setback; it is a constant, unrelenting presence that reshapes your entire existence. How do you even begin to navigate a life where the rules change every single day based on how your body decides to behave? It’s more than just managing symptoms. It’s about the mental toll—the exhaustion of constantly having to advocate for yourself, the frustration of doctors who might not fully grasp the depth of your struggle, and the sheer willpower required to maintain a sense of normalcy when everything feels like an uphill battle. You find yourself planning your life around flare-ups and energy levels, constantly calculating whether you have enough "fuel in the tank" to make it through a simple grocery run or a work meeting. Does anyone else feel like they are perpetually playing catch-up with their own health? It can feel incredibly isolating, even when you're surrounded by people, because there is a specific kind of loneliness that comes from fighting a battle that is happening entirely inside your own skin. It takes a level of resilience that most people will never have to tap into, but man, I wish we didn't have to be this strong just to exist.

Let’s take a look at what the literature actually says... specifically regarding the term "chronic"—which implies something that is long-lasting, deeply established, or perhaps develops with that slow, steady medical progression.

The bottom line is this: You haven't actually said anything that isn't old news to you, but I have to admit, you managed to make me laugh. Even with a subject this morbid, there’s something about the way you kept circling back to those same questions... oh my god...
Honestly, you didn't get a single thing right. It’s actually pretty painful to read.
Why on earth would you jump into a discussion that wasn't meant for you just to show everyone how little you actually know about the subject?
Could your industry actually handle this, if I’m not mistaken? Marketing Expert.

Now, maybe you could give that question another shot? To be honest, I’m starting to wonder if you actually grasped what was being asked in the first place, or if there's just a fundamental disconnect regarding the concept itself—not to mention the semantics of it all. Looking at what was presented above, it wasn't exactly pleasant, was it? So, if you don't mind, I’d like to add a little follow-up regarding the rest of the matter.
hiddenhound3 hiddenhound3 Regular
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#171 ·
Jerry Martinez5 As stated by:
I haven't had the opportunity to read through all the various articles regarding Jeffrey Dahmer, but even before I delved into this specific thread, one central question remained on my mind: what happened to the mother? It seems fundamentally impossible to accept the narrative that she was entirely oblivious to the situation. One has to wonder about the neighbors or the extended family; surely someone must have been investigated for complicity or at least for turning a blind eye to what was happening under their own roof.

That is precisely what I consider to be the central enigma of the entire situation. According to one of the articles, Jeffrey Dahmer claimed that his daughter had simply left home to join some sort of cult.
It is truly remarkable that a mother and her four siblings could go twenty-four years without once reaching out to check on their own daughter—their own sister. If I didn't have someone in my immediate inner circle who lived through a nearly identical situation, I would find such a thing utterly shocking. However, since this isn't an isolated case for me, I am forced to reach a rather blunt conclusion: the entire family is psychologically dysfunctional.

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dustyskipper3 dustyskipper3 Active Member
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#172 ·
Well, since we have all shared our thoughts on the subject without actually getting any closer to a real answer, I suppose it might be best to summarize things here. It seems to me that there are really just two kinds of people participating in this thread:

I guess for those who are actually interested in the truth behind the Jeffrey Dahmer case—specifically what was going on inside his head, the psychological state of everyone around him, and what this says about an American society that seems to tolerate such horrors right under its nose until they become too obvious to ignore—there might be some lessons here. I mean, we have cases like Natasha Kampush where it feels almost impossible that neighbors, or even her own mother, weren't aware of something being wrong. It’s a heavy thought. If we want to find answers that are actually useful for ourselves, and really for humanity as a whole, we probably need to look deeper into how these things slip through the cracks. Maybe there is something there to learn, I suppose.

I guess there are those people... those who feel that eliminating someone like Jeffrey Dahmer with a bullet, or perhaps through some other means entirely, might actually solve the core issue. They seem to think that by doing so, they could finally settle the matter and, I suppose, quiet their own consciences. Maybe.

As someone who considers themselves a rational individual engaged in intellectual pursuits, I find myself leaning toward the first option. I suppose I can see why a certain type of "practitioner" might favor the second approach, if that's how they see things. But, well, let's look at history—if we really examine what those kinds of practitioners have actually achieved throughout the years.

In the realm of history and high-stakes politics, I suppose there isn't much room left for love; it seems to be nothing more than cold reason and self-interest. Enemies are typically just eliminated or assimilated—much like how they handle things in Star Trek, I guess. We are the Borg... and I suppose you'll just be assimilated. It almost looks like some sort of caricature, doesn't it? But then again, I guess that's just how real politics often plays out. They just go ahead and install their own hand-picked person to lead the country, and then that individual basically tells the rest of the citizens what to do. It's all very strange, I suppose. I-am-Locutus-the-Borg...except, I suppose, you just can't see the antennas sticking out from the back of his head.

There are exceptions to the rule, I suppose. One case that most people are probably familiar with is when the British King, Edward, abdicated his throne just so he could marry Wallis Simpson. Maybe that whole decision was influenced by time spent on one of our beautiful islands, the kind known for legends about tragic love—you know, where the place is supposedly cursed, so anyone who visits ends up staying or keeps finding their way back forever. Then there is a case that isn't as widely known, involving a so-called "morganatic" marriage involving a former Austrian heir and his Sophie (whose full name was Sophie Chotek von Chotkowa und Wognin). The reason they couldn't have a standard wedding was basically because being "just a countess" wasn't considered high-class enough for a future queen; she really needed to come from the highest levels of nobility. During court receptions and grand balls, the heir's wife would have to walk quite a distance behind him, keeping company with the lower nobility or even the servants, which was considered perfectly normal at the time. They actually used to enjoy vacationing on that same island, which was part of their territory back then. Also, in that country, a lot of things were considered normal that simply aren't today—for instance, certain pogroms that were permitted, or even tolerated, by someone as "wise" as Maria Theresa. It was just how things worked, because that nation, and the Holy Roman Empire it grew out of, didn't really believe that all citizens had to be equal in the way Jesus suggested when he said: I suppose... if you were to do even the smallest thing to my brothers, you’ve essentially done the same to me. I mean, that's just how it works, I guess..

And so, I suppose, that nation just rotted away from the inside out. Every single attempt to save it... well, they all seemed quite futile in the end. It collapsed under its own massive weight and supposed sanctity. Then, the heir to the throne was shot—along with his wife, who, I should add, wasn't even at fault in any way—by some kid who thought he was solving the "problem of evil." They went down in history as losers, I guess. Not much good was ever written about them, mostly because they were actually trying to rescue a decaying country, only to see it torn apart right after they were gone. I suppose... I mean, if one were to consider the concept of national dwarfs... It's a bit of an odd thought, isn't it? Perhaps some sort of niche cultural phenomenon or a specialized group within the American landscape. I don't quite know how to frame it properly. Maybe it's just a curious way of looking at things. I guess it's worth pondering, though.It was quite a disorganized mess, really... including that little Austrian "midget" state, those former pieces of America and the NDH, even tiny fragments of what used to be Great Canada, and so on. In this new little Austrian entity, little Adolf was born to Mrs. Schikelgruber, who would eventually decide... To strike back. I suppose... if one feels it is necessary. It’s a complicated thing, really. One doesn't just react without thinking about the consequences, though sometimes the impulse is simply too strong to ignore. Maybe there is a right way to handle it, or maybe there isn't. I guess it depends on the situation.It’s very much in the vein of Spielberg’s later take on Darth Vader—who was probably an inspiration for this, I suppose—and as a sort of indirect consequence of all that, much later on, we end up with a case like Jeffrey Dahmer. It's like a stray grenade that just sits there, exploding decades after it was actually thrown. I guess it reminds me of how people here still talk about landmines lurking under fields that were supposedly cleared long ago from old wars. And it feels particularly relevant today, as our national little players are once again coalescing into some new big shot who still needs to establish his own set of rules. But then again, if history has taught us anything at all, things like pogroms and discrimination really ought to be a thing of the past by now. Maybe.

I I suppose there are still people today who think just like Gavrilo Princip and operate under that same kind of logic. Princip—the bullet. And even now, they have their own monuments, much like how Princip had his monument and museum back in Ottawa, right by the river. When I was very young, someone took me there and said, Look, they actually put up a monument to a killer here. That man is long gone now, after enduring those intense prison interrogations and all that government harassment, and the monument itself is gone too—it was torn down by people who I guess truly believed in Gavrilo’s principle.

Nations might vanish, but a principle... well, it stays.
Jerry Martinez5 Jerry Martinez5 Regular
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#173 ·
hiddenhound3 said:
Jerry Martinez5 As stated by:
I haven't had the opportunity to read through all the various articles regarding Jeffrey Dahmer, but even before I delved into this specific thread, one central question remained on my mind: what happened to the mother? It seems fundamentally impossible to accept the narrative that she was entirely oblivious to the situation. One has to wonder about the neighbors or the extended family; surely someone must have been investigated for complicity or at least for turning a blind eye to what was happening under their own roof.

That is precisely what I consider to be the central enigma of the entire situation. According to one of the articles, Jeffrey Dahmer claimed that his daughter had simply left home to join some sort of cult.
It is truly remarkable that a mother and her four siblings could go twenty-four years without once reaching out to check on their own daughter—their own sister. If I didn't have someone in my immediate inner circle who lived through a nearly identical situation, I would find such a thing utterly shocking. However, since this isn't an isolated case for me, I am forced to reach a rather blunt conclusion: the entire family is psychologically dysfunctional.

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I don't think that's even questionable. Your son is an addict, yet you act like everything is perfectly fine. Give me a break. 🙄

The harder question is the level of dysfunction. What counts as the most severe mental illness? I have no clue. Schizophrenia? I know two people with that diagnosis, and they're perfectly lovely people.

But if I'm being blunt: being married to an alcoholic. People always say, "Well, everyone carries their own cross," which is what one specific woman I know always says. Suddenly, the husband is the villain and she's the saint. Except the husband is also abusing the kids. So, who is responsible for the abuse? In my opinion, it's her, the husband, and the whole extended family. Because once you start digging, you usually find out her mother thinks getting a divorce is a much bigger sin than daily child abuse. 👎

We saw it with the Korade case. Now his son is following the exact same path. Is the younger Korade a worse criminal? No, he's a victim of the system. A system that is well aware of the consequences of PTSD, yet they handed out pensions and medals while leaving families completely unprotected. (I apologize to anyone suffering from PTSD; I'm not blaming them. They are victims too, terrible victims.)
Jerry Martinez5 Jerry Martinez5 Regular
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#174 ·
dustyskipper3 said:Well, since we have all shared our thoughts on the subject without actually getting any closer to a real answer, I suppose it might be best to summarize things here. It seems to me that there are really just two kinds of people participating in this thread:

I guess for those who are actually interested in the truth behind the Jeffrey Dahmer case—specifically what was going on inside his head, the psychological state of everyone around him, and what this says about an American society that seems to tolerate such horrors right under its nose until they become too obvious to ignore—there might be some lessons here. I mean, we have cases like Natasha Kampush where it feels almost impossible that neighbors, or even her own mother, weren't aware of something being wrong. It’s a heavy thought. If we want to find answers that are actually useful for ourselves, and really for humanity as a whole, we probably need to look deeper into how these things slip through the cracks. Maybe there is something there to learn, I suppose.

I guess there are those people... those who feel that eliminating someone like Jeffrey Dahmer with a bullet, or perhaps through some other means entirely, might actually solve the core issue. They seem to think that by doing so, they could finally settle the matter and, I suppose, quiet their own consciences. Maybe.

As someone who considers themselves a rational individual engaged in intellectual pursuits, I find myself leaning toward the first option. I suppose I can see why a certain type of "practitioner" might favor the second approach, if that's how they see things. But, well, let's look at history—if we really examine what those kinds of practitioners have actually achieved throughout the years.

In the realm of history and high-stakes politics, I suppose there isn't much room left for love; it seems to be nothing more than cold reason and self-interest. Enemies are typically just eliminated or assimilated—much like how they handle things in Star Trek, I guess. We are the Borg... and I suppose you'll just be assimilated. It almost looks like some sort of caricature, doesn't it? But then again, I guess that's just how real politics often plays out. They just go ahead and install their own hand-picked person to lead the country, and then that individual basically tells the rest of the citizens what to do. It's all very strange, I suppose. I-am-Locutus-the-Borg...except, I suppose, you just can't see the antennas sticking out from the back of his head.

There are exceptions to the rule, I suppose. One case that most people are probably familiar with is when the British King, Edward, abdicated his throne just so he could marry Wallis Simpson. Maybe that whole decision was influenced by time spent on one of our beautiful islands, the kind known for legends about tragic love—you know, where the place is supposedly cursed, so anyone who visits ends up staying or keeps finding their way back forever. Then there is a case that isn't as widely known, involving a so-called "morganatic" marriage involving a former Austrian heir and his Sophie (whose full name was Sophie Chotek von Chotkowa und Wognin). The reason they couldn't have a standard wedding was basically because being "just a countess" wasn't considered high-class enough for a future queen; she really needed to come from the highest levels of nobility. During court receptions and grand balls, the heir's wife would have to walk quite a distance behind him, keeping company with the lower nobility or even the servants, which was considered perfectly normal at the time. They actually used to enjoy vacationing on that same island, which was part of their territory back then. Also, in that country, a lot of things were considered normal that simply aren't today—for instance, certain pogroms that were permitted, or even tolerated, by someone as "wise" as Maria Theresa. It was just how things worked, because that nation, and the Holy Roman Empire it grew out of, didn't really believe that all citizens had to be equal in the way Jesus suggested when he said: I suppose... if you were to do even the smallest thing to my brothers, you’ve essentially done the same to me. I mean, that's just how it works, I guess..

And so, I suppose, that nation just rotted away from the inside out. Every single attempt to save it... well, they all seemed quite futile in the end. It collapsed under its own massive weight and supposed sanctity. Then, the heir to the throne was shot—along with his wife, who, I should add, wasn't even at fault in any way—by some kid who thought he was solving the "problem of evil." They went down in history as losers, I guess. Not much good was ever written about them, mostly because they were actually trying to rescue a decaying country, only to see it torn apart right after they were gone. I suppose... I mean, if one were to consider the concept of national dwarfs... It's a bit of an odd thought, isn't it? Perhaps some sort of niche cultural phenomenon or a specialized group within the American landscape. I don't quite know how to frame it properly. Maybe it's just a curious way of looking at things. I guess it's worth pondering, though.It was quite a disorganized mess, really... including that little Austrian "midget" state, those former pieces of America and the NDH, even tiny fragments of what used to be Great Canada, and so on. In this new little Austrian entity, little Adolf was born to Mrs. Schikelgruber, who would eventually decide... To strike back. I suppose... if one feels it is necessary. It’s a complicated thing, really. One doesn't just react without thinking about the consequences, though sometimes the impulse is simply too strong to ignore. Maybe there is a right way to handle it, or maybe there isn't. I guess it depends on the situation.It’s very much in the vein of Spielberg’s later take on Darth Vader—who was probably an inspiration for this, I suppose—and as a sort of indirect consequence of all that, much later on, we end up with a case like Jeffrey Dahmer. It's like a stray grenade that just sits there, exploding decades after it was actually thrown. I guess it reminds me of how people here still talk about landmines lurking under fields that were supposedly cleared long ago from old wars. And it feels particularly relevant today, as our national little players are once again coalescing into some new big shot who still needs to establish his own set of rules. But then again, if history has taught us anything at all, things like pogroms and discrimination really ought to be a thing of the past by now. Maybe.

I I suppose there are still people today who think just like Gavrilo Princip and operate under that same kind of logic. Princip—the bullet. And even now, they have their own monuments, much like how Princip had his monument and museum back in Ottawa, right by the river. When I was very young, someone took me there and said, Look, they actually put up a monument to a killer here. That man is long gone now, after enduring those intense prison interrogations and all that government harassment, and the monument itself is gone too—it was torn down by people who I guess truly believed in Gavrilo’s principle.

Nations might vanish, but a principle... well, it stays.

You didn't need to dig that far back. We had our own massacre in 1991 that Europe basically ignored, followed by a "minor" one in 1995 that's now being used to try and convict three guys in The Hague... we live in a culture that justifies mass atrocities, yet loves to play moral high ground over individual cases. Someone like Jeffrey Dahmer is just a perfect scapegoat for the rest of us to point at and sigh with relief: Whew, at least I'm normal; I could never do something like that. Just give him a bullet to the head, and then reality will be back to that idyllic version I prefer to imagine.
bluemaker52 bluemaker52 Member
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#175 ·
dustyskipper3 said:Well, since we have all shared our thoughts on the subject without actually getting any closer to a real answer, I suppose it might be best to summarize things here. It seems to me that there are really just two kinds of people participating in this thread:

I guess for those who are actually interested in the truth behind the Jeffrey Dahmer case—specifically what was going on inside his head, the psychological state of everyone around him, and what this says about an American society that seems to tolerate such horrors right under its nose until they become too obvious to ignore—there might be some lessons here. I mean, we have cases like Natasha Kampush where it feels almost impossible that neighbors, or even her own mother, weren't aware of something being wrong. It’s a heavy thought. If we want to find answers that are actually useful for ourselves, and really for humanity as a whole, we probably need to look deeper into how these things slip through the cracks. Maybe there is something there to learn, I suppose.

I guess there are those people... those who feel that eliminating someone like Jeffrey Dahmer with a bullet, or perhaps through some other means entirely, might actually solve the core issue. They seem to think that by doing so, they could finally settle the matter and, I suppose, quiet their own consciences. Maybe.

As someone who considers themselves a rational individual engaged in intellectual pursuits, I find myself leaning toward the first option. I suppose I can see why a certain type of "practitioner" might favor the second approach, if that's how they see things. But, well, let's look at history—if we really examine what those kinds of practitioners have actually achieved throughout the years.

In the realm of history and high-stakes politics, I suppose there isn't much room left for love; it seems to be nothing more than cold reason and self-interest. Enemies are typically just eliminated or assimilated—much like how they handle things in Star Trek, I guess. We are the Borg... and I suppose you'll just be assimilated. It almost looks like some sort of caricature, doesn't it? But then again, I guess that's just how real politics often plays out. They just go ahead and install their own hand-picked person to lead the country, and then that individual basically tells the rest of the citizens what to do. It's all very strange, I suppose. I-am-Locutus-the-Borg...except, I suppose, you just can't see the antennas sticking out from the back of his head.

There are exceptions to the rule, I suppose. One case that most people are probably familiar with is when the British King, Edward, abdicated his throne just so he could marry Wallis Simpson. Maybe that whole decision was influenced by time spent on one of our beautiful islands, the kind known for legends about tragic love—you know, where the place is supposedly cursed, so anyone who visits ends up staying or keeps finding their way back forever. Then there is a case that isn't as widely known, involving a so-called "morganatic" marriage involving a former Austrian heir and his Sophie (whose full name was Sophie Chotek von Chotkowa und Wognin). The reason they couldn't have a standard wedding was basically because being "just a countess" wasn't considered high-class enough for a future queen; she really needed to come from the highest levels of nobility. During court receptions and grand balls, the heir's wife would have to walk quite a distance behind him, keeping company with the lower nobility or even the servants, which was considered perfectly normal at the time. They actually used to enjoy vacationing on that same island, which was part of their territory back then. Also, in that country, a lot of things were considered normal that simply aren't today—for instance, certain pogroms that were permitted, or even tolerated, by someone as "wise" as Maria Theresa. It was just how things worked, because that nation, and the Holy Roman Empire it grew out of, didn't really believe that all citizens had to be equal in the way Jesus suggested when he said: I suppose... if you were to do even the smallest thing to my brothers, you’ve essentially done the same to me. I mean, that's just how it works, I guess..

And so, I suppose, that nation just rotted away from the inside out. Every single attempt to save it... well, they all seemed quite futile in the end. It collapsed under its own massive weight and supposed sanctity. Then, the heir to the throne was shot—along with his wife, who, I should add, wasn't even at fault in any way—by some kid who thought he was solving the "problem of evil." They went down in history as losers, I guess. Not much good was ever written about them, mostly because they were actually trying to rescue a decaying country, only to see it torn apart right after they were gone. I suppose... I mean, if one were to consider the concept of national dwarfs... It's a bit of an odd thought, isn't it? Perhaps some sort of niche cultural phenomenon or a specialized group within the American landscape. I don't quite know how to frame it properly. Maybe it's just a curious way of looking at things. I guess it's worth pondering, though.It was quite a disorganized mess, really... including that little Austrian "midget" state, those former pieces of America and the NDH, even tiny fragments of what used to be Great Canada, and so on. In this new little Austrian entity, little Adolf was born to Mrs. Schikelgruber, who would eventually decide... To strike back. I suppose... if one feels it is necessary. It’s a complicated thing, really. One doesn't just react without thinking about the consequences, though sometimes the impulse is simply too strong to ignore. Maybe there is a right way to handle it, or maybe there isn't. I guess it depends on the situation.It’s very much in the vein of Spielberg’s later take on Darth Vader—who was probably an inspiration for this, I suppose—and as a sort of indirect consequence of all that, much later on, we end up with a case like Jeffrey Dahmer. It's like a stray grenade that just sits there, exploding decades after it was actually thrown. I guess it reminds me of how people here still talk about landmines lurking under fields that were supposedly cleared long ago from old wars. And it feels particularly relevant today, as our national little players are once again coalescing into some new big shot who still needs to establish his own set of rules. But then again, if history has taught us anything at all, things like pogroms and discrimination really ought to be a thing of the past by now. Maybe.

I I suppose there are still people today who think just like Gavrilo Princip and operate under that same kind of logic. Princip—the bullet. And even now, they have their own monuments, much like how Princip had his monument and museum back in Ottawa, right by the river. When I was very young, someone took me there and said, Look, they actually put up a monument to a killer here. That man is long gone now, after enduring those intense prison interrogations and all that government harassment, and the monument itself is gone too—it was torn down by people who I guess truly believed in Gavrilo’s principle.

Nations might vanish, but a principle... well, it stays.

You present yourself as such a rational, level-headed individual, but I am making the responsible claim that you simply aren't telling the truth.
It’s pretty clear that your ability to draw a logical conclusion is non-existent—just look at what you wrote above. On top of that, you're being incredibly rude by completely ignoring the questions I actually asked. How can we have a real conversation if you refuse to address the points being made?
Based on everything you just said, I’d really appreciate it if you would just apologize. You’re essentially implying that we have something to hide, which is a pretty serious accusation that honestly deserves a formal reprimand.
I honestly thought I would never be the one to ask this, but you can rest easy now. You’ll be happy to know that I was finally able to quiet my conscience, just like you claimed I could.
Carl Anderson76 Carl Anderson76 Member
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#176 ·
but... boys don't have vaginas... (honestly, looking at your picture would make even King, Lovecraft, and Tiziano Sclavi recoil, and here I am just trying to shield myself from the grossness with humor. my terrible, dark sense of humor. so please, don't be too hard on me if you hate it. even if you do, it doesn't matter anyway)

okay, I totally misspoke—well, more like I left out a huge part. I originally just mentioned girls, then remembered that boys get victimized too, so I added that in, but I missed a tiny detail. don't kill me for it.
Of course they would recoil. I certainly did. But how am I supposed to put a label on this? Should I use "polite" language, much like how his actions were so "polite"? (And it's not just him, not just one guy). NOPE. I am NOT going to respond to this using technical jargon or fancy intellectual terms. This whole situation is even more revolting than my picture.
I'm not holding it against you. Honestly, I wish I could use humor to protect myself from all this crap, too.
bluemaker52 bluemaker52 Member
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#177 ·
Edward Flores4 said:Living with a chronic illness—it’s just one of those things that changes everything about how you navigate the world, isn't it? It isn't just a single bad day or a passing flu; it's this constant, underlying weight that stays with you through the highs and the lows. It's like trying to run a marathon while carrying around a heavy backpack that you can never quite set down—you get used to the strain, sure, but you never actually forget it's there. It affects the little things, too—how much energy you have when you wake up, whether you can make it through a full workday at the office, or even if you'll feel up to grabbing dinner with friends later in the week. You start learning this whole new language of listening to your body, constantly checking in to see where your "battery" is at. Some days you're cruising along, and other days, it feels like the engine just won't turn over, no matter how much you coax it. It’s a deeply personal journey, and honestly, it takes a lot of mental grit to manage that uncertainty every single day.

So, you're asking if Hitler built those concentration camps out of pure fear? It’s an interesting way to look at it—trying to find the psychological root behind such massive, systemic horror. If we're talking about the mindset driving that kind of madness, it wasn't just simple fear; it was more like this toxic, paranoid obsession with control. It’s like when someone becomes so terrified of losing their grip on a situation that they start building walls—not just physical ones, but entire systems designed to crush anything they perceive as a threat. They convince themselves that total domination is the only way to stay safe, even though that very paranoia is what eventually leads to their own destruction. It’s less about being "afraid" in the way we usually think of it, and more about a pathological need to eliminate any possibility of opposition.

Is it possible that this whole phenomenon is actually a bit bigger than just your narrow little perspective?

Do you honestly get that I can smell the refinery every time you pump gas into your car? It’s like the scent follows you home. And don't even get me started on the sight of those massive industrial feedlots—it makes my stomach turn just thinking about the meat you eat, let alone the leather on your shoes.

Should I keep going with this, or did you manage to catch my drift?

Look, if I haven't made it clear enough yet... I can always just sit down and draw it out for you. ☕

Quincy:
Look, Interceptori... you’ve finally stumbled onto something here—something you probably wouldn't have ever wrapped your head around otherwise. You're starting to see that a real solution actually exists.
The rest of this post isn't even worth a response—honestly. It’s just someone rambling in their own little bubble of historical fiction, completely detached from reality.
Any time you try to pin the entire weight of a tragedy on just one single person, it feels like a massive act of hypocrisy—honestly, it’s just pure denial. Nobody lives their life in some kind of social vacuum, right? We aren't born on isolated islands. If a society creates the very conditions that drive an individual toward those kinds of extreme actions, then that society is at least just as responsible as the person standing there in the middle of it all. It's a systemic issue, not just a solo performance.

It’s always so much easier for you to just call for someone to take a bullet to the head than it is to actually face the music—you know, acknowledging that you're at least partially responsible for how things turned out. Honestly, this whole thing feels like nothing more than a smug, middle-class attempt to scrub your own conscience clean. You’re just dressing up your guilt in these fancy, high-minded words, acting like some sort of modern-day inquisitor hiding behind a thin veil of secular superiority. ☕
Just dig into some history... it’s all pretty straightforward if you look at it. For instance, you could just track oil prices over the last year—I don't want to waste anyone's time explaining the basics here. You've got those weirdly structured funds, similar to how some government stimulus programs operate, and eventually, the infrastructure will follow.
By the way... what do you actually do for a living?
What does any of this have to do with how much responsibility society bears for individual crimes?

Look, someone who is hungry enough—they're going to steal. So, who's really at fault for that "crime"? Why is that person starving in the first place? Is society somehow off the hook?

It’s pretty obvious we aren't talking about moral guilt here. You punish the thief to protect YOUR own stuff from them, but at the end of the day, YOU are the one responsible because they have nothing to eat, which leaves them with no choice but to steal.

So, are you suggesting Adolf Hitler built concentration camps because he was afraid?

Or is this whole phenomenon actually much larger than your incredibly narrow perspective allows?
What are you even on? Do you truly grasp what you just wrote? Your obsession with Adolf Hitler is glaringly obvious across your various posts—honestly, that’s a far more relevant parallel than any talk of camps.

"So, Adolf Hitler built concentration camps out of fear?" 🤣 Where on earth did you pull a conclusion like that from? Even little Peter knows that was the Final Solution.

Aside from your so-called "revelations," I don't see any other phenomenon at all.

And really, isn't a narrow perspective better than no perspective at all? Or are you just feeling jealous?🤷
bluemaker52 bluemaker52 Member
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#178 ·
hiddenhound3 said:
Jerry Martinez5 As stated by:
I haven't had the opportunity to read through all the various articles regarding Jeffrey Dahmer, but even before I delved into this specific thread, one central question remained on my mind: what happened to the mother? It seems fundamentally impossible to accept the narrative that she was entirely oblivious to the situation. One has to wonder about the neighbors or the extended family; surely someone must have been investigated for complicity or at least for turning a blind eye to what was happening under their own roof.

That is precisely what I consider to be the central enigma of the entire situation. According to one of the articles, Jeffrey Dahmer claimed that his daughter had simply left home to join some sort of cult.
It is truly remarkable that a mother and her four siblings could go twenty-four years without once reaching out to check on their own daughter—their own sister. If I didn't have someone in my immediate inner circle who lived through a nearly identical situation, I would find such a thing utterly shocking. However, since this isn't an isolated case for me, I am forced to reach a rather blunt conclusion: the entire family is psychologically dysfunctional.

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This bolded part... interesting, right?
But I would really appreciate it if you could answer this:
Sandra Parker3 Sandra Parker3 Regular
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#179 ·
Jerry Martinez5 said:I don't think that's even questionable. Your son is an addict, yet you act like everything is perfectly fine. Give me a break. 🙄

The harder question is the level of dysfunction. What counts as the most severe mental illness? I have no clue. Schizophrenia? I know two people with that diagnosis, and they're perfectly lovely people.

But if I'm being blunt: being married to an alcoholic. People always say, "Well, everyone carries their own cross," which is what one specific woman I know always says. Suddenly, the husband is the villain and she's the saint. Except the husband is also abusing the kids. So, who is responsible for the abuse? In my opinion, it's her, the husband, and the whole extended family. Because once you start digging, you usually find out her mother thinks getting a divorce is a much bigger sin than daily child abuse. 👎

We saw it with the Korade case. Now his son is following the exact same path. Is the younger Korade a worse criminal? No, he's a victim of the system. A system that is well aware of the consequences of PTSD, yet they handed out pensions and medals while leaving families completely unprotected. (I apologize to anyone suffering from PTSD; I'm not blaming them. They are victims too, terrible victims.)

Why blame "the system"?
Can we not point to specific people who are actually at fault here? The older Korade clearly had political backing, and once it became obvious that something was seriously wrong with him, everyone suddenly remembered all those various outbursts and whatnot...
So why spread the blame across the entire society? Whoever protected the father should carry part of the blame for creating the environment that shaped both him and his son. Honestly, those who shielded him and covered things up should be held accountable, not some abstract "system." It's easy to hide behind that label.

It’s like public property that belongs to everyone and therefore to no one, which is why it falls apart; there's no point in talking about collective responsibility. Why blame the system? Why can't we start with individual accountability?
Jerry Martinez5 Jerry Martinez5 Regular
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#180 ·
Sandra Parker3 said:Why blame "the system"?
Can we not point to specific people who are actually at fault here? The older Korade clearly had political backing, and once it became obvious that something was seriously wrong with him, everyone suddenly remembered all those various outbursts and whatnot...
So why spread the blame across the entire society? Whoever protected the father should carry part of the blame for creating the environment that shaped both him and his son. Honestly, those who shielded him and covered things up should be held accountable, not some abstract "system." It's easy to hide behind that label.

It’s like public property that belongs to everyone and therefore to no one, which is why it falls apart; there's no point in talking about collective responsibility. Why blame the system? Why can't we start with individual accountability?

The "system" exists because we all carry a piece of the burden. We just stay silent and accept it. Did your parents actually stand up when Harmon turned public assets into state property and then sold off apartments to his inner circle for pennies? And now your generation is stuck paying half their paycheck for those same units—apartments your parents (or people slightly older than them) snagged for the price of maybe six months' salary?

I think we’re all accomplices here. The solution would be what you're suggesting: pinpointing specific responsibility. Your parents shouldn't carry the same weight as the people sitting in Congress when those laws were passed.

That "decaying" property is just nationalized wealth that nobody wants to return to the actual owners. But were those owners even legitimate? Was it fair?

Instead of fixing old injustices, they just keep piling on new ones.

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